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The look is part of what is called nonverbal communication.


Eye contact and facial expressions provide important social and emotional information; people, perhaps without consciously doing so, probe each other's eyes and faces for positive or negative mood signs. In some contexts, the meeting of eyes arouses strong emotions.
Eye contact is also an important element in flirting, where it may serve to establish and gauge the other's interest in some situations.

But what about you?
Do you really use in an efficient and adequate way the "Eye Contact" in your daily life?





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The look is part of what is called nonverbal communication.


Eye contact and facial expressions provide important social and emotional information; people, perhaps without consciously doing so, probe each other's eyes and faces for positive or negative mood signs. In some contexts, the meeting of eyes arouses strong emotions.
Eye contact is also an important element in flirting, where it may serve to establish and gauge the other's interest in some situations.

But what about you?
Do you really use in an efficient and adequate way the "Eye Contact" in your daily life?


Jose FOct 19, 2010 @ 23:38
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should I have Eva Green s eyes to have an efficient eye contact?

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should I have Eva Green s eyes to have an efficient eye contact?


Tryky, Oct 26, 2010 @ 01:32
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He he, not sure most of the men make "eyes" contact with Eva Green when she is wearing such a dress :) :) :) :)



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He he, not sure most of the men make "eyes" contact with Eva Green when she is wearing such a dress :) :) :) :)


Thibaut B, Oct 26, 2010 @ 10:38
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are they blue or Green? I have a doubt now

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are they blue or Green? I have a doubt now


Tryky, Oct 26, 2010 @ 11:54
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Would say grey blue

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Would say grey blue


Thibaut B, Oct 26, 2010 @ 12:27
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i'm sorry, i forgot what i was going to say...


 


droool..

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i'm sorry, i forgot what i was going to say...


 


droool..


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Well, guys, THAT'S what happens when you miss EYES contact:)


Reacting to Jose's question - yes, I do use eyes contact in a daily life. A good example - in driving. I am usually asking the drivers to let me pass/to let me drive from the bystreet to the main street/etc. I even take off my sun glasses in summer - to make the eyes contact efficient! And that's why I like driving in the city:)

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Well, guys, THAT'S what happens when you miss EYES contact:)


Reacting to Jose's question - yes, I do use eyes contact in a daily life. A good example - in driving. I am usually asking the drivers to let me pass/to let me drive from the bystreet to the main street/etc. I even take off my sun glasses in summer - to make the eyes contact efficient! And that's why I like driving in the city:)


rejasilionyt, Oct 26, 2010 @ 15:18
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wouah the power of eye contact : turning a man into a cow : euhhhhhhh

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wouah the power of eye contact : turning a man into a cow : euhhhhhhh


Tryky, Oct 26, 2010 @ 15:25
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it s remind me this...



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it s remind me this...


Tryky, Oct 26, 2010 @ 15:26
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Sorry, couldn't get you -  a man and a cow?


???

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Sorry, couldn't get you -  a man and a cow?


???


rejasilionyt, Oct 26, 2010 @ 15:28
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Sorry, couldn't get you -  a man and a cow?

???


Oct 26, 10 15:28

if Eva Green stares at me with her "eyes contact" I would be like a cow : not knowing what to say and be like euhhhhhhhhh...

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if Eva Green stares at me with her "eyes contact" I would be like a cow : not knowing what to say and be like euhhhhhhhhh...


Tryky, Oct 26, 2010 @ 15:35
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Well, what was the question or subject for this discussion by the way??? It sounds like turning around eva green :) and Meeuuuuhhh... :) :) :) there are so many cows in Zurich ;)

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Well, what was the question or subject for this discussion by the way??? It sounds like turning around eva green :) and Meeuuuuhhh... :) :) :) there are so many cows in Zurich ;)


Thibaut B, Oct 26, 2010 @ 16:14
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in answer to the ops question, i use eye contact all the time, even if shes showing everythign shes got.. in fact i thrive on it. However a lot of people dont like the eye contact , especially those of the opposite sex, who may feel intimidated by it . IMHO of course. some like it some dont.

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in answer to the ops question, i use eye contact all the time, even if shes showing everythign shes got.. in fact i thrive on it. However a lot of people dont like the eye contact , especially those of the opposite sex, who may feel intimidated by it . IMHO of course. some like it some dont.


Karl N, Oct 26, 2010 @ 16:35
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the question was :


do you use in an efficient and adequate way "eyes contact" in your daily life'


What should I say ?



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the question was :


do you use in an efficient and adequate way "eyes contact" in your daily life'


What should I say ?


