btw: even saying that a car with 50/50 (front/rear) weight distribution is "extremely safe" may not be telling the full truth.
Yes, in certain situations this is the weight of the car, but when you brake, and brake hard, much more weight is transferred to the front. For example, take the "often" rear heavy Porsches (with their engine in the rear). They are hardly ever even close to 50/50 in weight distribution, but these cars can brake late and hard when coming into a corner, and still keep steady BECAUSE the weight is transferred in such a way as to give the a closer to 50/50 weight distribution in that particular situation, and therefore the car remains "giddy" on its feet.
I for example drive an AMG with a very heavy 5.5 V8 in the front. This car is front heavy by default and in hard corner braking can be a little touchy as the weight distribution gets so heavy. But on pure "foot to the metal" action during heavy acceleration, those rear wheels get plenty of weight and the car feels quite steady unlike some others which can begin to swerve left and right (once again, very objective and depends a lot on the car, the weight, the tires used etc), but I know of some powerful cars which I've experienced first hand, that require the pilot to keep a few steady hands on the wheel when accelerating hard.
But one could go on hours and hours about the "finesse" of each car, the engines be it a straight 6 or v8, AWD or "other"WD, and still not get very far until they've actually drive the car.
Really, you just need to go up to a dealer and tell them "I want a new car, I have a list of cars which interest me. This car of yours is on the list and I want to give it a drive, now". You'd be surprised how few dealers will say no.