Hi there BB,
I have over the last 3 years, hosted about 30 or so people on my couch/spare room, from all over the world. For references from my guests about me and my place, see http://www.couchsurfing.com/stavros-swiss
I can tell you from the bottom of my heart that (1) some of the best experiences of my life have been given by the couchsurfing site (the only better site for me is www.glocals.com !!) and (2) the referneces/comments that people have left my wife Joanna and I are a deep source of pride to me.
Of course all things in life carry risk, like crossing the road, for example. I have had many girls stay by themself with me (read their refs), but if I personally was a girl travelling by myself, unless I know someone who has personally stayed with the host and recommended him/her, I'd probably rather stay with a female, or travel with one or two other people. Having said that, read my references and ask yourself if you'd like to stay with me. If so - look for people with the same type of refs. It's like eBay - it's hard to fake refs and cheat the system, because it all inter-links, and fraudsters are reported by other members. But if you're with a friend, so much the better. Otherwise, just be choosy with who you ask to stay with.
There's no obligation for you to have anyone stay on your couch after you've stayed on someone's couch. There's plenty of hosts out there.
I must have met 60+ people from the site, and heard of 100+ couchsurfing experiences. 99% were good or great - or really great. I've been the first host for several travellers ie their first couchsurfing experience - and I've watched their profiles grow and grow, while they have travelled the world - it's amazing to see people set forth and use the site to achieve what they've always dreamt of. All that's needed is the courage to take the first step.
Couchsurfing is a truly original idea and something that has changed the lives of hundreds of thousands of people - truly making the world smaller, opening minds and breaking down barriers between people and cultures.
Thanks for asking about it !!!
- Steve
ps. i'll be happy to speak more about it, give any advice etc - contact me any time.
captstav, Jun 23, 2008 @ 00:01