Tryky, Oct 26, 2010 @ 16:50
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Hahahaha, when I was younger, I thought that this "sexy" eye contact is a very good men catcher :D


Do u agree with me?:D hahahah

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Hahahaha, when I was younger, I thought that this "sexy" eye contact is a very good men catcher :D


Do u agree with me?:D hahahah


Dace B, Oct 26, 2010 @ 16:38
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Hahahaha, when I was younger, I thought that this "sexy" eye contact is a very good men catcher :D

Do u agree with me?:D hahahah


Oct 26, 10 16:38

Whooaaaarr yess..... defintiely a good man catcher.. .especially if hes a drunk as you were lol ...

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Whooaaaarr yess..... defintiely a good man catcher.. .especially if hes a drunk as you were lol ...


Karl N, Oct 26, 2010 @ 16:59
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Hahahaha, when I was younger, I thought that this "sexy" eye contact is a very good men catcher :D

Do u agree with me?:D hahahah


Oct 26, 10 16:38

Dace, the secret of the catch, not your eyes but the beer ;)

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Dace, the secret of the catch, not your eyes but the beer ;)


Tryky, Oct 26, 2010 @ 16:59
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Whooaaaarr yess..... defintiely a good man catcher.. .especially if hes a drunk as you were lol ...


Oct 26, 10 16:59

hahaha :D i was not drunk... not yet,but can u see my eyes after sunny day with sunglasses?:D

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hahaha :D i was not drunk... not yet,but can u see my eyes after sunny day with sunglasses?:D


Dace B, Oct 26, 2010 @ 17:01
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Dace, the secret of the catch, not your eyes but the beer ;)


Oct 26, 10 16:59

OW ... no.... :( !


 

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OW ... no.... :( !


 


Dace B, Oct 26, 2010 @ 17:03
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OW ... no.... :( !

 


Oct 26, 10 17:03

its true. beauty is in the eye of the beerholder

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its true. beauty is in the eye of the beerholder


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On a more serious note, eye contact is important. But it really depends on the context or the culture.


In the western world, and in the business context, eye contact is crucial. You should look your interlocutor in the eyes if you want to be percieved as professional and confident. It is also an invitation for trust.


However, when it comes to Asian culture, you should know that for the Japanese, it is disrespectful to look your superior in the eyes. The tie nod is as high as you can go! Otherwise, it will be taken as defiant and disrespectful.


The Chinese, for example, will take your widening of the eyes as a confrontation, even an insult. So make sure you study the body language of each culture before you go into an important business meeting with what you may consider as a foreign culture.


As for the other social and personal contexts, I believe that it will depend on the situation. Some women think that not looking in their eyes is 'charming and cutely shy', others wait for the eye contact in order to try and understand where the other person stands....


Does that always work or is it a universal trend? Not sure I can say so. I think there are many ways of interpreting such a gesture. Try, and you will see.


 

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On a more serious note, eye contact is important. But it really depends on the context or the culture.


In the western world, and in the business context, eye contact is crucial. You should look your interlocutor in the eyes if you want to be percieved as professional and confident. It is also an invitation for trust.


However, when it comes to Asian culture, you should know that for the Japanese, it is disrespectful to look your superior in the eyes. The tie nod is as high as you can go! Otherwise, it will be taken as defiant and disrespectful.


The Chinese, for example, will take your widening of the eyes as a confrontation, even an insult. So make sure you study the body language of each culture before you go into an important business meeting with what you may consider as a foreign culture.


As for the other social and personal contexts, I believe that it will depend on the situation. Some women think that not looking in their eyes is 'charming and cutely shy', others wait for the eye contact in order to try and understand where the other person stands....


Does that always work or is it a universal trend? Not sure I can say so. I think there are many ways of interpreting such a gesture. Try, and you will see.


 


Worldofcraze, Oct 26, 2010 @ 17:05
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hahaha :D i was not drunk... not yet,but can u see my eyes after sunny day with sunglasses?:D


Oct 26, 10 17:01

looks like you were drunk :P .... but i can imagine your eyes after a sunny day... time for you to discover the art of eye cream ... hehe

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looks like you were drunk :P .... but i can imagine your eyes after a sunny day... time for you to discover the art of eye cream ... hehe


Karl N, Oct 26, 2010 @ 17:42
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On a more serious note, eye contact is important. But it really depends on the context or the culture.

In the western world, and in the business context, eye contact is crucial. You should look your interlocutor in the eyes if you want to be percieved as professional and confident. It is also an invitation for trust.

However, when it comes to Asian culture, you should know that for the Japanese, it is disrespectful to look your superior in the eyes. The tie nod is as high as you can go! Otherwise, it will be taken as defiant and disrespectful.

The Chinese, for example, will take your widening of the eyes as a confrontation, even an insult. So make sure you study the body language of each culture before you go into an important business meeting with what you may consider as a foreign culture.

