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How to avoid being BULLIED by unfriendly participants?

May 25, 2013 @ 16:34

I have organised 66 events and met many people. When you do that you are bound to meet a few 'unfriendly' ones. In my case is even worse. I have been bullied.

I have apologized many times for not having perfectly organized the event so that it suited the needs and personality of all attendants (which I believe is impossible anyway). I have apologized many times for not being able to pick people up from the train station as I volunteered and offered a refund for the train tickets to anyone interested.

But as they’ve very clearly stated, people complaining here do not want a refund. They do not really want apologies. They want humiliation. They want to bully me...

.....and they have succeeded in convincing people who I have never met critisize me personally.

I do not think is fair this bullying against someone who tries best, volunteering to get activity going in Glocals.

Stop bullying in glocals. Stop witch-hunters.

Thank you for your support.

Yours,

Alvaro (Ocio Sano)

“Be a light, not a judge. Be a model, not a critic”. ― Stephen R. Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

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I have organised 66 events and met many people. When you do that you are bound to meet a few 'unfriendly' ones. In my case is even worse. I have been bullied.

But as they’ve very clearly stated, people complaining here do not want a refund. They do not really want apologies. They want humiliation. They want to bully me...

.....and they have succeeded in convincing people who I have never met critisize me personally.

I do not think is fair this bullying against someone who tries best, volunteering to get activity going in Glocals.

Stop bullying in glocals. Stop witch-hunters.

Thank you for your support.

Yours,

Alvaro (Ocio Sano)

“Be a light, not a judge. Be a model, not a critic”. ― Stephen R. Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

Ocio SanoMay 25, 2013 @ 16:34

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May 25, 2013 @ 16:42

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May 25, 2013 @ 16:49

“If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.” ― Desmond Tutu

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May 25, 2013 @ 19:05

Whoa, this sounds really messed up. I'm sorry you have to deal with these people.

Deniz

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Whoa, this sounds really messed up. I'm sorry you have to deal with these people.

Deniz

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May 25, 2013 @ 20:24

Deniz - This is in reference to another post:

http://www.glocals.com/#/forums/general/How-to-avoid-being-SCAMMED-on-Glocals--185051.htm%23msg_185368

Read and feel sorry about the state of the community that we are now living in, i.e. a "victim/blame" community vs a "I'm responsible for my own choices" community....

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Deniz - This is in reference to another post:

http://www.glocals.com/#/forums/general/How-to-avoid-being-SCAMMED-on-Glocals--185051.htm%23msg_185368

Read and feel sorry about the state of the community that we are now living in, i.e. a "victim/blame" community vs a "I'm responsible for my own choices" community....

Carolyn C, May 25, 2013 @ 20:24

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May 26, 2013 @ 11:14

Same with me - Alvaro organized a few nice hikes and climbs and I enjoyed them a lot. I can not understand why some people can not deal with problems / issues personally - this is just a platform. Not a personal playground for insecurities, emotions and problems.

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May 26, 2013 @ 19:15

Thank you very much to all the people who have supported and trusted me. And special thanks to Nir (Glocals Admin) from whom I have also received many supportive emails.

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Thank you very much to all the people who have supported and trusted me. And special thanks to Nir (Glocals Admin) from whom I have also received many supportive emails.

Ocio Sano, May 26, 2013 @ 19:15

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May 26, 2013 @ 19:17

PS. I understand that some of you are afraid of being bullyied yourselves and have opted for not leaving a message here.

You are more than welcome to leave a message with your views on bullying, and or your experiences in my events, in my profile page. Only my friends can see it.

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PS. I understand that some of you are afraid of being bullyied yourselves and have opted for not leaving a message here.

You are more than welcome to leave a message with your views on bullying, and or your experiences in my events, in my profile page. Only my friends can see it.

Ocio Sano, May 26, 2013 @ 19:17

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