Interesting one:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-23626340
Wonder if that assistant's getting her bonus this year?
Interesting one:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-23626340
Wonder if that assistant's getting her bonus this year?
Interesting one:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-23626340
Wonder if that assistant's getting her bonus this year?
Well do the Americans know that every second working in Switzerland is a foreigner, why blame Swiss? :-)
Well do the Americans know that every second working in Switzerland is a foreigner, why blame Swiss? :-)
My sister, who has a nice tanned appearance like me, says similar things used to happen to here when she first arrived in Switzerland 20 years ago. Her husband, who is a 'whitey' would get served before her in shops.
I have never found this during the 4 different periods I have spent here. But having met a few people through glocals now I am surprised at how many of the ills in Switzerland are automatically ascribed to foreigners. Beggars, crime, loud noise at night. When people I know mention this to me now, I say "You really hate foreigners" - they know I'm taking the mickey out of them.
My sister, who has a nice tanned appearance like me, says similar things used to happen to here when she first arrived in Switzerland 20 years ago. Her husband, who is a 'whitey' would get served before her in shops.
I have never found this during the 4 different periods I have spent here. But having met a few people through glocals now I am surprised at how many of the ills in Switzerland are automatically ascribed to foreigners. Beggars, crime, loud noise at night. When people I know mention this to me now, I say "You really hate foreigners" - they know I'm taking the mickey out of them.
I don;t think that is racism. I am going to Swiss at least 2 times every year, stay for month or at least few weeks every time, and never for past 10 years had any bad expirience.
I don;t think that is racism. I am going to Swiss at least 2 times every year, stay for month or at least few weeks every time, and never for past 10 years had any bad expirience.
I just read some of the articles. As usual even the shop owner didn't even really apologize. "We don't have face recognition in Switzerland." Which means "We only serve rich black people". The most annoying thing is that a Swiss business will rarely if ever really apologize and acknowledge poor service. The servive mentatlity is still for the most part. "If you don't like it, there are still plenty of other (swiss) customers who do, so we don't need your business." It's really time everyone just voted with their wallets and feet. The only thing that Swiss businesses eventually ever understand is CHF one way or another.
I just read some of the articles. As usual even the shop owner didn't even really apologize. "We don't have face recognition in Switzerland." Which means "We only serve rich black people". The most annoying thing is that a Swiss business will rarely if ever really apologize and acknowledge poor service. The servive mentatlity is still for the most part. "If you don't like it, there are still plenty of other (swiss) customers who do, so we don't need your business." It's really time everyone just voted with their wallets and feet. The only thing that Swiss businesses eventually ever understand is CHF one way or another.
P.S. so far the best, most amazing answer I've gotten was at the Luzerner City Run, where the registration options (for the same fees) include a 5k for men but only 3k for women athletes. I asked the registration youngster some clueless 20 year old boy, why my friend can't run the 5k too. He says, well that's the rules of this race (heavily sponsored by Migros by the way) and he says, "Well she knew that that was the race length anyway when she registered. If she wants to run a 5k, she should run in another race."
It's really a bad image for Luzern and "Innenschweiz". Then when I received the participant satisfaction survey from the organizers I politely mentioned this point. Do you think I got any kind of answer back. Nawwwww.
P.S. so far the best, most amazing answer I've gotten was at the Luzerner City Run, where the registration options (for the same fees) include a 5k for men but only 3k for women athletes. I asked the registration youngster some clueless 20 year old boy, why my friend can't run the 5k too. He says, well that's the rules of this race (heavily sponsored by Migros by the way) and he says, "Well she knew that that was the race length anyway when she registered. If she wants to run a 5k, she should run in another race."
It's really a bad image for Luzern and "Innenschweiz". Then when I received the participant satisfaction survey from the organizers I politely mentioned this point. Do you think I got any kind of answer back. Nawwwww.
Well I've lived in Switzerland for almost two years and I've always heard about racism here not even targeted at skin colour but everyone from a poorer country even within Europe.
The head of Human Resource where I work (swiss national of course) told a Romanian employee "to not forget where she comes from" during salary negotiations. This is despite the fact that she's lived in Switzerland for almost 20years and also has an Italian passport.
And then there's my personal experience. I flew on swiss air to Dubai a couple of weeks ago and was on the Business Class queue to check in at the Geneva Airport. I had my ticket printed and my passport ready for bag drop. The first thing the guy at the counter asked me, without even looking at my ticket was "am you sure you're flying Business Class"? to which I replied "do I look like I shouldn't be flying Business Class?". I'm Black by the way. He went on and on about how they have to ask each and every customer that because sometimes people get on the wrong queue blah blah blah. Which is pure BS course he definitely did not ask the white middle aged guy in front of me that.
Like Oprah, I took the high road and just ignored the BS but it was quite upsetting to be honest.
That said, there is racism everywhere not just here I suppose. Is it worse here, probably not. But its here. Thats for sure.
Well I've lived in Switzerland for almost two years and I've always heard about racism here not even targeted at skin colour but everyone from a poorer country even within Europe.
The head of Human Resource where I work (swiss national of course) told a Romanian employee "to not forget where she comes from" during salary negotiations. This is despite the fact that she's lived in Switzerland for almost 20years and also has an Italian passport.
And then there's my personal experience. I flew on swiss air to Dubai a couple of weeks ago and was on the Business Class queue to check in at the Geneva Airport. I had my ticket printed and my passport ready for bag drop. The first thing the guy at the counter asked me, without even looking at my ticket was "am you sure you're flying Business Class"? to which I replied "do I look like I shouldn't be flying Business Class?". I'm Black by the way. He went on and on about how they have to ask each and every customer that because sometimes people get on the wrong queue blah blah blah. Which is pure BS course he definitely did not ask the white middle aged guy in front of me that.
Like Oprah, I took the high road and just ignored the BS but it was quite upsetting to be honest.
That said, there is racism everywhere not just here I suppose. Is it worse here, probably not. But its here. Thats for sure.
That's a pity. I've always enjoyed flying with Swiss because I find them so polite. I'm not sure, but maybe the check-in staff are Swissport not Swiss.
I'm amazed about these attitudes in Geneva, where there is such a large international community of people.
That's a pity. I've always enjoyed flying with Swiss because I find them so polite. I'm not sure, but maybe the check-in staff are Swissport not Swiss.
I'm amazed about these attitudes in Geneva, where there is such a large international community of people.
Hahahaha, she should of bought the whole shop and fire the staff !!!
Tina Turner - cool attitude, lovely lady, who loves Switzerland, has become a resident, got married here. Happens to be black and famous.
Oprah Winfrey - loud, obnoxious American, with major bad-attitude-chip-on-shoulder, visiting Zurich, who points her fingers at you when she speaks and probably sprouted a few "Do you know who I AM?". Happens to be black and famous.
Racist? I'm sure if she got "her good friend" Tina to go buy it for her, she'd be the owner of a very nice 35k handbag by now. 
Tina Turner - cool attitude, lovely lady, who loves Switzerland, has become a resident, got married here. Happens to be black and famous.
Oprah Winfrey - loud, obnoxious American, with major bad-attitude-chip-on-shoulder, visiting Zurich, who points her fingers at you when she speaks and probably sprouted a few "Do you know who I AM?". Happens to be black and famous.
Racist? I'm sure if she got "her good friend" Tina to go buy it for her, she'd be the owner of a very nice 35k handbag by now. 
This all being said, I have also had many good experiences here as well. Especially with Swiss. In th end it does come down to the individuals I guess, not a company or a country.
This all being said, I have also had many good experiences here as well. Especially with Swiss. In th end it does come down to the individuals I guess, not a company or a country.
And on the other hand, do we know that the shop assistant was Swiss? Didn't Oprah (racistly) assumed so I guess. They could have been German, French, Italian or any other nationality or combination thereof, right?
And on the other hand, do we know that the shop assistant was Swiss? Didn't Oprah (racistly) assumed so I guess. They could have been German, French, Italian or any other nationality or combination thereof, right?
hahahahaha, that is really funny, But you can't blame a country because of a small incident happens in a shop or in least case because of a "shop keeper". Somebody stole money from my pocket while travelling in america. So it means i build my precpetion just because of a single incident about that country.
Switzerland is a great country, Things could happen everywhere,
hahahahaha, that is really funny, But you can't blame a country because of a small incident happens in a shop or in least case because of a "shop keeper". Somebody stole money from my pocket while travelling in america. So it means i build my precpetion just because of a single incident about that country.
Switzerland is a great country, Things could happen everywhere,
And on the other hand, do we know that the shop assistant was Swiss? Didn't Oprah (racistly) assumed so I guess. They could have been German, French, Italian or any other nationality or combination thereof, right?
Going by Oprah's atrocious attempt at a "Swiss" accent, I would say the assistant was from either Wales or Pakistan. Not sure which.....
Going by Oprah's atrocious attempt at a "Swiss" accent, I would say the assistant was from either Wales or Pakistan. Not sure which.....
I don't think the Swiss realise how poor their reputation is in the rest of the world in this respect.
Just looking at some of the US news feeds and one observation is how embarassing it must be in a high end store not to recognise one of the most influential people in the US who has a yearly income of 357 million dollars...ouch!
That said, I find the general standard of service here crap. I've just got back from a month in NY and was amazed at how friendly, solicitous and helpful people in shops are. It took me a week to get used to being back here where you almost feel like you're being a bother when you ask a shop assistant for help.
I don't think the Swiss realise how poor their reputation is in the rest of the world in this respect.
Just looking at some of the US news feeds and one observation is how embarassing it must be in a high end store not to recognise one of the most influential people in the US who has a yearly income of 357 million dollars...ouch!
That said, I find the general standard of service here crap. I've just got back from a month in NY and was amazed at how friendly, solicitous and helpful people in shops are. It took me a week to get used to being back here where you almost feel like you're being a bother when you ask a shop assistant for help.
P.S. so far the best, most amazing answer I've gotten was at the Luzerner City Run, where the registration options (for the same fees) include a 5k for men but only 3k for women athletes. I asked the registration youngster some clueless 20 year old boy, why my friend can't run the 5k too. He says, well that's the rules of this race (heavily sponsored by Migros by the way) and he says, "Well she knew that that was the race length anyway when she registered. If she wants to run a 5k, she should run in another race."
It's really a bad image for Luzern and "Innenschweiz". Then when I received the participant satisfaction survey from the organizers I politely mentioned this point. Do you think I got any kind of answer back. Nawwwww.
I get your point... but I'm quite sure that a man could not have run the 3k race...
So, I guess you can blame it on a lack of flexibility, but hopefully not on some chauvinistic principle...
And the fee helps to cover the organisation cost... the fact that you run 3 or 5k is not much of a factor there...
So basically, the answer of this "clueless" 20 years old wasn't that bad: this race was designed for men who want to run 5K and for women who want to run 3K... no more, no less.
Now, if we follow your logic, and we open the 5K race to the women, then we should open the 3K race to the men... Guess who'll never get a medal?
I get your point... but I'm quite sure that a man could not have run the 3k race...
So, I guess you can blame it on a lack of flexibility, but hopefully not on some chauvinistic principle...
And the fee helps to cover the organisation cost... the fact that you run 3 or 5k is not much of a factor there...
So basically, the answer of this "clueless" 20 years old wasn't that bad: this race was designed for men who want to run 5K and for women who want to run 3K... no more, no less.
Now, if we follow your logic, and we open the 5K race to the women, then we should open the 3K race to the men... Guess who'll never get a medal?
Tina Turner - cool attitude, lovely lady, who loves Switzerland, has become a resident, got married here. Happens to be black and famous.
Oprah Winfrey - loud, obnoxious American, with major bad-attitude-chip-on-shoulder, visiting Zurich, who points her fingers at you when she speaks and probably sprouted a few "Do you know who I AM?". Happens to be black and famous.
Racist? I'm sure if she got "her good friend" Tina to go buy it for her, she'd be the owner of a very nice 35k handbag by now. 
Carolyn, I love how you've tried to negate a story about racial stereotypes by employing an American stereotype. Do you think you are somehow better now? Congratulations on lowering yourself to the standards of the shopkeeper.
Carolyn, I love how you've tried to negate a story about racial stereotypes by employing an American stereotype. Do you think you are somehow better now? Congratulations on lowering yourself to the standards of the shopkeeper.
In my experience the shop assistant in a "luxury" handbag shop is very likely to have been Eastern European... probably not Swiss at all.
Oprah shoud fly to Moscow and try shopping for an overpriced handbag there if she wants to experience racism.
Racism is unfortunately apparent in "every" country in the world, not just Switzerland, but the political stance of the SNP here has brought it into the spotlight and now every incident will be reported... did a thread like this pop up when the UK announced a direct ban on immigration from certain countries and dramatically reducing also the amount of residency applications and asylum seekers... nope!!!
In my experience the shop assistant in a "luxury" handbag shop is very likely to have been Eastern European... probably not Swiss at all.
Oprah shoud fly to Moscow and try shopping for an overpriced handbag there if she wants to experience racism.
Racism is unfortunately apparent in "every" country in the world, not just Switzerland, but the political stance of the SNP here has brought it into the spotlight and now every incident will be reported... did a thread like this pop up when the UK announced a direct ban on immigration from certain countries and dramatically reducing also the amount of residency applications and asylum seekers... nope!!!
I have a different issue, with my chinese face, I ve been only propose most expensive things in shop.... It s not about racism, it s about stereotype and this unfortunatly it s not only a swiss but a global state of mind.
I have a different issue, with my chinese face, I ve been only propose most expensive things in shop.... It s not about racism, it s about stereotype and this unfortunatly it s not only a swiss but a global state of mind.
Maybe not on here Charlie....but definitely amongst my contacts on Facebook.
When I was robbed in the station here,the police who took my statement asked me,in French,if they " we're Swiss"
Amazing question.I mean,how could I have known without asking to see their ID?
Or,maybe,you can just "tell" who is Swiss by just looking at them?
Maybe not on here Charlie....but definitely amongst my contacts on Facebook.
When I was robbed in the station here,the police who took my statement asked me,in French,if they " we're Swiss"
Amazing question.I mean,how could I have known without asking to see their ID?
Or,maybe,you can just "tell" who is Swiss by just looking at them?
Maybe not on here Charlie....but definitely amongst my contacts on Facebook.
When I was robbed in the station here,the police who took my statement asked me,in French,if they " we're Swiss"
Amazing question.I mean,how could I have known without asking to see their ID?
Or,maybe,you can just "tell" who is Swiss by just looking at them?
Sorry,"were Swiss"
In my experience the shop assistant in a "luxury" handbag shop is very likely to have been Eastern European... probably not Swiss at all.
Oprah shoud fly to Moscow and try shopping for an overpriced handbag there if she wants to experience racism.
Racism is unfortunately apparent in "every" country in the world, not just Switzerland, but the political stance of the SNP here has brought it into the spotlight and now every incident will be reported... did a thread like this pop up when the UK announced a direct ban on immigration from certain countries and dramatically reducing also the amount of residency applications and asylum seekers... nope!!!
Errr...that's because we're in Switzerland talking about Swiss stuff.
Max..
Sorry,"were Swiss"
Hey Buzzcocks,
I know what you mean. I think there's a type of 'implied racism' here. The last time I went flying the Swiss guy I was flying with reminded me to lock the plane. I jokingly said "Do you get a lot of aircraft theft at this airfield (Lausanne)" To which he replied "Well a young guy tried to steal an aircraft a couple of years ago and crashed it before take off....He was North African"
I spent the whole afternoon wondering why he added the last bit and why it was relevant. If he had been Swiss, or French or Cornish would that have been added to the story? Well ok maybe if he was Cornish.
Hey Buzzcocks,
I know what you mean. I think there's a type of 'implied racism' here. The last time I went flying the Swiss guy I was flying with reminded me to lock the plane. I jokingly said "Do you get a lot of aircraft theft at this airfield (Lausanne)" To which he replied "Well a young guy tried to steal an aircraft a couple of years ago and crashed it before take off....He was North African"
I spent the whole afternoon wondering why he added the last bit and why it was relevant. If he had been Swiss, or French or Cornish would that have been added to the story? Well ok maybe if he was Cornish.
Max..
I like it...but not sure what it means.....
Tina Turner - cool attitude, lovely lady, who loves Switzerland, has become a resident, got married here. Happens to be black and famous.
Oprah Winfrey - loud, obnoxious American, with major bad-attitude-chip-on-shoulder, visiting Zurich, who points her fingers at you when she speaks and probably sprouted a few "Do you know who I AM?". Happens to be black and famous.
Racist? I'm sure if she got "her good friend" Tina to go buy it for her, she'd be the owner of a very nice 35k handbag by now. 
Sounds like you know both of them and were there.
Carolyn, I love how you've tried to negate a story about racial stereotypes by employing an American stereotype. Do you think you are somehow better now? Congratulations on lowering yourself to the standards of the shopkeeper.
Oh... then Oprah is the typical American... It's not what I read in Carolyn's prose, but it's what I read in yours... Thanks for the info...
Oh... then Oprah is the typical American... It's not what I read in Carolyn's prose, but it's what I read in yours... Thanks for the info...
Sounds like you know both of them and were there.
Busted! I was too busy attending Tina's wedding, to be idling time in expensive Swiss handbag stores. 
Busted! I was too busy attending Tina's wedding, to be idling time in expensive Swiss handbag stores. 
I get your point... but I'm quite sure that a man could not have run the 3k race...
So, I guess you can blame it on a lack of flexibility, but hopefully not on some chauvinistic principle...
And the fee helps to cover the organisation cost... the fact that you run 3 or 5k is not much of a factor there...
So basically, the answer of this "clueless" 20 years old wasn't that bad: this race was designed for men who want to run 5K and for women who want to run 3K... no more, no less.
Now, if we follow your logic, and we open the 5K race to the women, then we should open the 3K race to the men... Guess who'll never get a medal?
Actually no, your response IS the point. There are plenty of women runners who could put men to shame in the 5K. Assuming that the women running the 5K couldn't "medal" (while the men running the 3K would bar the women from medaling) is the very definition of sexism.
This is the same mentality that one one person in the household could/should work (most often the man), and that the other adult stays at home. Just because it's "ingrained" in the culture doesn't make it any less sexist or any more right - especially in a country that is vaunted for its populist "freedom."
Actually no, your response IS the point. There are plenty of women runners who could put men to shame in the 5K. Assuming that the women running the 5K couldn't "medal" (while the men running the 3K would bar the women from medaling) is the very definition of sexism.
This is the same mentality that one one person in the household could/should work (most often the man), and that the other adult stays at home. Just because it's "ingrained" in the culture doesn't make it any less sexist or any more right - especially in a country that is vaunted for its populist "freedom."
Ok to clarify... I think its abhorrent that racism exists here or anywhere, but Im no longer surprised when it rears its ugly head here or anywhere.
Small minded people with too many insecurities...
Max, you're right... you didn't correct my grammer so bad use of the "GN" picture.. my bad.
Ok to clarify... I think its abhorrent that racism exists here or anywhere, but Im no longer surprised when it rears its ugly head here or anywhere.
Small minded people with too many insecurities...
Max, you're right... you didn't correct my grammer so bad use of the "GN" picture.. my bad.
I don't think the Swiss realise how poor their reputation is in the rest of the world in this respect.
Just looking at some of the US news feeds and one observation is how embarassing it must be in a high end store not to recognise one of the most influential people in the US who has a yearly income of 357 million dollars...ouch!
That said, I find the general standard of service here crap. I've just got back from a month in NY and was amazed at how friendly, solicitous and helpful people in shops are. It took me a week to get used to being back here where you almost feel like you're being a bother when you ask a shop assistant for help.
If you checked Swiss Newspapers yesterday they reported this incident, and most Swiss were angry and wanted the name of the shop to be published. I havent checked the local Newspapers today, Im sure at the end they will find out the name of the shop and publish it.
If you checked Swiss Newspapers yesterday they reported this incident, and most Swiss were angry and wanted the name of the shop to be published. I havent checked the local Newspapers today, Im sure at the end they will find out the name of the shop and publish it.
Carolyn, I love how you've tried to negate a story about racial stereotypes by employing an American stereotype. Do you think you are somehow better now? Congratulations on lowering yourself to the standards of the shopkeeper.
Not "stereotyping" at all. I mentioned Tina (and yes, I have met her on a 1:1 basis) who is also American and I said only nice things about her.
Why is it only ever American's who feel "stereotyped" when you mention "American" in the same sentence as a negative comment?
(Just a little irony, there, to brighten up your weekend). 
Not "stereotyping" at all. I mentioned Tina (and yes, I have met her on a 1:1 basis) who is also American and I said only nice things about her.
Why is it only ever American's who feel "stereotyped" when you mention "American" in the same sentence as a negative comment?
(Just a little irony, there, to brighten up your weekend). 
The racism here isn't so much straight racism per se as classism. 2 examples.
For starters, having darker skin certainly doesn't stop the Swiss from bending over backwards to give great customer service in luxury shops and private banks to guys like Arab sheiks. (maybe afterwards they're muttering under their breath, but hey, not to their faces, right?).
Second, just look at the way that many Swiss consider "frontaliers" - educated, white, (often) upper-middle-class Europeans coming to "steal" the Swiss francs from the hard-working Swiss! Those lazy frontaliers - how dare they!?!?
So yeah, I really just think it's an issue of who's considered "wealthy" vs.who is not than a line that can be drawn definitively across a certain shade of skin pigmentation.
The racism here isn't so much straight racism per se as classism. 2 examples.
For starters, having darker skin certainly doesn't stop the Swiss from bending over backwards to give great customer service in luxury shops and private banks to guys like Arab sheiks. (maybe afterwards they're muttering under their breath, but hey, not to their faces, right?).
Second, just look at the way that many Swiss consider "frontaliers" - educated, white, (often) upper-middle-class Europeans coming to "steal" the Swiss francs from the hard-working Swiss! Those lazy frontaliers - how dare they!?!?
So yeah, I really just think it's an issue of who's considered "wealthy" vs.who is not than a line that can be drawn definitively across a certain shade of skin pigmentation.
Not "stereotyping" at all. I mentioned Tina (and yes, I have met her on a 1:1 basis) who is also American and I said only nice things about her.
Why is it only ever American's who feel "stereotyped" when you mention "American" in the same sentence as a negative comment?
(Just a little irony, there, to brighten up your weekend). 
Because ... 'merkuh? 'MURCA! 
Not "stereotyping" at all. I mentioned Tina (and yes, I have met her on a 1:1 basis) who is also American and I said only nice things about her.
Why is it only ever American's who feel "stereotyped" when you mention "American" in the same sentence as a negative comment?
(Just a little irony, there, to brighten up your weekend). 
Actually, seems that several non-Americans agreed with me on this one (Shanti, Max, Dorothy). So, not sure where that comment comes from.
Oh.....and it's "Americans", not "American's". A little grammar/punctuation lesson to brighten up your weekend.
Actually, seems that several non-Americans agreed with me on this one (Shanti, Max, Dorothy). So, not sure where that comment comes from.
Oh.....and it's "Americans", not "American's". A little grammar/punctuation lesson to brighten up your weekend.
She doesn't seem to have much luck buying handbags...
http://edition.cnn.com/2005/SHOWBIZ/TV/06/22/oprah.apology/
She doesn't seem to have much luck buying handbags...
http://edition.cnn.com/2005/SHOWBIZ/TV/06/22/oprah.apology/
Did anyone actually see the interview on tv , at no point did Operah say this was a case of Racism... the shopkeeper simply told her that the bag was too expensive for her... obviously a big mistake on the assistants part.... who is the assitant to judge who can afford what to any customer... the press have taken this into the realms of racism, because that s what sells newspapers.
What Operah said about racism, was that she was not allowed into a shop in the USA because she was black.
Swiss service standards are very poor imho, and it is made worse by the fact they simply dont care about the customer..
but please lets stop using the racism tag simply to make things newsworthy..
As for Carolyns comment.... well youve just lowered yourself to the level of the shop assistant by pre judging a person you do not know or understand.
Keep smiling .... and loving life ... good bad or indifferent
Did anyone actually see the interview on tv , at no point did Operah say this was a case of Racism... the shopkeeper simply told her that the bag was too expensive for her... obviously a big mistake on the assistants part.... who is the assitant to judge who can afford what to any customer... the press have taken this into the realms of racism, because that s what sells newspapers.
What Operah said about racism, was that she was not allowed into a shop in the USA because she was black.
Swiss service standards are very poor imho, and it is made worse by the fact they simply dont care about the customer..
but please lets stop using the racism tag simply to make things newsworthy..
As for Carolyns comment.... well youve just lowered yourself to the level of the shop assistant by pre judging a person you do not know or understand.
Keep smiling .... and loving life ... good bad or indifferent
"As for Carolyns comment.... well youve just lowered yourself to the level of the shop assistant by pre judging a person you do not know or understand."
And I don't believe you've ever met me either, Karl N.
"As for Carolyns comment.... well youve just lowered yourself to the level of the shop assistant by pre judging a person you do not know or understand."
And I don't believe you've ever met me either, Karl N.
no , i havent but ive read your misinformed comments..
Actually, seems that several non-Americans agreed with me on this one (Shanti, Max, Dorothy). So, not sure where that comment comes from.
Oh.....and it's "Americans", not "American's". A little grammar/punctuation lesson to brighten up your weekend.
Am frae Glasgie - apparently we canne spell Inglush 
Ok to clarify... I think its abhorrent that racism exists here or anywhere, but Im no longer surprised when it rears its ugly head here or anywhere.
Small minded people with too many insecurities...
Max, you're right... you didn't correct my grammer so bad use of the "GN" picture.. my bad.
NO YOU CAN'T TAKE IT BACK! I WANT IT NOW!!!!
Did anyone actually see the interview on tv , at no point did Operah say this was a case of Racism... the shopkeeper simply told her that the bag was too expensive for her... obviously a big mistake on the assistants part.... who is the assitant to judge who can afford what to any customer... the press have taken this into the realms of racism, because that s what sells newspapers.
You obviously didn't see the interview with Larry King... "misinformed comments"... anyone?
Did anyone actually see the interview on tv , at no point did Operah say this was a case of Racism... the shopkeeper simply told her that the bag was too expensive for her... obviously a big mistake on the assistants part.... who is the assitant to judge who can afford what to any customer... the press have taken this into the realms of racism, because that s what sells newspapers.
You obviously didn't see the interview with Larry King... "misinformed comments"... anyone?
"The town of Bremgarten in the Swiss canton of Aargau has banned asylum seekers from public swimming pools and sports facilities. The decision is symptomatic of Switzerland's increasingly restrictive asylum policy."
The above was mentioned in Spiegel Online International
No comment!
"The town of Bremgarten in the Swiss canton of Aargau has banned asylum seekers from public swimming pools and sports facilities. The decision is symptomatic of Switzerland's increasingly restrictive asylum policy."
The above was mentioned in Spiegel Online International
No comment!
http://www.spiegel.de/international/europe/bremgarten-introduces-exclusion-zones-for-asylum-seekers-a-915587.html
http://www.spiegel.de/international/europe/bremgarten-introduces-exclusion-zones-for-asylum-seekers-a-915587.html
"The town of Bremgarten in the Swiss canton of Aargau has banned asylum seekers from public swimming pools and sports facilities. The decision is symptomatic of Switzerland's increasingly restrictive asylum policy."
The above was mentioned in Spiegel Online International
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Il n'y aura pas d'interdiction générale de piscine, ni à Bremgarten ni ailleurs.
«Les droits fondamentaux ne sont pas négociables», a déclaré la ministre de justice et police lors d'une promenade avec la presse à Berne. Elle a exclu catégoriquement une interdiction générale préventive de piscine pour les requérants. Il n'y a pas de base légale pour cela, a-t-elle ajouté.

Il n'y aura pas d'interdiction générale de piscine, ni à Bremgarten ni ailleurs.
«Les droits fondamentaux ne sont pas négociables», a déclaré la ministre de justice et police lors d'une promenade avec la presse à Berne. Elle a exclu catégoriquement une interdiction générale préventive de piscine pour les requérants. Il n'y a pas de base légale pour cela, a-t-elle ajouté.
Did anyone actually see the interview on tv , at no point did Operah say this was a case of Racism... the shopkeeper simply told her that the bag was too expensive for her... obviously a big mistake on the assistants part.... who is the assitant to judge who can afford what to any customer... the press have taken this into the realms of racism, because that s what sells newspapers.
You obviously didn't see the interview with Larry King... "misinformed comments"... anyone?
It's not racism, it's a mixture of Xenophobia, disrespect and laziness. If it was simply racism, then mainly I would not be affected
It's not racism, it's a mixture of Xenophobia, disrespect and laziness. If it was simply racism, then mainly I would not be affected

Il n'y aura pas d'interdiction générale de piscine, ni à Bremgarten ni ailleurs.
«Les droits fondamentaux ne sont pas négociables», a déclaré la ministre de justice et police lors d'une promenade avec la presse à Berne. Elle a exclu catégoriquement une interdiction générale préventive de piscine pour les requérants. Il n'y a pas de base légale pour cela, a-t-elle ajouté.
Yes,but the point is that Bremgarten SOUGHT to introduce this policy in the first place.
Luckily they are subject to a higher authority
Yes,but the point is that Bremgarten SOUGHT to introduce this policy in the first place.
Luckily they are subject to a higher authority
I think it's obscene that anyone especially Oprah who reportedly does lots for charities would want to publicise this. I mean, who in their right mind would spend £24,000 on a bag. I hope it's big enough to put over her head!!!
I think it's obscene that anyone especially Oprah who reportedly does lots for charities would want to publicise this. I mean, who in their right mind would spend £24,000 on a bag. I hope it's big enough to put over her head!!!
I think it's obscene that anyone especially Oprah who reportedly does lots for charities would want to publicise this. I mean, who in their right mind would spend £24,000 on a bag. I hope it's big enough to put over her head!!!
I think it's obscene that anyone especially Oprah who reportedly does lots for charities would want to publicise this. I mean, who in their right mind would spend £24,000 on a bag. I hope it's big enough to put over her head!!!
It's not racism, it's a mixture of Xenophobia, disrespect and laziness. If it was simply racism, then mainly I would not be affected
I think I'm tending towards the laziness, rather than racism, explanation as well. Haven't seen the interview but one report I read said that Oprah had asked the assistant to get the bag down which was above her head. And, as I recall, the BBC report refers to the bag being behind a glass screen. Both suggest that it would have been some effort for the assistant to get it.
Also, (and more importantly) it could have made the shop untidy & messed up the display ;-) This is Switzerland, after all....
I think I'm tending towards the laziness, rather than racism, explanation as well. Haven't seen the interview but one report I read said that Oprah had asked the assistant to get the bag down which was above her head. And, as I recall, the BBC report refers to the bag being behind a glass screen. Both suggest that it would have been some effort for the assistant to get it.
Also, (and more importantly) it could have made the shop untidy & messed up the display ;-) This is Switzerland, after all....
Based on what l read in the article, I don't believe it was racism and just a mistake made on the assistant's part. The assistant could just be used to warning previous customers that it's too expensive and, without knowing who Oprah is, said it instinctively. There's a big difference between saying the bag is too expensive and the bag is too expensive FOR YOU. Who knows exactly what was uttered. Plus this is Switzerland not the U.S. Of course racism still exists, but at least she'd never be treated this way in the U.S.
Based on what l read in the article, I don't believe it was racism and just a mistake made on the assistant's part. The assistant could just be used to warning previous customers that it's too expensive and, without knowing who Oprah is, said it instinctively. There's a big difference between saying the bag is too expensive and the bag is too expensive FOR YOU. Who knows exactly what was uttered. Plus this is Switzerland not the U.S. Of course racism still exists, but at least she'd never be treated this way in the U.S.
As a public figure (and according Forbes the world's most powerful celebrity) she should have better subject of discussion during interview on TV rather than her 35k CHF bag issue in luxury shops...
Especially when you are an adept of philantropy.
35kchf = 350.000 lunches for kids in Africa if instead of playing a scene of Pretty Woman in Zurich she would had joined us for a "Cheers for charity" event :p
As a public figure (and according Forbes the world's most powerful celebrity) she should have better subject of discussion during interview on TV rather than her 35k CHF bag issue in luxury shops...
Especially when you are an adept of philantropy.
35kchf = 350.000 lunches for kids in Africa if instead of playing a scene of Pretty Woman in Zurich she would had joined us for a "Cheers for charity" event :p
I think it's obscene that anyone especially Oprah who reportedly does lots for charities would want to publicise this. I mean, who in their right mind would spend £24,000 on a bag. I hope it's big enough to put over her head!!!
The price of the bag is closer to 38'000 USD than 24'000 USD
source: http://www.nzz.ch/aktuell/panorama/rassismus-gegen-oprah-winfrey-1.18130232
The price of the bag is closer to 38'000 USD than 24'000 USD
source: http://www.nzz.ch/aktuell/panorama/rassismus-gegen-oprah-winfrey-1.18130232
If my clients ask me for a 38'000 USD, 35.000 USD or 24'000 USD gadget or I will sell it. Immediately.
If my clients ask me for a 38'000 USD, 35.000 USD or 24'000 USD gadget or I will sell it. Immediately.
Maybe not on here Charlie....but definitely amongst my contacts on Facebook.
When I was robbed in the station here,the police who took my statement asked me,in French,if they " we're Swiss"
Amazing question.I mean,how could I have known without asking to see their ID?
Or,maybe,you can just "tell" who is Swiss by just looking at them?
I've been told that the question "were they Swiss?" is police shorthand for "did they speak with a Swiss accent?". But, of course, many expats might not be able to answer that version either
R..
I've been told that the question "were they Swiss?" is police shorthand for "did they speak with a Swiss accent?". But, of course, many expats might not be able to answer that version either
R..
If my clients ask me for a 38'000 USD, 35.000 USD or 24'000 USD gadget or I will sell it. Immediately.
Tell me when you're having a sale.
Tell me when you're having a sale.
VIPs will always get best conditions
Appearances may be deceiving...
Weather the bag was $20 or $100,000, if it's in a shop, anyone wanting to see it, should be allowed to see it whether they look like they can afford it or not. It's condescending and ignorant to assume that only a certail kind of person can afford an expensive product.
Being a brown skinned person, and without any intentions of adding fuel to the fire, I must say that I have received this and many other peculiar forms of treatment in shops here. I don't like to call it racism but I don't know what else it is. See what gets one confused, is when a shop assistant treats you coldly/rudely and then quickly gets you out of the way to serve the next non-brown skin client in a very polite and welcoming manner, you have no choice but to call a spade a spade.
For those over-reacting, Oprah didn't say that she was a victim of racism from a swiss, she was a victim of racism in Switzerland....big difference.
Weather the bag was $20 or $100,000, if it's in a shop, anyone wanting to see it, should be allowed to see it whether they look like they can afford it or not. It's condescending and ignorant to assume that only a certail kind of person can afford an expensive product.
Being a brown skinned person, and without any intentions of adding fuel to the fire, I must say that I have received this and many other peculiar forms of treatment in shops here. I don't like to call it racism but I don't know what else it is. See what gets one confused, is when a shop assistant treats you coldly/rudely and then quickly gets you out of the way to serve the next non-brown skin client in a very polite and welcoming manner, you have no choice but to call a spade a spade.
For those over-reacting, Oprah didn't say that she was a victim of racism from a swiss, she was a victim of racism in Switzerland....big difference.

£25,000 to you
I've been told that the question "were they Swiss?" is police shorthand for "did they speak with a Swiss accent?". But, of course, many expats might not be able to answer that version either
R..
That would be incredibly lazy,ignorant and unprofessional of the police.What a thing to suggest!
That would be incredibly lazy,ignorant and unprofessional of the police.What a thing to suggest!
That would be incredibly lazy,ignorant and unprofessional of the police.What a thing to suggest!
And the police could never be considered of those things, could they.
Once I saw 3 policemen in the Park de Montbenon doing their job of harassing some sort of pusher looking foreign types, until at one point it just started raining a bit, at this point, the police left leaving the other fellows in peace to get on with their business..
And the police could never be considered of those things, could they.
Once I saw 3 policemen in the Park de Montbenon doing their job of harassing some sort of pusher looking foreign types, until at one point it just started raining a bit, at this point, the police left leaving the other fellows in peace to get on with their business..
And the police could never be considered of those things, could they.
Once I saw 3 policemen in the Park de Montbenon doing their job of harassing some sort of pusher looking foreign types, until at one point it just started raining a bit, at this point, the police left leaving the other fellows in peace to get on with their business..
I was playing a rugby match in a park in london... couldnt find the pitch, so hitched a lift with the park police....
it was raining....
Me "you guys are not busy today then?"
Police " nah. its raining"
me" huh?"
police " the criminals dont come out in the rain, the branches are too lsippery for them to swing tree to tree!"
(I got out of the police car)
I was playing a rugby match in a park in london... couldnt find the pitch, so hitched a lift with the park police....
it was raining....
Me "you guys are not busy today then?"
Police " nah. its raining"
me" huh?"
police " the criminals dont come out in the rain, the branches are too lsippery for them to swing tree to tree!"
(I got out of the police car)
The story of Oprah does indeed sound like laziness and poor service as it's not usually rich people who have any problems,whatever their origins.
Having said that,there WAS the case a few years ago of two black African men being encouraged to leave the exclusive Max Uomo store in Lausanne without a very valid explanation,prompting the joke slogan at the time " Max Uomo lave plus blanc" .It was also quite a scandal then.
The story of Oprah does indeed sound like laziness and poor service as it's not usually rich people who have any problems,whatever their origins.
Having said that,there WAS the case a few years ago of two black African men being encouraged to leave the exclusive Max Uomo store in Lausanne without a very valid explanation,prompting the joke slogan at the time " Max Uomo lave plus blanc" .It was also quite a scandal then.
By coincidence,have just heard an interview with a Swiss politician from the " People's Party"( not the best point of reference,dear BBC) who says that,in "luxury shops" people do often make an assessment of whether a potential client is likely to have the means to purchase something........in which case,oh dear,this case DOES actually sound like......a racist moment.
( And I am no fan of Lady Oprah or people who buy ridiculously priced handbags)
By coincidence,have just heard an interview with a Swiss politician from the " People's Party"( not the best point of reference,dear BBC) who says that,in "luxury shops" people do often make an assessment of whether a potential client is likely to have the means to purchase something........in which case,oh dear,this case DOES actually sound like......a racist moment.
( And I am no fan of Lady Oprah or people who buy ridiculously priced handbags)
Maybe the salesperson was looking at Tina Turner who in turn was looking at an even more expensive bag...
Maybe the salesperson was looking at Tina Turner who in turn was looking at an even more expensive bag...
In my experience the shop assistant in a "luxury" handbag shop is very likely to have been Eastern European... probably not Swiss at all.
Oprah shoud fly to Moscow and try shopping for an overpriced handbag there if she wants to experience racism.
Racism is unfortunately apparent in "every" country in the world, not just Switzerland, but the political stance of the SNP here has brought it into the spotlight and now every incident will be reported... did a thread like this pop up when the UK announced a direct ban on immigration from certain countries and dramatically reducing also the amount of residency applications and asylum seekers... nope!!!
An Eastern European would have had recognised Oprah and would have been so polite with her that she would finished by buying 10 bags instead of one!
An Eastern European would have had recognised Oprah and would have been so polite with her that she would finished by buying 10 bags instead of one!
The story of Oprah does indeed sound like laziness and poor service as it's not usually rich people who have any problems,whatever their origins.
