Hi all sunday surfers
i thought i would start the identity thread
During the many discussions on glocals i have been accused as always raising the topic of Israel and here is why;
Whenever i meet people iam always always asked : where are you from ?
I almost always answer; "Guess"
Most often i get a European identity, because people just by what they see
a blue eyed fair hair and skin person is automatically european and gets treated as such, pretty well according to some people i know from other continents .
It seems there is a land full of people who actually look like me , i was told
by a Turk who visits Slovakia that i look like THEM but i dont share any of
the common values like language or major religion or music or folklore even though my mother was born there and her ancestors before her.
the reason i dont really have an identity is that my people are Jews and we had wandered the earth because
we were not well liked. It's not that we ever did anything bad to anyone
except those who claim we killed Jesus christ , who was also of our people,
So what is my identity?
I guess first of all i am a parent, because my children are so important for me
and then i worry about their identity too
They have two cultures to choose from not to mention the swiss culture
where they were born.
I think you can choose a certain identity like you can choose to identify yourself as this or that
I have other identities like most people; i am a parent, i am a woman, i am a vegeterian , a dog owner , but for some reason the Jewish identity always stirs up some drama, either a silence that speaks louder than words , some common,postive or negative
so sometimes i say i am from Iceland, big mistake last year when that land made headlines..
I would like to ask people out there how they see themselves and if they identify themselves with their countries and how people react when they say where they are from ?
is that a problem for you ?
Did you find the swiss very open or sterotyping or what ?
Personally i had trouble with some comments about religious jews or swiss Jews that i did not enjoy hearing perhaps other people had similar experiences and how did you cope ?
sometimes I try to use humor




