Re: An Opportunity in Switzerland
Post 2
Virginia - I'm sorry you felt the need to post this, but if you want to be taken seriously, then I have a couple of suggestions for you.
Firstly, don’t post stuff like this on an open forum and expect it to “improve your own health”. It won’t. You could lay yourself open to mockery, abuse and very unhelpful comments.
So I’m going to try to be helpful, maybe a little harsh, but fair. After all, I presume you posted all this because you want some advice or some answers?
Next, start by taking that HUGE “I am a Victim” note off your forehead and accept that you are responsible for everything you have or don’t have in your life RIGHT NOW.
Yes, you heard right. YOU created every single situation that you have in your current reality and you’re compounding your problems by implying that it’s all someone else’s fault. It’s not.
Now you need to address your own question: “What am I doing with my life”. Don’t you know? It sounds like you know exactly what you’re doing – I do, it’s all in black and white above!.
You’re studying in a private school that you can’t afford. Why not study in a state school that you could afford. I can’t imagine that “International Management” is exclusive to private schools.
You’re Spanish (i.e. EU) and you don’t have a work permit. Why – address the issue and find out how you can get one. Companies providing Internships will sort out a work permit for you but you probably haven’t even asked the question, have you?
You don’t have AVS – why not. Possibly because you don’t pay any tax. I’m sorry, but that’s not anyone’s problem but your own. Resolve it.
You’ve been “working so hard for nothing”. SERIOUSLY?!? You’re not getting paid? Or you ARE getting paid and therefore you have an employer. They can sort out a work permit? They should be deducting tax from your wages and you can then pay your AVS (by the way, AVS is something that you pay – it’s not a god-given right to “have”).
You get “insulted and humiliated several times”? REALLY? What’s your attitude and approach to these people who are insulting you? Given your post, might it be because you project a “what about me, life owes me a living” attitude? Think about it and resolve it.
Finally, you have to walk home in the middle of the night for 1.5 hours and all you can say is “I don’t deserve that”. So you’re deliberately putting yourself in danger for a crappy job that pays you nothing and you think you “don’t deserve that”.
You need to seriously question your beliefs about what you do and don’t “deserve” in life and change them molto pronto because guess what?
Whilst you have the beliefs that you have (I’m a victim, life’s not fair, I don’t deserve this, I have no work, I have no money, it’s all too hard) you will get everything you deserve and from where I’m standing, none of it’s looking too attractive.
I’m sorry if this sounds like a verbal slap around the face, but “victim sob stories” do my head in.
You can choose to, or choose not to take any notice of the above, but do yourself a HUGE favour and download (free) articles from http://www.richbits.com/.
Read and Learn – you’re intelligent enough to do that, aren’t you?