Having said that,there WAS the case a few years ago of two black African men being encouraged to leave the exclusive Max Uomo store in Lausanne without a very valid explanation,prompting the joke slogan at the time " Max Uomo lave plus blanc" .It was also quite a scandal then.
Thanks for the reminder. I'd forgotten that episode.
Contrast with Australia...
Last time I bought I car, I went into the showroom dressed in a t-shirt, shorts and things (don't get excited, they're the sort you wear on your feet) plus two days of stubble. The service was so great that I ended up ordering the most expensive model.
How many sales do they lose because they prejudge someone based on clothes, skin colour or accent?
Contrast with Australia...
Last time I bought I car, I went into the showroom dressed in a t-shirt, shorts and things (don't get excited, they're the sort you wear on your feet) plus two days of stubble. The service was so great that I ended up ordering the most expensive model.
How many sales do they lose because they prejudge someone based on clothes, skin colour or accent?
I wonder whether Ms Winfrey actually asked the shop assistant whether she spoke English or not? Her programme is not shown on Swiss TV but being so well-known perhaps she feels everyone should automatically know who she is, and by definition, approximately how much per annum she earns [well, gets anyway]. Whilst working in Antwerp, I have been approached by a member of the world'slargestenglishspeakingpopulation with an abrupt and direct "Say....................." without the person enquiring whether I spoke English or not. When I questioned this, he remarked "well I automatically assumed". Perhaps it is not so much racism as plain affront by OW not being recognised? Perhaps, Perhaps...... we'll never know really
I wonder whether Ms Winfrey actually asked the shop assistant whether she spoke English or not? Her programme is not shown on Swiss TV but being so well-known perhaps she feels everyone should automatically know who she is, and by definition, approximately how much per annum she earns [well, gets anyway]. Whilst working in Antwerp, I have been approached by a member of the world'slargestenglishspeakingpopulation with an abrupt and direct "Say....................." without the person enquiring whether I spoke English or not. When I questioned this, he remarked "well I automatically assumed". Perhaps it is not so much racism as plain affront by OW not being recognised? Perhaps, Perhaps...... we'll never know really
I wonder whether Ms Winfrey actually asked the shop assistant whether she spoke English or not? Her programme is not shown on Swiss TV but being so well-known perhaps she feels everyone should automatically know who she is, and by definition, approximately how much per annum she earns [well, gets anyway]. Whilst working in Antwerp, I have been approached by a member of the world'slargestenglishspeakingpopulation with an abrupt and direct "Say....................." without the person enquiring whether I spoke English or not. When I questioned this, he remarked "well I automatically assumed". Perhaps it is not so much racism as plain affront by OW not being recognised? Perhaps, Perhaps...... we'll never know really
Well... she's working in a luxury shop... I would damn expect her to speak english...
It's not someone she met in the street.
Well... she's working in a luxury shop... I would damn expect her to speak english...
It's not someone she met in the street.
The titles of this thread implies that Swiss are either racist or bad at delivering good service, which is a somewhat racist comment, mind you.
Poor Oprah who's been denied the right to spend $35'000 on a bag. That's indecent. This is simply a non event: She went to a shop, has not been recognized, got upset about it and made a fuzz. I see no racism there, just an inflated ego confronted to what a looks like a simple misunderstanding by a girl who apparently does not speak English well (shop owner's version, potentially as valid as Oprah's). That could happen to anybody and everywhere. And it's not the first time it happens to Oprah. She had a similar problem with Hermes a few years ago and she started such a war against them that the eventually had to publicly apologize.
The titles of this thread implies that Swiss are either racist or bad at delivering good service, which is a somewhat racist comment, mind you.
Poor Oprah who's been denied the right to spend $35'000 on a bag. That's indecent. This is simply a non event: She went to a shop, has not been recognized, got upset about it and made a fuzz. I see no racism there, just an inflated ego confronted to what a looks like a simple misunderstanding by a girl who apparently does not speak English well (shop owner's version, potentially as valid as Oprah's). That could happen to anybody and everywhere. And it's not the first time it happens to Oprah. She had a similar problem with Hermes a few years ago and she started such a war against them that the eventually had to publicly apologize.
The titles of this thread implies that Swiss are either racist or bad at delivering good service, which is a somewhat racist comment, mind you.
Poor Oprah who's been denied the right to spend $35'000 on a bag. That's indecent. This is simply a non event: She went to a shop, has not been recognized, got upset about it and made a fuzz. I see no racism there, just an inflated ego confronted to what a looks like a simple misunderstanding by a girl who apparently does not speak English well (shop owner's version, potentially as valid as Oprah's). That could happen to anybody and everywhere. And it's not the first time it happens to Oprah. She had a similar problem with Hermes a few years ago and she started such a war against them that the eventually had to publicly apologize.
Hi Free
She did not say it was racism, the media titled it as racism, she just mentioned that she was not allowed to buy an expensive bag, for the salesperson thought she could not afford it. She didnt make any fuzz in that shop, she left the shop and told the story later on to friends as well as on the US Media. I dont see why should she hide the fact that the saleswoman thought she could not afford the bag. So she told the story as it was. And you are making a fuzz out of it.
Hi Free
She did not say it was racism, the media titled it as racism, she just mentioned that she was not allowed to buy an expensive bag, for the salesperson thought she could not afford it. She didnt make any fuzz in that shop, she left the shop and told the story later on to friends as well as on the US Media. I dont see why should she hide the fact that the saleswoman thought she could not afford the bag. So she told the story as it was. And you are making a fuzz out of it.
I do agree, The first time i visited europe , i was shocked how their customer service suck! Specially cough
I do agree, The first time i visited europe , i was shocked how their customer service suck! Specially cough
Dalal S, Aug 10, 2013 @ 01:26
But whether the salesgirl spoke english or not, a potential client is pointing at an item in your shop, is it so difficult to understand that the client is interested in that item??....that has got to be a very slow salesgirl.
But whether the salesgirl spoke english or not, a potential client is pointing at an item in your shop, is it so difficult to understand that the client is interested in that item??....that has got to be a very slow salesgirl.
Hi Free
She did not say it was racism, the media titled it as racism, she just mentioned that she was not allowed to buy an expensive bag, for the salesperson thought she could not afford it. She didnt make any fuzz in that shop, she left the shop and told the story later on to friends as well as on the US Media. I dont see why should she hide the fact that the saleswoman thought she could not afford the bag. So she told the story as it was. And you are making a fuzz out of it.
Again... YES, SHE DID.
Hi Free
She did not say it was racism, the media titled it as racism, she just mentioned that she was not allowed to buy an expensive bag, for the salesperson thought she could not afford it. She didnt make any fuzz in that shop, she left the shop and told the story later on to friends as well as on the US Media. I dont see why should she hide the fact that the saleswoman thought she could not afford the bag. So she told the story as it was. And you are making a fuzz out of it.
Again... YES, SHE DID.
I have a different issue, with my chinese face, I ve been only propose most expensive things in shop.... It s not about racism, it s about stereotype and this unfortunatly it s not only a swiss but a global state of mind.
I agree with Patric!
The same about me and few other Baltic girls(Estonia, Latvia, Lithuania)...
I am in the Switzerland for almost 5 years. People around me is still pointing at me that I or my baltic friends are from the Russia.And because of that I had lot's of good/bad experience .
It's so pity, because I am not Russian and never been. Even if we look like or not, If we are loud or fun.... First of all ask me -Where do You come from?!?
It's not the same if I will say to Swiss people- You are french or opposite.
And there will be plenty of opinion about this Oprah topic. You will never know how in real it happened cause she is the star in the US and she can say what she wants but no surprise if it's true! :)
I agree with Patric!
The same about me and few other Baltic girls(Estonia, Latvia, Lithuania)...
I am in the Switzerland for almost 5 years. People around me is still pointing at me that I or my baltic friends are from the Russia.And because of that I had lot's of good/bad experience .
It's so pity, because I am not Russian and never been. Even if we look like or not, If we are loud or fun.... First of all ask me -Where do You come from?!?
It's not the same if I will say to Swiss people- You are french or opposite.
And there will be plenty of opinion about this Oprah topic. You will never know how in real it happened cause she is the star in the US and she can say what she wants but no surprise if it's true! :)
Opra complained exactly about the same thing when she went to Paris (strange not ?)
Opra complained exactly about the same thing when she went to Paris (strange not ?)
The story of Oprah does indeed sound like laziness and poor service as it's not usually rich people who have any problems,whatever their origins.
Having said that,there WAS the case a few years ago of two black African men being encouraged to leave the exclusive Max Uomo store in Lausanne without a very valid explanation,prompting the joke slogan at the time " Max Uomo lave plus blanc" .It was also quite a scandal then.
There are many cases such as the one you've mentioned that do not make it to the news simply because they are not reported. A friend of mine from Ghana who happens to be a big shot at the UN was at a BMW shop recently accompanied by another African and they were encouraged, in a very polite way mind you, to leave the shop. And these kind of situations happen more often than we would like to think.
Having said that I do not kow whether the incident reported by Ms Winfrey is related to her skin colour but I strongly suspect there might be a connexion.
There are many cases such as the one you've mentioned that do not make it to the news simply because they are not reported. A friend of mine from Ghana who happens to be a big shot at the UN was at a BMW shop recently accompanied by another African and they were encouraged, in a very polite way mind you, to leave the shop. And these kind of situations happen more often than we would like to think.
Having said that I do not kow whether the incident reported by Ms Winfrey is related to her skin colour but I strongly suspect there might be a connexion.
Racism exists in each country on this planet. Mainly due to a lack of education and of social context.
So to educate your kids against it is the only way forward. To moan on forums about Oprah and the BBC's interpretation of her comments will certainly not change the face of the world.
Racism exists in each country on this planet. Mainly due to a lack of education and of social context.
So to educate your kids against it is the only way forward. To moan on forums about Oprah and the BBC's interpretation of her comments will certainly not change the face of the world.
Agreed, it's important to educate children, but why not the rest of human society?
And let's not forget that skin colour is but one aspect of racial intolerance. There are many, many other issues, all equally harmful and hurtful.
“Man’s inhumanity to man …”
Agreed, it's important to educate children, but why not the rest of human society?
And let's not forget that skin colour is but one aspect of racial intolerance. There are many, many other issues, all equally harmful and hurtful.
“Man’s inhumanity to man …”
I agree that racism is Evrywhere.
On this occasion, I beleive its more a language and culture barrier, the sales assistant didnt have enough knowledge to understand who she was dealing with.
I agree that racism is Evrywhere.
On this occasion, I beleive its more a language and culture barrier, the sales assistant didnt have enough knowledge to understand who she was dealing with.
Well it doesn't matter who you're dealing with really, every potential customer should be threated the same.
But I bet this whole thing is a publicity stunt by Oprah to make herself popular in Switzerland. She said that she has been shown other bags before asking about that specific one. She probably looked at a few cheaper ones and said something about the price ...
She said on her twitter "Turns out that store clerk did me a favor. Just found out that bag was $38K!!! She was right I was NOT going to buy it."
Well it doesn't matter who you're dealing with really, every potential customer should be threated the same.
But I bet this whole thing is a publicity stunt by Oprah to make herself popular in Switzerland. She said that she has been shown other bags before asking about that specific one. She probably looked at a few cheaper ones and said something about the price ...
She said on her twitter "Turns out that store clerk did me a favor. Just found out that bag was $38K!!! She was right I was NOT going to buy it."
I like how Ellen Wallace puts it:
http://genevalunch.com/2013/08/10/switzerland-and-racism-the-cost-of-misunderstandings/
I like how Ellen Wallace puts it:
http://genevalunch.com/2013/08/10/switzerland-and-racism-the-cost-of-misunderstandings/
Bad Service? Racism? There's obviously no straightforward answer to that question. Nobody was there when it happened and it's a waste of time interpreting if a country, person, shop-assistant is something or not. We don’t know the details that are necessary to come up with a reasonable explanation of the incident.
Expensive fashion shops – Don’t like them? Don’t buy anything there.
Swiss are racist? Do you know every Swiss person? Any research based evidence? Have you been to every country in the world? Who is Swiss anyway?
OW – Do you know her personally? Have you talked to her?
Customer service is bad? What is your definition of bad service? What’s good service for you? What country are you coming from?
Are you angry about something? Complain about it on the Internet.
I personally have many stories concerning bad customer service – from very different countries. IMHO, customer service is largely based on your own expectation when entering a shop for example and your own background/mentality and or the cultural context you are experiencing the service. There are many social skills are person has to master to be able to please customers from all over the world… IMHO the US and the UK have probably the best customer service I have personally experienced, because it simply has worked for me.
Bad Service? Racism? There's obviously no straightforward answer to that question. Nobody was there when it happened and it's a waste of time interpreting if a country, person, shop-assistant is something or not. We don’t know the details that are necessary to come up with a reasonable explanation of the incident.
Expensive fashion shops – Don’t like them? Don’t buy anything there.
Swiss are racist? Do you know every Swiss person? Any research based evidence? Have you been to every country in the world? Who is Swiss anyway?
OW – Do you know her personally? Have you talked to her?
Customer service is bad? What is your definition of bad service? What’s good service for you? What country are you coming from?
Are you angry about something? Complain about it on the Internet.
I personally have many stories concerning bad customer service – from very different countries. IMHO, customer service is largely based on your own expectation when entering a shop for example and your own background/mentality and or the cultural context you are experiencing the service. There are many social skills are person has to master to be able to please customers from all over the world… IMHO the US and the UK have probably the best customer service I have personally experienced, because it simply has worked for me.
The people of the Dinaric Alps are on record as being the tallest in the world, with a male average height of 185.6 cm
That was my... cunterargument...
The people of the Dinaric Alps are on record as being the tallest in the world, with a male average height of 185.6 cm
That was my... cunterargument...
It strikes me that Mme OW must be scraping the barrel for entertaining material on her much-vaunted TV show if all she has to recount about a visit to Zürich for an illustrious friend’s wedding is that she was snubbed in a handbag boutique by a young Italian sales assistant who lives and works in a German-speaking environment while striving to comprehend as part of her job the requirements of a lady speaking American English.
I am a born-and- bred Brit. who frequently has trouble in understanding Americans, especially those from the southern States – just as they often have difficulty in fathoming regional accents and dialect in the UK.
Therefore, may I be so bold as to suggest that the good Mme OW takes a six-month sabbatical to live in in shared accommodation in a working-class district in France, Germany, Italy or wherever while following a course in the local lingo and then get herself a job on the local TV station. What a wealth of stories she’d have to tell on her return home!
I’m also intrigued by the lady’s penchant for large handbags. Any ideas as to why? I’d imagine it must be difficult to get lingots through airport security these days.
On a more serious note, racism is not the prerogative of the light-skinned races. I’ve seen and heard it practised by different shades vis-à-vis all kinds of ethnic origins.
Lastly, could we perhaps spare a thought for the Italian sales assistant, who must be having a pretty miserable weekend after all this media fuss. I hope she hasn’t lost her job or that her future career has been blighted.
Must awa now.
Ritchie
It strikes me that Mme OW must be scraping the barrel for entertaining material on her much-vaunted TV show if all she has to recount about a visit to Zürich for an illustrious friend’s wedding is that she was snubbed in a handbag boutique by a young Italian sales assistant who lives and works in a German-speaking environment while striving to comprehend as part of her job the requirements of a lady speaking American English.
I am a born-and- bred Brit. who frequently has trouble in understanding Americans, especially those from the southern States – just as they often have difficulty in fathoming regional accents and dialect in the UK.
Therefore, may I be so bold as to suggest that the good Mme OW takes a six-month sabbatical to live in in shared accommodation in a working-class district in France, Germany, Italy or wherever while following a course in the local lingo and then get herself a job on the local TV station. What a wealth of stories she’d have to tell on her return home!
I’m also intrigued by the lady’s penchant for large handbags. Any ideas as to why? I’d imagine it must be difficult to get lingots through airport security these days.
On a more serious note, racism is not the prerogative of the light-skinned races. I’ve seen and heard it practised by different shades vis-à-vis all kinds of ethnic origins.
Lastly, could we perhaps spare a thought for the Italian sales assistant, who must be having a pretty miserable weekend after all this media fuss. I hope she hasn’t lost her job or that her future career has been blighted.
Must awa now.
Ritchie
Max - as you started the original post, I thank you for promoting a lot of interesting and unusual ideas. However, I have to tell you that I reported your last post to "admin" because I find it highly offensive.
There is seldom an opportunity where the "c" word is relevant and it is highly offensive to most people (women or other).
Are the Swiss Xenephobic? - maybe they are, but you and I are living in their country and therefore you and I should play by their rules - otherwise leave!
Tina Turner got it right - Queen Oprah didn't and she didn't like the consequences. So, Oprah, sweetie, leave, but let's leave crude language out of our glocals posts. Please.
Max - as you started the original post, I thank you for promoting a lot of interesting and unusual ideas. However, I have to tell you that I reported your last post to "admin" because I find it highly offensive.
There is seldom an opportunity where the "c" word is relevant and it is highly offensive to most people (women or other).
Are the Swiss Xenephobic? - maybe they are, but you and I are living in their country and therefore you and I should play by their rules - otherwise leave!
Tina Turner got it right - Queen Oprah didn't and she didn't like the consequences. So, Oprah, sweetie, leave, but let's leave crude language out of our glocals posts. Please.
One question to you, the guy with a locked profile and and small picture, who started this thread with a very racist and narrow minded question and end it the rudest possible way: as you seem so unhappy with our xenophobic environment and with our appalling service, what the hell are you (still) doing here?
Just sit down, take it slowly
You're still young, that's your fault,
there's so much you have to go through
Find a girl, settle down,
if you want you can marry...
or leave, but please, please, please, stop whining.
One question to you, the guy with a locked profile and and small picture, who started this thread with a very racist and narrow minded question and end it the rudest possible way: as you seem so unhappy with our xenophobic environment and with our appalling service, what the hell are you (still) doing here?
Just sit down, take it slowly
You're still young, that's your fault,
there's so much you have to go through
Find a girl, settle down,
if you want you can marry...
or leave, but please, please, please, stop whining.
Yes Max B. Your posting was offensive. Surprised the Mods did not delete it.
In any case, there are a number of us here who feel you should apologise
Yes Max B. Your posting was offensive. Surprised the Mods did not delete it.
In any case, there are a number of us here who feel you should apologise
All: we removed Max's post where he used insulting language.
Max: we'll have to block your account if you use similar language again.
Nir, glocals admin
All: we removed Max's post where he used insulting language.
Max: we'll have to block your account if you use similar language again.
Nir, glocals admin
...and we killed Chris M's reply to Max, for the same reasons, with the same warning.
...and we killed Chris M's reply to Max, for the same reasons, with the same warning.
I didn't read all the replies, but let me give my feeling as a Swiss national, and nothing that could indicate I'm not, except my family name which is Spanish. I am only writing down "reality vs feeling" and most down here doesn't represent my personal opinions, but my observations.
The situation is that politics, mostly extreme-right wing, are rising public discontent or even frustration against foreigners. "Point at the french for their poor service. Point at the roms (oftenly mixed up with romanians) for your burglared home. Point at the spanish/italian with their economical crisis all coming here to get your jobs. Point at Schengen for all the sh*** coming in. Point Merkel and USA for putting pressure on our banks and making so many people lose their jobs..."
The real problem is politics are doing not much REAL to resolve our few issues. It's true we have better living conditions than elsewhere, it's true we have an ok income, but the real problem is prices.
You want to find an appartment in Geneva ? You'll have the feeling that except if you work for a big multinational or are an expatriate receiving help from his company, or a UNO official, you'll have almost no chance to find one in less than 6 months and for less that 2000CHF. It's not just a feeling, it's a reality for many Swiss nationals. What's wrong is who people are made believe responsible of the situation.
People think that if the government weren't happy with the situation, they'd do something about it. That's the sensitive spot where extreme-right strikes. They give the promises people want to hear, but don't understand the underlying mechanisms and results of. They don't hold more promises than other parties, but they know how to communicate and use that frustration.
This has given Switzerland a very bad foreign affairs image. People are angry because they get their money sucked out by health insurance and lodging fees, and general living expenses. Even with a 4000CHF monthly income, it can be hard to live comfortably.
The insurance fees have risen every year and keep on rising. Housing prices too. So who are they going to point on ? "All those immigrants or expatriates, filling your homes or keeping them without even living in them." not, "the construction lobbies and incoherent laws holding construction back" and "the salary-dumping swiss employers."
Officially, it's said we have little problems finding jobs here. This is arguable, but I find it really very hard. It's maybe because summer is the worst period, but I've barely found anything else than temporary assignments in 6 months. Other people I know also find it depressing.
We don't even seem allowed to be frustrated, because the rest of Europe is feeling even worse. So some think "Why should I care about the countries around me ? I'm in the same situation as them, but I can't tell it out loud, or they would get angry and hate me for being a sad and poor Swiss..." And that's source of even more frustration.
What does the extreme-right wing say ? "It's those french-border people taking your job. It's that spanish guy with a better diploma than yours and more languages that got it."
Reality is, many Swiss companies set quotas of Swiss vs immigrants in their companies, and that's why swiss-german is asked for so much.
It's a fact Switzerland is becoming racist, but wait a moment: who's living in Switzerland ? Is this not a democracy where everyone is supposed to be listened to ? Who is voting ? Who creates the laws ? Who is able to change things ?
The citizens. But why isn't anybody moving ? Why is everyone so frustrated and angry, but just doing nothing about it ? Promises...
And ask the sheep...
I didn't read all the replies, but let me give my feeling as a Swiss national, and nothing that could indicate I'm not, except my family name which is Spanish. I am only writing down "reality vs feeling" and most down here doesn't represent my personal opinions, but my observations.
The situation is that politics, mostly extreme-right wing, are rising public discontent or even frustration against foreigners. "Point at the french for their poor service. Point at the roms (oftenly mixed up with romanians) for your burglared home. Point at the spanish/italian with their economical crisis all coming here to get your jobs. Point at Schengen for all the sh*** coming in. Point Merkel and USA for putting pressure on our banks and making so many people lose their jobs..."
The real problem is politics are doing not much REAL to resolve our few issues. It's true we have better living conditions than elsewhere, it's true we have an ok income, but the real problem is prices.
You want to find an appartment in Geneva ? You'll have the feeling that except if you work for a big multinational or are an expatriate receiving help from his company, or a UNO official, you'll have almost no chance to find one in less than 6 months and for less that 2000CHF. It's not just a feeling, it's a reality for many Swiss nationals. What's wrong is who people are made believe responsible of the situation.
People think that if the government weren't happy with the situation, they'd do something about it. That's the sensitive spot where extreme-right strikes. They give the promises people want to hear, but don't understand the underlying mechanisms and results of. They don't hold more promises than other parties, but they know how to communicate and use that frustration.
This has given Switzerland a very bad foreign affairs image. People are angry because they get their money sucked out by health insurance and lodging fees, and general living expenses. Even with a 4000CHF monthly income, it can be hard to live comfortably.
The insurance fees have risen every year and keep on rising. Housing prices too. So who are they going to point on ? "All those immigrants or expatriates, filling your homes or keeping them without even living in them." not, "the construction lobbies and incoherent laws holding construction back" and "the salary-dumping swiss employers."
Officially, it's said we have little problems finding jobs here. This is arguable, but I find it really very hard. It's maybe because summer is the worst period, but I've barely found anything else than temporary assignments in 6 months. Other people I know also find it depressing.
We don't even seem allowed to be frustrated, because the rest of Europe is feeling even worse. So some think "Why should I care about the countries around me ? I'm in the same situation as them, but I can't tell it out loud, or they would get angry and hate me for being a sad and poor Swiss..." And that's source of even more frustration.
What does the extreme-right wing say ? "It's those french-border people taking your job. It's that spanish guy with a better diploma than yours and more languages that got it."
Reality is, many Swiss companies set quotas of Swiss vs immigrants in their companies, and that's why swiss-german is asked for so much.
It's a fact Switzerland is becoming racist, but wait a moment: who's living in Switzerland ? Is this not a democracy where everyone is supposed to be listened to ? Who is voting ? Who creates the laws ? Who is able to change things ?
The citizens. But why isn't anybody moving ? Why is everyone so frustrated and angry, but just doing nothing about it ? Promises...
And ask the sheep...
to Anura: not on this topic really, but can you explain me your statement :
I've always enjoyed flying with Swiss because I find them so polite. I'm not sure, but maybe the check-in staff are Swissport not Swiss.
What has this to do for who you are working with? i don't think i have an other thinking at Swissport after working for Swissair/Swiss for 11years ???
to Anura: not on this topic really, but can you explain me your statement :
I've always enjoyed flying with Swiss because I find them so polite. I'm not sure, but maybe the check-in staff are Swissport not Swiss.
What has this to do for who you are working with? i don't think i have an other thinking at Swissport after working for Swissair/Swiss for 11years ???
to Anura: not on this topic really, but can you explain me your statement :
I've always enjoyed flying with Swiss because I find them so polite. I'm not sure, but maybe the check-in staff are Swissport not Swiss.
What has this to do for who you are working with? i don't think i have an other thinking at Swissport after working for Swissair/Swiss for 11years ???
Sorry, this might have appeared a little bit out of context but one poster had mentioned a poor experience at check-in at Geneva. I was just trying to point out that any failure in service might be due to Swissport instead of Swiss ie. if they want someone to blame, make sure they are blaming the right company.
Seriously, no offence was intended to Swissport. Frankly, as an Australian travelling through Swiss airports I feel better treated than as an Australian travelling through Australian airports!
Sorry, this might have appeared a little bit out of context but one poster had mentioned a poor experience at check-in at Geneva. I was just trying to point out that any failure in service might be due to Swissport instead of Swiss ie. if they want someone to blame, make sure they are blaming the right company.
Seriously, no offence was intended to Swissport. Frankly, as an Australian travelling through Swiss airports I feel better treated than as an Australian travelling through Australian airports!
Absolute last contribution from me..... copied just now from The Local :
Updated: 12 Aug 2013 10:55 GMT+02:00
After initially gaining sympathy for her alleged snub in a Zurich luxury boutique, billionaire chat show queen Oprah Winfrey is now being blasted by Swiss animal rights groups over her interest in a crocodile leather handbag.
Winfrey suggested she was the victim of racism when a saleswoman refused to show her the bag, priced at 35,000 Swiss francs, while she was visiting the Swiss city for Tina Turner’s wedding last month.
The American celebrity, whose fortune is estimated at $2.8 billion by Forbes magazine, expressed interest in a crocodile bag at the Trois Pommes shop but she said the assistant, who did not recognize her, indicated the bag would be too expensive for her.
The Swiss animal rights group Four Paws (Vier Pfoten) was critical of the fact that Winfrey would want to buy a crocodile bag and called on Trois Pommes to withdraw the item from sale.
“We do not know if Ms. Winfrey actually wanted to buy the bag,” Chantal Häberling, spokeswoman for the group, told the 20 Minuten newspaper.
But she should know that crocodiles suffer for the production of such bags, Häberling said.
“The animals are kept in extremely small enclosures,” she said.
To kill them the animals are beaten with a hammer on the head in some farms and “it sometimes takes two hours before they are dead.”
Animal rights activists are especially curious to know why Winfrey would want to see a crocodile bag given her avowed support for animal rights.
PETA, the world’s largest animal rights group, named Winfrey “person of the year” in 2008 after she spoke out against the wearing of fur.
But the organization has also campaigned against the “heartless millions” made in the fashion industry from the use of exotic animal skins.
Meanwhile, the saleswoman from Trois Pommes who dealt with Winfrey, has denied that she showed racism or that she told the star that she could not afford the 35,000-franc bag.
“This is something I would never say to a customer,” she told the SonntagsBlick newspaper.
“Good manners are the alphas and omega of this business.”
The employee said she was only trying the show Winfrey other bags in the same style.
The saleswoman, who has been backed by the head of Trois Pommes luxury chain, Trudie Goetz, said she has not been able to sleep since the controversy blew up late last week.
“I feel like I’m in the middle of a hurricane.”
Goetz has described the incident as a “misunderstanding” but Switzerland Tourism, concerned about the country getting a black eye for racism, issued an apology to Winfrey on Twitter, adding that “this person acted terribly wrong”.
American website Politico reported over the weekend that Winfrey got worldwide attention when she commented on the alleged discrimination she received in Zurich during a TV interview about her new political movie, The Butler.
In addition to promoting her movie, Winfrey is ramping up her political involvement, including hosting a fundraiser for a Democratic Party candidate for the New Jersey Senate contest, the website noted.
Absolute last contribution from me..... copied just now from The Local :
Updated: 12 Aug 2013 10:55 GMT+02:00
After initially gaining sympathy for her alleged snub in a Zurich luxury boutique, billionaire chat show queen Oprah Winfrey is now being blasted by Swiss animal rights groups over her interest in a crocodile leather handbag.
Winfrey suggested she was the victim of racism when a saleswoman refused to show her the bag, priced at 35,000 Swiss francs, while she was visiting the Swiss city for Tina Turner’s wedding last month.
The American celebrity, whose fortune is estimated at $2.8 billion by Forbes magazine, expressed interest in a crocodile bag at the Trois Pommes shop but she said the assistant, who did not recognize her, indicated the bag would be too expensive for her.
The Swiss animal rights group Four Paws (Vier Pfoten) was critical of the fact that Winfrey would want to buy a crocodile bag and called on Trois Pommes to withdraw the item from sale.
“We do not know if Ms. Winfrey actually wanted to buy the bag,” Chantal Häberling, spokeswoman for the group, told the 20 Minuten newspaper.
But she should know that crocodiles suffer for the production of such bags, Häberling said.
“The animals are kept in extremely small enclosures,” she said.
To kill them the animals are beaten with a hammer on the head in some farms and “it sometimes takes two hours before they are dead.”
Animal rights activists are especially curious to know why Winfrey would want to see a crocodile bag given her avowed support for animal rights.
PETA, the world’s largest animal rights group, named Winfrey “person of the year” in 2008 after she spoke out against the wearing of fur.
But the organization has also campaigned against the “heartless millions” made in the fashion industry from the use of exotic animal skins.
Meanwhile, the saleswoman from Trois Pommes who dealt with Winfrey, has denied that she showed racism or that she told the star that she could not afford the 35,000-franc bag.
“This is something I would never say to a customer,” she told the SonntagsBlick newspaper.
“Good manners are the alphas and omega of this business.”
The employee said she was only trying the show Winfrey other bags in the same style.
The saleswoman, who has been backed by the head of Trois Pommes luxury chain, Trudie Goetz, said she has not been able to sleep since the controversy blew up late last week.
“I feel like I’m in the middle of a hurricane.”
Goetz has described the incident as a “misunderstanding” but Switzerland Tourism, concerned about the country getting a black eye for racism, issued an apology to Winfrey on Twitter, adding that “this person acted terribly wrong”.
American website Politico reported over the weekend that Winfrey got worldwide attention when she commented on the alleged discrimination she received in Zurich during a TV interview about her new political movie, The Butler.
In addition to promoting her movie, Winfrey is ramping up her political involvement, including hosting a fundraiser for a Democratic Party candidate for the New Jersey Senate contest, the website noted.
Trois Pommes
Four Paws
One Hypocrite
Please. Someone make this woman Go Away!
Trois Pommes
Four Paws
One Hypocrite
Please. Someone make this woman Go Away!
Oprah is just looking for publicity. that was just bad customer care not racism. she assumes everyone knows her. You will be amazed how many of my swiss friends have heard of her for the first time because of this article.
Oprah is just looking for publicity. that was just bad customer care not racism. she assumes everyone knows her. You will be amazed how many of my swiss friends have heard of her for the first time because of this article.
Carolyn C,
You seem to be making comments out of absolute hatered for Oprah not even with regard to the incident. What did the woman ever do to you? If she wanted to buy the whole shop, she's allowed to.
With all the donations she makes to charities, she entitled to treat herself to whatever she wants. Not just for Oprah but for anyone else. We all feel like we want something good after working hard and I don't think there's anyone of us here that would say no to a crocodile bag 
So let the woman be and put yourself in the situation instead of giving hate. Two wrongs don't make a right.
Carolyn C,
You seem to be making comments out of absolute hatered for Oprah not even with regard to the incident. What did the woman ever do to you? If she wanted to buy the whole shop, she's allowed to.
With all the donations she makes to charities, she entitled to treat herself to whatever she wants. Not just for Oprah but for anyone else. We all feel like we want something good after working hard and I don't think there's anyone of us here that would say no to a crocodile bag 
So let the woman be and put yourself in the situation instead of giving hate. Two wrongs don't make a right.
Carolyn C,
You seem to be making comments out of absolute hatered for Oprah not even with regard to the incident. What did the woman ever do to you? If she wanted to buy the whole shop, she's allowed to.
With all the donations she makes to charities, she entitled to treat herself to whatever she wants. Not just for Oprah but for anyone else. We all feel like we want something good after working hard and I don't think there's anyone of us here that would say no to a crocodile bag 
So let the woman be and put yourself in the situation instead of giving hate. Two wrongs don't make a right.
"absolute hatred" "giving hate" ?!?!?!
Apart from putting words in my mouth, I worry that you can't distinguish between "absolute hatred" of a person that I don't know from a bar of soap, or care one whit about, and "sheer boredom" with a publicity-craving, hypocritical, celebrity.
And I certainly would say "no" to a crocodile handbag.
So when Oprah's handing them out in the name of charideeee - you can have mine - for free.
"absolute hatred" "giving hate" ?!?!?!
Apart from putting words in my mouth, I worry that you can't distinguish between "absolute hatred" of a person that I don't know from a bar of soap, or care one whit about, and "sheer boredom" with a publicity-craving, hypocritical, celebrity.
And I certainly would say "no" to a crocodile handbag.
So when Oprah's handing them out in the name of charideeee - you can have mine - for free.
Blacks age better, that would be a reason for whites to feel jealous.
Oprah looks good for 60, it ain't only her money, its her African genes too 
Blacks age better, that would be a reason for whites to feel jealous.
Oprah looks good for 60, it ain't only her money, its her African genes too 
And the nip 'n tuck doctor
If I bumped into Oprah or Tina or any of most "celebraties"in the street I wouldn't know them from the next person... its not racist.. just don't give a flying f*** frankly... I dont follow the celeb gossip, and couldnt care less.
I wouldnt abuse her racially, at all, or any one else... just I would treat her like everyone else and for a attention seeking "celeb" this may wash the wrong way...
Hope she doesn't end up as the "celeb" who shouted wolf too many times... its beginning to sound a little like it.
If I bumped into Oprah or Tina or any of most "celebraties"in the street I wouldn't know them from the next person... its not racist.. just don't give a flying f*** frankly... I dont follow the celeb gossip, and couldnt care less.
I wouldnt abuse her racially, at all, or any one else... just I would treat her like everyone else and for a attention seeking "celeb" this may wash the wrong way...
Hope she doesn't end up as the "celeb" who shouted wolf too many times... its beginning to sound a little like it.
Absolute last contribution from me..... copied just now from The Local :
National Oprah Winfrey controversy continues. Photo: AFP Rights group blasts Oprah over crocodile bag
Updated: 12 Aug 2013 10:55 GMT+02:00
After initially gaining sympathy for her alleged snub in a Zurich luxury boutique, billionaire chat show queen Oprah Winfrey is now being blasted by Swiss animal rights groups over her interest in a crocodile leather handbag.
Winfrey suggested she was the victim of racism when a saleswoman refused to show her the bag, priced at 35,000 Swiss francs, while she was visiting the Swiss city for Tina Turner’s wedding last month.
The American celebrity, whose fortune is estimated at $2.8 billion by Forbes magazine, expressed interest in a crocodile bag at the Trois Pommes shop but she said the assistant, who did not recognize her, indicated the bag would be too expensive for her.
The Swiss animal rights group Four Paws (Vier Pfoten) was critical of the fact that Winfrey would want to buy a crocodile bag and called on Trois Pommes to withdraw the item from sale.
“We do not know if Ms. Winfrey actually wanted to buy the bag,” Chantal Häberling, spokeswoman for the group, told the 20 Minuten newspaper.
But she should know that crocodiles suffer for the production of such bags, Häberling said.
“The animals are kept in extremely small enclosures,” she said.
To kill them the animals are beaten with a hammer on the head in some farms and “it sometimes takes two hours before they are dead.”
Animal rights activists are especially curious to know why Winfrey would want to see a crocodile bag given her avowed support for animal rights.
PETA, the world’s largest animal rights group, named Winfrey “person of the year” in 2008 after she spoke out against the wearing of fur.
But the organization has also campaigned against the “heartless millions” made in the fashion industry from the use of exotic animal skins.
Meanwhile, the saleswoman from Trois Pommes who dealt with Winfrey, has denied that she showed racism or that she told the star that she could not afford the 35,000-franc bag.
“This is something I would never say to a customer,” she told the SonntagsBlick newspaper.
“Good manners are the alphas and omega of this business.”
The employee said she was only trying the show Winfrey other bags in the same style.
The saleswoman, who has been backed by the head of Trois Pommes luxury chain, Trudie Goetz, said she has not been able to sleep since the controversy blew up late last week.
“I feel like I’m in the middle of a hurricane.”
Goetz has described the incident as a “misunderstanding” but Switzerland Tourism, concerned about the country getting a black eye for racism, issued an apology to Winfrey on Twitter, adding that “this person acted terribly wrong”.
American website Politico reported over the weekend that Winfrey got worldwide attention when she commented on the alleged discrimination she received in Zurich during a TV interview about her new political movie, The Butler.
In addition to promoting her movie, Winfrey is ramping up her political involvement, including hosting a fundraiser for a Democratic Party candidate for the New Jersey Senate contest, the website noted.
"Switzerland Tourism, concerned about the country getting a black eye for racism, issued an apology to Winfrey on Twitter"
Should they change that to 'African-American eye' otherwise Oprah might kick off again.
"Switzerland Tourism, concerned about the country getting a black eye for racism, issued an apology to Winfrey on Twitter"
Should they change that to 'African-American eye' otherwise Oprah might kick off again.
I think it's obscene that anyone especially Oprah who reportedly does lots for charities would want to publicise this. I mean, who in their right mind would spend £24,000 on a bag. I hope it's big enough to put over her head!!!
what is wrong with being exceptionally successful and wanting to spend some of her self-made (as opposed to inherited) wealth on a bag? so she spends millions in charity--that doesn't mean she can't keep and spend some of her wealth on herself.
what is wrong with being exceptionally successful and wanting to spend some of her self-made (as opposed to inherited) wealth on a bag? so she spends millions in charity--that doesn't mean she can't keep and spend some of her wealth on herself.
Carolyn C,
You seem to be making comments out of absolute hatered for Oprah not even with regard to the incident. What did the woman ever do to you? If she wanted to buy the whole shop, she's allowed to.
With all the donations she makes to charities, she entitled to treat herself to whatever she wants. Not just for Oprah but for anyone else. We all feel like we want something good after working hard and I don't think there's anyone of us here that would say no to a crocodile bag 
So let the woman be and put yourself in the situation instead of giving hate. Two wrongs don't make a right.
I agree with Gladys. How does trying to buy a handbag at a Swiss store make Oprah a hypocrite?
And why make comments like "someone make this woman go away!"
If I had to choose between letting Oprah and Carolyn stay in Switzerland, I'd choose Oprah in a heartbeat.
I agree with Gladys. How does trying to buy a handbag at a Swiss store make Oprah a hypocrite?
And why make comments like "someone make this woman go away!"
