The challenge with Thailand is that there are no longer any best kept secrets! I am serious. So many people try to relive the movie Beach that you will never be alone when it comes to tourists. But again you can put things into perspective. Phuket, Pattaya, and Ao Nang are pretty packed with package tourism, which can be the worst kind. But again Koh Phi Phi and Ko Samui are full of backpackers, which is not a lot better. It all also depends on which coast are you visiting.
Despite heavy tourism you might still find some ok spots at Ko Tao and Ko Phangan. Do not go during the full/half moon parties unless you are absolutely ready for it! But if you are at the Andaman Sea (guessing from Krabi) side you by far best bet would be (based on December 2009 personal experience) the small isolated island called Koh Jum. There is no proper road system, proper internet network or proper electricity. They all are coming gradually, but now it could be still the "best kept secret". Even the all mighty Lonely Planet still only gives a small note about it. And trust me, people go where LP tells them to go. And if you are in Krabi, don't miss Railey climbing and world-class snorkeling/diving spots in that area.
This website will explain enough about the small tiny island.
http://www.kohjumonline.com/
But again seems like you have your plans quite open, so I would recommend to check Laos, Vietnam, and Malaysia (e.g. Perhentian Islands) in more detail. And if you are not looking for a beach, the North could offer you a totally different kind of Thailand experience. Also note that August can be a difficult time in many SE Asian places.
Aug 14, 10 20:05