Hey Guys...
How bout some personal advice?
My partner (she's also seeing a shrink / psyche for advice to try and get her couple, family and work issues straightened out) and I have been going through some rough patches - in fact we now are living separate from each other :(
We are still friendly (and I want to work things out and believe she does too), but each time we seem to get friendlier and closer she is pulling back and being slightly unfriendly, after she has seen / been advised by the shrink :crazy:
So, I'm sure that he is trying to turn her away from me (btw, I am a very kind-hearted, unselfish, considerate guy) and even filling her head with negative thoughts about me : ((
What could I do?
Is To Give Him A Royal A*S Kicking A Reasonable Option (or better yet having an unknown bouncer-type shake him up a bit)??
Also, in my opinion, this shrink guy obviously does this couple destroying therapy regularly because his home address does not appear under any searches, etc!
OK.. the idea is only to rough him up NOT do any permanent injuries :hehe:
Thanks so much for your advices!
Andrew
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Jul 22, 2008 @ 13:50
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Hey Guys...
How bout some personal advice?
My partner (she's also seeing a shrink / psyche for advice to try and get her couple, family and work issues straightened out) and I have been going through some rough patches - in fact we now are living separate from each other :(
We are still friendly (and I want to work things out and believe she does too), but each time we seem to get friendlier and closer she is pulling back and being slightly unfriendly, after she has seen / been advised by the shrink :crazy:
So, I'm sure that he is trying to turn her away from me (btw, I am a very kind-hearted, unselfish, considerate guy) and even filling her head with negative thoughts about me : ((
What could I do?
Is To Give Him A Royal A*S Kicking A Reasonable Option (or better yet having an unknown bouncer-type shake him up a bit)??
Also, in my opinion, this shrink guy obviously does this couple destroying therapy regularly because his home address does not appear under any searches, etc!
OK.. the idea is only to rough him up NOT do any permanent injuries :hehe:
Thanks so much for your advices!
Andrew
andyJul 22, 2008 @ 13:50
How bout some personal advice?
My partner (she's also seeing a shrink / psyche for advice to try and get her couple, family and work issues straightened out) and I have been going through some rough patches - in fact we now are living separate from each other :(
We are still friendly (and I want to work things out and believe she does too), but each time we seem to get friendlier and closer she is pulling back and being slightly unfriendly, after she has seen / been advised by the shrink :crazy:
So, I'm sure that he is trying to turn her away from me (btw, I am a very kind-hearted, unselfish, considerate guy) and even filling her head with negative thoughts about me : ((
What could I do?
Is To Give Him A Royal A*S Kicking A Reasonable Option (or better yet having an unknown bouncer-type shake him up a bit)??
Also, in my opinion, this shrink guy obviously does this couple destroying therapy regularly because his home address does not appear under any searches, etc!
OK.. the idea is only to rough him up NOT do any permanent injuries :hehe:
Thanks so much for your advices!
Andrew
andyJul 22, 2008 @ 13:50
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Re: __! Roll Over OR KICK A*S !__
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Jul 22, 2008 @ 14:36
Yo Andy,
I assume you know glocals ain't the best place for serious advice on such deeply personal matters.
In any case, if you really want advice: join her on the couple therapy (if she agrees), and try to understand why she pulls back after she goes there.
Nir
PS - I don't think you're really considering bashing the poor shrink, but if you do it - I suspect that will be the end your current relationship (and perhaps the beginning of a new one with your new "girlfriend" Bubba, in the local jail).
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Yo Andy,
I assume you know glocals ain't the best place for serious advice on such deeply personal matters.
In any case, if you really want advice: join her on the couple therapy (if she agrees), and try to understand why she pulls back after she goes there.
Nir
PS - I don't think you're really considering bashing the poor shrink, but if you do it - I suspect that will be the end your current relationship (and perhaps the beginning of a new one with your new "girlfriend" Bubba, in the local jail).
Nir Ofek, Jul 22, 2008 @ 14:36
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Jul 22, 2008 @ 14:54
Nir,
thanks for your intelligent advice -
will check out this option with her :)
best regards,
Andrew
ps: no actually, ruled out the option of giving the shrink a black eye or two myself (obviously he would recognize me and i don't want any jail friends - prefer free bird glocals friends instead) ..this is why i mentioned a bouncer type :D
thanks for your intelligent advice -
will check out this option with her :)
best regards,
Andrew
ps: no actually, ruled out the option of giving the shrink a black eye or two myself (obviously he would recognize me and i don't want any jail friends - prefer free bird glocals friends instead) ..this is why i mentioned a bouncer type :D
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Nir,
thanks for your intelligent advice -
will check out this option with her :)
best regards,
Andrew
ps: no actually, ruled out the option of giving the shrink a black eye or two myself (obviously he would recognize me and i don't want any jail friends - prefer free bird glocals friends instead) ..this is why i mentioned a bouncer type :D
andy, Jul 22, 2008 @ 14:54
thanks for your intelligent advice -
will check out this option with her :)
best regards,
Andrew
ps: no actually, ruled out the option of giving the shrink a black eye or two myself (obviously he would recognize me and i don't want any jail friends - prefer free bird glocals friends instead) ..this is why i mentioned a bouncer type :D
andy, Jul 22, 2008 @ 14:54
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