If I had to choose between letting Oprah and Carolyn stay in Switzerland, I'd choose Oprah in a heartbeat.
And, dear Jason/Gladys, if I had to choose between replying to stupid people's posts and doing something more interesting.........
Yes, there's nothing wrong with being successful. Yes, she's allowed to make as much money as she likes. Yes, she can give as much to charity and keep as much for herself.
The problem comes when:
a) you pull the race card whenever you go shopping, as Charlie mentioned, she may well become known as the "celeb who cried wolf once too often" and as a friend said to me only this morning "Friggin Oprah, always pulling the race card, just ruins it for the rest of us...."
b) you then turn it all into a publicity stunt on the back of your film being released on 16th August
c) and if you're a staunch campaigner for animal rights, you shouldn't even be looking at buying crocodile-skin handbags.
I didn't really think it was all that complicated.
Back to more interesting things.....like polishing up my C permit...
And, dear Jason/Gladys, if I had to choose between replying to stupid people's posts and doing something more interesting.........
Yes, there's nothing wrong with being successful. Yes, she's allowed to make as much money as she likes. Yes, she can give as much to charity and keep as much for herself.
The problem comes when:
a) you pull the race card whenever you go shopping, as Charlie mentioned, she may well become known as the "celeb who cried wolf once too often" and as a friend said to me only this morning "Friggin Oprah, always pulling the race card, just ruins it for the rest of us...."
b) you then turn it all into a publicity stunt on the back of your film being released on 16th August
c) and if you're a staunch campaigner for animal rights, you shouldn't even be looking at buying crocodile-skin handbags.
I didn't really think it was all that complicated.
Back to more interesting things.....like polishing up my C permit...
Wow Carolyn, sorry but I didn't expect you to start calling people stupid or bored which is very rude but, nevermind...No one put words in your mouth. You made it very clear with these posts:
"Oprah Winfrey - loud, obnoxious American, with major bad-attitude-chip-on-shoulder, visiting Zurich, who points her fingers at you when she speaks and probably sprouted a few "Do you know who I AM?". Happens to be black and famous."
And the blow:
"Someone make this woman Go Away!"
It doesn't take a rocket scientist to tell that you despise her.
Plus, we are all speculating on this topic. None of us was there to know what really went down. But one thing is clear: Oprah felt judged on her buying ability and the Sales girl felt misunderstood. The sales girl should have just shown her all the damn bags and not made any comments.
On the other hand, when celebrities voice their encounters, due to the platforms they use, its always seen as a publicity stunt no matter how genuine they could be. It could have been Kate Middleton or Donald Trump. Doesn't matter.
Plus what's the big deal, she just wanted to see the bag. She didn't even know the price as she learnt of the price days after the incident.
We have these tendancies to assume that celebrities should not complain, they have the money and power to fix situations but no, they are emotional too. Had it been one of us here that encountered this
, we probably would all be cursing the sales assistant and apologizing to the victim.
And since you mention this topic is not interesting, why are you posting?
Wow Carolyn, sorry but I didn't expect you to start calling people stupid or bored which is very rude but, nevermind...No one put words in your mouth. You made it very clear with these posts:
"Oprah Winfrey - loud, obnoxious American, with major bad-attitude-chip-on-shoulder, visiting Zurich, who points her fingers at you when she speaks and probably sprouted a few "Do you know who I AM?". Happens to be black and famous."
And the blow:
"Someone make this woman Go Away!"
It doesn't take a rocket scientist to tell that you despise her.
Plus, we are all speculating on this topic. None of us was there to know what really went down. But one thing is clear: Oprah felt judged on her buying ability and the Sales girl felt misunderstood. The sales girl should have just shown her all the damn bags and not made any comments.
On the other hand, when celebrities voice their encounters, due to the platforms they use, its always seen as a publicity stunt no matter how genuine they could be. It could have been Kate Middleton or Donald Trump. Doesn't matter.
Plus what's the big deal, she just wanted to see the bag. She didn't even know the price as she learnt of the price days after the incident.
We have these tendancies to assume that celebrities should not complain, they have the money and power to fix situations but no, they are emotional too. Had it been one of us here that encountered this
, we probably would all be cursing the sales assistant and apologizing to the victim.
And since you mention this topic is not interesting, why are you posting?
I agree with Gladys. How does trying to buy a handbag at a Swiss store make Oprah a hypocrite?
And why make comments like "someone make this woman go away!"
If I had to choose between letting Oprah and Carolyn stay in Switzerland, I'd choose Oprah in a heartbeat.
from what I have read she is a big supporter of PETA - so it does seem hypocritical to attempt to buy a crocodile skin bag made from crocodiles that were allegedly severely mistreated in this case.
from what I have read she is a big supporter of PETA - so it does seem hypocritical to attempt to buy a crocodile skin bag made from crocodiles that were allegedly severely mistreated in this case.
anyway ...
anyway ...
Far more eloquently put than most of the above posts - and just the point I was trying to make.....
Now the shop assistant has spoken out (as opposed to the owner) and called Oprah a liar, making the very good point that if she was THAT offended, why didn't she mention it to the store owner, the very next day, when they attended TT's wedding "together"?
I stand by my three points made above. Abuse of the race-card, publicity stunt and hyopcrite.
Summer "news" stories.....
Far more eloquently put than most of the above posts - and just the point I was trying to make.....
Now the shop assistant has spoken out (as opposed to the owner) and called Oprah a liar, making the very good point that if she was THAT offended, why didn't she mention it to the store owner, the very next day, when they attended TT's wedding "together"?
I stand by my three points made above. Abuse of the race-card, publicity stunt and hyopcrite.
Summer "news" stories.....
Chuck Norris get a brilliant customer service in Geneva and he found a parking place in less than two minutes. For free :)
Message approved by Chuck.
Chuck Norris get a brilliant customer service in Geneva and he found a parking place in less than two minutes. For free :)
Message approved by Chuck.
Hi Guys,
Being of non-swiss origin, I fight together with those who fight against racism. But, for this paticular case. Let's imagine she was someone else, totally unknow person, would you still hear such a noise around this "incident"?
This woman is a real strong business person, who knows how to market herself in a sustained way. Now there are even more people in EU know her name and picture thanks to her complaint... That's how she will be able to buy another bag that will worth 83K in the future. - she is so proud of being able to buy a bag (animal skin) costing more than 30K...
I just can't understand her paradoxical behaviour regarding animal defense. She does not think it is a shame to buy the skin of the animal she defended a few years ago (did she defense animal for the good cause of for her own good social image?)
So guys, do some real things that will help improve this social situation (e.g. education of children, etc) in stead of doing advertisement for her to have more future audience and business. There are way a lot more ordinary people who need real help... Come on, let's talk about those people who can't have a good jon because of skin color, etc etc, but not not about this woman who complains about the shop assistant who did not kneel down before her because she is so rich.
I can't rule out this was a racist case. But I might also be due to bad service. I shopped in NewYork and Washington some weeks ago. Indeed, the service in the US is much better than that in CH. The shop assistant could have the same attitude towards anyone who came into the store at that moment...
Hi Guys,
Being of non-swiss origin, I fight together with those who fight against racism. But, for this paticular case. Let's imagine she was someone else, totally unknow person, would you still hear such a noise around this "incident"?
This woman is a real strong business person, who knows how to market herself in a sustained way. Now there are even more people in EU know her name and picture thanks to her complaint... That's how she will be able to buy another bag that will worth 83K in the future. - she is so proud of being able to buy a bag (animal skin) costing more than 30K...
I just can't understand her paradoxical behaviour regarding animal defense. She does not think it is a shame to buy the skin of the animal she defended a few years ago (did she defense animal for the good cause of for her own good social image?)
So guys, do some real things that will help improve this social situation (e.g. education of children, etc) in stead of doing advertisement for her to have more future audience and business. There are way a lot more ordinary people who need real help... Come on, let's talk about those people who can't have a good jon because of skin color, etc etc, but not not about this woman who complains about the shop assistant who did not kneel down before her because she is so rich.
I can't rule out this was a racist case. But I might also be due to bad service. I shopped in NewYork and Washington some weeks ago. Indeed, the service in the US is much better than that in CH. The shop assistant could have the same attitude towards anyone who came into the store at that moment...
Hi Guys,
Being of non-swiss origin, I fight together with those who fight against racism. But, for this paticular case. Let's imagine she was someone else, totally unknow person, would you still hear such a noise around this "incident"?
This woman is a real strong business person, who knows how to market herself in a sustained way. Now there are even more people in EU know her name and picture thanks to her complaint... That's how she will be able to buy another bag that will worth 83K in the future. - she is so proud of being able to buy a bag (animal skin) costing more than 30K...
I just can't understand her paradoxical behaviour regarding animal defense. She does not think it is a shame to buy the skin of the animal she defended a few years ago (did she defense animal for the good cause of for her own good social image?)
So guys, do some real things that will help improve this social situation (e.g. education of children, etc) in stead of doing advertisement for her to have more future audience and business. There are way a lot more ordinary people who need real help... Come on, let's talk about those people who can't have a good jon because of skin color, etc etc, but not not about this woman who complains about the shop assistant who did not kneel down before her because she is so rich.
I can't rule out this was a racist case. But it might also be due to bad service. I shopped in NewYork and Washington some weeks ago. Indeed, the service in the US is much better than that in CH. The shop assistant could have the same attitude towards anyone who came into the store at that moment...
Hi Guys,
Being of non-swiss origin, I fight together with those who fight against racism. But, for this paticular case. Let's imagine she was someone else, totally unknow person, would you still hear such a noise around this "incident"?
This woman is a real strong business person, who knows how to market herself in a sustained way. Now there are even more people in EU know her name and picture thanks to her complaint... That's how she will be able to buy another bag that will worth 83K in the future. - she is so proud of being able to buy a bag (animal skin) costing more than 30K...
I just can't understand her paradoxical behaviour regarding animal defense. She does not think it is a shame to buy the skin of the animal she defended a few years ago (did she defense animal for the good cause of for her own good social image?)
So guys, do some real things that will help improve this social situation (e.g. education of children, etc) in stead of doing advertisement for her to have more future audience and business. There are way a lot more ordinary people who need real help... Come on, let's talk about those people who can't have a good jon because of skin color, etc etc, but not not about this woman who complains about the shop assistant who did not kneel down before her because she is so rich.
I can't rule out this was a racist case. But it might also be due to bad service. I shopped in NewYork and Washington some weeks ago. Indeed, the service in the US is much better than that in CH. The shop assistant could have the same attitude towards anyone who came into the store at that moment...
sorry, somehow posted 2 times
Far more eloquently put than most of the above posts - and just the point I was trying to make.....
Now the shop assistant has spoken out (as opposed to the owner) and called Oprah a liar, making the very good point that if she was THAT offended, why didn't she mention it to the store owner, the very next day, when they attended TT's wedding "together"?
I stand by my three points made above. Abuse of the race-card, publicity stunt and hyopcrite.
Summer "news" stories.....
Such stories used to be known as fillers for the “dog days” so, true to the time-honoured tradition, Oprah trots out a woeful tale of visiting Zurich for a friend’s wedding and all she got was an unforgiveable snub in a over-priced boutique.
Wouldn’t it have been more charitable to let that sleeping pooch lie? But no, a girl’s gotta ensure the ratings continue to rise and spread so that on her next expedition to the European wild she will be instantly recognized and her custom treated with the respect it deserves.
Fingers crossed, dear Oprah, that you’ll understand as well as being understood.
Ritchie
Such stories used to be known as fillers for the “dog days” so, true to the time-honoured tradition, Oprah trots out a woeful tale of visiting Zurich for a friend’s wedding and all she got was an unforgiveable snub in a over-priced boutique.
Wouldn’t it have been more charitable to let that sleeping pooch lie? But no, a girl’s gotta ensure the ratings continue to rise and spread so that on her next expedition to the European wild she will be instantly recognized and her custom treated with the respect it deserves.
Fingers crossed, dear Oprah, that you’ll understand as well as being understood.
Ritchie
Ive been in Swizerland for 8 months and i have always been treated with respect and even more I would say than in the USA where I lived for over 13 years and every once in a while I would have a negative remarks or treatment related to my race!
Ive been in Swizerland for 8 months and i have always been treated with respect and even more I would say than in the USA where I lived for over 13 years and every once in a while I would have a negative remarks or treatment related to my race!
sorry, somehow posted 2 times
Don't worry - it was worth posting twice 
Wow Carolyn, sorry but I didn't expect you to start calling people stupid or bored which is very rude but, nevermind...No one put words in your mouth. You made it very clear with these posts:
"Oprah Winfrey - loud, obnoxious American, with major bad-attitude-chip-on-shoulder, visiting Zurich, who points her fingers at you when she speaks and probably sprouted a few "Do you know who I AM?". Happens to be black and famous."
And the blow:
"Someone make this woman Go Away!"
It doesn't take a rocket scientist to tell that you despise her.
Plus, we are all speculating on this topic. None of us was there to know what really went down. But one thing is clear: Oprah felt judged on her buying ability and the Sales girl felt misunderstood. The sales girl should have just shown her all the damn bags and not made any comments.
On the other hand, when celebrities voice their encounters, due to the platforms they use, its always seen as a publicity stunt no matter how genuine they could be. It could have been Kate Middleton or Donald Trump. Doesn't matter.
Plus what's the big deal, she just wanted to see the bag. She didn't even know the price as she learnt of the price days after the incident.
We have these tendancies to assume that celebrities should not complain, they have the money and power to fix situations but no, they are emotional too. Had it been one of us here that encountered this
, we probably would all be cursing the sales assistant and apologizing to the victim.
And since you mention this topic is not interesting, why are you posting?
Gladys (and Jason, of course) please accept my profuse apologies if my "stupid persons posts" offended you. It is easy to forget that the British sense of humour does not translate across all nationalities.
It's actually a reference to an "Absolutely Fabulous", well known sketch in one of the funniest sit-coms ever produced by the BBC.
Like "just make it/her/him/Go Away" is also a commonly used expression for indicating that celebrities are over-exposing themselves and we would really like them to "just go away" (as in disappear) for a while from our screens, social networks and newspapers. Often used in reference to the Kardashians, for example.
So I will take your comments on board and in future, use the more polite and "PC" "apparently ill-informed" when I realise that the poster has (apparently) done little or no research into the topic being debated on this forum, and apologise once again if my previous remarks offended.
On a more humorous (British Humour) note, maybe I should apply for a job in Trois Pommes, as several earlier posters accused me of "lowering myself to the level of the shop assistant" (ooooh, how derogatory - but apparently not so) by NOT defending Oprah.
One final note - it's not the "topic" that's not interesting, I find it all very fascinating - it's Oprah Winfrey-money-making-machine, that makes me want to stifle a huge YAWWNNNNN.
Gladys (and Jason, of course) please accept my profuse apologies if my "stupid persons posts" offended you. It is easy to forget that the British sense of humour does not translate across all nationalities.
It's actually a reference to an "Absolutely Fabulous", well known sketch in one of the funniest sit-coms ever produced by the BBC.
Like "just make it/her/him/Go Away" is also a commonly used expression for indicating that celebrities are over-exposing themselves and we would really like them to "just go away" (as in disappear) for a while from our screens, social networks and newspapers. Often used in reference to the Kardashians, for example.
So I will take your comments on board and in future, use the more polite and "PC" "apparently ill-informed" when I realise that the poster has (apparently) done little or no research into the topic being debated on this forum, and apologise once again if my previous remarks offended.
On a more humorous (British Humour) note, maybe I should apply for a job in Trois Pommes, as several earlier posters accused me of "lowering myself to the level of the shop assistant" (ooooh, how derogatory - but apparently not so) by NOT defending Oprah.
One final note - it's not the "topic" that's not interesting, I find it all very fascinating - it's Oprah Winfrey-money-making-machine, that makes me want to stifle a huge YAWWNNNNN.
Swiss racist but certainly sexist because only men are obligated to serve in the Military service. What is that about?
Where in this world is there equality,
hehehehehe :P
Swiss racist but certainly sexist because only men are obligated to serve in the Military service. What is that about?
Where in this world is there equality,
hehehehehe :P
Gladys (and Jason, of course) please accept my profuse apologies if my "stupid persons posts" offended you. It is easy to forget that the British sense of humour does not translate across all nationalities.
It's actually a reference to an "Absolutely Fabulous", well known sketch in one of the funniest sit-coms ever produced by the BBC.
Like "just make it/her/him/Go Away" is also a commonly used expression for indicating that celebrities are over-exposing themselves and we would really like them to "just go away" (as in disappear) for a while from our screens, social networks and newspapers. Often used in reference to the Kardashians, for example.
So I will take your comments on board and in future, use the more polite and "PC" "apparently ill-informed" when I realise that the poster has (apparently) done little or no research into the topic being debated on this forum, and apologise once again if my previous remarks offended.
On a more humorous (British Humour) note, maybe I should apply for a job in Trois Pommes, as several earlier posters accused me of "lowering myself to the level of the shop assistant" (ooooh, how derogatory - but apparently not so) by NOT defending Oprah.
One final note - it's not the "topic" that's not interesting, I find it all very fascinating - it's Oprah Winfrey-money-making-machine, that makes me want to stifle a huge YAWWNNNNN.
Carolyn - I think we have finally identified the obnoxious person with the chip on their shoulder. Thanks for the help.
Carolyn - I think we have finally identified the obnoxious person with the chip on their shoulder. Thanks for the help.
Carolyn - I think we have finally identified the obnoxious person with the chip on their shoulder. Thanks for the help.
You're welcome - as they say, I was only trying to help, make amends and apologise. Or am I missing the point?
You're welcome - as they say, I was only trying to help, make amends and apologise. Or am I missing the point?
Warning...a looooooonnng one...
I do not post often—like almost never. However, this post hits home more than most. I’m black American (my term of choice over African-American; would be happy to explain if the opportunity presents itself). Regardless to how they start, most posts on glocals quickly devolve to less than serious banter—a mix of pure fun, obnoxious stress relief, and rudeness. In short, they’re entertaining. This one, however, reflects the attitudes toward race, that I’ve become accustomed to. I am not, and never will be, "a victim." Neither am I an Oprah fan (generally speaking), I don’t believe in “affirmative action,” and was raised with a few very strong principles (among others): “Never say you could have done better,” “There’s no such thing as trying, because ultimately you either fail or succeed,” “You have to be good enough that you’re competency can never be questioned, otherwise you lose—that’s because you’re black.” All of those principles rested on a foundation of “never step on anyone else--always reach back to help others who are also trying to make it (regardless of race).” Rather than making a hyper-competitive person, those principles tend to cause one to be grounded in reality: ”Life ain’t fair: if you want something, work for it and don’t whine if you miss the mark.”
As I read this thread, it reminded me that ‘life ain’t fair.’ I’ve lived in Europe for a number of years. Ironically, there was a time when I encountered less racism throughout Europe (to include CH) than back home; and I have very few problems back home. However, I’ve personally noticed that I’ve gone from being considered an American to being considered black—at least until I open my mouth and my unmaskable accent comes out. Based on my subjective analysis (uninformed by anything but gut feeling and common sense) I attribute the change to the increase in African immigrants seeking asylum. Sometimes the racism I encounter is subtle, sometimes not. And when in doubt, I chalk it up as ignorance or general rudeness. Still, I could recount a number of examples in which there was no doubt, and they seem to be increasing. So what does one do with that? He or she moves ahead with his or her life, because life isn’t fair. But what one does NOT do is deny reality. When I walk down the street in Geneva and a woman clutches her purse more tightly, “it is what it is.” When I’m on the train and the blond European next to me isn’t asked for a passport, but I am, “it is what it is.” When someone says “oh, not you. You’re different; you’re not like those others,” yeah, right, “it is what it is.” You don’t stop and complain, even if you’re pissed and want to knock the shit out of the person! Instead, you move on.
If we read and listen to Oprah’s various interviews, that was her attitude as well—“it’s sad, but it’s life.” At that moment, Oprah was not the most powerful entertainer in the world (as recently declared by Forbes Magazine). Most likely, she wasn’t even African-AMERICAN. Instead, she was a “black chick” who was wasting a shopkeeper’s time, because surely a “black chick” couldn’t afford such an item, and may even try to steal it—oops, the truth. “It is what it is.” Point here is, no matter the race, you (we) are treated differently when someone knows we are “American” or “British” or “French” than when we are simply “black—or African.” Joke and deny as we will, but fact is fact.
Regardless to Oprah’s celebrity status, the problem of racism persists. If those who point it out are accused of “playing the race card,” and “crying wolf,” how will we ever address the issue? She is certainly a "money-making machine," and great at publicity. But, if we review the other incidents that she cited, we’ll see that the others ADMITTED that she was turned away because of race—there was no denial. It's also worth reading her statement on why she didn't say anything at the time. If we look at the causes she supports, we cannot help but ask whether one of the richest women in the world needs to play the race card to stay rich or whether she could actually believe that things of this nature need to be pointed out for the good of all.
Hence the reason I keep my mouth shut and simply smile when someone says “it’s not you—you’re not like the others” (yeah, it’s said more often than most will admit) or when someone asks “so how’s it feel to know that my great grandparents may have owned yours? (yeah, really!!!)”
Yeah, I rambled, but there’s a point to it. Racism exists, and it doesn't hurt to pause and consider rather than denying the fact. Is there a grain of truth to most stereotypes? Abosolutely! So let's calculate that into the equation as well, but let's not deny.
Finally, it would be worth noting that Oprah was born in Mississippi during segregation. She had a rougher than average childhood and is truly a self-made multi-billionaire who wore dresses made of potato sacks as a child. Though she does champion “African-American issues,” to the extent that such a thing exists, she has managed to transcend race, and the majority of her effort is put toward issues involving women and children (she was raped and impregnated as a child). Diva? Maybe. Diva with a cause, definitely. So, though I am not a fan (and generally have a different political leaning), I do respect what she’s accomplished and what she still seeks to accomplish. If you look into the history of Tina Turner (my mother’s generation) you’ll know why the two have such a strong mutual respect.
Bottomline—the shopkeeper may not have been racist, but the incident gives reason for pause and objective reflection. The answer is not “there is no problem…”
By the way, what cause did FIFA adopt and why? There's nothing to her claim? How many blacks have agreed, or how many non-blacks who say there is no problem have blacks on their friends list?...honest question...
We all have our opinions. That's mine. Back to being quiet and "different than the others." More than willing to discuss further over coffee (or something stronger) with any takers…
Warning...a looooooonnng one...
I do not post often—like almost never. However, this post hits home more than most. I’m black American (my term of choice over African-American; would be happy to explain if the opportunity presents itself). Regardless to how they start, most posts on glocals quickly devolve to less than serious banter—a mix of pure fun, obnoxious stress relief, and rudeness. In short, they’re entertaining. This one, however, reflects the attitudes toward race, that I’ve become accustomed to. I am not, and never will be, "a victim." Neither am I an Oprah fan (generally speaking), I don’t believe in “affirmative action,” and was raised with a few very strong principles (among others): “Never say you could have done better,” “There’s no such thing as trying, because ultimately you either fail or succeed,” “You have to be good enough that you’re competency can never be questioned, otherwise you lose—that’s because you’re black.” All of those principles rested on a foundation of “never step on anyone else--always reach back to help others who are also trying to make it (regardless of race).” Rather than making a hyper-competitive person, those principles tend to cause one to be grounded in reality: ”Life ain’t fair: if you want something, work for it and don’t whine if you miss the mark.”
As I read this thread, it reminded me that ‘life ain’t fair.’ I’ve lived in Europe for a number of years. Ironically, there was a time when I encountered less racism throughout Europe (to include CH) than back home; and I have very few problems back home. However, I’ve personally noticed that I’ve gone from being considered an American to being considered black—at least until I open my mouth and my unmaskable accent comes out. Based on my subjective analysis (uninformed by anything but gut feeling and common sense) I attribute the change to the increase in African immigrants seeking asylum. Sometimes the racism I encounter is subtle, sometimes not. And when in doubt, I chalk it up as ignorance or general rudeness. Still, I could recount a number of examples in which there was no doubt, and they seem to be increasing. So what does one do with that? He or she moves ahead with his or her life, because life isn’t fair. But what one does NOT do is deny reality. When I walk down the street in Geneva and a woman clutches her purse more tightly, “it is what it is.” When I’m on the train and the blond European next to me isn’t asked for a passport, but I am, “it is what it is.” When someone says “oh, not you. You’re different; you’re not like those others,” yeah, right, “it is what it is.” You don’t stop and complain, even if you’re pissed and want to knock the shit out of the person! Instead, you move on.
If we read and listen to Oprah’s various interviews, that was her attitude as well—“it’s sad, but it’s life.” At that moment, Oprah was not the most powerful entertainer in the world (as recently declared by Forbes Magazine). Most likely, she wasn’t even African-AMERICAN. Instead, she was a “black chick” who was wasting a shopkeeper’s time, because surely a “black chick” couldn’t afford such an item, and may even try to steal it—oops, the truth. “It is what it is.” Point here is, no matter the race, you (we) are treated differently when someone knows we are “American” or “British” or “French” than when we are simply “black—or African.” Joke and deny as we will, but fact is fact.
Regardless to Oprah’s celebrity status, the problem of racism persists. If those who point it out are accused of “playing the race card,” and “crying wolf,” how will we ever address the issue? She is certainly a "money-making machine," and great at publicity. But, if we review the other incidents that she cited, we’ll see that the others ADMITTED that she was turned away because of race—there was no denial. It's also worth reading her statement on why she didn't say anything at the time. If we look at the causes she supports, we cannot help but ask whether one of the richest women in the world needs to play the race card to stay rich or whether she could actually believe that things of this nature need to be pointed out for the good of all.
Hence the reason I keep my mouth shut and simply smile when someone says “it’s not you—you’re not like the others” (yeah, it’s said more often than most will admit) or when someone asks “so how’s it feel to know that my great grandparents may have owned yours? (yeah, really!!!)”
Yeah, I rambled, but there’s a point to it. Racism exists, and it doesn't hurt to pause and consider rather than denying the fact. Is there a grain of truth to most stereotypes? Abosolutely! So let's calculate that into the equation as well, but let's not deny.
Finally, it would be worth noting that Oprah was born in Mississippi during segregation. She had a rougher than average childhood and is truly a self-made multi-billionaire who wore dresses made of potato sacks as a child. Though she does champion “African-American issues,” to the extent that such a thing exists, she has managed to transcend race, and the majority of her effort is put toward issues involving women and children (she was raped and impregnated as a child). Diva? Maybe. Diva with a cause, definitely. So, though I am not a fan (and generally have a different political leaning), I do respect what she’s accomplished and what she still seeks to accomplish. If you look into the history of Tina Turner (my mother’s generation) you’ll know why the two have such a strong mutual respect.
Bottomline—the shopkeeper may not have been racist, but the incident gives reason for pause and objective reflection. The answer is not “there is no problem…”
By the way, what cause did FIFA adopt and why? There's nothing to her claim? How many blacks have agreed, or how many non-blacks who say there is no problem have blacks on their friends list?...honest question...
We all have our opinions. That's mine. Back to being quiet and "different than the others." More than willing to discuss further over coffee (or something stronger) with any takers…
Could you post a synopsis, please?
Thanks ever so.
Tired and weary R.
Could you post a synopsis, please?
Thanks ever so.
Tired and weary R.
Thanks for your request. Unfortunately, the answer is no. If it's too long and tiring, no need to read it. I live it, so I can tell you over the course of my young life, I too have grown weary, but with the apathy associated with the issue. As I noted, it's simply my unqualified opinion and an attempt to provide a unique(?) perspective. Have a wonderful night.
Thanks for your request. Unfortunately, the answer is no. If it's too long and tiring, no need to read it. I live it, so I can tell you over the course of my young life, I too have grown weary, but with the apathy associated with the issue. As I noted, it's simply my unqualified opinion and an attempt to provide a unique(?) perspective. Have a wonderful night.
Oprah did an excellent PR job: An entire Glocals thread dedicated to her misfortune (if we can call that a misfortune)!
She did not say it was racism (Dorothy, you were right, but the story went viral whether she made a fuss or not, but I suspect she did in a very subtle way), but she quoted the incident in the Larry King show where they were discussing about it. By calling what looks like poor commercial judgment racism and suggesting that she may have been discriminated because of her skin color whereas she simply did not get the kind of service she was expecting, she subordinates a very necessary cause - anti-racism - to an ego trip.
For those who watched the tape, she basically said in about one minute (see the ZRH incident part) that she was invited at Tina’s wedding, that she is an normal person too because she was all by herself, that she could afford to buy an entire shop, that she was a much better person than the sale assistant because she didn’t make a scandal, and, incidentally, that she does not care that much about animal rights otherwise she would not have been interested in an alligator bag.
And please, don’t get me wrong. Racism do exist, it is despicable, I find it despicable and it should be fought in every possible way, but not by calling wolf on what appears to be a personal issue.
Oprah did an excellent PR job: An entire Glocals thread dedicated to her misfortune (if we can call that a misfortune)!
She did not say it was racism (Dorothy, you were right, but the story went viral whether she made a fuss or not, but I suspect she did in a very subtle way), but she quoted the incident in the Larry King show where they were discussing about it. By calling what looks like poor commercial judgment racism and suggesting that she may have been discriminated because of her skin color whereas she simply did not get the kind of service she was expecting, she subordinates a very necessary cause - anti-racism - to an ego trip.
For those who watched the tape, she basically said in about one minute (see the ZRH incident part) that she was invited at Tina’s wedding, that she is an normal person too because she was all by herself, that she could afford to buy an entire shop, that she was a much better person than the sale assistant because she didn’t make a scandal, and, incidentally, that she does not care that much about animal rights otherwise she would not have been interested in an alligator bag.
And please, don’t get me wrong. Racism do exist, it is despicable, I find it despicable and it should be fought in every possible way, but not by calling wolf on what appears to be a personal issue.
If possible Richard, I would thank you a thousand times for your post.
While I also do not post on this forum very often, I felt compelled to do so because the Oprah Saga finally provided an opportunity to talk about the elephant in the room. Since then I have watched the discussion descend into a Saturday Night Life-resque comedy of sorts. I have had to refrain from replying to several posts on this discussion because however outlandish, condescending or insulting people’s opinion might be, in the end it is still their opinion. They are entitled to it and unfortunately, I am unable to converse with anyone at that level.
Some people are just unable to understand or comprehend the emotions or frustrations of others unless they know someone who’s been there or have felt it themselves. If they don’t, then it can’t be real. Unfortunately these people have the loudest microphone and somehow lead discussions on matters they know absolutely nothing about. Irrespective of how rich Oprah is, whether or not the bag was made of alligator skin or banana peel, whether she complained about similar treatment in a shop in France, whether she has a movie/book/clothing line or has just finalized plan to publicize a third boob is irrelevant. In fact this episode is just one episode. We are talking about it because she is rich and famous or whatever. But what about all those that are not? Those without voices that experience the same or worse treatment every day.
We just need to treat everyone decently that’s what I think. This is the first country I’ve lived in that being white is not even enough protection against discrimination. You’re French so you must be this. You are Romanian so you must be that. Don’t even get me started on the Ukrainians, etc.
Anyway, thanks Robert for elevating this conversation above gutter level. Now off to deactivate notifications for this tread…
If possible Richard, I would thank you a thousand times for your post.
While I also do not post on this forum very often, I felt compelled to do so because the Oprah Saga finally provided an opportunity to talk about the elephant in the room. Since then I have watched the discussion descend into a Saturday Night Life-resque comedy of sorts. I have had to refrain from replying to several posts on this discussion because however outlandish, condescending or insulting people’s opinion might be, in the end it is still their opinion. They are entitled to it and unfortunately, I am unable to converse with anyone at that level.
Some people are just unable to understand or comprehend the emotions or frustrations of others unless they know someone who’s been there or have felt it themselves. If they don’t, then it can’t be real. Unfortunately these people have the loudest microphone and somehow lead discussions on matters they know absolutely nothing about. Irrespective of how rich Oprah is, whether or not the bag was made of alligator skin or banana peel, whether she complained about similar treatment in a shop in France, whether she has a movie/book/clothing line or has just finalized plan to publicize a third boob is irrelevant. In fact this episode is just one episode. We are talking about it because she is rich and famous or whatever. But what about all those that are not? Those without voices that experience the same or worse treatment every day.
We just need to treat everyone decently that’s what I think. This is the first country I’ve lived in that being white is not even enough protection against discrimination. You’re French so you must be this. You are Romanian so you must be that. Don’t even get me started on the Ukrainians, etc.
Anyway, thanks Robert for elevating this conversation above gutter level. Now off to deactivate notifications for this tread…
If Oprah wanted to market herself, she has better techniques and she is smart enough (as most of you wrote), to know that marketing oneself out of such a sensitive issue is not going to work in her favour.
Cut her some slack and if you insist, don't you think she must be a very generous "marketer" because she must have calculated and seen that by complaining about this on a global platform, both her and the store would benefit from free publicity and attention. Since the notion is: any kind of publicity is good publicity. She made both parties win so she is actually philanthrophic with her PR skills too....:)
If Oprah wanted to market herself, she has better techniques and she is smart enough (as most of you wrote), to know that marketing oneself out of such a sensitive issue is not going to work in her favour.
Cut her some slack and if you insist, don't you think she must be a very generous "marketer" because she must have calculated and seen that by complaining about this on a global platform, both her and the store would benefit from free publicity and attention. Since the notion is: any kind of publicity is good publicity. She made both parties win so she is actually philanthrophic with her PR skills too....:)
Oprah was discriminated by an Italian salesgirl, not that long ago, the Italians were discriminated a lot in Switzerland, thus why I dont understand this saleslady for if her parents grew up in Switzerland then, they know and felt discrimination in Switzerland.
Oprah was discriminated by an Italian salesgirl, not that long ago, the Italians were discriminated a lot in Switzerland, thus why I dont understand this saleslady for if her parents grew up in Switzerland then, they know and felt discrimination in Switzerland.
Did anyone see this ?
http://www.upworthy.com/a-classist-in-switzerland-just-made-a-big-mistake-huge?c=ufb1
Did anyone see this ?
http://www.upworthy.com/a-classist-in-switzerland-just-made-a-big-mistake-huge?c=ufb1
Mucho ado about nothing. The sales assistant didn't speak english and, oulàlà, didn't recognize Oprah (who?). Thus, of course racism exists in Switzerland for sure, not more, not less. But according to me this has nothing to do here.
Mucho ado about nothing. The sales assistant didn't speak english and, oulàlà, didn't recognize Oprah (who?). Thus, of course racism exists in Switzerland for sure, not more, not less. But according to me this has nothing to do here.
well if swiss services are that bad and swiss german all racist, why the hell Tina Turner lives and get married in this awfull country?
well if swiss services are that bad and swiss german all racist, why the hell Tina Turner lives and get married in this awfull country?
Okay, here's another take. If a woman or man of any ethnicity comes into a shop, car showroom and initially looks at bags, cars, pianos, whatever item it may be, for x amount and then says, can I look at the one which costs ten times the price of the range I've just been looking at then you might think that person is a timewaster and will divert them back to something that they could afford. Again, whatever their ethnicity.
This has happened to me in Switzerland (not with a crocodile handbag, I hasten to add) and while I was a bit aggrieved (as I could’ve afforded what I was looking at), there was a certain logic to it but then I just thought, sod it! I’ll buy it somewhere else. Which I did.
Also usually for a high-end items like that, I would imagine that one would know in advance that’s what they would choose and would just ask to see it straight away.
Granted OW is an exception and yes, we know she could easily afford it along with the shop itself but if you’re playing the averages and want to make a sale then someone (again of any ethnicity) asking to see something 10 times the price of what they were originally looking at would make most sales assistants wonder if it’s worth getting it down. Anyway, just my take on it.
Have a good day and enjoy this weather!
Okay, here's another take. If a woman or man of any ethnicity comes into a shop, car showroom and initially looks at bags, cars, pianos, whatever item it may be, for x amount and then says, can I look at the one which costs ten times the price of the range I've just been looking at then you might think that person is a timewaster and will divert them back to something that they could afford. Again, whatever their ethnicity.
This has happened to me in Switzerland (not with a crocodile handbag, I hasten to add) and while I was a bit aggrieved (as I could’ve afforded what I was looking at), there was a certain logic to it but then I just thought, sod it! I’ll buy it somewhere else. Which I did.
Also usually for a high-end items like that, I would imagine that one would know in advance that’s what they would choose and would just ask to see it straight away.
Granted OW is an exception and yes, we know she could easily afford it along with the shop itself but if you’re playing the averages and want to make a sale then someone (again of any ethnicity) asking to see something 10 times the price of what they were originally looking at would make most sales assistants wonder if it’s worth getting it down. Anyway, just my take on it.
Have a good day and enjoy this weather!
Oprah did an excellent PR job: An entire Glocals thread dedicated to her misfortune (if we can call that a misfortune)!
She did not say it was racism (Dorothy, you were right, but the story went viral whether she made a fuss or not, but I suspect she did in a very subtle way), but she quoted the incident in the Larry King show where they were discussing about it. By calling what looks like poor commercial judgment racism and suggesting that she may have been discriminated because of her skin color whereas she simply did not get the kind of service she was expecting, she subordinates a very necessary cause - anti-racism - to an ego trip.
For those who watched the tape, she basically said in about one minute (see the ZRH incident part) that she was invited at Tina’s wedding, that she is an normal person too because she was all by herself, that she could afford to buy an entire shop, that she was a much better person than the sale assistant because she didn’t make a scandal, and, incidentally, that she does not care that much about animal rights otherwise she would not have been interested in an alligator bag.
And please, don’t get me wrong. Racism do exist, it is despicable, I find it despicable and it should be fought in every possible way, but not by calling wolf on what appears to be a personal issue.
Amen my friend.
Racism exists every where, even in Africa where it s not very easy being a white person.
Amen my friend.
Racism exists every where, even in Africa where it s not very easy being a white person.
Amen my friend.
Racism exists every where, even in Africa where it s not very easy being a white person.
but 2+ wrongs don't make a right
but 2+ wrongs don't make a right
I m agree, but about racism, we only speak about white racism. If you really want to fight against, you have to be objective and point the issue in all aspect.
I m agree, but about racism, we only speak about white racism. If you really want to fight against, you have to be objective and point the issue in all aspect.
There are a couple of matters in this tea cup storm that puzzle me.
First, why was the assistant alone in serving OW? Usually, there are at least two employees when merchandise of the sort is being shown. In jewellers’ shops, this certainly applies for anything over, say, CHF 200.
Apart from security issues, it also helps if there’s any linguistic difficulty.
Secondly, handbags costing K number of francs are normally made to order, the one on display being a prototype. As a mere pleb, even I know that, but OW doesn’t?
Moreover, to be able to actually show the bag to a customer, the sales girl would presumably have needed help to remove it from its display case so, again, why was she alone in serving the customer?
That suggests a shortcoming on the part of the boutique management but to dub it as a racist is a very long stretch of the imagination.
R.
There are a couple of matters in this tea cup storm that puzzle me.
First, why was the assistant alone in serving OW? Usually, there are at least two employees when merchandise of the sort is being shown. In jewellers’ shops, this certainly applies for anything over, say, CHF 200.
Apart from security issues, it also helps if there’s any linguistic difficulty.
Secondly, handbags costing K number of francs are normally made to order, the one on display being a prototype. As a mere pleb, even I know that, but OW doesn’t?
Moreover, to be able to actually show the bag to a customer, the sales girl would presumably have needed help to remove it from its display case so, again, why was she alone in serving the customer?
