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How to find love in Switzerland if we are shy ?!

Switzerland seems to be an evil place to date girls.


I'm charming and speak French fluently, have a job but I'm definitely too shy to talk to people I don't know.  


is it really compulsory that men have to do the first step ? if yes that's depressing..

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Switzerland seems to be an evil place to date girls.


I'm charming and speak French fluently, have a job but I'm definitely too shy to talk to people I don't know.  


is it really compulsory that men have to do the first step ? if yes that's depressing..


Peter Andrew VMar 2, 2019 @ 20:26
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Switzerland seems to be an evil place to date girls.

I'm charming and speak French fluently, have a job but I'm definitely too shy to talk to people I don't know.  

is it really compulsory that men have to do the first step ? if yes that's depressing..


Mar 2, 19 20:26

If you’re too shy to talk to people you don’t know, how come that you know anybody anyway?


Which also prompts me to ask how you happen to know that you are charming.


As to which sex  makes the  first move to strike up a friendship, I think it’s about 50-50 these days so why do you find that depressing?  Nothing ventured, nothing gained.


 


Meantime, courage!


R.

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If you’re too shy to talk to people you don’t know, how come that you know anybody anyway?


Which also prompts me to ask how you happen to know that you are charming.


As to which sex  makes the  first move to strike up a friendship, I think it’s about 50-50 these days so why do you find that depressing?  Nothing ventured, nothing gained.


 


Meantime, courage!


R.


Ritchie, Mar 2, 2019 @ 21:14
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My granma used to say there's no such thing as a shy man! Smile

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My granma used to say there's no such thing as a shy man! Smile


evanescence, Mar 3, 2019 @ 20:07
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Hello ,at least put your photo on glocals ,not shy to that extent hopefully ? :) I am jocking man ,take it easy ,women are not ghosts :) i am a little bit like you ,i am also a little bit shy :)

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Hello ,at least put your photo on glocals ,not shy to that extent hopefully ? :) I am jocking man ,take it easy ,women are not ghosts :) i am a little bit like you ,i am also a little bit shy :)


hesham shafei, Mar 3, 2019 @ 21:51
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Hello,


Why don't you try to take some dance lessons as salsa or kizomba, it is a nice way to meet new people and to get self confidence.


 

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Hello,


Why don't you try to take some dance lessons as salsa or kizomba, it is a nice way to meet new people and to get self confidence.


 


Leticia Z, Mar 3, 2019 @ 22:06
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My granma used to say there's no such thing as a shy man! Smile


Mar 3, 19 20:07

Now that’s a comment I’d never heard before.


However, I have known a few males who were pretty “gauche” – rather like Jacques Brel apropos his Madeleine – but I guess that’s a different affliction.

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Now that’s a comment I’d never heard before.


However, I have known a few males who were pretty “gauche” – rather like Jacques Brel apropos his Madeleine – but I guess that’s a different affliction.


Ritchie, Mar 3, 2019 @ 22:07
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Peter: try what 80% of single people try (according to Forbes): Tinder. 


 

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Peter: try what 80% of single people try (according to Forbes): Tinder. 


 


Nir Ofek, Mar 4, 2019 @ 10:21
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Now that’s a comment I’d never heard before.

However, I have known a few males who were pretty “gauche” – rather like Jacques Brel apropos his Madeleine – but I guess that’s a different affliction.


Mar 3, 19 22:07

My granma's comment came back to my mind, but that doesn't mean I agree, in fact I have no idea what goes on in other people's mind...the only thing I'm sure about is that we all have fears, of varying nature and of situations, and some are better at controlling them than others.

I don't think one needs to do much to find love, it just comes along one day effortlessly... or not, but this is because I believe in a kind of destiny.

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My granma's comment came back to my mind, but that doesn't mean I agree, in fact I have no idea what goes on in other people's mind...the only thing I'm sure about is that we all have fears, of varying nature and of situations, and some are better at controlling them than others.

I don't think one needs to do much to find love, it just comes along one day effortlessly... or not, but this is because I believe in a kind of destiny.


evanescence, Mar 4, 2019 @ 10:22
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Hello


Nice post. I smilled at the first glance and say oh it is a SUBJECT her ! As Madam says earlier open your eyes feel safe and open your heart life and love are in the air. In cha ALLAH. 

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Nice post. I smilled at the first glance and say oh it is a SUBJECT her ! As Madam says earlier open your eyes feel safe and open your heart life and love are in the air. In cha ALLAH. 


Sangoule, Mar 4, 2019 @ 12:28
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Sorry, Peter, it is called Natural Selection. It is how evolution yields an improved human gene pool.


Laughing

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Sorry, Peter, it is called Natural Selection. It is how evolution yields an improved human gene pool.


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JR M, Mar 4, 2019 @ 15:41
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Love is hard to find, even if you are not shy. Sorry, bit of a downer. Wink

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Love is hard to find, even if you are not shy. Sorry, bit of a downer. Wink


Paula K, Mar 4, 2019 @ 17:33
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Peter: try what 80% of single people try (according to Forbes): Tinder. 

 


Mar 4, 19 10:21

 I'm not sure that's the kind of love he's talking about. Although I could be wrong Tinder is for hook ups.

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 I'm not sure that's the kind of love he's talking about. Although I could be wrong Tinder is for hook ups.


Janet G, Mar 5, 2019 @ 18:43
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Love is hard to find, even if you are not shy. Sorry, bit of a downer. Wink


Mar 4, 19 17:33

Truer words have never been spoken!

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Truer words have never been spoken!


Janet G, Mar 5, 2019 @ 18:43
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 I'm not sure that's the kind of love he's talking about. Although I could be wrong Tinder is for hook ups.


Mar 5, 19 18:43

Not necessarily

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Not necessarily


ajimenezp, Mar 5, 2019 @ 19:41
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Actually looked to see whether this was written on a Friday............but it wasn't!

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Actually looked to see whether this was written on a Friday............but it wasn't!


sheila c, Mar 5, 2019 @ 20:44
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Actually looked to see whether this was written on a Friday............but it wasn't!


Mar 5, 19 20:44

Because you thought it might be a “funny”?


R.

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Because you thought it might be a “funny”?


R.


Ritchie, Mar 6, 2019 @ 11:17
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