As for the other social and personal contexts, I believe that it will depend on the situation. Some women think that not looking in their eyes is 'charming and cutely shy', others wait for the eye contact in order to try and understand where the other person stands....

Does that always work or is it a universal trend? Not sure I can say so. I think there are many ways of interpreting such a gesture. Try, and you will see.

 


Oct 26, 10 17:05

Good point ... but if I look at my interlocutor in the eye , im probably going to shoot myself...  dontcha just love the english language... words you thought were dead, are proven otherwise :)

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Good point ... but if I look at my interlocutor in the eye , im probably going to shoot myself...  dontcha just love the english language... words you thought were dead, are proven otherwise :)


Karl N, Oct 26, 2010 @ 17:44
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looks like you were drunk :P .... but i can imagine your eyes after a sunny day... time for you to discover the art of eye cream ... hehe


Oct 26, 10 17:42

Yes yes yes yes i know! :D


but after that day i look much better.. like this eye contact with my photographer was pretty good :)



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Yes yes yes yes i know! :D


but after that day i look much better.. like this eye contact with my photographer was pretty good :)


Dace B, Oct 26, 2010 @ 17:51
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Yes yes yes yes i know! :D

but after that day i look much better.. like this eye contact with my photographer was pretty good :)


Oct 26, 10 17:51

yup pretty good photo and still Whooooaaaarrr.... next time you want photos doing come to me ;-)

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yup pretty good photo and still Whooooaaaarrr.... next time you want photos doing come to me ;-)


Karl N, Oct 26, 2010 @ 18:03
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ahahah Good one... :D i like MR Been eyes :D i think he almost every day use very very effective eye contact with all people!:D


p.s i just found this pic :D



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ahahah Good one... :D i like MR Been eyes :D i think he almost every day use very very effective eye contact with all people!:D


p.s i just found this pic :D


Dace B, Oct 26, 2010 @ 18:04
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nooooooo dont do that too me... i was having such a good dream ... :P

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nooooooo dont do that too me... i was having such a good dream ... :P


Karl N, Oct 26, 2010 @ 18:09
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Studies have shown that the most successfull persons in the world are those who rarely break eye contact with people they are interacting with, it may sound strange but the roots of this phenomenon lie buried deep within our genes...


Subconsciously, women read off a mans interest level in her using his amount of eye contact as a guage to judge whether he is looking for a one night stand or a longer term relationship, eye contact also draws women to men in the sense that the men can signal their interest without having to say a word, the same is true for men, though not to the same extent - men usually don't elicit feelings of trust from eye contact, they use it solely as a guage of interest. So, when a woman makes eye contact with a man it only signals interest and not much else, when a man maintains eye contact it exposes a large  proportion of his personality to the female, who is subconsciously programmed to feel attraction for men who are more dominant but who do not make a large show of displaying their status and position.


 



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Studies have shown that the most successfull persons in the world are those who rarely break eye contact with people they are interacting with, it may sound strange but the roots of this phenomenon lie buried deep within our genes...


Subconsciously, women read off a mans interest level in her using his amount of eye contact as a guage to judge whether he is looking for a one night stand or a longer term relationship, eye contact also draws women to men in the sense that the men can signal their interest without having to say a word, the same is true for men, though not to the same extent - men usually don't elicit feelings of trust from eye contact, they use it solely as a guage of interest. So, when a woman makes eye contact with a man it only signals interest and not much else, when a man maintains eye contact it exposes a large  proportion of his personality to the female, who is subconsciously programmed to feel attraction for men who are more dominant but who do not make a large show of displaying their status and position.


 


Jose F, Oct 26, 2010 @ 23:21
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                      ♀  "Eyes are a soul mirror, as they say"


 


 



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                      ♀  "Eyes are a soul mirror, as they say"


 


 


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http://ezinearticles.com/?Eye-Seduction-Secrets---There-Is-More-To-Eye-Contact-And-You-May-Doing-It-All-Wrong!&id=467132


 


 Haha, in youtube you can find many " professional scientists" :D

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 Haha, in youtube you can find many " professional scientists" :D


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now i know im staring uncomfortably at them... damn!! ...  i JUST CANT LOOK AWAY, its a kind of challenge to me..

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now i know im staring uncomfortably at them... damn!! ...  i JUST CANT LOOK AWAY, its a kind of challenge to me..


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http://ezinearticles.com/?Eye-Seduction-Secrets---There-Is-More-To-Eye-Contact-And-You-May-Doing-It-All-Wrong!&id=467132

 

 Haha, in youtube you can find many " professional scientists" :D


Oct 27, 10 11:20

more specialists to be found on youtube, eye contact is really important! 

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more specialists to be found on youtube, eye contact is really important! 


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