That suggests a shortcoming on the part of the boutique management but to dub it as a racist is a very long stretch of the imagination.
R.
Bad Service? Racism? There's obviously no straightforward answer to that question. Nobody was there when it happened and it's a waste of time interpreting if a country, person, shop-assistant is something or not. We don’t know the details that are necessary to come up with a reasonable explanation of the incident.
Expensive fashion shops – Don’t like them? Don’t buy anything there.
Swiss are racist? Do you know every Swiss person? Any research based evidence? Have you been to every country in the world? Who is Swiss anyway?
OW – Do you know her personally? Have you talked to her?
Customer service is bad? What is your definition of bad service? What’s good service for you? What country are you coming from?
Are you angry about something? Complain about it on the Internet.
I personally have many stories concerning bad customer service – from very different countries. IMHO, customer service is largely based on your own expectation when entering a shop for example and your own background/mentality and or the cultural context you are experiencing the service. There are many social skills are person has to master to be able to please customers from all over the world… IMHO the US and the UK have probably the best customer service I have personally experienced, because it simply has worked for me.
Ok, here is a shitload of evidence about Swiss racism, including housing discrimination and profiling by the police: http://www.coe.int/t/dghl/monitoring/ecri/country-by-country/switzerland/switzerland_cbc_EN.asp
http://www.swissinfo.ch/eng/politics/Council_of_Europe_attacks_racism_in_Switzerland.html?cid=9576
Ok, here is a shitload of evidence about Swiss racism, including housing discrimination and profiling by the police: http://www.coe.int/t/dghl/monitoring/ecri/country-by-country/switzerland/switzerland_cbc_EN.asp
http://www.swissinfo.ch/eng/politics/Council_of_Europe_attacks_racism_in_Switzerland.html?cid=9576
Sure that makes you a very descent person i guess ? Good for you.
Point here was and is: Switzerland has less racism than other countries and this whole thread is just pointless. I --> being person of color and from Pakistan ( not really the country associated with anything good) can confirm you this.
If anyone would like to challenge that then please visit me once in Bern so i can introduce you to so many Swiss people i happen to be really good friends with.
I got nothing more to add here please PM me if you have a point to share.
Sure that makes you a very descent person i guess ? Good for you.
Point here was and is: Switzerland has less racism than other countries and this whole thread is just pointless. I --> being person of color and from Pakistan ( not really the country associated with anything good) can confirm you this.
If anyone would like to challenge that then please visit me once in Bern so i can introduce you to so many Swiss people i happen to be really good friends with.
I got nothing more to add here please PM me if you have a point to share.
Ohh just one more thing to add :)
If this is such racist country n you don't like it
Why in the world are u living here ? I am sure no Swiss person is forcing you to stay here.
Ohh just one more thing to add :)
If this is such racist country n you don't like it
Why in the world are u living here ? I am sure no Swiss person is forcing you to stay here.
Tina Turner - cool attitude, lovely lady, who loves Switzerland, has become a resident, got married here. Happens to be black and famous.
Oprah Winfrey - loud, obnoxious American, with major bad-attitude-chip-on-shoulder, visiting Zurich, who points her fingers at you when she speaks and probably sprouted a few "Do you know who I AM?". Happens to be black and famous.
Racist? I'm sure if she got "her good friend" Tina to go buy it for her, she'd be the owner of a very nice 35k handbag by now. 
Ah, yes, because 'good Negros' get to see, perhaps touch..... and maybe even buy the bag, according to this logic. Uppity Negros don't, obviously...
How do you know how OW acts in business transactions?
On what basis do you define her as a "loud, obnoxious American.....etc.?
I personally don't care about 35,000 chf status bags and those who aspire to own them or even look at them.
Some people do not and never will believe that racism exists in business transactions whether in Switzerland or elsewhere.
And some people obviously believe that because OW has now publicly cited 2 separate incidents in which she feels she encountered racism, she is crying wolf. Because it couldn't possibly happen twice. Not to OW or anyone.
Ah, yes, because 'good Negros' get to see, perhaps touch..... and maybe even buy the bag, according to this logic. Uppity Negros don't, obviously...
How do you know how OW acts in business transactions?
On what basis do you define her as a "loud, obnoxious American.....etc.?
I personally don't care about 35,000 chf status bags and those who aspire to own them or even look at them.
Some people do not and never will believe that racism exists in business transactions whether in Switzerland or elsewhere.
And some people obviously believe that because OW has now publicly cited 2 separate incidents in which she feels she encountered racism, she is crying wolf. Because it couldn't possibly happen twice. Not to OW or anyone.
Maybe it's time to close the thread?
Admins?
Okay, here's another take. If a woman or man of any ethnicity comes into a shop, car showroom and initially looks at bags, cars, pianos, whatever item it may be, for x amount and then says, can I look at the one which costs ten times the price of the range I've just been looking at then you might think that person is a timewaster and will divert them back to something that they could afford. Again, whatever their ethnicity.
This has happened to me in Switzerland (not with a crocodile handbag, I hasten to add) and while I was a bit aggrieved (as I could’ve afforded what I was looking at), there was a certain logic to it but then I just thought, sod it! I’ll buy it somewhere else. Which I did.
Also usually for a high-end items like that, I would imagine that one would know in advance that’s what they would choose and would just ask to see it straight away.
Granted OW is an exception and yes, we know she could easily afford it along with the shop itself but if you’re playing the averages and want to make a sale then someone (again of any ethnicity) asking to see something 10 times the price of what they were originally looking at would make most sales assistants wonder if it’s worth getting it down. Anyway, just my take on it.
Have a good day and enjoy this weather!
I get what you're saying. There are so many stores here that have failed to train their sales staff in appropriate customer service.
In most business establishments in the United States, staff are trained along the 'customer is king' principle as opposed to 'why are you bothering me, can't you see that I'm filing my nails...."
In the US and some other countries, we also understand that customers/clients could be millionaires or even billionaires in jeans.
I would say that the majority of the poor customer service I've encountered here is because the staff appears not to have been properly trained even in greeting potential customers.
Then again, there are those situations where the salesperson appears not to see you and takes the white person who came in 5 minutes after you. Then you ask yourself... Martin Luther King...or Marcellus Wallace...
I get what you're saying. There are so many stores here that have failed to train their sales staff in appropriate customer service.
In most business establishments in the United States, staff are trained along the 'customer is king' principle as opposed to 'why are you bothering me, can't you see that I'm filing my nails...."
In the US and some other countries, we also understand that customers/clients could be millionaires or even billionaires in jeans.
I would say that the majority of the poor customer service I've encountered here is because the staff appears not to have been properly trained even in greeting potential customers.
Then again, there are those situations where the salesperson appears not to see you and takes the white person who came in 5 minutes after you. Then you ask yourself... Martin Luther King...or Marcellus Wallace...
Ohh just one more thing to add :)
If this is such racist country n you don't like it
Why in the world are u living here ? I am sure no Swiss person is forcing you to stay here.
Typical argument with lack of logic. Even the Swiss constitution promotes free speech.
Some people choose to try to make a place better rather than just leave it.
In addition, racism must and should be challenged in a nation hosting so many international organizations...
Typical argument with lack of logic. Even the Swiss constitution promotes free speech.
Some people choose to try to make a place better rather than just leave it.
In addition, racism must and should be challenged in a nation hosting so many international organizations...
Who the hell is Oprah anyway?
Typical argument with lack of logic. Even the Swiss constitution promotes free speech.
Some people choose to try to make a place better rather than just leave it.
In addition, racism must and should be challenged in a nation hosting so many international organizations...
There are other countries in this world which can use your generous help and are in serious need to improve ...so please don't waste your precious time here.
nobody and believe me nobody asked you or anyone to come help make this place better ...swiss are already doing a very good job at it. You like all the others are here just because of higher standard of living n financial gain.
Please do not even try to contest this point with pointless argument.
There are other countries in this world which can use your generous help and are in serious need to improve ...so please don't waste your precious time here.
nobody and believe me nobody asked you or anyone to come help make this place better ...swiss are already doing a very good job at it. You like all the others are here just because of higher standard of living n financial gain.
Please do not even try to contest this point with pointless argument.
Maybe it's time to close the thread?
Admins?
Why?
There are a number of interesting aspects to this discussion:
a) general view of customer service in Switzerland;
b) Swiss treatment of foreigners;
c) How foreign expats view and treat each other;
d) funny cat photos...
Why?
There are a number of interesting aspects to this discussion:
a) general view of customer service in Switzerland;
b) Swiss treatment of foreigners;
c) How foreign expats view and treat each other;
d) funny cat photos...
Yes there is racism in Switzerland, there is sadly everywhere in the world.
BUT I guess that some who say that Switzerland treats badly its foreigners are the same who arrive in a shop in Geneva and speak directly in English without considering that the sales person maybe doesn't understand and without asking in a café if the waiter understands English. It is common also to hear expats asking "2 beers please" as if it was the most difficult thing to say in French, for people who work and live here. No wonder that the reaction of locals can be cold with such people, because of the lack of politeness, not of understanding.
Yes there is racism in Switzerland, there is sadly everywhere in the world.
BUT I guess that some who say that Switzerland treats badly its foreigners are the same who arrive in a shop in Geneva and speak directly in English without considering that the sales person maybe doesn't understand and without asking in a café if the waiter understands English. It is common also to hear expats asking "2 beers please" as if it was the most difficult thing to say in French, for people who work and live here. No wonder that the reaction of locals can be cold with such people, because of the lack of politeness, not of understanding.
There are other countries in this world which can use your generous help and are in serious need to improve ...so please don't waste your precious time here.
nobody and believe me nobody asked you or anyone to come help make this place better ...swiss are already doing a very good job at it. You like all the others are here just because of higher standard of living n financial gain.
Please do not even try to contest this point with pointless argument.
As demonstrated in the experiences related by Oprah and various participants in this thread, and in the Council of Europe reviews cited by Translator, it's debatable whether the Swiss are "already doing a very good job at" making this place better or if more could be done.
While it might be that you indeed are country hopping for standard of living or financial gain (you say you are from Pakistan but your Glocals profile says you are from Canada, guess you'll also stay here only until you find somewhere else to run off to), not all of us are here for the same reasons.
However long we are here and whatever our reasons for being here may be, we can and should share how this can be a better place.
As demonstrated in the experiences related by Oprah and various participants in this thread, and in the Council of Europe reviews cited by Translator, it's debatable whether the Swiss are "already doing a very good job at" making this place better or if more could be done.
While it might be that you indeed are country hopping for standard of living or financial gain (you say you are from Pakistan but your Glocals profile says you are from Canada, guess you'll also stay here only until you find somewhere else to run off to), not all of us are here for the same reasons.
However long we are here and whatever our reasons for being here may be, we can and should share how this can be a better place.
Yes there is racism in Switzerland, there is sadly everywhere in the world.
BUT I guess that some who say that Switzerland treats badly its foreigners are the same who arrive in a shop in Geneva and speak directly in English without considering that the sales person maybe doesn't understand and without asking in a café if the waiter understands English. It is common also to hear expats asking "2 beers please" as if it was the most difficult thing to say in French, for people who work and live here. No wonder that the reaction of locals can be cold with such people, because of the lack of politeness, not of understanding.
The population of Geneva has been over 40% foreign for decades. Most businesses understand that in order to stay afloat and thrive, it is necessary to hire staff who are, at least, minimally bilingual. English is the lingua franca of the expatriate population and indeed the language that many Swiss use to communicate with Swiss from other regions.
In addition, many of the Swiss secondary schools also teach English.
Finally, if you take a moment to inquire of the nationality of many "Swiss" sales shop assistants in this area, you will find that many are ....French.
The population of Geneva has been over 40% foreign for decades. Most businesses understand that in order to stay afloat and thrive, it is necessary to hire staff who are, at least, minimally bilingual. English is the lingua franca of the expatriate population and indeed the language that many Swiss use to communicate with Swiss from other regions.
In addition, many of the Swiss secondary schools also teach English.
Finally, if you take a moment to inquire of the nationality of many "Swiss" sales shop assistants in this area, you will find that many are ....French.
There are other countries in this world which can use your generous help and are in serious need to improve ...so please don't waste your precious time here.
nobody and believe me nobody asked you or anyone to come help make this place better ...swiss are already doing a very good job at it. You like all the others are here just because of higher standard of living n financial gain.
Please do not even try to contest this point with pointless argument.
In fact, many Swiss do appreciate the help. That's what my Swiss friends tell me. (Oh, but I guess you corned the market on that...)
There are many righteous, non-racist Swiss here who believe their country can be made better with the help of expatriates.
They are not all as close-minded and financially-oriented as you appear to be.
You may now resume your Jack Daniels inspired arguments.
In fact, many Swiss do appreciate the help. That's what my Swiss friends tell me. (Oh, but I guess you corned the market on that...)
There are many righteous, non-racist Swiss here who believe their country can be made better with the help of expatriates.
They are not all as close-minded and financially-oriented as you appear to be.
You may now resume your Jack Daniels inspired arguments.
French people working here are locals as well, only that they live on the other side of the border. So your point is that expats are right when they make no effort in trying to communicate in French, or even asking if people understand them? For me it's rude.
French people working here are locals as well, only that they live on the other side of the border. So your point is that expats are right when they make no effort in trying to communicate in French, or even asking if people understand them? For me it's rude.
It was going to change into a language thing eventually, what with this being an English speaking forum and all, and there is a bit of Swiss bashing going on, so thats going to get some people riled for sure.There's also some down right rudeness going on here, so hopefully the referee will jump in again and remove some of the more personal stuff..
I'd like to make some points.
It's not ok to live in someone elses country (for years) and not even try to speak the language. But please don't generalise, we're not all like that. But also please nobody try to justify not speaking French on the basis that there's lots of foreigners here so we have the right not to try. We don't!
Also for those anglophiles and anglophobes out there. Please note: Next time a foreigner tries to speak to you in French, don't answer in English... It's not helping them;-)
It was going to change into a language thing eventually, what with this being an English speaking forum and all, and there is a bit of Swiss bashing going on, so thats going to get some people riled for sure.There's also some down right rudeness going on here, so hopefully the referee will jump in again and remove some of the more personal stuff..
I'd like to make some points.
It's not ok to live in someone elses country (for years) and not even try to speak the language. But please don't generalise, we're not all like that. But also please nobody try to justify not speaking French on the basis that there's lots of foreigners here so we have the right not to try. We don't!
Also for those anglophiles and anglophobes out there. Please note: Next time a foreigner tries to speak to you in French, don't answer in English... It's not helping them;-)
I doubt that the shopgil told her that she cannot afford the bags. I m sure Oprah didn t go shopping dress with H&M clothes. With a quick glance, anyone can notice that she s supra rich person ( watch, clothes jewelry), so you can imagine that seller, who are trained in this kind of shop to recognize outside sign of wealth, even if it s discret, didn t.
I m sure that it s more about an ego issue a language misunderstanding or an unsatisfied supra demanding quality of services ( don t forget that those shop, specially in ZUrich, are used to serve every day billionaires from all over the world) than a question of racism.
I doubt that the shopgil told her that she cannot afford the bags. I m sure Oprah didn t go shopping dress with H&M clothes. With a quick glance, anyone can notice that she s supra rich person ( watch, clothes jewelry), so you can imagine that seller, who are trained in this kind of shop to recognize outside sign of wealth, even if it s discret, didn t.
I m sure that it s more about an ego issue a language misunderstanding or an unsatisfied supra demanding quality of services ( don t forget that those shop, specially in ZUrich, are used to serve every day billionaires from all over the world) than a question of racism.
As demonstrated in the experiences related by Oprah and various participants in this thread, and in the Council of Europe reviews cited by Translator, it's debatable whether the Swiss are "already doing a very good job at" making this place better or if more could be done.
While it might be that you indeed are country hopping for standard of living or financial gain (you say you are from Pakistan but your Glocals profile says you are from Canada, guess you'll also stay here only until you find somewhere else to run off to), not all of us are here for the same reasons.
However long we are here and whatever our reasons for being here may be, we can and should share how this can be a better place.
It also says in my profile that i was born in Pakistan and if i like it or not, people who haven't visited Canada won't associate my skin color to it.
I was also happy in Canada and only moved here because my wife is Swiss. Like i said i wouldn't have stayed here long if i didn't like it.
No place is perfect there is always something and discussing this issue of racism in Switzerland here among all the non- Swiss is not going to change a damn thing ( a complete waste of time n energy) because you cannot vote here nor you have any other way to change it.
Instead you are promoting negativity which starts a viscious circle of hate n discourage people even more not to even try to integerate.
so please stop discussing this non-sense and better give them a positive tip how to better integerate in Switzerland.
It also says in my profile that i was born in Pakistan and if i like it or not, people who haven't visited Canada won't associate my skin color to it.
I was also happy in Canada and only moved here because my wife is Swiss. Like i said i wouldn't have stayed here long if i didn't like it.
No place is perfect there is always something and discussing this issue of racism in Switzerland here among all the non- Swiss is not going to change a damn thing ( a complete waste of time n energy) because you cannot vote here nor you have any other way to change it.
Instead you are promoting negativity which starts a viscious circle of hate n discourage people even more not to even try to integerate.
so please stop discussing this non-sense and better give them a positive tip how to better integerate in Switzerland.
It also says in my profile that i was born in Pakistan and if i like it or not, people who haven't visited Canada won't associate my skin color to it.
I was also happy in Canada and only moved here because my wife is Swiss. Like i said i wouldn't have stayed here long if i didn't like it.
No place is perfect there is always something and discussing this issue of racism in Switzerland here among all the non- Swiss is not going to change a damn thing ( a complete waste of time n energy) because you cannot vote here nor you have any other way to change it.
Instead you are promoting negativity which starts a viscious circle of hate n discourage people even more not to even try to integerate.
so please stop discussing this non-sense and better give them a positive tip how to better integerate in Switzerland.
Expatriates can vote in Geneva on local issues after having been here for a number of years.
An open discussion does not discourage people from learning how to integrate into Swiss society. It reveals some of the reality of living here as a foreigner. It's important to understand that Switzerland has no effective laws preventing discrimination in housing, according to the Council of Europe report I cited earlier. There are many other issues that the Swiss Federal Council on Racism itself cites as problems of clear discrimination in insurance as well. Integration is not easy when you are prevented from renting a decent place to live and when you are continually profiled by the police due to the color of your skin.
Expatriates can vote in Geneva on local issues after having been here for a number of years.
An open discussion does not discourage people from learning how to integrate into Swiss society. It reveals some of the reality of living here as a foreigner. It's important to understand that Switzerland has no effective laws preventing discrimination in housing, according to the Council of Europe report I cited earlier. There are many other issues that the Swiss Federal Council on Racism itself cites as problems of clear discrimination in insurance as well. Integration is not easy when you are prevented from renting a decent place to live and when you are continually profiled by the police due to the color of your skin.
There are other countries in this world which can use your generous help and are in serious need to improve ...so please don't waste your precious time here.
nobody and believe me nobody asked you or anyone to come help make this place better ...swiss are already doing a very good job at it. You like all the others are here just because of higher standard of living n financial gain.
Please do not even try to contest this point with pointless argument.
I have been here for 13yrs, quite well integrated with friends will all walks of life and of all nationalities including Swiss.
I have lived in both the Germanic part of Switzerland and the French.
I am not here to make things "better for the Swiss" ... Im here out of convenience since my kids are here.
I could earn alot more money elsewhere (eg the US) and have a cheaper cost of living, with similar standards...
Please dont put everyone in the same basket... its called generalizing and is often incorrect and false...
BTW if you knew Translator... you would very quickly withdraw what you wrote and apologise... if you dont know someone please dont generalise in an argument, you will get it wrong... afterall it is almost what the shop assistant allegedly did in Zueri with Oprah..no?
I have been here for 13yrs, quite well integrated with friends will all walks of life and of all nationalities including Swiss.
I have lived in both the Germanic part of Switzerland and the French.
I am not here to make things "better for the Swiss" ... Im here out of convenience since my kids are here.
I could earn alot more money elsewhere (eg the US) and have a cheaper cost of living, with similar standards...
Please dont put everyone in the same basket... its called generalizing and is often incorrect and false...
BTW if you knew Translator... you would very quickly withdraw what you wrote and apologise... if you dont know someone please dont generalise in an argument, you will get it wrong... afterall it is almost what the shop assistant allegedly did in Zueri with Oprah..no?
Hi guys,
I repeatedly receive alerts that people are still posting opinions… As mentioned previously, I am no longer willing to participate in this discussion to promoter lady O’s money/marketing machinery. Not worthwhile, there are more ordinary people needing real help as they are in difficulty to find a good job due to their skin color. My friend, fight for real cause, lady O does not need our help to make her richer.
By the way, three years after the nature disaster in Haiti, many people there still live in poor conditions (no decent house, etc). Do you know why? Do you know what’s going on there? What do they still need from rich countries? Is this more important than a rich lady and an alligator bag? Come on, let’s be logic and have some good common sense. Don’t be fooled by the rich “elite”.
Again, regarding this case, I don’t know the shop assistant who has her own version of the event. I didn’t know who the O lady was, but I know her now due to this thread (at least about some of her past…), hence, she did excellent PR job as mentioned by others. Whom / which version to believe?
Based on what I read about lady O, she lied to her public, because she defended the animal, whose skin was made into bag that she would like to buy. Just listen to the tone she talked about the bag out there made from alligator, you would understand she doesn’t care about the alligator, but she cares about how to market herself so that the media would make a big fuss over the case, thanks to which she will be better known in EU. Sure she has other more intelligent ways to sustainably market herself, but this time she made a wrong calculation – nowadays the public is no longer dupe. I understood she would like to be treated as a spoilt star and can’t bear the least “less attention” from others (even less when in EU many people don’t know her!), especially a shop assistant who should kneel down before stars like her.
I would rather spend time to participate in the discussions like why many black African countries still have difficulty in developing their economy; why some people with dark skin color are still discriminated while looking for a job in and outside Swiss? Why during the current world crisis, foreigners are always targeted, and why there are more poor black people than poor white people in the US? Real questions and issues comparing with a spoiled lady and a bag!
I am of Chinese origin and have been here for over 20 yrs. I learned in CH how to treated and be treated democratically and how to respect all nations with different skin colors. I believe there is still discrimination/racism here, like elsewhere. Please don’t tell me we are living in a racist country. Otherwise, I should have gone back to China where I will surely not be discriminated.
I am off from this thread here. I will untick the alert. If you want, please PM me.
Don’t be rude, smile
and be friendly
Cheers
Hi guys,
I repeatedly receive alerts that people are still posting opinions… As mentioned previously, I am no longer willing to participate in this discussion to promoter lady O’s money/marketing machinery. Not worthwhile, there are more ordinary people needing real help as they are in difficulty to find a good job due to their skin color. My friend, fight for real cause, lady O does not need our help to make her richer.
By the way, three years after the nature disaster in Haiti, many people there still live in poor conditions (no decent house, etc). Do you know why? Do you know what’s going on there? What do they still need from rich countries? Is this more important than a rich lady and an alligator bag? Come on, let’s be logic and have some good common sense. Don’t be fooled by the rich “elite”.
Again, regarding this case, I don’t know the shop assistant who has her own version of the event. I didn’t know who the O lady was, but I know her now due to this thread (at least about some of her past…), hence, she did excellent PR job as mentioned by others. Whom / which version to believe?
Based on what I read about lady O, she lied to her public, because she defended the animal, whose skin was made into bag that she would like to buy. Just listen to the tone she talked about the bag out there made from alligator, you would understand she doesn’t care about the alligator, but she cares about how to market herself so that the media would make a big fuss over the case, thanks to which she will be better known in EU. Sure she has other more intelligent ways to sustainably market herself, but this time she made a wrong calculation – nowadays the public is no longer dupe. I understood she would like to be treated as a spoilt star and can’t bear the least “less attention” from others (even less when in EU many people don’t know her!), especially a shop assistant who should kneel down before stars like her.
I would rather spend time to participate in the discussions like why many black African countries still have difficulty in developing their economy; why some people with dark skin color are still discriminated while looking for a job in and outside Swiss? Why during the current world crisis, foreigners are always targeted, and why there are more poor black people than poor white people in the US? Real questions and issues comparing with a spoiled lady and a bag!
I am of Chinese origin and have been here for over 20 yrs. I learned in CH how to treated and be treated democratically and how to respect all nations with different skin colors. I believe there is still discrimination/racism here, like elsewhere. Please don’t tell me we are living in a racist country. Otherwise, I should have gone back to China where I will surely not be discriminated.
I am off from this thread here. I will untick the alert. If you want, please PM me.
Don’t be rude, smile
and be friendly
Cheers
Poor Oprah, insulted for not being recognized.
I have been here for 13yrs, quite well integrated with friends will all walks of life and of all nationalities including Swiss.
I have lived in both the Germanic part of Switzerland and the French.
I am not here to make things "better for the Swiss" ... Im here out of convenience since my kids are here.
I could earn alot more money elsewhere (eg the US) and have a cheaper cost of living, with similar standards...
Please dont put everyone in the same basket... its called generalizing and is often incorrect and false...
BTW if you knew Translator... you would very quickly withdraw what you wrote and apologise... if you dont know someone please dont generalise in an argument, you will get it wrong... afterall it is almost what the shop assistant allegedly did in Zueri with Oprah..no?
In what industrial sector could you earn alot more money in the US Charlie?
In what industrial sector could you earn alot more money in the US Charlie?
Hi guys,
I repeatedly receive alerts that people are still posting opinions… As mentioned previously, I am no longer willing to participate in this discussion to promoter lady O’s money/marketing machinery. Not worthwhile, there are more ordinary people needing real help as they are in difficulty to find a good job due to their skin color. My friend, fight for real cause, lady O does not need our help to make her richer.
By the way, three years after the nature disaster in Haiti, many people there still live in poor conditions (no decent house, etc). Do you know why? Do you know what’s going on there? What do they still need from rich countries? Is this more important than a rich lady and an alligator bag? Come on, let’s be logic and have some good common sense. Don’t be fooled by the rich “elite”.
Again, regarding this case, I don’t know the shop assistant who has her own version of the event. I didn’t know who the O lady was, but I know her now due to this thread (at least about some of her past…), hence, she did excellent PR job as mentioned by others. Whom / which version to believe?
Based on what I read about lady O, she lied to her public, because she defended the animal, whose skin was made into bag that she would like to buy. Just listen to the tone she talked about the bag out there made from alligator, you would understand she doesn’t care about the alligator, but she cares about how to market herself so that the media would make a big fuss over the case, thanks to which she will be better known in EU. Sure she has other more intelligent ways to sustainably market herself, but this time she made a wrong calculation – nowadays the public is no longer dupe. I understood she would like to be treated as a spoilt star and can’t bear the least “less attention” from others (even less when in EU many people don’t know her!), especially a shop assistant who should kneel down before stars like her.
I would rather spend time to participate in the discussions like why many black African countries still have difficulty in developing their economy; why some people with dark skin color are still discriminated while looking for a job in and outside Swiss? Why during the current world crisis, foreigners are always targeted, and why there are more poor black people than poor white people in the US? Real questions and issues comparing with a spoiled lady and a bag!
I am of Chinese origin and have been here for over 20 yrs. I learned in CH how to treated and be treated democratically and how to respect all nations with different skin colors. I believe there is still discrimination/racism here, like elsewhere. Please don’t tell me we are living in a racist country. Otherwise, I should have gone back to China where I will surely not be discriminated.
I am off from this thread here. I will untick the alert. If you want, please PM me.
Don’t be rude, smile
and be friendly
Cheers
I'm glad you've had great experiences. That's not the same for everyone, though.
If you are so inclined, please read what the Swiss Federal Racism Council say about their own country and 'structural xenophobia' as well as the widespread police practice of 'countercharging' individuals who protest against police brutality.
http://www.ekr.admin.ch/aktuell/index.html?lang=en
This is a fine country with lots of fine people. And there are problems, just like anywhere else.
In this discussion thread you can see many of the typical reactions to discrimnation:
a) it didn't happen;
b) it was a 'misunderstanding'
c) the person involved was a "whiner.'
d) the person involved is a 'liar' based upon the reports of the privileged class.
I can fully understand that people who hail from countries lacking some of the most fundamental of human and civil rights don't want to go back. That doesn't mean that discrimination doesn't exist here and that there is not evidence to prove it.
I'm glad you've had great experiences. That's not the same for everyone, though.
If you are so inclined, please read what the Swiss Federal Racism Council say about their own country and 'structural xenophobia' as well as the widespread police practice of 'countercharging' individuals who protest against police brutality.
http://www.ekr.admin.ch/aktuell/index.html?lang=en
This is a fine country with lots of fine people. And there are problems, just like anywhere else.
In this discussion thread you can see many of the typical reactions to discrimnation:
a) it didn't happen;
b) it was a 'misunderstanding'
c) the person involved was a "whiner.'
d) the person involved is a 'liar' based upon the reports of the privileged class.
I can fully understand that people who hail from countries lacking some of the most fundamental of human and civil rights don't want to go back. That doesn't mean that discrimination doesn't exist here and that there is not evidence to prove it.
I'm glad you've had great experiences. That's not the same for everyone, though.
If you are so inclined, please read what the Swiss Federal Racism Council say about their own country and 'structural xenophobia' as well as the widespread police practice of 'countercharging' individuals who protest against police brutality.
http://www.ekr.admin.ch/aktuell/index.html?lang=en
This is a fine country with lots of fine people. And there are problems, just like anywhere else.
In this discussion thread you can see many of the typical reactions to discrimnation:
a) it didn't happen;
b) it was a 'misunderstanding'
c) the person involved was a "whiner.'
d) the person involved is a 'liar' based upon the reports of the privileged class.
I can fully understand that people who hail from countries lacking some of the most fundamental of human and civil rights don't want to go back. That doesn't mean that discrimination doesn't exist here and that there is not evidence to prove it.
He's not listening, turned his alert off apparently, but you put your point well
He's not listening, turned his alert off apparently, but you put your point well
In what industrial sector could you earn alot more money in the US Charlie?
Hedge Funds Richard... (its a dying market here in Switzerland)
I have been here for 13yrs, quite well integrated with friends will all walks of life and of all nationalities including Swiss.
I have lived in both the Germanic part of Switzerland and the French.
I am not here to make things "better for the Swiss" ... Im here out of convenience since my kids are here.
I could earn alot more money elsewhere (eg the US) and have a cheaper cost of living, with similar standards...
Please dont put everyone in the same basket... its called generalizing and is often incorrect and false...
BTW if you knew Translator... you would very quickly withdraw what you wrote and apologise... if you dont know someone please dont generalise in an argument, you will get it wrong... afterall it is almost what the shop assistant allegedly did in Zueri with Oprah..no?
I did not generalize...i just forgot to add this below point / fact:
If you are not Swiss by nationality then you are here on your own accord or because of your life situation so you should accept what this place offers you. Whatever his / your reasons are to be here are your's to own so Swiss ppl don't have to change jack for you.
It is as simple as " you don't go to a Chineese Restaurant if you don't like Chineese food" you can't ask them to change the menu for you.
I did not generalize...i just forgot to add this below point / fact:
If you are not Swiss by nationality then you are here on your own accord or because of your life situation so you should accept what this place offers you. Whatever his / your reasons are to be here are your's to own so Swiss ppl don't have to change jack for you.
It is as simple as " you don't go to a Chineese Restaurant if you don't like Chineese food" you can't ask them to change the menu for you.
Nobody says that discrimination doesn't exist. But I personally don't take for granted the experience of O. Winfrey who is totally disconnected with reality. The version of the sales person is slightely different. She said her "English is ok but not perfect, there has been a misunderstanding".
Nobody says that discrimination doesn't exist. But I personally don't take for granted the experience of O. Winfrey who is totally disconnected with reality. The version of the sales person is slightely different. She said her "English is ok but not perfect, there has been a misunderstanding".
Nobody says that discrimination doesn't exist. But I personally don't take for granted the experience of O. Winfrey who is totally disconnected with reality. The version of the sales person is slightely different. She said her "English is ok but not perfect, there has been a misunderstanding".
There's always a 'misunderstanding' when you get called out on it. Here they tell you in french, il n'y a rien de mal....(nothing bad happened).
As I said before, I don't care about the bag. I do care about people being discriminated against w.r.t. housing, employment, police profiling and so on.
What is good about the whole situation is that perhaps people might take these issues more seriously when a global celebrity calls attention to it. OW herself has been quoted in swissinfo.ch as saying she didn't mean to cause such a ruckus over the issue.
However, in many countries, you' re taught to apologize profusely and blame the 'misunderstanding ' on your own staff, thereby increasing the chances that you don't damage your store's image or kill repeat customer service.
There's always a 'misunderstanding' when you get called out on it. Here they tell you in french, il n'y a rien de mal....(nothing bad happened).
As I said before, I don't care about the bag. I do care about people being discriminated against w.r.t. housing, employment, police profiling and so on.
What is good about the whole situation is that perhaps people might take these issues more seriously when a global celebrity calls attention to it. OW herself has been quoted in swissinfo.ch as saying she didn't mean to cause such a ruckus over the issue.
However, in many countries, you' re taught to apologize profusely and blame the 'misunderstanding ' on your own staff, thereby increasing the chances that you don't damage your store's image or kill repeat customer service.
Hedge Funds Richard... (its a dying market here in Switzerland)
Ok, that's the one then. Unfortunate for you that you have to stay here with the kids
Ok, that's the one then. Unfortunate for you that you have to stay here with the kids
well if swiss services are that bad and swiss german all racist, why the hell Tina Turner lives and get married in this awfull country?
Tina Turner is married to a German guy.
Seriously ?
I don't know you but i can kind of you don't qualify for nothing below by the way you talk out of your ....
How long have you been here ? Not too long i guess
What national languages you speak fluently ?
How many Swiss friends you have ?
So tell me why non citizens are not allowed to vote ?
Seriously ?
I don't know you but i can kind of you don't qualify for nothing below by the way you talk out of your ....
How long have you been here ? Not too long i guess
What national languages you speak fluently ?
How many Swiss friends you have ?
So tell me why non citizens are not allowed to vote ?
It was going to change into a language thing eventually, what with this being an English speaking forum and all, and there is a bit of Swiss bashing going on, so thats going to get some people riled for sure.There's also some down right rudeness going on here, so hopefully the referee will jump in again and remove some of the more personal stuff..
I'd like to make some points.
It's not ok to live in someone elses country (for years) and not even try to speak the language. But please don't generalise, we're not all like that. But also please nobody try to justify not speaking French on the basis that there's lots of foreigners here so we have the right not to try. We don't!
Also for those anglophiles and anglophobes out there. Please note: Next time a foreigner tries to speak to you in French, don't answer in English... It's not helping them;-)
Yes, it's somewhat silly to live in a foreign country -- over an extended period of years -- and not speak the local language.
I tell all my expat friends to start learning French immediately, even if they think they are only going to stay here for 2 years.
I don't think anyone here has written that there is no reason to learn the local language due to the size of the foreign population here. I did, however, say that if a business, particularly those involving portable consumer goods, wants to survive, these businesses need competent bilingual staff.
I will also say that you did not address my point about Swiss in different regions communicating with each other in English. Funny that. I've lived here for over a decade and rarely come across a Swiss Romand who speaks German, not to mention Swiss German!
Yes, it's somewhat silly to live in a foreign country -- over an extended period of years -- and not speak the local language.
I tell all my expat friends to start learning French immediately, even if they think they are only going to stay here for 2 years.
I don't think anyone here has written that there is no reason to learn the local language due to the size of the foreign population here. I did, however, say that if a business, particularly those involving portable consumer goods, wants to survive, these businesses need competent bilingual staff.
I will also say that you did not address my point about Swiss in different regions communicating with each other in English. Funny that. I've lived here for over a decade and rarely come across a Swiss Romand who speaks German, not to mention Swiss German!
Seriously ?
I don't know you but i can kind of you don't qualify for nothing below by the way you talk out of your ....
How long have you been here ? Not too long i guess
What national languages you speak fluently ?
How many Swiss friends you have ?
So tell me why non citizens are not allowed to vote ?
Exerpts from Swiss Federal Constitution:
Art. 8 Equality before the law
1 Every person is equal before the law.
2 No person may be discriminated against, in particular on grounds of origin, race, gender, age, language, social position, way of life, religious, ideological, or political convictions, or because of a physical, mental or psychological disability.
3 Men and women have equal rights. The law shall ensure their equality, both in law and in practice, most particularly in the family, in education, and in the workplace. Men and women have the right to equal pay for work of equal value.
4 The law shall provide for the elimination of inequalities that affect persons with disabilities.
...
Art. 16 Freedom of expression and of information
1 Freedom of expression and of information is guaranteed.
2 Every person has the right freely to form, express, and impart their opinions.
Art. 18 Freedom to use any language
The freedom to use any language is guaranteed
Source: http://www.admin.ch/ch/e/rs/1/101.en.pdf
Some of us come here through work and some come through marriage, some just by accident.
Exerpts from Swiss Federal Constitution:
Art. 8 Equality before the law
1 Every person is equal before the law.
2 No person may be discriminated against, in particular on grounds of origin, race, gender, age, language, social position, way of life, religious, ideological, or political convictions, or because of a physical, mental or psychological disability.
3 Men and women have equal rights. The law shall ensure their equality, both in law and in practice, most particularly in the family, in education, and in the workplace. Men and women have the right to equal pay for work of equal value.
4 The law shall provide for the elimination of inequalities that affect persons with disabilities.
...
Art. 16 Freedom of expression and of information
1 Freedom of expression and of information is guaranteed.
2 Every person has the right freely to form, express, and impart their opinions.
Art. 18 Freedom to use any language
The freedom to use any language is guaranteed
Source: http://www.admin.ch/ch/e/rs/1/101.en.pdf
Some of us come here through work and some come through marriage, some just by accident.
Yep. Some people can now resume their regularly practiced racist behaviors....or not...
Yep. Some people can now resume their regularly practiced racist behaviors....or not...
Yep. Some people can now resume their regularly practiced racist behaviors....or not...
So there you go ...as i mentioned few times before this whole thread was just pointless.
Even Oprah admits it was blown out of proportion :)
So there you go ...as i mentioned few times before this whole thread was just pointless.
Even Oprah admits it was blown out of proportion :)
So there you go ...as i mentioned few times before this whole thread was just pointless.
Even Oprah admits it was blown out of proportion :)
Sure. I don't think the thread was pointless because I got to see some of the real attitudes of people in the Glocals community. That is always useful.
But note, she also didn't say that it didn't happen. Almost every black person will tell you that these 'micro-aggressions' happen on almost a daily basis. We generally don't think it's the end of the world, just a sad part of life.
Most of us just share information about which businesses to patronize and which to boycott.
And I am soooooo looking forward to my next trip to Zurich. I'm going to get a group of friends -- black, white, and all colors of the rainbow -- to ask to see the every expensive bag in the city... just for the hell of it.
Sure. I don't think the thread was pointless because I got to see some of the real attitudes of people in the Glocals community. That is always useful.
But note, she also didn't say that it didn't happen. Almost every black person will tell you that these 'micro-aggressions' happen on almost a daily basis. We generally don't think it's the end of the world, just a sad part of life.
Most of us just share information about which businesses to patronize and which to boycott.
And I am soooooo looking forward to my next trip to Zurich. I'm going to get a group of friends -- black, white, and all colors of the rainbow -- to ask to see the every expensive bag in the city... just for the hell of it.
Sure. I don't think the thread was pointless because I got to see some of the real attitudes of people in the Glocals community. That is always useful.
But note, she also didn't say that it didn't happen. Almost every black person will tell you that these 'micro-aggressions' happen on almost a daily basis. We generally don't think it's the end of the world, just a sad part of life.
Most of us just share information about which businesses to patronize and which to boycott.
And I am soooooo looking forward to my next trip to Zurich. I'm going to get a group of friends -- black, white, and all colors of the rainbow -- to ask to see the every expensive bag in the city... just for the hell of it.
Get on with your life please there are people dying from poverty/ hunger/ war and what not.....who gives a Rat F*** if some one refuses to show a piece of shit purse or looks you funny because of your race or language.
you are probably well fed, able to take care of whoever you care for financially n emotionally, got internet and hell got too much time to waste on internet for this shit ....frankly speaking you are damn well off than 3 billion other unfortunate people ...so be thankfull ...stop whinning n bitching and please try to do something real good in life. Like feed the poor people n help save lives.
cheers
Get on with your life please there are people dying from poverty/ hunger/ war and what not.....who gives a Rat F*** if some one refuses to show a piece of shit purse or looks you funny because of your race or language.
you are probably well fed, able to take care of whoever you care for financially n emotionally, got internet and hell got too much time to waste on internet for this shit ....frankly speaking you are damn well off than 3 billion other unfortunate people ...so be thankfull ...stop whinning n bitching and please try to do something real good in life. Like feed the poor people n help save lives.
cheers
Get on with your life please there are people dying from poverty/ hunger/ war and what not.....who gives a Rat F*** if some one refuses to show a piece of shit purse or looks you funny because of your race or language.
you are probably well fed, able to take care of whoever you care for financially n emotionally, got internet and hell got too much time to waste on internet for this shit ....frankly speaking you are damn well off than 3 billion other unfortunate people ...so be thankfull ...stop whinning n bitching and please try to do something real good in life. Like feed the poor people n help save lives.
cheers
I can see just why you think you fit in here!
Keep up that great attitude!
I can see just why you think you fit in here!
Keep up that great attitude!
And by the way, as a teacher, I do something good every day. Mostly for Swiss adolescents...particularly helping them understand how to express themselves and how to think and argue logically.
And by the way, as a teacher, I do something good every day. Mostly for Swiss adolescents...particularly helping them understand how to express themselves and how to think and argue logically.
Neither i am complaining about racism nor i am going around with 6 friends looking for that one rascist jack ass. I rather do some good than doing that shit. i have other responsibilities in life and for saving lives i contribute to my best to few well known n respectable charities MSF n Red Cross.
If you like to know more i support local farmers n bio produce by paying high price.
Also let me add i speak German, Swiss German and now learning French so grow the F*** up n before telling Swiss people how to run their country take a look at how your own countries are doing ...probably stuck in damn Eco crises.
Let me quote an old saying " respect is not commanded it's earned" and i earned mine giving their culture some respect.
Neither i am complaining about racism nor i am going around with 6 friends looking for that one rascist jack ass. I rather do some good than doing that shit. i have other responsibilities in life and for saving lives i contribute to my best to few well known n respectable charities MSF n Red Cross.
If you like to know more i support local farmers n bio produce by paying high price.
Also let me add i speak German, Swiss German and now learning French so grow the F*** up n before telling Swiss people how to run their country take a look at how your own countries are doing ...probably stuck in damn Eco crises.
Let me quote an old saying " respect is not commanded it's earned" and i earned mine giving their culture some respect.
Neither i am complaining about racism nor i am going around with 6 friends looking for that one rascist jack ass. I rather do some good than doing that shit. i have other responsibilities in life and for saving lives i contribute to my best to few well known n respectable charities MSF n Red Cross.
If you like to know more i support local farmers n bio produce by paying high price.
Also let me add i speak German, Swiss German and now learning French so grow the F*** up n before telling Swiss people how to run their country take a look at how your own countries are doing ...probably stuck in damn Eco crises.
Let me quote an old saying " respect is not commanded it's earned" and i earned mine giving their culture some respect.
Some of us know how to multi-task. We can hunt down racist assholes, comment on line, donate, teach, help Swiss farmers by buying local and so on.
Just because we don't share your opinion that everything is honky dory here does not mean that we don't appreciate some of the Swiss and their culture.
Bravo on learning those languages! it might be even better if you could learn how to communicate civily and without the 'f' word. You might try reading the Swiss Constitution to learn about human and civil rights embedded it that august document.
One reason the Swiss economy isn't stuck in economic crisis is this nation's policy of accepting undeclared assets from citizens around the world. Oh, but that's a whole other thread.
Your anger is not atypical of someone who has 'drunk the kool aid.' No matter how much you might think you're "Swiss," you will still have every chance of being profiled by the police in this country because of the color of your skin.
Some of us know how to multi-task. We can hunt down racist assholes, comment on line, donate, teach, help Swiss farmers by buying local and so on.
Just because we don't share your opinion that everything is honky dory here does not mean that we don't appreciate some of the Swiss and their culture.
Bravo on learning those languages! it might be even better if you could learn how to communicate civily and without the 'f' word. You might try reading the Swiss Constitution to learn about human and civil rights embedded it that august document.
One reason the Swiss economy isn't stuck in economic crisis is this nation's policy of accepting undeclared assets from citizens around the world. Oh, but that's a whole other thread.
Your anger is not atypical of someone who has 'drunk the kool aid.' No matter how much you might think you're "Swiss," you will still have every chance of being profiled by the police in this country because of the color of your skin.
Nir/Oded
Do you not feel this is getting totally out of hand? A slanging match?
Time perhaps to close this down before it becomes even more like the EF
Nir/Oded
Do you not feel this is getting totally out of hand? A slanging match?
Time perhaps to close this down before it becomes even more like the EF
Sami: wow, you're so impressive, saving the world and accepting life's hardships with a straight face, while finding time to tell everyone else what bad people they are and how cool you are. You da man!
All: we'll keep this thread open for a while cos it's a hot topic, but pls no more personal attacks / insults. If you want to debate the topic, go for it. If you want to tell someone else he/she are stupic cos their view is different than yours, you'll be blocked.
Nir
Sami: wow, you're so impressive, saving the world and accepting life's hardships with a straight face, while finding time to tell everyone else what bad people they are and how cool you are. You da man!
All: we'll keep this thread open for a while cos it's a hot topic, but pls no more personal attacks / insults. If you want to debate the topic, go for it. If you want to tell someone else he/she are stupic cos their view is different than yours, you'll be blocked.
Nir
Too many non-docile black sheep around here?
Ooooh, I feel a Zurich purse moment coming on...
Too many non-docile black sheep around here?
Ooooh, I feel a Zurich purse moment coming on...
Too many non-docile black sheep around here?
Ooooh, I feel a Zurich purse moment coming on...
I don't think i am cool or anything that was just an answer to someone whose comment i took as a prrsonal attack.
For some of you this might be a topic to discuss because of personal experiences but in my 7 plus years in Switzerland never have i been treated unfairly. When i arrived here with no german n french, people helped me in English if they were able to otherwise they got someone in the store to do it. For those few close minded Swiss people who might look at me funny ....answer is clear i have learned your culture n language so i will not tolerate your bullshit. Again respect is earned n not demanded.
I am just going to close this thread from my side because it is pointless to discuss this topic further as after all that positive CH has to offer you have the time n nerve to point to those minor points while in your own countries hell is breaking lose.
I don't think i am cool or anything that was just an answer to someone whose comment i took as a prrsonal attack.
For some of you this might be a topic to discuss because of personal experiences but in my 7 plus years in Switzerland never have i been treated unfairly. When i arrived here with no german n french, people helped me in English if they were able to otherwise they got someone in the store to do it. For those few close minded Swiss people who might look at me funny ....answer is clear i have learned your culture n language so i will not tolerate your bullshit. Again respect is earned n not demanded.
I am just going to close this thread from my side because it is pointless to discuss this topic further as after all that positive CH has to offer you have the time n nerve to point to those minor points while in your own countries hell is breaking lose.
I don't think i am cool or anything that was just an answer to someone whose comment i took as a prrsonal attack.
For some of you this might be a topic to discuss because of personal experiences but in my 7 plus years in Switzerland never have i been treated unfairly. When i arrived here with no german n french, people helped me in English if they were able to otherwise they got someone in the store to do it. For those few close minded Swiss people who might look at me funny ....answer is clear i have learned your culture n language so i will not tolerate your bullshit. Again respect is earned n not demanded.
I am just going to close this thread from my side because it is pointless to discuss this topic further as after all that positive CH has to offer you have the time n nerve to point to those minor points while in your own countries hell is breaking lose.
Always the same dynamics:
Someone spends a ton of time posting tens of posts on a thread, with one of his/her main points being something like "don't spend so much time posting here, don't you have a life"...
Always the same dynamics:
Someone spends a ton of time posting tens of posts on a thread, with one of his/her main points being something like "don't spend so much time posting here, don't you have a life"...
You base this on what?! That's not the impression I have of her at all, in general.
In this case, I think Oprah blew it, but it's very unlike her. She's not loud or obnoxious, does not have a bad attitude, I have no idea about "pointing her finger" and what is this.....*probably* sprouted a few ...... Sheesh, nothing like generalizing. Or assuming. Or what's that word...stereotyping?
I wonder, do you even know who Oprah Winfrey is? If you know anything more than what's reported related to this story, she is a very caring, concerned, firm but loving, sometimes-vulnerable person.
You base this on what?! That's not the impression I have of her at all, in general.
In this case, I think Oprah blew it, but it's very unlike her. She's not loud or obnoxious, does not have a bad attitude, I have no idea about "pointing her finger" and what is this.....*probably* sprouted a few ...... Sheesh, nothing like generalizing. Or assuming. Or what's that word...stereotyping?
I wonder, do you even know who Oprah Winfrey is? If you know anything more than what's reported related to this story, she is a very caring, concerned, firm but loving, sometimes-vulnerable person.
I don't think the Swiss realise how poor their reputation is in the rest of the world in this respect.
Just looking at some of the US news feeds and one observation is how embarassing it must be in a high end store not to recognise one of the most influential people in the US who has a yearly income of 357 million dollars...ouch!
That said, I find the general standard of service here crap. I've just got back from a month in NY and was amazed at how friendly, solicitous and helpful people in shops are. It took me a week to get used to being back here where you almost feel like you're being a bother when you ask a shop assistant for help.
Max, I wonder how many people who served you were actually Americans? Or how many are immigrants, students, etc.
The idea is, the service is a reflection of the country/store which is instilled by the people who run it. No matter where the employees come from.
Max, I wonder how many people who served you were actually Americans? Or how many are immigrants, students, etc.
The idea is, the service is a reflection of the country/store which is instilled by the people who run it. No matter where the employees come from.
I only read a few posts from this thread and I heard about what happened to Oprah while she was in Switzerland.
About racism, I think that we truly know nothing about it unless we have experienced it ourselves. Meaning that we have nothing to say or add, if we don't know what we're talking about. Ignorance and fear has made us all say racist comments or made us act in a racist way, at one point or the other. Just because we might not know that what we say or do can hurt someone else, because we have never been in their shoes.
I respect those who have been hurt by it, because it is truly not fair. To me, difference has nothing to do with colour, but we are all different due to our education, culture and experiences in life. Difference can be scary sometimes, because it's part of the unknown... But it should not be an excuse to avoid getting to know each other, and be enriched by the experience of all people around us.
I only read a few posts from this thread and I heard about what happened to Oprah while she was in Switzerland.
About racism, I think that we truly know nothing about it unless we have experienced it ourselves. Meaning that we have nothing to say or add, if we don't know what we're talking about. Ignorance and fear has made us all say racist comments or made us act in a racist way, at one point or the other. Just because we might not know that what we say or do can hurt someone else, because we have never been in their shoes.
I respect those who have been hurt by it, because it is truly not fair. To me, difference has nothing to do with colour, but we are all different due to our education, culture and experiences in life. Difference can be scary sometimes, because it's part of the unknown... But it should not be an excuse to avoid getting to know each other, and be enriched by the experience of all people around us.
Max..
he didn't correct her. she corrected herself. and he replied to her comment.....
so, why the grammar nazi?
he didn't correct her. she corrected herself. and he replied to her comment.....
so, why the grammar nazi?
Not "stereotyping" at all. I mentioned Tina (and yes, I have met her on a 1:1 basis) who is also American and I said only nice things about her.
Why is it only ever American's who feel "stereotyped" when you mention "American" in the same sentence as a negative comment?
(Just a little irony, there, to brighten up your weekend). 
it's not only Americans, CC. You can't possibly have meant that seriously. I've heard Brits, Russians, Germans, French, etc complain about being stereotyped. But, I do like how you regularly point out things about Americans. Very classy.
it's not only Americans, CC. You can't possibly have meant that seriously. I've heard Brits, Russians, Germans, French, etc complain about being stereotyped. But, I do like how you regularly point out things about Americans. Very classy.
"As for Carolyns comment.... well youve just lowered yourself to the level of the shop assistant by pre judging a person you do not know or understand."
And I don't believe you've ever met me either, Karl N.
he didn't judge you, just pointed out the hypocrisy of your words on this forum.
so your point is....?
he didn't judge you, just pointed out the hypocrisy of your words on this forum.
so your point is....?
Racism is a strong word to use in conjunction with this incident. Following the whole Oprah Handbag Story (here in Zurich now called "Täschligate") closely, I cannot see any racist behaviour by the sales person.
First, read the sales clerk's version of the story: http://www.chicagotribune.com/entertainment/sns-rt-oprah-television-20130812,0,6438782.story
Important to hear her side, too, isn't it?
We might in any case, if even, speak of arrogance or misinterpretation here, but not of racism. She would have most probably showed the same lack of sales motivation (still, in her opinion she wasn't unmotivated) if a homeless swiss or a swiss hiker were in the shop.
And to answer one of the often asked questions in this thread: This sales clerk is Italian. But the nationality does not matter, we are all the same, we are all human (and make mistakes or cause misunderstandings once in a while, don't we?)
Racism is a strong word to use in conjunction with this incident. Following the whole Oprah Handbag Story (here in Zurich now called "Täschligate") closely, I cannot see any racist behaviour by the sales person.
First, read the sales clerk's version of the story: http://www.chicagotribune.com/entertainment/sns-rt-oprah-television-20130812,0,6438782.story
Important to hear her side, too, isn't it?
We might in any case, if even, speak of arrogance or misinterpretation here, but not of racism. She would have most probably showed the same lack of sales motivation (still, in her opinion she wasn't unmotivated) if a homeless swiss or a swiss hiker were in the shop.
And to answer one of the often asked questions in this thread: This sales clerk is Italian. But the nationality does not matter, we are all the same, we are all human (and make mistakes or cause misunderstandings once in a while, don't we?)
Hi Free
She did not say it was racism, the media titled it as racism, she just mentioned that she was not allowed to buy an expensive bag, for the salesperson thought she could not afford it. She didnt make any fuzz in that shop, she left the shop and told the story later on to friends as well as on the US Media. I dont see why should she hide the fact that the saleswoman thought she could not afford the bag. So she told the story as it was. And you are making a fuzz out of it.
Again... YES, SHE DID.
Casuistik,
I just watched the Larry King interview. She talked about an incident from the 1990s in New York, saying to her friend-hairdress "I think we're having a racist moment" but she made no comment or allusion to racism in regards to the Zürich store incident.
Casuistik,
I just watched the Larry King interview. She talked about an incident from the 1990s in New York, saying to her friend-hairdress "I think we're having a racist moment" but she made no comment or allusion to racism in regards to the Zürich store incident.
Casuistik,
I just watched the Larry King interview. She talked about an incident from the 1990s in New York, saying to her friend-hairdress "I think we're having a racist moment" but she made no comment or allusion to racism in regards to the Zürich store incident.
Interview (extract) with LK: 3.15 minutes
topic: racism
incident in France is mentioned,
incident in the States is described (and indeed, she adds "I think we're having a racist moment")
then the Zurich incident is mentioned...
And in your opinion she doesn't bring this up as another exemple of racism...
You must be joking...
Interview (extract) with LK: 3.15 minutes
topic: racism
incident in France is mentioned,
incident in the States is described (and indeed, she adds "I think we're having a racist moment")
then the Zurich incident is mentioned...
And in your opinion she doesn't bring this up as another exemple of racism...
You must be joking...
Always the same dynamics:
Someone spends a ton of time posting tens of posts on a thread, with one of his/her main points being something like "don't spend so much time posting here, don't you have a life"...
if 51 posts in 3 years 6 months qualify me for your definition of tons of posting in forums then i am guilty as charged :)
Thanks :)
p.s thats roughly 14 a year
if 51 posts in 3 years 6 months qualify me for your definition of tons of posting in forums then i am guilty as charged :)
Thanks :)
p.s thats roughly 14 a year
No one has spared a single thought for the poor crocodile in this story ...
No one has spared a single thought for the poor crocodile in this story ...
No one has spared a single thought for the poor crocodile in this story ...
Long thread and a bit hard to keep track, but yes, the crododile has been already properly mourned.
Long thread and a bit hard to keep track, but yes, the crododile has been already properly mourned.
if 51 posts in 3 years 6 months qualify me for your definition of tons of posting in forums then i am guilty as charged :)
Thanks :)
p.s thats roughly 14 a year
there were some other words in between 'tons' and 'post' that you missed:
Always the same dynamics:
Someone spends a ton of time posting tens of posts on a thread, with one of his/her main points being something like "don't spend so much time posting here, don't you have a life"...
Nir Ofek, Yesterday 22:05
there were some other words in between 'tons' and 'post' that you missed:
Always the same dynamics:
Someone spends a ton of time posting tens of posts on a thread, with one of his/her main points being something like "don't spend so much time posting here, don't you have a life"...
Nir Ofek, Yesterday 22:05
@Casuistik No, I'm not joking. I'm not a lawyer, but in that interview (which by the way was labeled by *someone else* with the caption "I think we're having a racist moment". She did not go on the show to discuss racism nor did she bring it up, as far as I can tell.) she did not say, clearly and distinctly and quotably "I experienced racism in Switzerland" which every news outlet and water-cooler conversationalist is ascribing to her. Yes, clearly the sentiments were there, but that does not mean people can claim she said things she did not.
In the incidents she did describe (France and NYC), she even hesitated to call it racism, thinking that the store owners just didn't see them or whatever. She did not instantly pull the race card, but only later in retrospect and reflection realized that *maybe* it was racism.
@Casuistik No, I'm not joking. I'm not a lawyer, but in that interview (which by the way was labeled by *someone else* with the caption "I think we're having a racist moment". She did not go on the show to discuss racism nor did she bring it up, as far as I can tell.) she did not say, clearly and distinctly and quotably "I experienced racism in Switzerland" which every news outlet and water-cooler conversationalist is ascribing to her. Yes, clearly the sentiments were there, but that does not mean people can claim she said things she did not.
In the incidents she did describe (France and NYC), she even hesitated to call it racism, thinking that the store owners just didn't see them or whatever. She did not instantly pull the race card, but only later in retrospect and reflection realized that *maybe* it was racism.
It's interesting how much flack I'm getting on FB from a US friend on FB on this when I try and point out other issues related to this besides the "racism" aspect. My US friend insists that it is only about the racism OW experienced at the store. the basic premise being she wasn't shown the purse because the shop assistant saw OW was black and didn't show her the expensive purse because she "racistly" believed that a black woman presenting by herself couldn't afford a CHF 35'000 purse. (which is also sexist as well, I would argue).
I am getting nowwhere with this friend when I bring up the related issues of:
1. Why is Switzerland a racist country if the shop assistant wasn't even Swiss (a fact ignored for most of the story at the start?
2. How much of the complaint is really about OW upset that she isn't automatically recognized by everyone in the world?
3. Why does this "social injustice" get so much press when there is so much other "real racism" happening everywhere. "The BBC headline was actually "OW suffers racism in Switzerland". Suffer? really? please!
4. What is a high profile PETA supporter doing looking at a crocodile leather purse anyway?
5. How much of this has to do with OWs upcoming political ambitions.
Anytime I brought any of this up, my friend, would answer "The issue isn't Oprah, the issue is racism".
So my question to the forum thread is, "When an accusation like this is made, aren't the motives of the person making the accusation also fair game? As well as the facts of the case? Last time I checked, we are allowed to question everything in a free society, even OW. Comemnts welcome!
It's interesting how much flack I'm getting on FB from a US friend on FB on this when I try and point out other issues related to this besides the "racism" aspect. My US friend insists that it is only about the racism OW experienced at the store. the basic premise being she wasn't shown the purse because the shop assistant saw OW was black and didn't show her the expensive purse because she "racistly" believed that a black woman presenting by herself couldn't afford a CHF 35'000 purse. (which is also sexist as well, I would argue).
I am getting nowwhere with this friend when I bring up the related issues of:
1. Why is Switzerland a racist country if the shop assistant wasn't even Swiss (a fact ignored for most of the story at the start?
2. How much of the complaint is really about OW upset that she isn't automatically recognized by everyone in the world?
3. Why does this "social injustice" get so much press when there is so much other "real racism" happening everywhere. "The BBC headline was actually "OW suffers racism in Switzerland". Suffer? really? please!
4. What is a high profile PETA supporter doing looking at a crocodile leather purse anyway?
5. How much of this has to do with OWs upcoming political ambitions.
Anytime I brought any of this up, my friend, would answer "The issue isn't Oprah, the issue is racism".
So my question to the forum thread is, "When an accusation like this is made, aren't the motives of the person making the accusation also fair game? As well as the facts of the case? Last time I checked, we are allowed to question everything in a free society, even OW. Comemnts welcome!
215 replies later and people are still arguing and whining about the topic.
All the comments section of major newspapers display hundreds if not thousands of comments of upset people arguing about an old washed-up TV celebrity whose popularity has been on a steady decline for quite some time now.
All this big media fuss less than 1 week before a movie she's starring in is coming out.
Don't you guys just GET IT? We have all been fooled and we're being fooled and manipulated all the time by the media.
215 replies later and people are still arguing and whining about the topic.
All the comments section of major newspapers display hundreds if not thousands of comments of upset people arguing about an old washed-up TV celebrity whose popularity has been on a steady decline for quite some time now.
All this big media fuss less than 1 week before a movie she's starring in is coming out.
Don't you guys just GET IT? We have all been fooled and we're being fooled and manipulated all the time by the media.
@Casuistik No, I'm not joking. I'm not a lawyer, but in that interview (which by the way was labeled by *someone else* with the caption "I think we're having a racist moment". She did not go on the show to discuss racism nor did she bring it up, as far as I can tell.) she did not say, clearly and distinctly and quotably "I experienced racism in Switzerland" which every news outlet and water-cooler conversationalist is ascribing to her. Yes, clearly the sentiments were there, but that does not mean people can claim she said things she did not.
In the incidents she did describe (France and NYC), she even hesitated to call it racism, thinking that the store owners just didn't see them or whatever. She did not instantly pull the race card, but only later in retrospect and reflection realized that *maybe* it was racism.
Wow!
*maybe*????
Oprah's quote aboute the incident in France: "...which I knew was clearly racism..."
Oprah's quote aboute the incident in the States: "I think we're having a racist moment" (She's quoting herself - what she said at the moment) and then she adds: AND IT WAS!
Now take a look at "ET First" interview, but this time with the intro that leads to the ZH narrative:
Wow!
*maybe*????
Oprah's quote aboute the incident in France: "...which I knew was clearly racism..."
Oprah's quote aboute the incident in the States: "I think we're having a racist moment" (She's quoting herself - what she said at the moment) and then she adds: AND IT WAS!
Now take a look at "ET First" interview, but this time with the intro that leads to the ZH narrative:
about, not aboute ... wtf?
Nice video, btw when do we have the conversation that it seems to be OK to completely categorize and insult white males without any repercussions. In the intro OW makes it sound like all men in any boardroom treat her racistly and sexistly. Did she make a point to say she feels it from "some" or " a few". Then goes on to state "Men are used tor running things". Is that really 100% true? No it isn't. It's a sexist comment. But it seems that no one really cares about these kind of statements. I know, it's a topic for another thread.
Nice video, btw when do we have the conversation that it seems to be OK to completely categorize and insult white males without any repercussions. In the intro OW makes it sound like all men in any boardroom treat her racistly and sexistly. Did she make a point to say she feels it from "some" or " a few". Then goes on to state "Men are used tor running things". Is that really 100% true? No it isn't. It's a sexist comment. But it seems that no one really cares about these kind of statements. I know, it's a topic for another thread.
Wow!
*maybe*????
Oprah's quote aboute the incident in France: "...which I knew was clearly racism..."
Oprah's quote aboute the incident in the States: "I think we're having a racist moment" (She's quoting herself - what she said at the moment) and then she adds: AND IT WAS!
Now take a look at "ET First" interview, but this time with the intro that leads to the ZH narrative:
@Casuistk the quote "I think we're having a racist moment" was from NYC, when she was with her friend/hairdresser, to whom she whispered that comment.
In Switzerland, she was alone and made no such comment.
@Casuistk the quote "I think we're having a racist moment" was from NYC, when she was with her friend/hairdresser, to whom she whispered that comment.
In Switzerland, she was alone and made no such comment.
The latest on this
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-23679605
The latest on this
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-23679605
She said she was sorry for the whole "racism" thing.
The latest on this
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-23679605
Thanks fo the link.
I would love to have Zonker's comment on this one...
Thanks fo the link.
I would love to have Zonker's comment on this one...
Racism is a strong word to use in conjunction with this incident. Following the whole Oprah Handbag Story (here in Zurich now called "Täschligate") closely, I cannot see any racist behaviour by the sales person.
First, read the sales clerk's version of the story: http://www.chicagotribune.com/entertainment/sns-rt-oprah-television-20130812,0,6438782.story
Important to hear her side, too, isn't it?
We might in any case, if even, speak of arrogance or misinterpretation here, but not of racism. She would have most probably showed the same lack of sales motivation (still, in her opinion she wasn't unmotivated) if a homeless swiss or a swiss hiker were in the shop.
And to answer one of the often asked questions in this thread: This sales clerk is Italian. But the nationality does not matter, we are all the same, we are all human (and make mistakes or cause misunderstandings once in a while, don't we?)
Having read the sales assistant's side, I stand by my earlier post that if someone is content to look at several items in one price range and then want to see others that cost ten times as much, most sales assistants could legitimately think that person is time wasting. I don't see any racist incident here ... just OW's bruised ego.
If however, OW had walked into the shop and said, "Can I see that $38,000 hangbag please.", immediately or another in the same price range and the woman said "No." To me, fair enough, that would be a racist act or at the very least would give cause to ask why she said no.
Btw, I am not saying racism doesn't exist. I've seen some shocking firsthand examples while out with a Jamaican women I used to date in the UK and another from Uganda and yes of course it happens. Some incidents were subtle and some were to the point I'd have happliy stepped in and punch the wanker's lights out.
My grandmother's family being Italian suffered a lot of abuse in the UK, ending up having to change their family name and my dad being Irish had to contend with the "No Blacks, No Dogs. No Irish" signs when he came to the London while looking for lodgings in 1958 along with loads of other examples. All incidents such as these I find truly abhorent and it makes my blood boil.
However, to go back to the original point - No, I do NOT think this was a racist incident and as for poor customer service, even that is in question - to my mind just a very unfortunate misunderstanding.
Having read the sales assistant's side, I stand by my earlier post that if someone is content to look at several items in one price range and then want to see others that cost ten times as much, most sales assistants could legitimately think that person is time wasting. I don't see any racist incident here ... just OW's bruised ego.
If however, OW had walked into the shop and said, "Can I see that $38,000 hangbag please.", immediately or another in the same price range and the woman said "No." To me, fair enough, that would be a racist act or at the very least would give cause to ask why she said no.
Btw, I am not saying racism doesn't exist. I've seen some shocking firsthand examples while out with a Jamaican women I used to date in the UK and another from Uganda and yes of course it happens. Some incidents were subtle and some were to the point I'd have happliy stepped in and punch the wanker's lights out.
My grandmother's family being Italian suffered a lot of abuse in the UK, ending up having to change their family name and my dad being Irish had to contend with the "No Blacks, No Dogs. No Irish" signs when he came to the London while looking for lodgings in 1958 along with loads of other examples. All incidents such as these I find truly abhorent and it makes my blood boil.
However, to go back to the original point - No, I do NOT think this was a racist incident and as for poor customer service, even that is in question - to my mind just a very unfortunate misunderstanding.
Hedge Funds Richard... (its a dying market here in Switzerland)
so now you sell luxuary handbag, seems there s buyer in Switzerland for that:)
so now you sell luxuary handbag, seems there s buyer in Switzerland for that:)
Tina Turner is married to a German guy.
and live in Switzerland, not Germany ;)
As an asian, I did experience racism : daily stereotype, racism joke, job discrimination. It s a real problem that we have to fight.
But I can t stand colored people who use racism as an easy excuse for their own mistake, failure, narrow minded state of mind.
I do love Switzerland where I lived since 2006 specially because of it s international aspect and where a website like glocals can exist because the country host us and is opened to welcome foreigners. Go and visit a school in Geneva, you will have a mix of swiss children wich parents are from Italy,Spain, France, Portugal, Albanie and so on... It s also the country where organisation like : Redcross, MSF, UNAIDS, ILO. have their headquarter. Do you think it would be possible if the majority of Swiss were Racist?
As an asian, I did experience racism : daily stereotype, racism joke, job discrimination. It s a real problem that we have to fight.
But I can t stand colored people who use racism as an easy excuse for their own mistake, failure, narrow minded state of mind.
I do love Switzerland where I lived since 2006 specially because of it s international aspect and where a website like glocals can exist because the country host us and is opened to welcome foreigners. Go and visit a school in Geneva, you will have a mix of swiss children wich parents are from Italy,Spain, France, Portugal, Albanie and so on... It s also the country where organisation like : Redcross, MSF, UNAIDS, ILO. have their headquarter. Do you think it would be possible if the majority of Swiss were Racist?
She said she was sorry for the whole "racism" thing.
Tell her thank's, but nobody was taking it personally anyways
She said she was sorry for the whole "racism" thing.
I really REALLY didn't want to come back to this, but she didn't actually "apologise". At no point did she say "I apologise".
She said she was "sorry" that it all "got blown up", and what she "actually" means (or as interpreted from the interview, below) is:
"I'm sorry I brought the whole thing up" - as in "I wish I'd never bothered because I ended up with egg on my face over the whole animal rights issue".
THEN she went on and on AGAIN about the whole "racist" thing for a full TWO minutes!!!
Her PR people must have been thinking "Zip it, O, just zip it, quit while you're ahead......"
Also wondering how much Donna Karan paid her to mention her skirt a gazillion times
?
I really REALLY didn't want to come back to this, but she didn't actually "apologise". At no point did she say "I apologise".
She said she was "sorry" that it all "got blown up", and what she "actually" means (or as interpreted from the interview, below) is:
"I'm sorry I brought the whole thing up" - as in "I wish I'd never bothered because I ended up with egg on my face over the whole animal rights issue".
THEN she went on and on AGAIN about the whole "racist" thing for a full TWO minutes!!!
Her PR people must have been thinking "Zip it, O, just zip it, quit while you're ahead......"
Also wondering how much Donna Karan paid her to mention her skirt a gazillion times
?
Carolyn, Only non-white people really know what racism feels like, especially when asking for service in a swiss retail store. Oprah knows what it feels like to be non-white. I am non-white and swiss and I can have empathy because I am in the same situation. it would be difficult for me to have full empathy to someone with a physical handicap, because I don't know what that really feels like.
Carolyn, Only non-white people really know what racism feels like, especially when asking for service in a swiss retail store. Oprah knows what it feels like to be non-white. I am non-white and swiss and I can have empathy because I am in the same situation. it would be difficult for me to have full empathy to someone with a physical handicap, because I don't know what that really feels like.
I really REALLY didn't want to come back to this, but she didn't actually "apologise". At no point did she say "I apologise".
She said she was "sorry" that it all "got blown up", and what she "actually" means (or as interpreted from the interview, below) is:
"I'm sorry I brought the whole thing up" - as in "I wish I'd never bothered because I ended up with egg on my face over the whole animal rights issue".
THEN she went on and on AGAIN about the whole "racist" thing for a full TWO minutes!!!
Her PR people must have been thinking "Zip it, O, just zip it, quit while you're ahead......"
Also wondering how much Donna Karan paid her to mention her skirt a gazillion times
?
Carolyn, Only non-white people really know what racism feels like, especially when asking for service in a swiss retail store. Oprah knows what it feels like to be non-white. I am non-white and swiss and I can have empathy because I am in the same situation. it would be difficult for me to have full empathy to someone with a physical handicap, because I don't know what that really feels like.
Carolyn, Only non-white people really know what racism feels like, especially when asking for service in a swiss retail store. Oprah knows what it feels like to be non-white. I am non-white and swiss and I can have empathy because I am in the same situation. it would be difficult for me to have full empathy to someone with a physical handicap, because I don't know what that really feels like.
Carolyn, Only non-white people really know what racism feels like, especially when asking for service in a swiss retail store. Oprah knows what it feels like to be non-white. I am non-white and swiss and I can have empathy because I am in the same situation. it would be difficult for me to have full empathy to someone with a physical handicap, because I don't know what that really feels like.
Sman - I couldn't agree more.
I've been discussing it at length with a very good friend, who is "non-white and swiss" who at first supported Oprah, and disagreed with everything I said, but then she read the link (which I hope is what you are referring to.....) her only comment was:
"Okay - she really should just shut up about the whole thing, now".
Prompting me to post #231.
Sman - I couldn't agree more.
I've been discussing it at length with a very good friend, who is "non-white and swiss" who at first supported Oprah, and disagreed with everything I said, but then she read the link (which I hope is what you are referring to.....) her only comment was:
"Okay - she really should just shut up about the whole thing, now".
Prompting me to post #231.
Carolyn, Only non-white people really know what racism feels like, especially when asking for service in a swiss retail store. Oprah knows what it feels like to be non-white. I am non-white and swiss and I can have empathy because I am in the same situation. it would be difficult for me to have full empathy to someone with a physical handicap, because I don't know what that really feels like.
......unless of course you're white but went to school in places like the Caribbean or Africa, then you might have some small idea 


......unless of course you're white but went to school in places like the Caribbean or Africa, then you might have some small idea 


Carolyn, Only non-white people really know what racism feels like, especially when asking for service in a swiss retail store. Oprah knows what it feels like to be non-white. I am non-white and swiss and I can have empathy because I am in the same situation. it would be difficult for me to have full empathy to someone with a physical handicap, because I don't know what that really feels like.
Sorry Carolyn I have to respectfully disagree with your above comment. I feel a feeling of racism whenever I run into a person who by their actions or words automatically assumes and really believes a woman is always a better parent as a man for example. It's the univeral feeling of 1) being unfairly judged and/or unfairly denied an opportunity based on a demographic factor. You don't have to be non-white to experience this, unfortunately.
Sorry Carolyn I have to respectfully disagree with your above comment. I feel a feeling of racism whenever I run into a person who by their actions or words automatically assumes and really believes a woman is always a better parent as a man for example. It's the univeral feeling of 1) being unfairly judged and/or unfairly denied an opportunity based on a demographic factor. You don't have to be non-white to experience this, unfortunately.
Carolyn, Only non-white people really know what racism feels like, especially when asking for service in a swiss retail store. Oprah knows what it feels like to be non-white. I am non-white and swiss and I can have empathy because I am in the same situation. it would be difficult for me to have full empathy to someone with a physical handicap, because I don't know what that really feels like.
Sorry I meant sman....
Sorry smanI have to respectfully disagree with your above comment. I feel a feeling of racism for example whenever I run into a person who by their actions or words automatically assumes and really believes a woman is always a better parent than a man for example. It's the univeral feeling of 1) being unfairly judged and/or unfairly denied an opportunity based on a demographic factor. You don't have to be non-white to experience this, unfortunately.
Sorry I meant sman....
Sorry smanI have to respectfully disagree with your above comment. I feel a feeling of racism for example whenever I run into a person who by their actions or words automatically assumes and really believes a woman is always a better parent than a man for example. It's the univeral feeling of 1) being unfairly judged and/or unfairly denied an opportunity based on a demographic factor. You don't have to be non-white to experience this, unfortunately.
Sorry I meant sman....
Sorry smanI have to respectfully disagree with your above comment. I feel a feeling of racism for example whenever I run into a person who by their actions or words automatically assumes and really believes a woman is always a better parent than a man for example. It's the univeral feeling of 1) being unfairly judged and/or unfairly denied an opportunity based on a demographic factor. You don't have to be non-white to experience this, unfortunately.
Peter, What you are refering to is discrimination, not racism. I am only refering to racism. I am not out to take on the whole topic of discrimination. Way too big for a forum like this!
Peter, What you are refering to is discrimination, not racism. I am only refering to racism. I am not out to take on the whole topic of discrimination. Way too big for a forum like this!
Karl N, Jason M, please, show a little respect. We have established that Zonker was totally wrong, but it can happen to the best of us.
It's so not cool of you two to make fun of him by thanking him for his posts.
Karl N, Jason M, please, show a little respect. We have established that Zonker was totally wrong, but it can happen to the best of us.
It's so not cool of you two to make fun of him by thanking him for his posts.
Peter, What you are refering to is discrimination, not racism. I am only refering to racism. I am not out to take on the whole topic of discrimination. Way too big for a forum like this!
Some of us only have first hand experience of discrimination, and not racial discrimination so we are trying to form our opinions based on what we have knowledge of.
Some of us only have first hand experience of discrimination, and not racial discrimination so we are trying to form our opinions based on what we have knowledge of.
Peter, What you are refering to is discrimination, not racism. I am only refering to racism. I am not out to take on the whole topic of discrimination. Way too big for a forum like this!
Hi sman, ok fair enough, but allow me to have my opinion that discrimination is discrimination whatever form. You wouldn't want to imply that one form is worse or harder to take than any other would you? I hope not, otherwise I could make the same argument that a non-white woman cannot really know what it's like to be a white mail discriminated against. What about the case here that I could easily live again, if I go out a bit unshaven and with a leather jacket and jeans, and with my darker half enthnically greek complextion and not perfect german, I get assumed as a eastern european (in the direction of serbia for example) and am not let into a club, when in reality I am a Californian born and raised in the US. Which happened to me a few years ago. Does that qualify in your book? Did I feel racism? I don't think you want to split hairs. My view is discrimination is discrimation whatever the label and we shouldn't start stratefying it.
PS no disrespect meant to any eastern europeans reallly, this was just my example from experience!
Hi sman, ok fair enough, but allow me to have my opinion that discrimination is discrimination whatever form. You wouldn't want to imply that one form is worse or harder to take than any other would you? I hope not, otherwise I could make the same argument that a non-white woman cannot really know what it's like to be a white mail discriminated against. What about the case here that I could easily live again, if I go out a bit unshaven and with a leather jacket and jeans, and with my darker half enthnically greek complextion and not perfect german, I get assumed as a eastern european (in the direction of serbia for example) and am not let into a club, when in reality I am a Californian born and raised in the US. Which happened to me a few years ago. Does that qualify in your book? Did I feel racism? I don't think you want to split hairs. My view is discrimination is discrimation whatever the label and we shouldn't start stratefying it.
PS no disrespect meant to any eastern europeans reallly, this was just my example from experience!
Karl N, Jason M, please, show a little respect. We have established that Zonker was totally wrong, but it can happen to the best of us.
It's so not cool of you two to make fun of him by thanking him for his posts.
I beg your pardon, sir? Nothing has been established, and who is "we" - are you now using the royal "we"? About what do you believe I have said something wrong? I can find no factual errors. Our opinions may differ, but facts...?
I beg your pardon, sir? Nothing has been established, and who is "we" - are you now using the royal "we"? About what do you believe I have said something wrong? I can find no factual errors. Our opinions may differ, but facts...?
Peter, What you are refering to is discrimination, not racism. I am only refering to racism. I am not out to take on the whole topic of discrimination. Way too big for a forum like this!
sorry all this german speaking for years and I can't spell in english anymore... male not male hahah
Hi sman, ok fair enough, but allow me to have my opinion that discrimination is discrimination whatever form. You wouldn't want to imply that one form is worse or harder to take than any other would you? I hope not, otherwise I could make the same argument that a non-white woman cannot really know what it's like to be a white male discriminated against. What about the case here that I could easily live again, if I go out a bit unshaven and with a leather jacket and jeans, and with my darker half enthnically greek complextion and not perfect german, I get assumed as a eastern european (in the direction of serbia for example) and am not let into a club, when in reality I am a Californian born and raised in the US. Which happened to me a few years ago. Does that qualify in your book? Did I feel racism? I don't think you want to split hairs. My view is discrimination is discrimation whatever the label and we shouldn't start stratefying it.
PS no disrespect meant to any eastern europeans reallly, this was just my example from experience!
sorry all this german speaking for years and I can't spell in english anymore... male not male hahah
Hi sman, ok fair enough, but allow me to have my opinion that discrimination is discrimination whatever form. You wouldn't want to imply that one form is worse or harder to take than any other would you? I hope not, otherwise I could make the same argument that a non-white woman cannot really know what it's like to be a white male discriminated against. What about the case here that I could easily live again, if I go out a bit unshaven and with a leather jacket and jeans, and with my darker half enthnically greek complextion and not perfect german, I get assumed as a eastern european (in the direction of serbia for example) and am not let into a club, when in reality I am a Californian born and raised in the US. Which happened to me a few years ago. Does that qualify in your book? Did I feel racism? I don't think you want to split hairs. My view is discrimination is discrimation whatever the label and we shouldn't start stratefying it.
PS no disrespect meant to any eastern europeans reallly, this was just my example from experience!
@Carolyn wait, wait, wait..... you're waiting for Oprah to apologize for ..... not being allowed to see/buy a handbag? For answering a question about racism that Larry King asked her?
Why the phuque should Oprah be apologizing to anyone in this case?
(shaking head)
@Carolyn wait, wait, wait..... you're waiting for Oprah to apologize for ..... not being allowed to see/buy a handbag? For answering a question about racism that Larry King asked her?
Why the phuque should Oprah be apologizing to anyone in this case?
(shaking head)
Carolyn, Only non-white people really know what racism feels like, especially when asking for service in a swiss retail store. Oprah knows what it feels like to be non-white. I am non-white and swiss and I can have empathy because I am in the same situation. it would be difficult for me to have full empathy to someone with a physical handicap, because I don't know what that really feels like.
One doesn’t have to be dark-skinned to be the target of racism.
I suffered it for many years because, as a white UK national of Scottish descent, I seemingly personified an in-law’s hatred of “les anglais” and all their dreadful deeds in Europe and the wider world since time began.
The unceasing jibes about my anglo-saxon accent every time I opened my mouth only ceased with his demise –
and may he rest in peace –
but the fact that he himself was a white francophone bully only goes to show that racism is practised the world over: X against Y and Y against Z and so on.
Legislation can help to curb racial prejudice but it needs to be reinforced by a unified international and educational approach in schools, the workplace and, above all, in our homes and families.
R.
One doesn’t have to be dark-skinned to be the target of racism.
I suffered it for many years because, as a white UK national of Scottish descent, I seemingly personified an in-law’s hatred of “les anglais” and all their dreadful deeds in Europe and the wider world since time began.
The unceasing jibes about my anglo-saxon accent every time I opened my mouth only ceased with his demise –
and may he rest in peace –
but the fact that he himself was a white francophone bully only goes to show that racism is practised the world over: X against Y and Y against Z and so on.
Legislation can help to curb racial prejudice but it needs to be reinforced by a unified international and educational approach in schools, the workplace and, above all, in our homes and families.
R.
Carolyn, Only non-white people really know what racism feels like, especially when asking for service in a swiss retail store. Oprah knows what it feels like to be non-white. I am non-white and swiss and I can have empathy because I am in the same situation. it would be difficult for me to have full empathy to someone with a physical handicap, because I don't know what that really feels like.
euh... sorry but i totally disagree there. i've experienced racism in many places because i'm french, because i'm english, because i'm not from xxx country or any other reason the small-minded idiots came up with to cause problems for me.
I have been chased by a gang a nazis for not being an auslander, beaten up for being foreign on another occasion, and growing up in various places was always made fun of up to being verbally and physically abused for being a froggy, roast beef etc. Its wrong in all cases but pls don't say only non-whites can understand racism!!
euh... sorry but i totally disagree there. i've experienced racism in many places because i'm french, because i'm english, because i'm not from xxx country or any other reason the small-minded idiots came up with to cause problems for me.
I have been chased by a gang a nazis for not being an auslander, beaten up for being foreign on another occasion, and growing up in various places was always made fun of up to being verbally and physically abused for being a froggy, roast beef etc. Its wrong in all cases but pls don't say only non-whites can understand racism!!
I beg your pardon, sir? Nothing has been established, and who is "we" - are you now using the royal "we"? About what do you believe I have said something wrong? I can find no factual errors. Our opinions may differ, but facts...?
We is me, Suleman and... Oprah.
Accordind to you, the ZH incident was not a problem of racism...
If you watch the LK interview, it's obvious that it is...
If you watch the "ET FIRST" interview, it's blatant that it is...
If you watch the last interview (linked by Sukleman), she (Oprah) litterally says it...
Basically, one can use interview 3 as the Cliff's notes to interview 2, which can be regarded as the Cliff's notes to interview 1.
So Oprah, as a fact (and of course also my opinion), used the ZH narrative as an example to denounce a form of racism which is - of course more subtle than being called the N- word...
We is me, Suleman and... Oprah.
Accordind to you, the ZH incident was not a problem of racism...
If you watch the LK interview, it's obvious that it is...
If you watch the "ET FIRST" interview, it's blatant that it is...
If you watch the last interview (linked by Sukleman), she (Oprah) litterally says it...
Basically, one can use interview 3 as the Cliff's notes to interview 2, which can be regarded as the Cliff's notes to interview 1.
So Oprah, as a fact (and of course also my opinion), used the ZH narrative as an example to denounce a form of racism which is - of course more subtle than being called the N- word...
careful, cas.....
oh, all three of you
i never said that it wasn't a case of racism. i never said that oprah didn't say it wasn't a case of racism. i was very deliberate and careful about that.
perhaps you should re-read what i said and ... well, it doesn't matter. after my next post, i'm unsubscribing.
careful, cas.....
oh, all three of you
i never said that it wasn't a case of racism. i never said that oprah didn't say it wasn't a case of racism. i was very deliberate and careful about that.
perhaps you should re-read what i said and ... well, it doesn't matter. after my next post, i'm unsubscribing.
careful, cas.....
oh, all three of you
i never said that it wasn't a case of racism. i never said that oprah didn't say it wasn't a case of racism. i was very deliberate and careful about that.
perhaps you should re-read what i said and ... well, it doesn't matter. after my next post, i'm unsubscribing.
Quote (Zonker): "...but she made no comment or allusion to racism in regards to the Zürich store incident."
Perhaps you should re-read what you wrote...
Quote (Zonker): "...but she made no comment or allusion to racism in regards to the Zürich store incident."
Perhaps you should re-read what you wrote...
@Carolyn wait, wait, wait..... you're waiting for Oprah to apologize for ..... not being allowed to see/buy a handbag? For answering a question about racism that Larry King asked her?
Why the phuque should Oprah be apologizing to anyone in this case?
(shaking head)
Zonker - you can stop shaking your head whilst putting words in my mouth.
Nowhere in my post did I say I was "waiting for Oprah to apologise", nor would I expect her to, unless she had been rude to the sales assistant, for example.....
I was trying to clarify Suleman's remark:
She said she was sorry for the whole "racism" thing.
Which implies that she had "apologised", when, if you listen to the latest interview (given on the red carpet of "The Butler" bash - see! no animosity felt, I'm even plugging her new film for her.....) she's clearly "sorry" (for herself) that she opened her mouth about the whole incident, in the first place.
I was going to add that they're just crocodile tears, but that would probably be taken out of context as well.....
So hopefully, now you can stop head-shaking and go
.
Zonker - you can stop shaking your head whilst putting words in my mouth.
Nowhere in my post did I say I was "waiting for Oprah to apologise", nor would I expect her to, unless she had been rude to the sales assistant, for example.....
I was trying to clarify Suleman's remark:
She said she was sorry for the whole "racism" thing.
Which implies that she had "apologised", when, if you listen to the latest interview (given on the red carpet of "The Butler" bash - see! no animosity felt, I'm even plugging her new film for her.....) she's clearly "sorry" (for herself) that she opened her mouth about the whole incident, in the first place.
I was going to add that they're just crocodile tears, but that would probably be taken out of context as well.....
So hopefully, now you can stop head-shaking and go
.
Holy batshit, Batman!!!!
1. Oprah never mentioned the Zürich incident to anyone (Twitter, media, etc.) *until* she was asked if she had experienced racism while she is/was doing the talk show circuit to promote her new movie.
2. The media have done their job - they took a little story with no bru-ha-ha and gave it a great headline bound to get everyone talking and linking to their sites and, and, and, and..... Congratulations.
3. Now, everyone is asking her about it and she's still handling it well (IMHO). She said that she is not against the Swiss people or country.
4. I've heard/read the interview with the shop owner talking about the salesperson and, to me, it doesn't add up. I'm sure that the salesperson has got her back against the wall, and both of them are now backpedaling as fast as possible. Oprah said in several interviews that she went alone to the store, whereas the salesperson claimed there was another person there. The statements from the salesperson seem very much like "Methinks she dost protest too much" but I admit it could be the way the piece is written. Lastly, Oprah said she arrived at the store, asked to see the handbag in question (henceforth, HIQ), and was refused. She asked again. "No, but let's look at these other bags." It seems OW acquiesced and looked at the other bags, but then again asked to see the HIQ. No. At which point, she said, "OK, you're probably right. I'll just go" (obviously making *no* purchase, much less the major one.
5. I don't believe that Oprah would make up this story. She would have *nothing* to gain from it and she has other examples she could draw on, rather than make up a new story. Plus, being a media mogul (or whatever you want to call it), a successful business woman, promoting a new movie..... she doesn't need a story about racism to be in the press.
6. Several people have made snide comments about the fact that OW would buy a crocodile skin purse or pay $38K for a purse. But, she didn't, did she? And since she never actually got a chance to see the purse or ask the price, she couldn't bloody well know it was crocodile or that it was $38K. As she tweeted later (I still have a hard time saying that people tweet....., call me old-fashioned), she wouldn't have bought such an expensive bag. BUT, and this is the crucial part, I think.......Oprah should have had the opportunity to make that decision *herself*, not have it made *for* her.
7. Someone made the comment that OW is washed up and on the decline. I wonder what that's based on. She has her own network, branching out to many countries (not yet CH, clearly), and is one of the richest woman in the US. She continues to earn several hundred million a year. How is that washed up and on the decline? I want to be washed up and on the decline like that.....
In any case, it seems that this has blown up everywhere (250 posts on glocals alone!?) and I, for one, am bowing out, only because I have work to do.
Peace out, everyone. See you on the next hot-button topic. ;) Perhaps my Dvorak thread could get some discussion? ;)
Holy batshit, Batman!!!!
1. Oprah never mentioned the Zürich incident to anyone (Twitter, media, etc.) *until* she was asked if she had experienced racism while she is/was doing the talk show circuit to promote her new movie.
2. The media have done their job - they took a little story with no bru-ha-ha and gave it a great headline bound to get everyone talking and linking to their sites and, and, and, and..... Congratulations.
3. Now, everyone is asking her about it and she's still handling it well (IMHO). She said that she is not against the Swiss people or country.
4. I've heard/read the interview with the shop owner talking about the salesperson and, to me, it doesn't add up. I'm sure that the salesperson has got her back against the wall, and both of them are now backpedaling as fast as possible. Oprah said in several interviews that she went alone to the store, whereas the salesperson claimed there was another person there. The statements from the salesperson seem very much like "Methinks she dost protest too much" but I admit it could be the way the piece is written. Lastly, Oprah said she arrived at the store, asked to see the handbag in question (henceforth, HIQ), and was refused. She asked again. "No, but let's look at these other bags." It seems OW acquiesced and looked at the other bags, but then again asked to see the HIQ. No. At which point, she said, "OK, you're probably right. I'll just go" (obviously making *no* purchase, much less the major one.
5. I don't believe that Oprah would make up this story. She would have *nothing* to gain from it and she has other examples she could draw on, rather than make up a new story. Plus, being a media mogul (or whatever you want to call it), a successful business woman, promoting a new movie..... she doesn't need a story about racism to be in the press.
6. Several people have made snide comments about the fact that OW would buy a crocodile skin purse or pay $38K for a purse. But, she didn't, did she? And since she never actually got a chance to see the purse or ask the price, she couldn't bloody well know it was crocodile or that it was $38K. As she tweeted later (I still have a hard time saying that people tweet....., call me old-fashioned), she wouldn't have bought such an expensive bag. BUT, and this is the crucial part, I think.......Oprah should have had the opportunity to make that decision *herself*, not have it made *for* her.
7. Someone made the comment that OW is washed up and on the decline. I wonder what that's based on. She has her own network, branching out to many countries (not yet CH, clearly), and is one of the richest woman in the US. She continues to earn several hundred million a year. How is that washed up and on the decline? I want to be washed up and on the decline like that.....
In any case, it seems that this has blown up everywhere (250 posts on glocals alone!?) and I, for one, am bowing out, only because I have work to do.
Peace out, everyone. See you on the next hot-button topic. ;) Perhaps my Dvorak thread could get some discussion? ;)
Oprah was discriminated by an Italian salesgirl, not that long ago, the Italians were discriminated a lot in Switzerland, thus why I dont understand this saleslady for if her parents grew up in Switzerland then, they know and felt discrimination in Switzerland.
People learn by example. Children learn both good and bad habits from their parents and/or peers. I'm sure it *can be* the same for a people who are discriminated against then subconsciously (or not) "take it out" on another population they see as inferior (or whatever).
People learn by example. Children learn both good and bad habits from their parents and/or peers. I'm sure it *can be* the same for a people who are discriminated against then subconsciously (or not) "take it out" on another population they see as inferior (or whatever).
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here is one:
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Okay, here's another take. If a woman or man of any ethnicity comes into a shop, car showroom and initially looks at bags, cars, pianos, whatever item it may be, for x amount and then says, can I look at the one which costs ten times the price of the range I've just been looking at then you might think that person is a timewaster and will divert them back to something that they could afford. Again, whatever their ethnicity.
This has happened to me in Switzerland (not with a crocodile handbag, I hasten to add) and while I was a bit aggrieved (as I could’ve afforded what I was looking at), there was a certain logic to it but then I just thought, sod it! I’ll buy it somewhere else. Which I did.
Also usually for a high-end items like that, I would imagine that one would know in advance that’s what they would choose and would just ask to see it straight away.
Granted OW is an exception and yes, we know she could easily afford it along with the shop itself but if you’re playing the averages and want to make a sale then someone (again of any ethnicity) asking to see something 10 times the price of what they were originally looking at would make most sales assistants wonder if it’s worth getting it down. Anyway, just my take on it.
Have a good day and enjoy this weather!
But, Rich (shit, i'm reading more posts after saying i unsubscribed!).....
according to OW, she asked to see the expensive bag from the outset. She asked more than once. The saleslady showed her the cheaper ones and then OW repeated her request.
But, forgetting this incident, I once worked in retail albeit not in a luxury goods store. Maybe I was young and naïve (ok, ok, not "maybe" but definitely!), but if a little 9-year old terror came in and asked to see something "expensive", I showed it to him. I know the rules change when you have items that cost 5 figures, but the basic premise of a retail outlet is: TO SELL MERCHANDISE.
Maybe the person in the shop is the son/daughter of an oil billionaire? Maybe it's the personal shopper for the owner of a football team, who's been asked to "get something for my wife's birthday," maybe it's some hot-shot Silicon Valley-millionaire who still dresses like a Skater....WHO CARES!? Show hir the product and then see what follows.
Don't make assumptions.
But, Rich (shit, i'm reading more posts after saying i unsubscribed!).....
according to OW, she asked to see the expensive bag from the outset. She asked more than once. The saleslady showed her the cheaper ones and then OW repeated her request.
But, forgetting this incident, I once worked in retail albeit not in a luxury goods store. Maybe I was young and naïve (ok, ok, not "maybe" but definitely!), but if a little 9-year old terror came in and asked to see something "expensive", I showed it to him. I know the rules change when you have items that cost 5 figures, but the basic premise of a retail outlet is: TO SELL MERCHANDISE.
Maybe the person in the shop is the son/daughter of an oil billionaire? Maybe it's the personal shopper for the owner of a football team, who's been asked to "get something for my wife's birthday," maybe it's some hot-shot Silicon Valley-millionaire who still dresses like a Skater....WHO CARES!? Show hir the product and then see what follows.
Don't make assumptions.
@Ritchie (Post #148) Agreed about why was the salesperson working alone. But, I disagree about the "made to order" comment. The bags in the store are on display to be sold. Lastly, I don't know if they moved the bags for the video that's out there on the internet, but the store owner was able to reach the bag quite easily.
@Casuistik (#255) But, I have unsubscribed! I just haven't finished reading the other posts. I'm only on #148. And your last.
@Ritchie (Post #148) Agreed about why was the salesperson working alone. But, I disagree about the "made to order" comment. The bags in the store are on display to be sold. Lastly, I don't know if they moved the bags for the video that's out there on the internet, but the store owner was able to reach the bag quite easily.
@Casuistik (#255) But, I have unsubscribed! I just haven't finished reading the other posts. I'm only on #148. And your last.
But, Rich (shit, i'm reading more posts after saying i unsubscribed!).....
according to OW, she asked to see the expensive bag from the outset. She asked more than once. The saleslady showed her the cheaper ones and then OW repeated her request.
But, forgetting this incident, I once worked in retail albeit not in a luxury goods store. Maybe I was young and naïve (ok, ok, not "maybe" but definitely!), but if a little 9-year old terror came in and asked to see something "expensive", I showed it to him. I know the rules change when you have items that cost 5 figures, but the basic premise of a retail outlet is: TO SELL MERCHANDISE.
Maybe the person in the shop is the son/daughter of an oil billionaire? Maybe it's the personal shopper for the owner of a football team, who's been asked to "get something for my wife's birthday," maybe it's some hot-shot Silicon Valley-millionaire who still dresses like a Skater....WHO CARES!? Show hir the product and then see what follows.
Don't make assumptions.
Zonker, given you and I weren't in that shop at the time and we can't say for sure what happened in respect of did she look at a lower range first (non-racist), ask to look at the 38 grand one first and was refused (racist or wtf?!), did she act alone, was she with a woman, was there a crocodile on the grassy knoll opposite...
I guess all we can both do is add what we think in a non-confrontational way to this discussion. Peace out.
Zonker, given you and I weren't in that shop at the time and we can't say for sure what happened in respect of did she look at a lower range first (non-racist), ask to look at the 38 grand one first and was refused (racist or wtf?!), did she act alone, was she with a woman, was there a crocodile on the grassy knoll opposite...
I guess all we can both do is add what we think in a non-confrontational way to this discussion. Peace out.
There are other countries in this world which can use your generous help and are in serious need to improve ...so please don't waste your precious time here.
nobody and believe me nobody asked you or anyone to come help make this place better ...swiss are already doing a very good job at it. You like all the others are here just because of higher standard of living n financial gain.
Please do not even try to contest this point with pointless argument.
Don't even pretend to know *why* one person or another came here or why they choose to stay. Maybe *you* came here for those reasons, but that doesn't mean others did.
No one asked anyone to come here and make this a better place, but people were (and continuously are) asked to come here: UN, Consulates, private businesses, etc. Those people who are here have a right (and in some cases a moral obligation) to state their opinions, discuss things they see as wrong or improvable.
Switzerland is a wonderful country, to be sure. But to think - even write in balck & white (didya like that?
) - that Switzerland has it all figured out and have nothing to improve, well that's just laughable.
(And, yes, USA where I'm from has a whole host of issues to improve. And Russia/Ukraine where I've lived for many years have a whole host of issues to improve. And so on.)
The "if you don't like it here, move" argument is so 4th grade, it doesn't warrant comment anymore.
Don't even pretend to know *why* one person or another came here or why they choose to stay. Maybe *you* came here for those reasons, but that doesn't mean others did.
No one asked anyone to come here and make this a better place, but people were (and continuously are) asked to come here: UN, Consulates, private businesses, etc. Those people who are here have a right (and in some cases a moral obligation) to state their opinions, discuss things they see as wrong or improvable.
Switzerland is a wonderful country, to be sure. But to think - even write in balck & white (didya like that?
) - that Switzerland has it all figured out and have nothing to improve, well that's just laughable.
(And, yes, USA where I'm from has a whole host of issues to improve. And Russia/Ukraine where I've lived for many years have a whole host of issues to improve. And so on.)
The "if you don't like it here, move" argument is so 4th grade, it doesn't warrant comment anymore.
To be completely honest.. now that I have heard her BBC interview,(havent seen the others).. she felt slighted and its nothing to do with racism. Maybe being OW, she didnt feel she needed to prove she could afford the bag and people would know who she was.. maybe :-)
The saleswoman, (based on her assessment right or wrong, apparently OW wasn't wearing any expensive jewellery etc) made a judgement call that she would be wasting her time with the USD 35000 handbag on OW. I guess these kind of shops have rich individual customers from some of the poorest countries in the world(with coloured populations)... Switzerland's banking secrecy and all that..
This appears(as someone stated earlier in the thread) to be about stereotypes. We ALL have at some point received BETTER or WORSE treatment then deemed suitable for us, based on a salespersons assesment. I think that's all there is to it.
My 2 pence and I rest :-)
To be completely honest.. now that I have heard her BBC interview,(havent seen the others).. she felt slighted and its nothing to do with racism. Maybe being OW, she didnt feel she needed to prove she could afford the bag and people would know who she was.. maybe :-)
The saleswoman, (based on her assessment right or wrong, apparently OW wasn't wearing any expensive jewellery etc) made a judgement call that she would be wasting her time with the USD 35000 handbag on OW. I guess these kind of shops have rich individual customers from some of the poorest countries in the world(with coloured populations)... Switzerland's banking secrecy and all that..
This appears(as someone stated earlier in the thread) to be about stereotypes. We ALL have at some point received BETTER or WORSE treatment then deemed suitable for us, based on a salespersons assesment. I think that's all there is to it.
My 2 pence and I rest :-)
@sami No, I and all the other non-Swiss can't vote. But, we have Swiss friends. We can talk. We can learn and share our experiences. We can say things like "Wow, that was a racist comment" or "Wow, that was a racist behavior" when something happens to us or around us and our friends happen to be present.
White kids in the South in the 50s and 60s would say things and act in certain ways when growing up, simply because of their surroundings. If they then went somewhere less racist, say for university in New England, they might say/do something in a group of friends that others considered racist. Hopefully, those around them would say "That's racist" and although they might not immediately agree or change their behavior, you can be sure that 4 years later when graduating, *something* of their idea about racism would have been affected.
Now, multiply that by 40% expats in Geneva or Switzerland over the last 40 years. However minimal, I'm sure there is *some* affect that we foreigners have had and continue to have on the locals.
@sami No, I and all the other non-Swiss can't vote. But, we have Swiss friends. We can talk. We can learn and share our experiences. We can say things like "Wow, that was a racist comment" or "Wow, that was a racist behavior" when something happens to us or around us and our friends happen to be present.
White kids in the South in the 50s and 60s would say things and act in certain ways when growing up, simply because of their surroundings. If they then went somewhere less racist, say for university in New England, they might say/do something in a group of friends that others considered racist. Hopefully, those around them would say "That's racist" and although they might not immediately agree or change their behavior, you can be sure that 4 years later when graduating, *something* of their idea about racism would have been affected.
Now, multiply that by 40% expats in Geneva or Switzerland over the last 40 years. However minimal, I'm sure there is *some* affect that we foreigners have had and continue to have on the locals.
Get on with your life please there are people dying from poverty/ hunger/ war and what not.....who gives a Rat F*** if some one refuses to show a piece of shit purse or looks you funny because of your race or language.
you are probably well fed, able to take care of whoever you care for financially n emotionally, got internet and hell got too much time to waste on internet for this shit ....frankly speaking you are damn well off than 3 billion other unfortunate people ...so be thankfull ...stop whinning n bitching and please try to do something real good in life. Like feed the poor people n help save lives.
cheers
Tone it done, Sami.
and live in Switzerland, not Germany ;)
I think TT is a Swiss citizen, no? At least according to the Mr. Pickwick's Pub Quiz a few weeks ago....
I think TT is a Swiss citizen, no? At least according to the Mr. Pickwick's Pub Quiz a few weeks ago....
Zonker - you can stop shaking your head whilst putting words in my mouth.
Nowhere in my post did I say I was "waiting for Oprah to apologise", nor would I expect her to, unless she had been rude to the sales assistant, for example.....
I was trying to clarify Suleman's remark:
She said she was sorry for the whole "racism" thing.
Which implies that she had "apologised", when, if you listen to the latest interview (given on the red carpet of "The Butler" bash - see! no animosity felt, I'm even plugging her new film for her.....) she's clearly "sorry" (for herself) that she opened her mouth about the whole incident, in the first place.
I was going to add that they're just crocodile tears, but that would probably be taken out of context as well.....
So hopefully, now you can stop head-shaking and go
.
CC,
I see now you were responding to SS, but my question still stands, perhaps with more clarification.
Suleman: "she said she was sorry...."
You: "she didn't actually 'apologise'. At no point did she say "I apologise. She said she was 'sorry'"
It sounds like you are taking issue with OW because she has not yet apologised. Hence, my response including the head shaking. But, for what do you want an apology from her? "I, OW, do apologise for...."?
Otherwise, I'm not sure what your point/argument is here. Are you focusing on the semantics between "I'm sorry" and "I apologise"? To me, those are identical. Or, are you saying she never used the word "apologise" but rather the word "sorry"? In that case, Suleman is not wrong, because that's what he wrote.
Again, I'm not sure how you are able to determine what OW "actually" meant or how you can be the authority on interview interpretation.
I don't agree with the implication you see. I don't feel for a second that OW was "clearly sorry (for herself)." I don't think she's felt sorry for herself in years, if ever. Clearly I don't know, but I don't get that impression. I also don't think she has egg on her face. Again, she didn't get to actually hold the bag or get any info on the bag before it was revealed (7-10 days later?) that the bag was crocodile.
The reason she talked about it for "a full TWO minutes" is because she was asked about it and she was stating (for the first time?) *why* she even told the story in the first place, as an example, to answer a question she had been asked in an interview.
I think her PR people were quite happy with her response. She responded to the question, neither long-windedly nor curtly, said that she has nothing against Switzerland and off she went.
Donna Karan skirt: why the hyperbole? She mentioned the skirt twice. And it was relevant to the story. She wore it to *more* appear like someone who belonged in the store and would be a likely client. To dress the part, like when a Tennis club requires Jacket and Tie or some such.
Carolyn, please don't ask me to go. We've sparred on many forums on many topics, and I cherish that. I have also thanked you for your posts on several occasions, even on this thread. I would never ask you to go....
(I'm all the way up to post #251 now! the end is in sight!)
CC,
I see now you were responding to SS, but my question still stands, perhaps with more clarification.
Suleman: "she said she was sorry...."
You: "she didn't actually 'apologise'. At no point did she say "I apologise. She said she was 'sorry'"
It sounds like you are taking issue with OW because she has not yet apologised. Hence, my response including the head shaking. But, for what do you want an apology from her? "I, OW, do apologise for...."?
Otherwise, I'm not sure what your point/argument is here. Are you focusing on the semantics between "I'm sorry" and "I apologise"? To me, those are identical. Or, are you saying she never used the word "apologise" but rather the word "sorry"? In that case, Suleman is not wrong, because that's what he wrote.
Again, I'm not sure how you are able to determine what OW "actually" meant or how you can be the authority on interview interpretation.
I don't agree with the implication you see. I don't feel for a second that OW was "clearly sorry (for herself)." I don't think she's felt sorry for herself in years, if ever. Clearly I don't know, but I don't get that impression. I also don't think she has egg on her face. Again, she didn't get to actually hold the bag or get any info on the bag before it was revealed (7-10 days later?) that the bag was crocodile.
The reason she talked about it for "a full TWO minutes" is because she was asked about it and she was stating (for the first time?) *why* she even told the story in the first place, as an example, to answer a question she had been asked in an interview.
I think her PR people were quite happy with her response. She responded to the question, neither long-windedly nor curtly, said that she has nothing against Switzerland and off she went.
Donna Karan skirt: why the hyperbole? She mentioned the skirt twice. And it was relevant to the story. She wore it to *more* appear like someone who belonged in the store and would be a likely client. To dress the part, like when a Tennis club requires Jacket and Tie or some such.
Carolyn, please don't ask me to go. We've sparred on many forums on many topics, and I cherish that. I have also thanked you for your posts on several occasions, even on this thread. I would never ask you to go....
(I'm all the way up to post #251 now! the end is in sight!)
Quote (Zonker): "...but she made no comment or allusion to racism in regards to the Zürich store incident."
Perhaps you should re-read what you wrote...
@Cas OK, I concede half a point.
My original argument was that she never made a clear statement "I experienced racism in Switzerland" because that's what the headlines said.
However, over the course of the discussion, I upped my bet and said that she made no allusion to racism in regards to the ZH store incident.
Seeing as she gave ZH as an example of racism she had experienced (along with France and NYC), this does count as a comment and/or allusion. I was deep in the details and could not see the forest for the trees.
Clear "I experienced racism" statement: no
Using ZH as an example of racism: yes
Thank you for showing me my error, Casuistik.
@Cas OK, I concede half a point.
My original argument was that she never made a clear statement "I experienced racism in Switzerland" because that's what the headlines said.
However, over the course of the discussion, I upped my bet and said that she made no allusion to racism in regards to the ZH store incident.
Seeing as she gave ZH as an example of racism she had experienced (along with France and NYC), this does count as a comment and/or allusion. I was deep in the details and could not see the forest for the trees.
Clear "I experienced racism" statement: no
Using ZH as an example of racism: yes
Thank you for showing me my error, Casuistik.
I'm all caught up! Yay! Crap, I missed dinner.
I'll turn out the lights. Good night, Geneva.
I'm all caught up! Yay! Crap, I missed dinner.
I'll turn out the lights. Good night, Geneva.
CC,
I see now you were responding to SS, but my question still stands, perhaps with more clarification.
Suleman: "she said she was sorry...."
You: "she didn't actually 'apologise'. At no point did she say "I apologise. She said she was 'sorry'"
It sounds like you are taking issue with OW because she has not yet apologised. Hence, my response including the head shaking. But, for what do you want an apology from her? "I, OW, do apologise for...."?
Otherwise, I'm not sure what your point/argument is here. Are you focusing on the semantics between "I'm sorry" and "I apologise"? To me, those are identical. Or, are you saying she never used the word "apologise" but rather the word "sorry"? In that case, Suleman is not wrong, because that's what he wrote.
Again, I'm not sure how you are able to determine what OW "actually" meant or how you can be the authority on interview interpretation.
I don't agree with the implication you see. I don't feel for a second that OW was "clearly sorry (for herself)." I don't think she's felt sorry for herself in years, if ever. Clearly I don't know, but I don't get that impression. I also don't think she has egg on her face. Again, she didn't get to actually hold the bag or get any info on the bag before it was revealed (7-10 days later?) that the bag was crocodile.
The reason she talked about it for "a full TWO minutes" is because she was asked about it and she was stating (for the first time?) *why* she even told the story in the first place, as an example, to answer a question she had been asked in an interview.
I think her PR people were quite happy with her response. She responded to the question, neither long-windedly nor curtly, said that she has nothing against Switzerland and off she went.
Donna Karan skirt: why the hyperbole? She mentioned the skirt twice. And it was relevant to the story. She wore it to *more* appear like someone who belonged in the store and would be a likely client. To dress the part, like when a Tennis club requires Jacket and Tie or some such.
Carolyn, please don't ask me to go. We've sparred on many forums on many topics, and I cherish that. I have also thanked you for your posts on several occasions, even on this thread. I would never ask you to go....
(I'm all the way up to post #251 now! the end is in sight!)
Zonker - you Plonker!!
BTW - that's a "term of endearment" in Brit-speak (google "Fools and Horses"). Back me up, Rich, back me up!!
I wasn't asking OW to apologise for anything - if anything Suleman was implying that she was "apologising" because of an interpretation of what was reported, I just made the point that she WASN'T apologising, in a "why the hell should she apologise".
But maybe, on reflection, she should apologise for turning this into a huge PR/publicity campaign in lieu of her forthcoming film, maybe....but I was actually defending her!!
I'm not any authority on "interview interpretation" - she said what she said - end of. Although there are now three different versions (her own) of "what" she said and we don't want/expect an apology from OW, as I already said, because, unless she was rude to someone, there's nothing to apologise for.
Are you implying that she should "apologise" for being black, famous and ignored in a shop? That's a bit what it sounds like?
However, I did not ask you "to go" - I asked you to "go surprised
" and go "oh!
- so THAT'S what you meant".
I also cherish your opinion and would love it, if you read my posts more carefully!!!
BTW - as long as Oprah is Oprah - the end is never in sight!! Good luck with sifting through all the posts, my friend. I look forward to the next one
(not to be misintrepretid as "stay cool" - just fancied the sunglasses look - they're Donna Karan, sweetie, dontcha know....cost me CHF 35k 
Zonker - you Plonker!!
BTW - that's a "term of endearment" in Brit-speak (google "Fools and Horses"). Back me up, Rich, back me up!!
I wasn't asking OW to apologise for anything - if anything Suleman was implying that she was "apologising" because of an interpretation of what was reported, I just made the point that she WASN'T apologising, in a "why the hell should she apologise".
But maybe, on reflection, she should apologise for turning this into a huge PR/publicity campaign in lieu of her forthcoming film, maybe....but I was actually defending her!!
I'm not any authority on "interview interpretation" - she said what she said - end of. Although there are now three different versions (her own) of "what" she said and we don't want/expect an apology from OW, as I already said, because, unless she was rude to someone, there's nothing to apologise for.
Are you implying that she should "apologise" for being black, famous and ignored in a shop? That's a bit what it sounds like?
However, I did not ask you "to go" - I asked you to "go surprised
" and go "oh!
- so THAT'S what you meant".
I also cherish your opinion and would love it, if you read my posts more carefully!!!
BTW - as long as Oprah is Oprah - the end is never in sight!! Good luck with sifting through all the posts, my friend. I look forward to the next one
(not to be misintrepretid as "stay cool" - just fancied the sunglasses look - they're Donna Karan, sweetie, dontcha know....cost me CHF 35k 
Quote (Zonker): About what do you believe I have said something wrong? I can find no factual errors...
here is one:
Quote (Zonker): it doesn't matter. after my next post, i'm unsubscribing.
That was funny!! That made me laugh - as has loads of Zonker's posts as well. Thanks, guys for a little humour in this quagmire of political/racial tension that is the OW Publicity Machine!! 
That was funny!! That made me laugh - as has loads of Zonker's posts as well. Thanks, guys for a little humour in this quagmire of political/racial tension that is the OW Publicity Machine!! 
i do read your posts carefully, but clearly I don't understand them. I never once got the feeling that you were defending OW at any point in this thread.
And I'm not implying that she should apologise for anything. I think she has nothing to apologise for. Not sure where you got that idea, but it must be another "misunderstanding".
Fancy a drink? 
i do read your posts carefully, but clearly I don't understand them. I never once got the feeling that you were defending OW at any point in this thread.
And I'm not implying that she should apologise for anything. I think she has nothing to apologise for. Not sure where you got that idea, but it must be another "misunderstanding".
Fancy a drink? 
This continues to be an interesting thread with a lot of very diverse points of view. I’d like to take one more stab at it from my (admittedly subjective) perspective—I guess all of our perspectives are subjective, aren’t they? Not that all points aren't important, but I think the heart of the issue is racial discrimination based on skin color--so-called "black" skin in particular. If it exists, can we do something about it? Oprah is but a catalyst for the discussion.
1. Oprah didn’t appear to be upset that she wasn’t recognized. It appeared to me that she was sharing what has become an uncommon experience for her—one that put her back in touch with “reality;” back in touch with her blackness (by the way, Larry King is Jewish--he knows discrimination as well). If she were recognized, she would almost certainly have been handed that bag immediately, probably along with a cup of coffee and a foot massage! Whether she likes that sort of treatment or not is can't be ascertained from the information we have here. We can only assume that a multi-billionaire who was shopping by herself was actually looking forward to not being recognized. She can’t shop by herself in the States or many other countries, lest she attract the same level of attention that Princess Diana did on that fateful night (wealth is an amazing counterbalance to racial discrimination). So, for a few rare instances, she was able to experience what many of us (blacks) experience regularly. Mine comes mostly on the train—OFTEN! and sometimes in stores. Bottom line, if I walk into your store and ask to see something (twice!) give it to me, regardless to what it’s made of—I don’t do PETA. If you don’t, I’m going to wonder if you’re rude or if you have something against me—the only obvious thing you can have against me is my race, because nothing else is visible.
2. The fact that this occurred in Switzerland was not an indictment on Switzerland. If it was indeed attributable to racial discrimination, it is a testament to the fact that blacks face discrimination in places other than the US (her audience was American; the context was American; the speaker was a black American born and raised in the segregated South, not allowed to use a toilet that was designated for whites, forced to ride on the back of all buses, etc, etc, etc). She was answering a question about whether she still experiences racial discrimination--a common question of accomplished black Americans. Her point was that racial discrimination is still alive, which she personally seldom experiences (regardless to whether the experience in Zurich was “a racist moment”).
3. The key—blacks face discrimination often (me included). Some use that fact to play on sympathies, true. Most (me included) do not!! But I (and I assume Oprah) have enough sense to know when I’m discriminated against due to my skin color. I have no reason to "cry wolf." I wish I were too stupid to know—blissful ignorance would be soothing. That same ignorance, however, would unfortunately keep me (and many others) from working so hard to not reinforce the stereotypes.
4. Arguably, most on this site are well-traveled, well-educated, and exposed to more issues of global import than is the average person. If anything positive is to come from this it should be (in my opinion) a bit of reflection on whether racial discrimination (based in this specific case on skin color) is still an issue—no matter if it happened to Oprah or not. Consideration—how often is a white French, or German, or Scot, who is dressed like the rest of the population around them, riding the train or walking down the street in a predominantly white society, discriminated against without so much as opening his or her mouth? Do we believe this happens with any degree of regularity to those whose skin color allow them to be identified as being different (and often considered “lesser”)? I am talking here about people in "advanced liberal Western states." If so, can it be changed, or is it just part of life? Oprah aside, regarding the larger issue of racial discrimination, the questions are valid. Not valid is denial or "well it happens in other places also." That's simply lazy and unhelpful.
5. If racial discrimination (in CH or anyplace else) is an issue, being aware of it is perhaps enough. Someone mentioned deprivation in Haiti—the first European colony in the Western Hemisphere where the black slaves overthrew the colonizers and established a democratic state (wasn’t that long ago in the grand scheme of things). Look into the history and ask why they have been unable to escape poverty to this date, and say with a straight face that race hasn’t been a contributing factor. Ask ourselves that question of most nations where poverty and starvation is endemic. No, I am not on a personal mission—when my mother used to chide me to “eat this or that, because there are kids starving in (fill in the blank),” my answer was—“well can you mail this to them? Maybe they won’t mind eating this crap” (said in my mind only—obviously!).
6. I am not Oprah (and as I mentioned before am not generally a fan). I am, however, commonly discriminated against because of my skin color (can provide examples). That’s life! That doesn’t mean I want sympathy or assistance. If I were missing a leg, I’d be discriminated against in a different way--likewise, if I were “overweight.” It would be nice, however, for the issue to be recognized and for the extremely talented, highly educated and urbane expat community of glocals (many of whom actually DO try to solve world hunger) to focus its energy toward developing universally applicable solutions for racial discrimination—regardless to whether it occurred in this instance or not. Just as no one should starve, no one should be burdened with having to prove him or herself “equal” simply because of the color of his or her skin—no matter where in the world he or she happens to be…
This continues to be an interesting thread with a lot of very diverse points of view. I’d like to take one more stab at it from my (admittedly subjective) perspective—I guess all of our perspectives are subjective, aren’t they? Not that all points aren't important, but I think the heart of the issue is racial discrimination based on skin color--so-called "black" skin in particular. If it exists, can we do something about it? Oprah is but a catalyst for the discussion.
1. Oprah didn’t appear to be upset that she wasn’t recognized. It appeared to me that she was sharing what has become an uncommon experience for her—one that put her back in touch with “reality;” back in touch with her blackness (by the way, Larry King is Jewish--he knows discrimination as well). If she were recognized, she would almost certainly have been handed that bag immediately, probably along with a cup of coffee and a foot massage! Whether she likes that sort of treatment or not is can't be ascertained from the information we have here. We can only assume that a multi-billionaire who was shopping by herself was actually looking forward to not being recognized. She can’t shop by herself in the States or many other countries, lest she attract the same level of attention that Princess Diana did on that fateful night (wealth is an amazing counterbalance to racial discrimination). So, for a few rare instances, she was able to experience what many of us (blacks) experience regularly. Mine comes mostly on the train—OFTEN! and sometimes in stores. Bottom line, if I walk into your store and ask to see something (twice!) give it to me, regardless to what it’s made of—I don’t do PETA. If you don’t, I’m going to wonder if you’re rude or if you have something against me—the only obvious thing you can have against me is my race, because nothing else is visible.
2. The fact that this occurred in Switzerland was not an indictment on Switzerland. If it was indeed attributable to racial discrimination, it is a testament to the fact that blacks face discrimination in places other than the US (her audience was American; the context was American; the speaker was a black American born and raised in the segregated South, not allowed to use a toilet that was designated for whites, forced to ride on the back of all buses, etc, etc, etc). She was answering a question about whether she still experiences racial discrimination--a common question of accomplished black Americans. Her point was that racial discrimination is still alive, which she personally seldom experiences (regardless to whether the experience in Zurich was “a racist moment”).
3. The key—blacks face discrimination often (me included). Some use that fact to play on sympathies, true. Most (me included) do not!! But I (and I assume Oprah) have enough sense to know when I’m discriminated against due to my skin color. I have no reason to "cry wolf." I wish I were too stupid to know—blissful ignorance would be soothing. That same ignorance, however, would unfortunately keep me (and many others) from working so hard to not reinforce the stereotypes.
4. Arguably, most on this site are well-traveled, well-educated, and exposed to more issues of global import than is the average person. If anything positive is to come from this it should be (in my opinion) a bit of reflection on whether racial discrimination (based in this specific case on skin color) is still an issue—no matter if it happened to Oprah or not. Consideration—how often is a white French, or German, or Scot, who is dressed like the rest of the population around them, riding the train or walking down the street in a predominantly white society, discriminated against without so much as opening his or her mouth? Do we believe this happens with any degree of regularity to those whose skin color allow them to be identified as being different (and often considered “lesser”)? I am talking here about people in "advanced liberal Western states." If so, can it be changed, or is it just part of life? Oprah aside, regarding the larger issue of racial discrimination, the questions are valid. Not valid is denial or "well it happens in other places also." That's simply lazy and unhelpful.
5. If racial discrimination (in CH or anyplace else) is an issue, being aware of it is perhaps enough. Someone mentioned deprivation in Haiti—the first European colony in the Western Hemisphere where the black slaves overthrew the colonizers and established a democratic state (wasn’t that long ago in the grand scheme of things). Look into the history and ask why they have been unable to escape poverty to this date, and say with a straight face that race hasn’t been a contributing factor. Ask ourselves that question of most nations where poverty and starvation is endemic. No, I am not on a personal mission—when my mother used to chide me to “eat this or that, because there are kids starving in (fill in the blank),” my answer was—“well can you mail this to them? Maybe they won’t mind eating this crap” (said in my mind only—obviously!).
6. I am not Oprah (and as I mentioned before am not generally a fan). I am, however, commonly discriminated against because of my skin color (can provide examples). That’s life! That doesn’t mean I want sympathy or assistance. If I were missing a leg, I’d be discriminated against in a different way--likewise, if I were “overweight.” It would be nice, however, for the issue to be recognized and for the extremely talented, highly educated and urbane expat community of glocals (many of whom actually DO try to solve world hunger) to focus its energy toward developing universally applicable solutions for racial discrimination—regardless to whether it occurred in this instance or not. Just as no one should starve, no one should be burdened with having to prove him or herself “equal” simply because of the color of his or her skin—no matter where in the world he or she happens to be…
This continues to be an interesting thread with a lot of very diverse points of view. I’d like to take one more stab at it from my (admittedly subjective) perspective—I guess all of our perspectives are subjective, aren’t they? Not that all points aren't important, but I think the heart of the issue is racial discrimination based on skin color--so-called "black" skin in particular. If it exists, can we do something about it? Oprah is but a catalyst for the discussion.
1. Oprah didn’t appear to be upset that she wasn’t recognized. It appeared to me that she was sharing what has become an uncommon experience for her—one that put her back in touch with “reality;” back in touch with her blackness (by the way, Larry King is Jewish--he knows discrimination as well). If she were recognized, she would almost certainly have been handed that bag immediately, probably along with a cup of coffee and a foot massage! Whether she likes that sort of treatment or not is can't be ascertained from the information we have here. We can only assume that a multi-billionaire who was shopping by herself was actually looking forward to not being recognized. She can’t shop by herself in the States or many other countries, lest she attract the same level of attention that Princess Diana did on that fateful night (wealth is an amazing counterbalance to racial discrimination). So, for a few rare instances, she was able to experience what many of us (blacks) experience regularly. Mine comes mostly on the train—OFTEN! and sometimes in stores. Bottom line, if I walk into your store and ask to see something (twice!) give it to me, regardless to what it’s made of—I don’t do PETA. If you don’t, I’m going to wonder if you’re rude or if you have something against me—the only obvious thing you can have against me is my race, because nothing else is visible.
2. The fact that this occurred in Switzerland was not an indictment on Switzerland. If it was indeed attributable to racial discrimination, it is a testament to the fact that blacks face discrimination in places other than the US (her audience was American; the context was American; the speaker was a black American born and raised in the segregated South, not allowed to use a toilet that was designated for whites, forced to ride on the back of all buses, etc, etc, etc). She was answering a question about whether she still experiences racial discrimination--a common question of accomplished black Americans. Her point was that racial discrimination is still alive, which she personally seldom experiences (regardless to whether the experience in Zurich was “a racist moment”).
3. The key—blacks face discrimination often (me included). Some use that fact to play on sympathies, true. Most (me included) do not!! But I (and I assume Oprah) have enough sense to know when I’m discriminated against due to my skin color. I have no reason to "cry wolf." I wish I were too stupid to know—blissful ignorance would be soothing. That same ignorance, however, would unfortunately keep me (and many others) from working so hard to not reinforce the stereotypes.
4. Arguably, most on this site are well-traveled, well-educated, and exposed to more issues of global import than is the average person. If anything positive is to come from this it should be (in my opinion) a bit of reflection on whether racial discrimination (based in this specific case on skin color) is still an issue—no matter if it happened to Oprah or not. Consideration—how often is a white French, or German, or Scot, who is dressed like the rest of the population around them, riding the train or walking down the street in a predominantly white society, discriminated against without so much as opening his or her mouth? Do we believe this happens with any degree of regularity to those whose skin color allow them to be identified as being different (and often considered “lesser”)? I am talking here about people in "advanced liberal Western states." If so, can it be changed, or is it just part of life? Oprah aside, regarding the larger issue of racial discrimination, the questions are valid. Not valid is denial or "well it happens in other places also." That's simply lazy and unhelpful.
5. If racial discrimination (in CH or anyplace else) is an issue, being aware of it is perhaps enough. Someone mentioned deprivation in Haiti—the first European colony in the Western Hemisphere where the black slaves overthrew the colonizers and established a democratic state (wasn’t that long ago in the grand scheme of things). Look into the history and ask why they have been unable to escape poverty to this date, and say with a straight face that race hasn’t been a contributing factor. Ask ourselves that question of most nations where poverty and starvation is endemic. No, I am not on a personal mission—when my mother used to chide me to “eat this or that, because there are kids starving in (fill in the blank),” my answer was—“well can you mail this to them? Maybe they won’t mind eating this crap” (said in my mind only—obviously!).
6. I am not Oprah (and as I mentioned before am not generally a fan). I am, however, commonly discriminated against because of my skin color (can provide examples). That’s life! That doesn’t mean I want sympathy or assistance. If I were missing a leg, I’d be discriminated against in a different way--likewise, if I were “overweight.” It would be nice, however, for the issue to be recognized and for the extremely talented, highly educated and urbane expat community of glocals (many of whom actually DO try to solve world hunger) to focus its energy toward developing universally applicable solutions for racial discrimination—regardless to whether it occurred in this instance or not. Just as no one should starve, no one should be burdened with having to prove him or herself “equal” simply because of the color of his or her skin—no matter where in the world he or she happens to be…
Robert C - I hope you change your profile photo so that we can see what a truly lovely person you are and hope that you "unblock" your profile so that we can learn more about you.
I don't necessarily agree or concur with your opinions about Oprah but I think you're big enough and clever enough to live with that and can appreciate our differences.
I don't want to appear condescending (as I'm sure many of my "haters" (Tom R, Jason someone etc) will label me), but I've never read such a beautiful, humble, considered, thoughtful post on all of the glocals forums.
Thank you with hugs and kisses 
Robert C - I hope you change your profile photo so that we can see what a truly lovely person you are and hope that you "unblock" your profile so that we can learn more about you.
I don't necessarily agree or concur with your opinions about Oprah but I think you're big enough and clever enough to live with that and can appreciate our differences.
I don't want to appear condescending (as I'm sure many of my "haters" (Tom R, Jason someone etc) will label me), but I've never read such a beautiful, humble, considered, thoughtful post on all of the glocals forums.
Thank you with hugs and kisses 
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My comments were based on personal albeit very limited experience of the velvety padded ambiance of luxury boutqiues, so maybe I was discriminated against and it’s only now that I’ve realized it. Perhaps I ought to go back and thump on the counter until I get my rights and actually handled the goods I ached to buy.
And maybe too I could write it all up as a “fait diver” for “La Trib. de G”. Might even make a few honest sous.
Now if only I could remember all those other occasions when I let myself be snubbed and all I did was cry into my apéro...
R.
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My comments were based on personal albeit very limited experience of the velvety padded ambiance of luxury boutqiues, so maybe I was discriminated against and it’s only now that I’ve realized it. Perhaps I ought to go back and thump on the counter until I get my rights and actually handled the goods I ached to buy.
And maybe too I could write it all up as a “fait diver” for “La Trib. de G”. Might even make a few honest sous.
Now if only I could remember all those other occasions when I let myself be snubbed and all I did was cry into my apéro...
R.
Robert C - I hope you change your profile photo so that we can see what a truly lovely person you are and hope that you "unblock" your profile so that we can learn more about you.
I don't necessarily agree or concur with your opinions about Oprah but I think you're big enough and clever enough to live with that and can appreciate our differences.
I don't want to appear condescending (as I'm sure many of my "haters" (Tom R, Jason someone etc) will label me), but I've never read such a beautiful, humble, considered, thoughtful post on all of the glocals forums.
Thank you with hugs and kisses 
Carolyn--thank you very much for your kind words. You are wrong about me being "clever" but correct about me respecting your opinion about Oprah. Politically, I am generally not aligned with her. However, I cannot help but respect her accomplishment and most causes that she stands for. I also recognize that the the vast majority of her fan base and followers are not black Americans, who tend to be more conservative than she. Nonetheless, her achievements and the manner in which she accomplished them speak volumes.
If I "unblock" you'll see that I'm actually blond/blue and you'll surely rescind all your complimentary remarks! LOL. Kidding. Just not much for being a 'public figure,' unlike your heroine...Oprah :). Many thanks again. I certainly respect your opinion and appreciate that you acknowledged mine. It's been a good discussion...
Carolyn--thank you very much for your kind words. You are wrong about me being "clever" but correct about me respecting your opinion about Oprah. Politically, I am generally not aligned with her. However, I cannot help but respect her accomplishment and most causes that she stands for. I also recognize that the the vast majority of her fan base and followers are not black Americans, who tend to be more conservative than she. Nonetheless, her achievements and the manner in which she accomplished them speak volumes.
If I "unblock" you'll see that I'm actually blond/blue and you'll surely rescind all your complimentary remarks! LOL. Kidding. Just not much for being a 'public figure,' unlike your heroine...Oprah :). Many thanks again. I certainly respect your opinion and appreciate that you acknowledged mine. It's been a good discussion...
Could you post a synopsis, please?
Thanks ever so.
Tired and weary R.
Dear Ritchie--I re-read your request, my response, and your subsequent posts. It's become obvious to me that you had no hidden message in your request. I clearly mistook your request to be other than sincere--I am sorry for that.
Synopsis--my point was that I believe, regardless to opinions regarding Oprah, that the issue of racial discrimination is worthy of serious discussion. I felt that the root issue was being ignored. I believe now, among the less than focused remarks, there has also been more relevant discussion. The issue of racial discrimination (specifically against blacks) will not be solved via a glocals forum, but ideas and perspectives can be shared in a way that chips at serious problems one bit at a time.
Thanks again for your request and insights, and I'm sorry for misunderstanding it.
Dear Ritchie--I re-read your request, my response, and your subsequent posts. It's become obvious to me that you had no hidden message in your request. I clearly mistook your request to be other than sincere--I am sorry for that.
Synopsis--my point was that I believe, regardless to opinions regarding Oprah, that the issue of racial discrimination is worthy of serious discussion. I felt that the root issue was being ignored. I believe now, among the less than focused remarks, there has also been more relevant discussion. The issue of racial discrimination (specifically against blacks) will not be solved via a glocals forum, but ideas and perspectives can be shared in a way that chips at serious problems one bit at a time.
Thanks again for your request and insights, and I'm sorry for misunderstanding it.
If possible Richard, I would thank you a thousand times for your post.
While I also do not post on this forum very often, I felt compelled to do so because the Oprah Saga finally provided an opportunity to talk about the elephant in the room. Since then I have watched the discussion descend into a Saturday Night Life-resque comedy of sorts. I have had to refrain from replying to several posts on this discussion because however outlandish, condescending or insulting people’s opinion might be, in the end it is still their opinion. They are entitled to it and unfortunately, I am unable to converse with anyone at that level.
Some people are just unable to understand or comprehend the emotions or frustrations of others unless they know someone who’s been there or have felt it themselves. If they don’t, then it can’t be real. Unfortunately these people have the loudest microphone and somehow lead discussions on matters they know absolutely nothing about. Irrespective of how rich Oprah is, whether or not the bag was made of alligator skin or banana peel, whether she complained about similar treatment in a shop in France, whether she has a movie/book/clothing line or has just finalized plan to publicize a third boob is irrelevant. In fact this episode is just one episode. We are talking about it because she is rich and famous or whatever. But what about all those that are not? Those without voices that experience the same or worse treatment every day.
We just need to treat everyone decently that’s what I think. This is the first country I’ve lived in that being white is not even enough protection against discrimination. You’re French so you must be this. You are Romanian so you must be that. Don’t even get me started on the Ukrainians, etc.
Anyway, thanks Robert for elevating this conversation above gutter level. Now off to deactivate notifications for this tread…
Thank you Tolany. Your points are "spot on" from my perspective. Some may think "we" are consumed by this issue. However, you know well that is not the case. It's simply one of those painfully frustrating aspects of life that's made us stronger...
Thank you Tolany. Your points are "spot on" from my perspective. Some may think "we" are consumed by this issue. However, you know well that is not the case. It's simply one of those painfully frustrating aspects of life that's made us stronger...
Dear Ritchie--I re-read your request, my response, and your subsequent posts. It's become obvious to me that you had no hidden message in your request. I clearly mistook your request to be other than sincere--I am sorry for that.
Synopsis--my point was that I believe, regardless to opinions regarding Oprah, that the issue of racial discrimination is worthy of serious discussion. I felt that the root issue was being ignored. I believe now, among the less than focused remarks, there has also been more relevant discussion. The issue of racial discrimination (specifically against blacks) will not be solved via a glocals forum, but ideas and perspectives can be shared in a way that chips at serious problems one bit at a time.
Thanks again for your request and insights, and I'm sorry for misunderstanding it.
@ Robert:
Thank you for your good-hearted explanation. No hard feelings on my part even though I admit that I had been slightly taken aback by your first message.
However, this exchange does demonstrate how easy it is to misinterpret words and actions despite our best intentions and efforts.
I thought you would understand my request but it appears you didn’t at first reading. And to be perfectly honest, I found your response somewhat dismissive but no more than that so decided to let it be.
But now you understand and so do I! Let’s hope that this thread has also helped mutual understanding between others.
Thank you again, and all the best,
Ritchie
PS: Too bad about the profile as I endorse Carolyn’s comment.
@ Robert:
Thank you for your good-hearted explanation. No hard feelings on my part even though I admit that I had been slightly taken aback by your first message.
However, this exchange does demonstrate how easy it is to misinterpret words and actions despite our best intentions and efforts.
I thought you would understand my request but it appears you didn’t at first reading. And to be perfectly honest, I found your response somewhat dismissive but no more than that so decided to let it be.
But now you understand and so do I! Let’s hope that this thread has also helped mutual understanding between others.
Thank you again, and all the best,
Ritchie
PS: Too bad about the profile as I endorse Carolyn’s comment.
@ Robert:
Thank you for your good-hearted explanation. No hard feelings on my part even though I admit that I had been slightly taken aback by your first message.
However, this exchange does demonstrate how easy it is to misinterpret words and actions despite our best intentions and efforts.
I thought you would understand my request but it appears you didn’t at first reading. And to be perfectly honest, I found your response somewhat dismissive but no more than that so decided to let it be.
But now you understand and so do I! Let’s hope that this thread has also helped mutual understanding between others.
Thank you again, and all the best,
Ritchie
PS: Too bad about the profile as I endorse Carolyn’s comment.
Maybe we should start a new one on whether seeing a person tells us anything about that person :)...thank you for accepting my apology.
Maybe we should start a new one on whether seeing a person tells us anything about that person :)...thank you for accepting my apology.
Holy batshit, Batman!!!!
1. Oprah never mentioned the Zürich incident to anyone (Twitter, media, etc.) *until* she was asked if she had experienced racism while she is/was doing the talk show circuit to promote her new movie.
2. The media have done their job - they took a little story with no bru-ha-ha and gave it a great headline bound to get everyone talking and linking to their sites and, and, and, and..... Congratulations.
3. Now, everyone is asking her about it and she's still handling it well (IMHO). She said that she is not against the Swiss people or country.
4. I've heard/read the interview with the shop owner talking about the salesperson and, to me, it doesn't add up. I'm sure that the salesperson has got her back against the wall, and both of them are now backpedaling as fast as possible. Oprah said in several interviews that she went alone to the store, whereas the salesperson claimed there was another person there. The statements from the salesperson seem very much like "Methinks she dost protest too much" but I admit it could be the way the piece is written. Lastly, Oprah said she arrived at the store, asked to see the handbag in question (henceforth, HIQ), and was refused. She asked again. "No, but let's look at these other bags." It seems OW acquiesced and looked at the other bags, but then again asked to see the HIQ. No. At which point, she said, "OK, you're probably right. I'll just go" (obviously making *no* purchase, much less the major one.
5. I don't believe that Oprah would make up this story. She would have *nothing* to gain from it and she has other examples she could draw on, rather than make up a new story. Plus, being a media mogul (or whatever you want to call it), a successful business woman, promoting a new movie..... she doesn't need a story about racism to be in the press.
6. Several people have made snide comments about the fact that OW would buy a crocodile skin purse or pay $38K for a purse. But, she didn't, did she? And since she never actually got a chance to see the purse or ask the price, she couldn't bloody well know it was crocodile or that it was $38K. As she tweeted later (I still have a hard time saying that people tweet....., call me old-fashioned), she wouldn't have bought such an expensive bag. BUT, and this is the crucial part, I think.......Oprah should have had the opportunity to make that decision *herself*, not have it made *for* her.
7. Someone made the comment that OW is washed up and on the decline. I wonder what that's based on. She has her own network, branching out to many countries (not yet CH, clearly), and is one of the richest woman in the US. She continues to earn several hundred million a year. How is that washed up and on the decline? I want to be washed up and on the decline like that.....
In any case, it seems that this has blown up everywhere (250 posts on glocals alone!?) and I, for one, am bowing out, only because I have work to do.
Peace out, everyone. See you on the next hot-button topic. ;) Perhaps my Dvorak thread could get some discussion? ;)
I made the comment that she's washed-up and on the decline (point 7). If you google a bit, there is plenty of evidence that shows it. For instance, this article in the NYT published in november 2012:
[...] Ms. Winfrey, who used to receive this kind of applause from fans five days a week, has had fewer such receptions since the talk show she hosted for 25 years ended 18 months ago. The cable network OWN, which she started with Discovery Communications, is emerging from low ratings and management shake-ups. And without a regular presence on daytime network television, she cannot steer traffic to her other products as easily as in the past. Her magazine, in particular, has experienced a decline in advertising revenue and newsstand sales since the talk show finished.
“She’s still Oprah. But she’s still struggling,” said Janice Peck, an associate professor of journalism and mass communication at the University of Colorado who wrote the 2008 book “The Age of Oprah.” “I think she’s scared, even though she’s very, very rich and she’s always going to be very, very rich. The possibility of failure, it’s quite scary.”
Ms. Winfrey, 58, has shown some signs of strain. [...]
Source: www.nytimes.com/2012/11/26/business/media/oprah-winfrey-seeks-to-bolster-a-flagging-empire.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0
Her career has definitely taken a nosedive.
As for point 1, you're really naive if you believe that the question about racism came out of the blue during such types of show. Do you realize that all questions AND answers are carefully prepared with Larry King and Oprah's PR team before the show? Do you realize there is absolutely no room for improvisation or any kind of uncertainty in these types of shows?
Yes, the media have done the job, and Oprah knew they would do the job after saying what such said in that Larry King show. That's the whole point. Create a lot of controversy and get her name back in the spotlight. She knows better than all of us how the whole show biz and media thing function and knows very well how to pull the strings (and manipulate the dumb masses) for her own best interest.
It's no coincidence that this whole controversy exploded just a week before her movie is coming out.
Finally, you seem to give a lot more weight to Oprah's version than the shopowner's version. I don't see any particular reason for that, do you know personally the sales assistant and Oprah to make such judgements? There is no videotape , no external witnesses, no transcripts available. Nobody knows what really happened in that shop.
However a similar story happened quite a few years back in a Hermès shop (someone posted a CNN link in the topic) and ultimately a videotape (=hard evidence) proved the shop owner's were right and Oprah was wrong. Oh well ...
I made the comment that she's washed-up and on the decline (point 7). If you google a bit, there is plenty of evidence that shows it. For instance, this article in the NYT published in november 2012:
[...] Ms. Winfrey, who used to receive this kind of applause from fans five days a week, has had fewer such receptions since the talk show she hosted for 25 years ended 18 months ago. The cable network OWN, which she started with Discovery Communications, is emerging from low ratings and management shake-ups. And without a regular presence on daytime network television, she cannot steer traffic to her other products as easily as in the past. Her magazine, in particular, has experienced a decline in advertising revenue and newsstand sales since the talk show finished.
“She’s still Oprah. But she’s still struggling,” said Janice Peck, an associate professor of journalism and mass communication at the University of Colorado who wrote the 2008 book “The Age of Oprah.” “I think she’s scared, even though she’s very, very rich and she’s always going to be very, very rich. The possibility of failure, it’s quite scary.”
Ms. Winfrey, 58, has shown some signs of strain. [...]
Source: www.nytimes.com/2012/11/26/business/media/oprah-winfrey-seeks-to-bolster-a-flagging-empire.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0
Her career has definitely taken a nosedive.
As for point 1, you're really naive if you believe that the question about racism came out of the blue during such types of show. Do you realize that all questions AND answers are carefully prepared with Larry King and Oprah's PR team before the show? Do you realize there is absolutely no room for improvisation or any kind of uncertainty in these types of shows?
Yes, the media have done the job, and Oprah knew they would do the job after saying what such said in that Larry King show. That's the whole point. Create a lot of controversy and get her name back in the spotlight. She knows better than all of us how the whole show biz and media thing function and knows very well how to pull the strings (and manipulate the dumb masses) for her own best interest.
It's no coincidence that this whole controversy exploded just a week before her movie is coming out.
Finally, you seem to give a lot more weight to Oprah's version than the shopowner's version. I don't see any particular reason for that, do you know personally the sales assistant and Oprah to make such judgements? There is no videotape , no external witnesses, no transcripts available. Nobody knows what really happened in that shop.
However a similar story happened quite a few years back in a Hermès shop (someone posted a CNN link in the topic) and ultimately a videotape (=hard evidence) proved the shop owner's were right and Oprah was wrong. Oh well ...
I looked in the mirror and found out the worst thing today...
Try being white and "ginger" and going to school in the depths of Africa..... and then come tell me about racism and fekking handbags.....
Try being white and "ginger" and going to school in the depths of Africa..... and then come tell me about racism and fekking handbags.....
Try being white and "ginger" and going to school in the depths of Africa..... and then come tell me about racism and fekking handbags.....
Or being an exceedingly tall "ginge", with an unfortunate surname and a Scottish accent growing up in a small Yorkshire village.
I can still run faster than most people I know.....
Or being an exceedingly tall "ginge", with an unfortunate surname and a Scottish accent growing up in a small Yorkshire village.
I can still run faster than most people I know.....
Try being white and "ginger" and going to school in the depths of Africa..... and then come tell me about racism and fekking handbags.....
No need to go to to Africa Charlie, being ginger is an issue wherever you are :p
Yeah I m racist so what?
No need to go to to Africa Charlie, being ginger is an issue wherever you are :p
Yeah I m racist so what?
Maybe the shop in question should have a sign like this.....
Lol 
Yeah based on the realities and the resultant impacts of colonialism, imperialism and hegemonic domination that have featured throughout human history, persons deemed white in terms of race have really suffered.
Yeah based on the realities and the resultant impacts of colonialism, imperialism and hegemonic domination that have featured throughout human history, persons deemed white in terms of race have really suffered.
The pain inflicted by racism is the same whatever your skin colour. It hurts, harms and is just as long-lasting.
R.
The pain inflicted by racism is the same whatever your skin colour. It hurts, harms and is just as long-lasting.
R.
That's going to help;-)
Hi, This is an interesting thread and I really appreciate the conversation.
I think we owe to ourselves to do a few things and the very first one is to openly speak about it when and where it happens. Racism is not a Swiss or as American thing it is something that has been going on since we have been going on.
@ Carolyn C. I have no problems with your opinions about Oprah or Americans, I am sure you have come to your opinions though honest encounters and are rational is your conclusions. I do not take offense to your use of Americans in the sweep general way you use it for two reasons. First it does not describe me in action or thought - so your are generally talking about other Americans, you know my family and friends. Secondly it is not really very accurate in my opinion, your gernalzations about Oprah being angry and loud does not ring true to my understanding of her as she has worked pretty hard to get where she is, but again your opinions on a public figure like her as valid as anybody elses. Secondly your use of Americans in the way you use it is exactly a sterotype - sterotypes are truly defined as (ON GOOGLE) " a widely held oversimplified view of a type of person" so when you use Americans to say something like why do all Americans ... do anything it fits the definition of the word.
OK Carylon C - I am sorry this sounded like it was a problem and it was not I found your comment interesting and it made me think about what we have to do to fight racisim in general.
MLK - two of my favortie Quotes "unjustice against one is unjustice against all"
This is true because we can truly break down and break apart people in anway way we decide to. When I was sending out my packets to different universities I had an ineresting discussion with a very honest admissions officer at Standford University. (A school having reputation for forward thinking) I called him to make sure I would include work, essays and ideas that would be interesting to the people who make the decisions. He asked me for my address and after I gave it to him he told me to send it from a different zip code if I wanted to be considered as the place I live was not considered a good risk financially.... Classism? I truly appreciated his willingness to be honest. But that hurt. (Steve A - Classism comments were great by the way)
"Silences in Betrayl" which brings me to the respect of the people here willing to share their experiences. But if we can not take it one step further and speak out when it happens. I try but sometimes lack the courage or fear I do not understand if it is or not. But it is probably better to make the mistake and say sorry than to say nothing. Because often we may not realize we are being racist, it maybe something done culturally generation after generation and we have to point it out to make it cognitive. Good people of good intention can do unknowingly and pointing is important.
Nelson Mandela - once commented and sorry this is not an exact quote as it comes from a very long speech and I am paraphrasing, but he said that it is not genetically transfered and basically said because it is conditioning, or a learned behavior it can be corrected... again not his words, and then he pointed to two areas of work to correct it which are truly fantastic - Forgiveness was his first one and what I will paraphrase as tolerance was the second one.
It is a huge problem globally, and my guess is we can only work on it locally. We just need to not try to generalize or simplify and deal with it one on one.
Nice place to share views. Cheers Tonyt.
Hi, This is an interesting thread and I really appreciate the conversation.
I think we owe to ourselves to do a few things and the very first one is to openly speak about it when and where it happens. Racism is not a Swiss or as American thing it is something that has been going on since we have been going on.
@ Carolyn C. I have no problems with your opinions about Oprah or Americans, I am sure you have come to your opinions though honest encounters and are rational is your conclusions. I do not take offense to your use of Americans in the sweep general way you use it for two reasons. First it does not describe me in action or thought - so your are generally talking about other Americans, you know my family and friends. Secondly it is not really very accurate in my opinion, your gernalzations about Oprah being angry and loud does not ring true to my understanding of her as she has worked pretty hard to get where she is, but again your opinions on a public figure like her as valid as anybody elses. Secondly your use of Americans in the way you use it is exactly a sterotype - sterotypes are truly defined as (ON GOOGLE) " a widely held oversimplified view of a type of person" so when you use Americans to say something like why do all Americans ... do anything it fits the definition of the word.
OK Carylon C - I am sorry this sounded like it was a problem and it was not I found your comment interesting and it made me think about what we have to do to fight racisim in general.
MLK - two of my favortie Quotes "unjustice against one is unjustice against all"
This is true because we can truly break down and break apart people in anway way we decide to. When I was sending out my packets to different universities I had an ineresting discussion with a very honest admissions officer at Standford University. (A school having reputation for forward thinking) I called him to make sure I would include work, essays and ideas that would be interesting to the people who make the decisions. He asked me for my address and after I gave it to him he told me to send it from a different zip code if I wanted to be considered as the place I live was not considered a good risk financially.... Classism? I truly appreciated his willingness to be honest. But that hurt. (Steve A - Classism comments were great by the way)
"Silences in Betrayl" which brings me to the respect of the people here willing to share their experiences. But if we can not take it one step further and speak out when it happens. I try but sometimes lack the courage or fear I do not understand if it is or not. But it is probably better to make the mistake and say sorry than to say nothing. Because often we may not realize we are being racist, it maybe something done culturally generation after generation and we have to point it out to make it cognitive. Good people of good intention can do unknowingly and pointing is important.
Nelson Mandela - once commented and sorry this is not an exact quote as it comes from a very long speech and I am paraphrasing, but he said that it is not genetically transfered and basically said because it is conditioning, or a learned behavior it can be corrected... again not his words, and then he pointed to two areas of work to correct it which are truly fantastic - Forgiveness was his first one and what I will paraphrase as tolerance was the second one.
It is a huge problem globally, and my guess is we can only work on it locally. We just need to not try to generalize or simplify and deal with it one on one.
Nice place to share views. Cheers Tonyt.
Yeah based on the realities and the resultant impacts of colonialism, imperialism and hegemonic domination that have featured throughout human history, persons deemed white in terms of race have really suffered.
Juiceman, I'm not generalizing...just relating my own experience...
Racism is apparent in "every country".... WHY it is there, or the cause of it, is a historical discussion, and one that is probably suited to a separate thread....
Juiceman, I'm not generalizing...just relating my own experience...
Racism is apparent in "every country".... WHY it is there, or the cause of it, is a historical discussion, and one that is probably suited to a separate thread....
Yeah based on the realities and the resultant impacts of colonialism, imperialism and hegemonic domination that have featured throughout human history, persons deemed white in terms of race have really suffered.
Hi Juiceman,
I have a question for you.
How are colonialism, imperialism and hegemonic domination are impacting your life today, in your everyday life?
Any person whose people have suffered in previous generations may reply as well.
Thanks.
Hi Juiceman,
I have a question for you.
How are colonialism, imperialism and hegemonic domination are impacting your life today, in your everyday life?
Any person whose people have suffered in previous generations may reply as well.
Thanks.
Interesting thread by the way...
meanwhile in lausanne!
To laugh or to cry!?
Pandas may look cute but I have always understood that they are solitary aggressive animals that have yet to be domesticated, so hardly a reference for an anti-racism campaign.
R.
Pandas may look cute but I have always understood that they are solitary aggressive animals that have yet to be domesticated, so hardly a reference for an anti-racism campaign.
R.
Last, very last note from here : we moved in 1986 from Apartheid South Africa to well.......... let's just say, a very large island also in the southern hemisphere. Shocked to our socks immediaely after arrival, as the blatent racialism there was worse than we ever lived with in SA. The intercity bus on which I and another exile from SA travelled daily had a 'full-blood" sitting in the same place, at the same time every morning. The locals would rather strap-hang than sit next to him. Only vacant seat on the bus. We viewed this for some time, then decided we would take it in turns to sit next to him, which we did, whilst being glared at by the local population. Now that's racialism Ms OW.
Last, very last note from here : we moved in 1986 from Apartheid South Africa to well.......... let's just say, a very large island also in the southern hemisphere. Shocked to our socks immediaely after arrival, as the blatent racialism there was worse than we ever lived with in SA. The intercity bus on which I and another exile from SA travelled daily had a 'full-blood" sitting in the same place, at the same time every morning. The locals would rather strap-hang than sit next to him. Only vacant seat on the bus. We viewed this for some time, then decided we would take it in turns to sit next to him, which we did, whilst being glared at by the local population. Now that's racialism Ms OW.
@ sheila c
This is indeed a shocking tale, but did you ever ask him how he was able to sit in the same seat every day? Was he the first person to board the bus at its departure point? I hope he didn’t have to queue all night for the privilege or, worse, sleep in the bus.
R.
@ sheila c
This is indeed a shocking tale, but did you ever ask him how he was able to sit in the same seat every day? Was he the first person to board the bus at its departure point? I hope he didn’t have to queue all night for the privilege or, worse, sleep in the bus.
R.
Also..... sometimes what counts as "racism" differs from place to place. I am still shocked sometimes that someone, somewhere hasn't complained about these Bravo CDs "Black Hits" I see at Media Markt. They may even still have a "Black Music" section. This would NOT be tolerated in the US where the appropriate labels are Rap, Hip Hop or Soul.... how about in other countries? Would be interesting to know...
Also..... sometimes what counts as "racism" differs from place to place. I am still shocked sometimes that someone, somewhere hasn't complained about these Bravo CDs "Black Hits" I see at Media Markt. They may even still have a "Black Music" section. This would NOT be tolerated in the US where the appropriate labels are Rap, Hip Hop or Soul.... how about in other countries? Would be interesting to know...
Also..... sometimes what counts as "racism" differs from place to place. I am still shocked sometimes that someone, somewhere hasn't complained about these Bravo CDs "Black Hits" I see at Media Markt. They may even still have a "Black Music" section. This would NOT be tolerated in the US where the appropriate labels are Rap, Hip Hop or Soul.... how about in other countries? Would be interesting to know...
What about the chocolates that used to be called Tetes de Negres( only changed in recent years)?
Or a French teacher I overheard saying that she had "fait le petit Negre" when she had made a mistake in her spoken French!
What about the chocolates that used to be called Tetes de Negres( only changed in recent years)?
Or a French teacher I overheard saying that she had "fait le petit Negre" when she had made a mistake in her spoken French!
And what about « il est un vrai sauvage » et « le téléphone arabe » not to mention other expressions such as « ivre comme un polonais ».
R.
And what about « il est un vrai sauvage » et « le téléphone arabe » not to mention other expressions such as « ivre comme un polonais ».
R.
Ivre (saoul) comme un Polonais is anything but a derogatory comment against the Poles.
In French, the expression soul comme un Polonais - (drunk as a Pole) comes from their beloved Napoleon who would advise his generals to follow the example of the Polish; notorious drinkers who at the same time have the elegance of never being drunk.
Ivre (saoul) comme un Polonais is anything but a derogatory comment against the Poles.
In French, the expression soul comme un Polonais - (drunk as a Pole) comes from their beloved Napoleon who would advise his generals to follow the example of the Polish; notorious drinkers who at the same time have the elegance of never being drunk.
I suppose my examples were more about the use of the word"Negre"which relies wholly on the idea of colour- and was,in English at least,always used as a derogatory term,referring to someone of "lesser"status.
I suppose my examples were more about the use of the word"Negre"which relies wholly on the idea of colour- and was,in English at least,always used as a derogatory term,referring to someone of "lesser"status.
Agreed, but that doesn’t prevent the expression from now also being used in a derogatory sense.
I didn't intend to imply otherwise
@ sheila c
This is indeed a shocking tale, but did you ever ask him how he was able to sit in the same seat every day? Was he the first person to board the bus at its departure point? I hope he didn’t have to queue all night for the privilege or, worse, sleep in the bus.
R.
@ Ritchie
He was so painfully shy and - dare I say it - downtrodden looking that he would never speak to "white" people. Where he boarded the bus, we never knew, especially as full-bloods are extremely rare in the centre of Perth - NB, whose country was it anyway????? Whooooops, now I've given the game away eh?
@ Ritchie
He was so painfully shy and - dare I say it - downtrodden looking that he would never speak to "white" people. Where he boarded the bus, we never knew, especially as full-bloods are extremely rare in the centre of Perth - NB, whose country was it anyway????? Whooooops, now I've given the game away eh?
But does it work? Tell the same thing about the Irish, and they are proud!
But does it work? Tell the same thing about the Irish, and they are proud!
Racism is in every country! No matter where you are or who you are! In Estonia my own father told me he would never talk to me if I marry black man because they make you pregnant and leave you. He scared me with stories of men who are moslemsm they will take me to the desert and i have to wear burka, share a bed with other 3-4 wifes he has. Milk camels and have 20 or more kids, have no rights and wont never see my family again. I am sure in africa parents are telling or have been saying to their kids that they wont never want them to marry someone from asia or europe. I know in Mauritius some parents would like to die if their daughter would bring home black african man especially when he is black and moslem and she is not. (was told by Lady from Mauritus). 2 years ago I toke my very good friend with me to Estonia, she is from South- Korea, everyone in my small town stopped what they where doing and started looking at her because she is different. Some even walked past her many times. You would call it racism, she found it funny! I thought it was racism. We cant help it! It is everywhere and even in most modest countries. So it really dont matter where we are or who we are, because we always will find someone who wont like our colour, our name, our face, our shoes, our history, our personality etc. There is always a reason why someone will not like us! Saying swiss are racists is stupid! Like I said it is everywhere!
Racism is in every country! No matter where you are or who you are! In Estonia my own father told me he would never talk to me if I marry black man because they make you pregnant and leave you. He scared me with stories of men who are moslemsm they will take me to the desert and i have to wear burka, share a bed with other 3-4 wifes he has. Milk camels and have 20 or more kids, have no rights and wont never see my family again. I am sure in africa parents are telling or have been saying to their kids that they wont never want them to marry someone from asia or europe. I know in Mauritius some parents would like to die if their daughter would bring home black african man especially when he is black and moslem and she is not. (was told by Lady from Mauritus). 2 years ago I toke my very good friend with me to Estonia, she is from South- Korea, everyone in my small town stopped what they where doing and started looking at her because she is different. Some even walked past her many times. You would call it racism, she found it funny! I thought it was racism. We cant help it! It is everywhere and even in most modest countries. So it really dont matter where we are or who we are, because we always will find someone who wont like our colour, our name, our face, our shoes, our history, our personality etc. There is always a reason why someone will not like us! Saying swiss are racists is stupid! Like I said it is everywhere!
Ivre (saoul) comme un Polonais is anything but a derogatory comment against the Poles.
In French, the expression soul comme un Polonais - (drunk as a Pole) comes from their beloved Napoleon who would advise his generals to follow the example of the Polish; notorious drinkers who at the same time have the elegance of never being drunk.
Right, that's rich coming from les mageurs de Grenouilles ..
Viva Polska! 
Right, that's rich coming from les mageurs de Grenouilles ..
Viva Polska! 
Yeah based on the realities and the resultant impacts of colonialism, imperialism and hegemonic domination that have featured throughout human history, persons deemed white in terms of race have really suffered.
Double curse?
It wasn’t difficult to fathom the scene of your story. Nor was it surprising.
In a State on the opposite side of the island you mentioned, I once remonstrated with a gardener when he described an immigrant worker as a “wog”. Knowing that the man came from Milan, I said that Milan was far from being an “oriental” city, only to be told in no uncertain fashion: “Listen lady, ’e’s an ‘eye-tie’ and for me that means ’e’s a wog”.
R.
It wasn’t difficult to fathom the scene of your story. Nor was it surprising.
In a State on the opposite side of the island you mentioned, I once remonstrated with a gardener when he described an immigrant worker as a “wog”. Knowing that the man came from Milan, I said that Milan was far from being an “oriental” city, only to be told in no uncertain fashion: “Listen lady, ’e’s an ‘eye-tie’ and for me that means ’e’s a wog”.
R.
It wasn’t difficult to fathom the scene of your story. Nor was it surprising.
In a State on the opposite side of the island you mentioned, I once remonstrated with a gardener when he described an immigrant worker as a “wog”. Knowing that the man came from Milan, I said that Milan was far from being an “oriental” city, only to be told in no uncertain fashion: “Listen lady, ’e’s an ‘eye-tie’ and for me that means ’e’s a wog”.
R.
And it was there the first [and only] time we heard the expression :"slopes" a highly derogatory term for Asian people.
And it was there the first [and only] time we heard the expression :"slopes" a highly derogatory term for Asian people.
Ouch!
May it be helpful to restate the declaration that "racism is everywhere" to one of "all people have prejudices"?
So stated, racism is but one form of prejudice (a partiality that prevents objective consideration of an issue or situation). Most important, prejudices, including racism, do not have to manifest themselves in the form of discrimination. The personal thought of, "that person can probably not afford this purse" is based on prejudice. Unexpressed it hurts no one (other than perhaps the unfortunate bearer of that ignorant thought). Once one acts on that thought by not handing over an item in a shop, by clutching her purse more tightly when walking past a black person (namely me), or by not sitting next to someone simply because he (via his ancestry) is the original occupant of a given nation, it becomes discrimination.
We can never eliminate prejudices--some scholars argue that we are born with them. We can, however, through our own mechanisms of personal self-control, reduce them and certainly the discrimination that result from them. Is it worth it? Are there security risks to doing so?
Second thought--certainly there has to be a limit to 'political correctness.' Not only is there a fine line between cultural attributes and stereotypes, there also becomes at some point an unhealthy censorship, which masks prejudice and prevents it from being addressed. Moreover, all prejudices are not ill-intentioned--as demonstrated by the comedic contributions above--though when acted upon the results may be unintentionally insulting.
A black American friend of mine spent a great deal of his youth growing up in Europe, a result of his father's military assignments. He once told me about how, more times than he can count, when living in the Netherlands, well-intentioned white Europeans would smile kindly as they handed him palms full of coins. He was clean and well dressed (for a youth of his times anyway), but these well-intentioned people obviously thought he was a poor immigrant struggling to make the transition from his former land (USA?) to this new one. One could jokingly say, "lucky kid, don't worry about their ignorance, just go buy some candy." That response, however, fails to acknowledge the fragility of a child's underdeveloped self-awareness and the impact of being constantly categorized as someone who requires a handout or extra help, based solely on the color of his skin. It also fails to acknowledge how one has to learn to cope with the fact that he or she can never be "just another guy," no matter how well-mannered and socially assimilated he or she may be.
The above helps define the issue. But, as another former collegue used to frustratingly remark, we can easliy become guilty of "admiring the problem" instead of trying to solve it. Before getting to solutions, however, we have to determine how to approach this (less than admirable) problem within our own spheres of influence, to include whether to attempt to address the whole or one part at a time. Oprah removed, the incident that began this discussion calls into question one specific aspect of the larger (potential) problem, the subset of which is discrimination against blacks within advanced Western cultures. Eat the elephant at one bite at a time?
I have the urge to offer some recommendations, but between this and my next intended post I have already exceded my self-imposed word count limit. Thus, I'll yield to those with much more open minds than my own...
May it be helpful to restate the declaration that "racism is everywhere" to one of "all people have prejudices"?
So stated, racism is but one form of prejudice (a partiality that prevents objective consideration of an issue or situation). Most important, prejudices, including racism, do not have to manifest themselves in the form of discrimination. The personal thought of, "that person can probably not afford this purse" is based on prejudice. Unexpressed it hurts no one (other than perhaps the unfortunate bearer of that ignorant thought). Once one acts on that thought by not handing over an item in a shop, by clutching her purse more tightly when walking past a black person (namely me), or by not sitting next to someone simply because he (via his ancestry) is the original occupant of a given nation, it becomes discrimination.
We can never eliminate prejudices--some scholars argue that we are born with them. We can, however, through our own mechanisms of personal self-control, reduce them and certainly the discrimination that result from them. Is it worth it? Are there security risks to doing so?
Second thought--certainly there has to be a limit to 'political correctness.' Not only is there a fine line between cultural attributes and stereotypes, there also becomes at some point an unhealthy censorship, which masks prejudice and prevents it from being addressed. Moreover, all prejudices are not ill-intentioned--as demonstrated by the comedic contributions above--though when acted upon the results may be unintentionally insulting.
A black American friend of mine spent a great deal of his youth growing up in Europe, a result of his father's military assignments. He once told me about how, more times than he can count, when living in the Netherlands, well-intentioned white Europeans would smile kindly as they handed him palms full of coins. He was clean and well dressed (for a youth of his times anyway), but these well-intentioned people obviously thought he was a poor immigrant struggling to make the transition from his former land (USA?) to this new one. One could jokingly say, "lucky kid, don't worry about their ignorance, just go buy some candy." That response, however, fails to acknowledge the fragility of a child's underdeveloped self-awareness and the impact of being constantly categorized as someone who requires a handout or extra help, based solely on the color of his skin. It also fails to acknowledge how one has to learn to cope with the fact that he or she can never be "just another guy," no matter how well-mannered and socially assimilated he or she may be.
The above helps define the issue. But, as another former collegue used to frustratingly remark, we can easliy become guilty of "admiring the problem" instead of trying to solve it. Before getting to solutions, however, we have to determine how to approach this (less than admirable) problem within our own spheres of influence, to include whether to attempt to address the whole or one part at a time. Oprah removed, the incident that began this discussion calls into question one specific aspect of the larger (potential) problem, the subset of which is discrimination against blacks within advanced Western cultures. Eat the elephant at one bite at a time?
I have the urge to offer some recommendations, but between this and my next intended post I have already exceded my self-imposed word count limit. Thus, I'll yield to those with much more open minds than my own...
On 23 August 1963, nearly 30 years ago to this day, a (relatively) young 34 year old departed from the script of a prepared address to add an element that came to define a speech that continues reverberate around the world. As a result of those moving remarks, we still ask ourselves today, in a much different context than that of a bored six-year old on a family vacation, “are we there yet.”
As a youtube embedding rookie, here it here's my best shot...
On 23 August 1963, nearly 30 years ago to this day, a (relatively) young 34 year old departed from the script of a prepared address to add an element that came to define a speech that continues reverberate around the world. As a result of those moving remarks, we still ask ourselves today, in a much different context than that of a bored six-year old on a family vacation, “are we there yet.”
As a youtube embedding rookie, here it here's my best shot...
On 23 August 1963, nearly 30 years ago to this day, a (relatively) young 34 year old departed from the script of a prepared address to add an element that came to define a speech that continues reverberate around the world. As a result of those moving remarks, we still ask ourselves today, in a much different context than that of a bored six-year old on a family vacation, “are we there yet.”
As a youtube embedding rookie, here it here's my best shot...
Sorry..bad math...50 years ago...
A friend of mine has a Swiss friend who is a billionaire but likes to dress very casually i.e. jeans and a shirt. He hates bling bling. He went into a very exclusive jewellery shop on the rue de Rhone to buy a gift for his wife. He was followed around by the security guard from the moment he entered the shop. When he asked to look at a very expensive necklace, the shop assistant told him the price and suggested he go to a cheaper jewellers!!! Astonished he asked to see the manager who as it turned out is a very close friend of his. He explained what had happened. Manager told vendeuse thall customers should be treated with respect and she was promptly fired!!! This was a case of snobbery on the assistant's part!
Service in Switzerland is getting better but it still has a long way to go.
A friend of mine has a Swiss friend who is a billionaire but likes to dress very casually i.e. jeans and a shirt. He hates bling bling. He went into a very exclusive jewellery shop on the rue de Rhone to buy a gift for his wife. He was followed around by the security guard from the moment he entered the shop. When he asked to look at a very expensive necklace, the shop assistant told him the price and suggested he go to a cheaper jewellers!!! Astonished he asked to see the manager who as it turned out is a very close friend of his. He explained what had happened. Manager told vendeuse thall customers should be treated with respect and she was promptly fired!!! This was a case of snobbery on the assistant's part!
Service in Switzerland is getting better but it still has a long way to go.
Robert C - I hope you change your profile photo so that we can see what a truly lovely person you are and hope that you "unblock" your profile so that we can learn more about you.
I don't necessarily agree or concur with your opinions about Oprah but I think you're big enough and clever enough to live with that and can appreciate our differences.
I don't want to appear condescending (as I'm sure many of my "haters" (Tom R, Jason someone etc) will label me), but I've never read such a beautiful, humble, considered, thoughtful post on all of the glocals forums.
Thank you with hugs and kisses 
I am just jealous of Robert's beautiful prose, it is a pleasure to read his posts!
I am just jealous of Robert's beautiful prose, it is a pleasure to read his posts!
Following Delseta’s post on service in Swiss shops, here’s my experience in the Geneva Globus store a couple of days ago.
I find a cute red velvet bonnet in a “marked down” box of sundry items. The original price on the swing ticket has been struck through but there’s no new price, so I go to the cash desk where two assistants are chatting.
After a minute or two, I say “Excuse me, but may I ask you something?” and receiving a grudging “oui” go on to say that I’d like to know the cost of the hat. The assistant takes it from me and says “It’s quite expensive” to which I reply “but could you tell me how much it costs?”
She consults her computer, then says “89 francs”. “Is that the new price or the original one?” I ask.
“The new one, I told you it would be quite expensive – and have you tried it on?”
“Yes”, I say, but she looks doubtful so I plonk it on my head for her to see. “Well, yes, it’s not bad. Are you going to take it?”
“Yes, please.”
“Good. Euros or Swiss francs?”
“Actually, I have a Globus stcre card. Will that do?”
She didn’t say “no”, she didn’t say “yes”, merely took the card and processed the transaction, wrapped my purchase, handed it over and turned back to the colleague who was still hovering around.
I came away perplexed as to why the woman should imagine I couldn’t afford 89 francs for a small piece of head-gear. Is it because I’m a 1.50 m tall wrinkly who uses a walking cane? Or my “foreign” accent?
But I decided it was probably because her bunions were giving her gyp or the fact her husband’s lost his job, and her daughter’s preggers after a one-night stand with someone she only knows as “Joe”.
Be that as it may, a customer should always have the right to expect a minimum of service, free of any judgemental pre-conceptions on the part of sales staff. In Switzerland, it would seem that sales staff find it demeaning to serve, but we are all called upon to serve in our professional life whether we are cleaning the bed-pans or running a business empire.
In my view, Swiss Tourism would do better to soft-pedal the “excellence” of the luxury boutiques and hotels and concentrate more on a national promotion of hospitality and welcome to all. The beauty of the country is not enough, it needs to be reinforced by a beauty of the spirit and the heart.
Well, I guess all this is a far cry from the origin of this thread although if there had been a genuine approach to service there might not have been an “incident” in the first place.
R.
Following Delseta’s post on service in Swiss shops, here’s my experience in the Geneva Globus store a couple of days ago.
I find a cute red velvet bonnet in a “marked down” box of sundry items. The original price on the swing ticket has been struck through but there’s no new price, so I go to the cash desk where two assistants are chatting.
After a minute or two, I say “Excuse me, but may I ask you something?” and receiving a grudging “oui” go on to say that I’d like to know the cost of the hat. The assistant takes it from me and says “It’s quite expensive” to which I reply “but could you tell me how much it costs?”
She consults her computer, then says “89 francs”. “Is that the new price or the original one?” I ask.
“The new one, I told you it would be quite expensive – and have you tried it on?”
“Yes”, I say, but she looks doubtful so I plonk it on my head for her to see. “Well, yes, it’s not bad. Are you going to take it?”
“Yes, please.”
“Good. Euros or Swiss francs?”
“Actually, I have a Globus stcre card. Will that do?”
She didn’t say “no”, she didn’t say “yes”, merely took the card and processed the transaction, wrapped my purchase, handed it over and turned back to the colleague who was still hovering around.
I came away perplexed as to why the woman should imagine I couldn’t afford 89 francs for a small piece of head-gear. Is it because I’m a 1.50 m tall wrinkly who uses a walking cane? Or my “foreign” accent?
But I decided it was probably because her bunions were giving her gyp or the fact her husband’s lost his job, and her daughter’s preggers after a one-night stand with someone she only knows as “Joe”.
Be that as it may, a customer should always have the right to expect a minimum of service, free of any judgemental pre-conceptions on the part of sales staff. In Switzerland, it would seem that sales staff find it demeaning to serve, but we are all called upon to serve in our professional life whether we are cleaning the bed-pans or running a business empire.
In my view, Swiss Tourism would do better to soft-pedal the “excellence” of the luxury boutiques and hotels and concentrate more on a national promotion of hospitality and welcome to all. The beauty of the country is not enough, it needs to be reinforced by a beauty of the spirit and the heart.
Well, I guess all this is a far cry from the origin of this thread although if there had been a genuine approach to service there might not have been an “incident” in the first place.
R.
Poetry! and music to my ears.
Poetry and music to my ears!
I couldn't read all the comments above, so excuse me, I might be saying something that was alerady said.
What people fail to understand about racism is that it implies more than a hateful individual behaviour. Should have the shop lady made an offensive comment to Oprah, this wouldn't give any indication on Switzerland being a racist country or not. Of course, the fact that the story in itself is likely to happen is already an indicateur of existing racial stereotypes, but the lady could have been a total ignorant racist prick in an open and non-racist country. Or the opposite.
Racism is not about individuals beaing "mean" in a shop, it is about a whole system. Racism is the systemic oppression of people of a certain category/ethnicity/skin complexion. By systemic oppression I mean things like: administration, representation/misrepresentation in medias, access to certain categories of jobs, etc. If Swiss system is made up so certain categories of people struggle harder to 'survive' than the average population, then yes it is racist. If not, no, it isn't.
Are Swiss people racist? Not more than in other countries and I can even say that as a colored person I received far more offensive comments in other countries than in Switzerland, including in my country of origin where people are mostly colored (colorism is different from racism but it's an ugly thing too).
Is Swiss system racist? Yes, definetly. And I say it as a Swiss citizen (born of North African parents, but still Swiss). To date, Swiss parliament/government is very "white" although a subtancial part of Swiss citizens are not. Have you seen colored people in Swiss TV ads? Nor I, except if the ad is about charity for Africa. Are you aware of what it takes Are you aware of what migrants, asylum seekers, face here in terms of administrative difficulties, let alone finding jobs, housing? Have you seen the number of jobs advertising having nothing to do with any state agency still asking "Swiss citizen only"? Are you aware of facts like police cantonale/authorities taking specific measures regarding migrants coming from Maghreb/Africa and not for other migrants? Are you aware that the list of documents asked when a Swiss marries an American is not the same when he/she marries an African? etc, etc. All these things make of Swiss system a discriminative system; and frankly, it is not getting better, it is getting worse, every once in a while laws are seriously restricting rights of migrants, asylum seekers, religious freedom, etc.
I don't say Swiss it the most racist place in the world, I just say one can't deny the inherant racism of its system. And it's not Oprah's 38'000 CHF denied handbag that will tell you anything about it.
I couldn't read all the comments above, so excuse me, I might be saying something that was alerady said.
What people fail to understand about racism is that it implies more than a hateful individual behaviour. Should have the shop lady made an offensive comment to Oprah, this wouldn't give any indication on Switzerland being a racist country or not. Of course, the fact that the story in itself is likely to happen is already an indicateur of existing racial stereotypes, but the lady could have been a total ignorant racist prick in an open and non-racist country. Or the opposite.
Racism is not about individuals beaing "mean" in a shop, it is about a whole system. Racism is the systemic oppression of people of a certain category/ethnicity/skin complexion. By systemic oppression I mean things like: administration, representation/misrepresentation in medias, access to certain categories of jobs, etc. If Swiss system is made up so certain categories of people struggle harder to 'survive' than the average population, then yes it is racist. If not, no, it isn't.
Are Swiss people racist? Not more than in other countries and I can even say that as a colored person I received far more offensive comments in other countries than in Switzerland, including in my country of origin where people are mostly colored (colorism is different from racism but it's an ugly thing too).
Is Swiss system racist? Yes, definetly. And I say it as a Swiss citizen (born of North African parents, but still Swiss). To date, Swiss parliament/government is very "white" although a subtancial part of Swiss citizens are not. Have you seen colored people in Swiss TV ads? Nor I, except if the ad is about charity for Africa. Are you aware of what it takes Are you aware of what migrants, asylum seekers, face here in terms of administrative difficulties, let alone finding jobs, housing? Have you seen the number of jobs advertising having nothing to do with any state agency still asking "Swiss citizen only"? Are you aware of facts like police cantonale/authorities taking specific measures regarding migrants coming from Maghreb/Africa and not for other migrants? Are you aware that the list of documents asked when a Swiss marries an American is not the same when he/she marries an African? etc, etc. All these things make of Swiss system a discriminative system; and frankly, it is not getting better, it is getting worse, every once in a while laws are seriously restricting rights of migrants, asylum seekers, religious freedom, etc.
I don't say Swiss it the most racist place in the world, I just say one can't deny the inherant racism of its system. And it's not Oprah's 38'000 CHF denied handbag that will tell you anything about it.
Racism exists in every country and in every region as well as between countries and between regions –
and the Magreb is no exception.
There’s ethnic strife all over Africa, the “yellow peril” is feared in both East and West, I’ve heard ethnic Arabs speak ill of Palestinians whether Moslem or Christian. In the UK the “Paks” can’t stand the “Jaimies”. And even migrants who have fled persecution in their own countries can be more than disdainful of other asylum seekers who are housed in the same holding depot.
We all seem to have a tendency to throw stones from our own particular glass house.
I’d like to suggest that it’s up to each one of us to overcome what is often a fear of the unknown, to seek out opportunities to exercise patience, understanding, discipline and acceptance of the warts and all of our fellow human beings.
I’m the first to acknowledge that this isn’t always easy, but if we don’t even try …
So, best of luck everyone!
R.
Racism exists in every country and in every region as well as between countries and between regions –
and the Magreb is no exception.
There’s ethnic strife all over Africa, the “yellow peril” is feared in both East and West, I’ve heard ethnic Arabs speak ill of Palestinians whether Moslem or Christian. In the UK the “Paks” can’t stand the “Jaimies”. And even migrants who have fled persecution in their own countries can be more than disdainful of other asylum seekers who are housed in the same holding depot.
We all seem to have a tendency to throw stones from our own particular glass house.
I’d like to suggest that it’s up to each one of us to overcome what is often a fear of the unknown, to seek out opportunities to exercise patience, understanding, discipline and acceptance of the warts and all of our fellow human beings.
I’m the first to acknowledge that this isn’t always easy, but if we don’t even try …
So, best of luck everyone!
R.
@R
I found your post very enjoyable. It seems you're recommending that we first address racism that may harbor within ourselves. That's something I have to remind my self of often.
After that, I'm at somewhat of a loss. It seems you're saying we should accept those who are racist, because no one is perfect. Are the "warts" that should be accepted the "warts of being a racist" or the "warts of being a minority?" I'm sorry, but I'm clearly not understanding your position.
Also, your point about how we tend to throw stones from within our own glass houses confuses me a bit too. Do you believe that one should not seek to influence his or her own community before turning outward? That's not to say that there should be no effort to right wrongs "abroad" (that would be a blasphemous statement coming from "International Geneva" :) ). However, do you suggest that one should undertake efforts to fix injustices in other communities while ignoring the same at home?
I guess to put it simply, you point out that "racism is everywhere." What beyond focusing on our own individual personalities, what do you recommend we do about it right here in Western Europe--if anything? Do you believe that any collective effort should be put against racism locally--particularly that stemming from physical appearance--and if so how and what?
Please note that these are questions. I am by no means trying to put words into your mouth; I'm simply trying to ensure I understand your position on what, if anything, should be done about racism, beyond defining the problem.
By the way, I am using the terms "racism" and "discrimination" interchangably in this case.
Thanks in advance for helping me understand your thought provoking post.
@R
I found your post very enjoyable. It seems you're recommending that we first address racism that may harbor within ourselves. That's something I have to remind my self of often.
After that, I'm at somewhat of a loss. It seems you're saying we should accept those who are racist, because no one is perfect. Are the "warts" that should be accepted the "warts of being a racist" or the "warts of being a minority?" I'm sorry, but I'm clearly not understanding your position.
Also, your point about how we tend to throw stones from within our own glass houses confuses me a bit too. Do you believe that one should not seek to influence his or her own community before turning outward? That's not to say that there should be no effort to right wrongs "abroad" (that would be a blasphemous statement coming from "International Geneva" :) ). However, do you suggest that one should undertake efforts to fix injustices in other communities while ignoring the same at home?
I guess to put it simply, you point out that "racism is everywhere." What beyond focusing on our own individual personalities, what do you recommend we do about it right here in Western Europe--if anything? Do you believe that any collective effort should be put against racism locally--particularly that stemming from physical appearance--and if so how and what?
Please note that these are questions. I am by no means trying to put words into your mouth; I'm simply trying to ensure I understand your position on what, if anything, should be done about racism, beyond defining the problem.
By the way, I am using the terms "racism" and "discrimination" interchangably in this case.
Thanks in advance for helping me understand your thought provoking post.
We can't change a system, a region or a country. But we can start by changing ourselves...
We can't change a system, a region or a country. But we can start by changing ourselves...
I believe that the point is not to generalyze, according to the color of the skin, the country of origin etc.
Are non-europeans the only ones in Switzerland who party, drink and make noise at night? Certainly not!!!! But it seems that some people are offended by the noise only if it comes from non european people....
I'm Swiss and I would like to protect my country, but then I might even have to protect it from some persons who have the same origin than me!
What happened to Oprah happened to Julia Roberts, if you remember the movie: Pretty Woman. At the time it was also prejudice, but not based on the skin color. It was based on the way she was dressed. This could happen to any of us. And this is also called prejudice....
I believe that the point is not to generalyze, according to the color of the skin, the country of origin etc.
Are non-europeans the only ones in Switzerland who party, drink and make noise at night? Certainly not!!!! But it seems that some people are offended by the noise only if it comes from non european people....
I'm Swiss and I would like to protect my country, but then I might even have to protect it from some persons who have the same origin than me!
What happened to Oprah happened to Julia Roberts, if you remember the movie: Pretty Woman. At the time it was also prejudice, but not based on the skin color. It was based on the way she was dressed. This could happen to any of us. And this is also called prejudice....
Reka,
Awesome perspective ("awesome" because I'm from California and sometimes have issues with "la migra" as well :)). Your note made me realize that the issue on this thread (racism not purses) really has two inseparable parts. It became clear when I realized how difficult it is for me to reconcile your statement that someone could be "a non-Swiss, non "white" born person being born and raised in Switzerland…" Ines said she's Swiss; you said she's "non-Swiss." Is there a reason for the difference of perspective? Hopefully it's not based on race...
In my American mind (and by law), Ines is 100% Swiss. She doesn't only benefit from the Swiss system, she is a partial owner of it and bears responsibility to help protect, defend, and shape it to suit her needs as a citizen. Most others on this expatriate site (including me) are guests. As a guest in Ines' nation, I really appreciated her native-born Swiss insights. Ultimately, your statement made me realize that from my American perspective, the issue in Western Europe (not just Switzerland) is more complex than ours in the U.S. and different still from that in Central and Eastern Europe.
As has been stated many times, racism is everywhere, and by extension so is discrimination based on color. In the US, one challenge is black-white, non-immigrant. Most blacks in the US have been there longer than most whites ancestrally. The importation of slaves from Africa was outlawed in 1807--even before ownership was outlawed. Realistically the slave trade had tapered off significantly by the late 1700s. Thus, most blacks were settled in the US during the 17th through 19th Century, long before most Europeans joined us. They helped build the nation, fought its wars (the first colonist killed in the American Revolution was a free Black man), and fueled its economy. However, overcoming the social and cultural effects of slavery has taken a century and a half, with still more work to be done. That's life--how can an element of human society enslave a race for 400 years and overnight consider them equal? How can that society that was enslaved, and subsequently legislated to remain inferior, not be somewhat "dysfunctional" for a period of time? Of course there's more work to be done! Not the fault of the current generation, but we all (Americans) share the burden of having to continue to figure it out; we get it.
The second challenge is that posed by illegal immigration across the southern border. It's fueled by economic imbalance; the difficult problem of 'haves and have nots"--not much different than the Southern Mediterranean. It creates tensions, prejudices, and racial discrimination. Some would say it's all about money; maybe it is. Another burden...
What we tend not to have in the US is a huge issue with integration (assimilation) of foreign migrants, of which we have a lot (though relatively few asylum seekers). A Hungarian in the US who becomes a citizen is American (after tolerating the buffoonery that we all suffer at the immigration counter--including those of us who return home for business frequently). The children of that Hungarian may be the son or daughter of an immigrant (a so-called first generation American), but those children are by all accounts American the moment they are born. Americans couldn't care less where someone is originally from--most of us think Hungary has something to do with dinner time. This is both a point of pride and a point of consternation for the nation, because even those born to parents who are in America illegally are still considered citizens. Now are you going to deport the "illegal" parents when the American child has a right to stay? Term = "anchor babies." Shucks…thought we had it all figured out...
I've noticed it's different in Western Europe--not bad or good, just different. With that difference comes different (arguably greater) challenges. Europe has a bit of the first challenge (a psychologically engrained presumption of superiority based on race), but it also has a greater challenge with assimilation.
Jus sanguinis applies over jus soli even in nations that have changed their laws to say otherwise (citizenship/nationality is based on blood vice place of birth). That difference is highlighted in your statement about Ines being "non-Swiss" but "Swiss born." Western Europe, like the US, was built in its present form by immigrants. However, rather than being accepted as citizens, those immigrants were, and remain, "guest workers" or "asylum seekers." Psychologically, that places them somewhere below "second class citizens" in the social order. There are others who are actually second class citizens, which you alluded to in your note. They are Europe's version of "the sons and daughters of immigrants." Rather than being cool because they speak Hungarian (or Arabic) they are non-Swiss (or other Western European), despite what their passports say.
Now the elephant in the room. In Western Europe, racial prejudice (and the discrimination that results) is based, in part, on an engrained (or instilled) sense of superiority, which is common and to a degree human nature. The issue with assimilation of asylum seekers is also based in part on this phenomenon, but in larger part on fear that these 'refugees' will ultimately out-populate the original indigenous Europeans and supplant the traditional culture--more specifically (our) religion. Western Europeans as a whole, like Americans as a whole, do not want their society to become predominantly "non-white" or predominantly Muslim. So, we're all correct; it's more than purses. It's about about maintaining a psychologically soothing sense of superiority and more importantly, about saving a culture without compromising morals or being (too) hypocritical…stated in California dialect--"Dude, reality sucks…"
Solution? Start with step one of the 12 Step program…
Reka,
Awesome perspective ("awesome" because I'm from California and sometimes have issues with "la migra" as well :)). Your note made me realize that the issue on this thread (racism not purses) really has two inseparable parts. It became clear when I realized how difficult it is for me to reconcile your statement that someone could be "a non-Swiss, non "white" born person being born and raised in Switzerland…" Ines said she's Swiss; you said she's "non-Swiss." Is there a reason for the difference of perspective? Hopefully it's not based on race...
In my American mind (and by law), Ines is 100% Swiss. She doesn't only benefit from the Swiss system, she is a partial owner of it and bears responsibility to help protect, defend, and shape it to suit her needs as a citizen. Most others on this expatriate site (including me) are guests. As a guest in Ines' nation, I really appreciated her native-born Swiss insights. Ultimately, your statement made me realize that from my American perspective, the issue in Western Europe (not just Switzerland) is more complex than ours in the U.S. and different still from that in Central and Eastern Europe.
As has been stated many times, racism is everywhere, and by extension so is discrimination based on color. In the US, one challenge is black-white, non-immigrant. Most blacks in the US have been there longer than most whites ancestrally. The importation of slaves from Africa was outlawed in 1807--even before ownership was outlawed. Realistically the slave trade had tapered off significantly by the late 1700s. Thus, most blacks were settled in the US during the 17th through 19th Century, long before most Europeans joined us. They helped build the nation, fought its wars (the first colonist killed in the American Revolution was a free Black man), and fueled its economy. However, overcoming the social and cultural effects of slavery has taken a century and a half, with still more work to be done. That's life--how can an element of human society enslave a race for 400 years and overnight consider them equal? How can that society that was enslaved, and subsequently legislated to remain inferior, not be somewhat "dysfunctional" for a period of time? Of course there's more work to be done! Not the fault of the current generation, but we all (Americans) share the burden of having to continue to figure it out; we get it.
The second challenge is that posed by illegal immigration across the southern border. It's fueled by economic imbalance; the difficult problem of 'haves and have nots"--not much different than the Southern Mediterranean. It creates tensions, prejudices, and racial discrimination. Some would say it's all about money; maybe it is. Another burden...
What we tend not to have in the US is a huge issue with integration (assimilation) of foreign migrants, of which we have a lot (though relatively few asylum seekers). A Hungarian in the US who becomes a citizen is American (after tolerating the buffoonery that we all suffer at the immigration counter--including those of us who return home for business frequently). The children of that Hungarian may be the son or daughter of an immigrant (a so-called first generation American), but those children are by all accounts American the moment they are born. Americans couldn't care less where someone is originally from--most of us think Hungary has something to do with dinner time. This is both a point of pride and a point of consternation for the nation, because even those born to parents who are in America illegally are still considered citizens. Now are you going to deport the "illegal" parents when the American child has a right to stay? Term = "anchor babies." Shucks…thought we had it all figured out...
I've noticed it's different in Western Europe--not bad or good, just different. With that difference comes different (arguably greater) challenges. Europe has a bit of the first challenge (a psychologically engrained presumption of superiority based on race), but it also has a greater challenge with assimilation.
Jus sanguinis applies over jus soli even in nations that have changed their laws to say otherwise (citizenship/nationality is based on blood vice place of birth). That difference is highlighted in your statement about Ines being "non-Swiss" but "Swiss born." Western Europe, like the US, was built in its present form by immigrants. However, rather than being accepted as citizens, those immigrants were, and remain, "guest workers" or "asylum seekers." Psychologically, that places them somewhere below "second class citizens" in the social order. There are others who are actually second class citizens, which you alluded to in your note. They are Europe's version of "the sons and daughters of immigrants." Rather than being cool because they speak Hungarian (or Arabic) they are non-Swiss (or other Western European), despite what their passports say.
Now the elephant in the room. In Western Europe, racial prejudice (and the discrimination that results) is based, in part, on an engrained (or instilled) sense of superiority, which is common and to a degree human nature. The issue with assimilation of asylum seekers is also based in part on this phenomenon, but in larger part on fear that these 'refugees' will ultimately out-populate the original indigenous Europeans and supplant the traditional culture--more specifically (our) religion. Western Europeans as a whole, like Americans as a whole, do not want their society to become predominantly "non-white" or predominantly Muslim. So, we're all correct; it's more than purses. It's about about maintaining a psychologically soothing sense of superiority and more importantly, about saving a culture without compromising morals or being (too) hypocritical…stated in California dialect--"Dude, reality sucks…"
Solution? Start with step one of the 12 Step program…
Hi Everyone,
Just back from holiday and thrilled to see that this post is still active!!!
Haven't found any more trivia to post to see who reacts in the usual way but I will scan the web and post something soon.
Big Hugs
Hi Everyone,
Just back from holiday and thrilled to see that this post is still active!!!
Haven't found any more trivia to post to see who reacts in the usual way but I will scan the web and post something soon.
Big Hugs
Reka:
Congrats your answer is the perfect illustration of the point I am tried to make in my previous answer.
Yes I am a dark-skinned Swiss. As a Swiss I am perfectly entitled to criticize the country I was born and raised in. I am perfectly entitled to use my opinions, my voting ballot, my money (that I earned like any other Swiss) to analyse the system I am part of, to protest its flaws and contribute to make it better. I am not a guest here, I am part of this system and as a citizen I have the full right to rethink the society I am part of. As a Swiss, I do not agree to see my own country turning into an apartheid system where asylum seekers are banned from swimming pools.
Your answer, saying basically "don't forget where you're coming from, be grateful and shut up" is the exact illustration of what I was saying about racism being a system that assigns positions to people regarding to their ethnicity/skin complexion/etc and "reminds" them where they belong when they cross invisible lines. If I was a light-skinned Swiss, you wouldn't have said anything of what you said. If I was a light-skinned Swiss you wouldn't have even thought about "reminding" me how "misbehaved" people of my origine can be and, basically, sugesting me to be grateful for Switzerland because I was born here. Let me surprise you and tell you that I am not "grateful" to Switzerland, I simply love Switzerland, my country... and because I love Switzerland I contribute to it, including with my critical opinions.
It is this kind of behaviours like yours making two categories of Swiss citizens, the ones who have full rights of representation (political/mediatic) and the ones who should just be grateful for being here and shut up and be invisibilized as much as possible, because, you know, "if you are not happy, just go back where you come from", that makes political parties fail to present people of color as candidates at elections, use people of color as spokespeople or in TV ads, etc.
And oh, just in case: I never said in my North African country of origin racism didn't exist, I even mentionned that I heard pretty ugly racist stuff there too, but we're on a topic discussion racism in Switzerland in light of Oprah's handbag story. Saying that some country's system is (fully or partly) racist does not equate in saying that some other country's is not. The fact that "racism exists everywhere" is no excuse to accept racism when it happens just around us. Knowing racism exists in China or Canada or Tunisia is no excuse to accept it in Switzerland.
Reka:
Congrats your answer is the perfect illustration of the point I am tried to make in my previous answer.
Yes I am a dark-skinned Swiss. As a Swiss I am perfectly entitled to criticize the country I was born and raised in. I am perfectly entitled to use my opinions, my voting ballot, my money (that I earned like any other Swiss) to analyse the system I am part of, to protest its flaws and contribute to make it better. I am not a guest here, I am part of this system and as a citizen I have the full right to rethink the society I am part of. As a Swiss, I do not agree to see my own country turning into an apartheid system where asylum seekers are banned from swimming pools.
Your answer, saying basically "don't forget where you're coming from, be grateful and shut up" is the exact illustration of what I was saying about racism being a system that assigns positions to people regarding to their ethnicity/skin complexion/etc and "reminds" them where they belong when they cross invisible lines. If I was a light-skinned Swiss, you wouldn't have said anything of what you said. If I was a light-skinned Swiss you wouldn't have even thought about "reminding" me how "misbehaved" people of my origine can be and, basically, sugesting me to be grateful for Switzerland because I was born here. Let me surprise you and tell you that I am not "grateful" to Switzerland, I simply love Switzerland, my country... and because I love Switzerland I contribute to it, including with my critical opinions.
It is this kind of behaviours like yours making two categories of Swiss citizens, the ones who have full rights of representation (political/mediatic) and the ones who should just be grateful for being here and shut up and be invisibilized as much as possible, because, you know, "if you are not happy, just go back where you come from", that makes political parties fail to present people of color as candidates at elections, use people of color as spokespeople or in TV ads, etc.
And oh, just in case: I never said in my North African country of origin racism didn't exist, I even mentionned that I heard pretty ugly racist stuff there too, but we're on a topic discussion racism in Switzerland in light of Oprah's handbag story. Saying that some country's system is (fully or partly) racist does not equate in saying that some other country's is not. The fact that "racism exists everywhere" is no excuse to accept racism when it happens just around us. Knowing racism exists in China or Canada or Tunisia is no excuse to accept it in Switzerland.
Worse than the blatant racism in this experiment is the creepy way the guy ignores his wife to help the pretty girl...Yikes!
Worse than the blatant racism in this experiment is the creepy way the guy ignores his wife to help the pretty girl...Yikes!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ge7i60GuNRg
