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May 25, 2009 @ 16:02
For a non dating site it seems the moment I signon I have a chat request from some random guy , whatever time of the day. I could block the chats but it seems a bit drastic as I don't know many people here.. Does everybody have this issue?
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For a non dating site it seems the moment I signon I have a chat request from some random guy , whatever time of the day. I could block the chats but it seems a bit drastic as I don't know many people here.. Does everybody have this issue?
Jane
Jay_TMay 25, 2009 @ 16:02
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May 25, 2009 @ 16:46
Yes , that's exactly the messages I got.. is it because I'm new?
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Yes , that's exactly the messages I got.. is it because I'm new?
Jay_T, May 25, 2009 @ 16:46
Jay_T, May 25, 2009 @ 16:46
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May 25, 2009 @ 16:54
It's because you are cute.
Don't tell me it doesn't happen when you go dancing as well.
... and exactly as it happens there, it is flattering to be 'chatted' by strangers, who would make you feel 'liked'.
... and exactly as it happens there, you might find it interesting to get to know better some of them ... or not. In the second case, exactly as there, just answer "No thank you".
If the guy is too stupid to understand the message and retreat politely and becomes intrusive or aggressive, you can
1) block him (he will not be able to write to you or chat with you)
2) report him to the siteadmin.
ciao
S
Don't tell me it doesn't happen when you go dancing as well.
... and exactly as it happens there, it is flattering to be 'chatted' by strangers, who would make you feel 'liked'.
... and exactly as it happens there, you might find it interesting to get to know better some of them ... or not. In the second case, exactly as there, just answer "No thank you".
If the guy is too stupid to understand the message and retreat politely and becomes intrusive or aggressive, you can
1) block him (he will not be able to write to you or chat with you)
2) report him to the siteadmin.
ciao
S
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It's because you are cute.
Don't tell me it doesn't happen when you go dancing as well.
... and exactly as it happens there, it is flattering to be 'chatted' by strangers, who would make you feel 'liked'.
... and exactly as it happens there, you might find it interesting to get to know better some of them ... or not. In the second case, exactly as there, just answer "No thank you".
If the guy is too stupid to understand the message and retreat politely and becomes intrusive or aggressive, you can
1) block him (he will not be able to write to you or chat with you)
2) report him to the siteadmin.
ciao
S
Stef__Granny, May 25, 2009 @ 16:54
Don't tell me it doesn't happen when you go dancing as well.
... and exactly as it happens there, it is flattering to be 'chatted' by strangers, who would make you feel 'liked'.
... and exactly as it happens there, you might find it interesting to get to know better some of them ... or not. In the second case, exactly as there, just answer "No thank you".
If the guy is too stupid to understand the message and retreat politely and becomes intrusive or aggressive, you can
1) block him (he will not be able to write to you or chat with you)
2) report him to the siteadmin.
ciao
S
Stef__Granny, May 25, 2009 @ 16:54
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May 25, 2009 @ 17:05
It can be flattering when dancing, but from a person who hasn't bothered to have a picture on their profile is a bit creepy
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It can be flattering when dancing, but from a person who hasn't bothered to have a picture on their profile is a bit creepy
Jay_T, May 25, 2009 @ 17:05
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May 25, 2009 @ 17:19
Hi
I would not worry too much. it is like in life, if somoene's nice, you'll probably answer.
But I do agree, that unmotivated chats do rise in number...
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I would not worry too much. it is like in life, if somoene's nice, you'll probably answer.
But I do agree, that unmotivated chats do rise in number...
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I would not worry too much. it is like in life, if somoene's nice, you'll probably answer.
But I do agree, that unmotivated chats do rise in number...
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and70, May 25, 2009 @ 17:19
I would not worry too much. it is like in life, if somoene's nice, you'll probably answer.
But I do agree, that unmotivated chats do rise in number...
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and70, May 25, 2009 @ 17:19
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May 25, 2009 @ 17:23
Your just bragging now :P
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May 25, 2009 @ 17:37
but what if their profile pic was real. i mean how cool would you feel when telling people: "hey, i'm friends with a real life talking chicken!"
it just gets weird if they start asking you for drinks. are you supposed to come to the farm or do they have to run into town (seeing as they can't fly). The possibilities after are endless, i mean if you get invited for dinner, would you order eggs or not incase they might be related? Continuing this relationship could be an emotional landmine field.. please let us know how it turns out though. the last time i was chatted up by one of these uber-intelligent chickens, it turned out to actually be a human. how boring is that!
it just gets weird if they start asking you for drinks. are you supposed to come to the farm or do they have to run into town (seeing as they can't fly). The possibilities after are endless, i mean if you get invited for dinner, would you order eggs or not incase they might be related? Continuing this relationship could be an emotional landmine field.. please let us know how it turns out though. the last time i was chatted up by one of these uber-intelligent chickens, it turned out to actually be a human. how boring is that!
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but what if their profile pic was real. i mean how cool would you feel when telling people: "hey, i'm friends with a real life talking chicken!"
it just gets weird if they start asking you for drinks. are you supposed to come to the farm or do they have to run into town (seeing as they can't fly). The possibilities after are endless, i mean if you get invited for dinner, would you order eggs or not incase they might be related? Continuing this relationship could be an emotional landmine field.. please let us know how it turns out though. the last time i was chatted up by one of these uber-intelligent chickens, it turned out to actually be a human. how boring is that!
G___, May 25, 2009 @ 17:37
it just gets weird if they start asking you for drinks. are you supposed to come to the farm or do they have to run into town (seeing as they can't fly). The possibilities after are endless, i mean if you get invited for dinner, would you order eggs or not incase they might be related? Continuing this relationship could be an emotional landmine field.. please let us know how it turns out though. the last time i was chatted up by one of these uber-intelligent chickens, it turned out to actually be a human. how boring is that!
G___, May 25, 2009 @ 17:37
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May 25, 2009 @ 18:15
Here you are kicking down an open door: I always said that I would give 'chicken' two weeks to post a picture, after which I would suspend their account.
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Here you are kicking down an open door: I always said that I would give 'chicken' two weeks to post a picture, after which I would suspend their account.
Stef__Granny, May 25, 2009 @ 18:15
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May 25, 2009 @ 18:18
@paeky
No, I think it is new members who check who is online and then just click the wrong button. Of course I don't mean it the way you thought.... Would be nice though... :cool:
No, I think it is new members who check who is online and then just click the wrong button. Of course I don't mean it the way you thought.... Would be nice though... :cool:
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@paeky
No, I think it is new members who check who is online and then just click the wrong button. Of course I don't mean it the way you thought.... Would be nice though... :cool:
and70, May 25, 2009 @ 18:18
No, I think it is new members who check who is online and then just click the wrong button. Of course I don't mean it the way you thought.... Would be nice though... :cool:
and70, May 25, 2009 @ 18:18
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May 25, 2009 @ 18:26
Guilty! I tried to chat with you once...
catalin
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Guilty! I tried to chat with you once...
catalin
catalin, May 25, 2009 @ 18:26
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May 25, 2009 @ 19:07
And was it just to ask me if I wanted to have a drink one evening?
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And was it just to ask me if I wanted to have a drink one evening?
Jay_T, May 25, 2009 @ 19:07
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May 25, 2009 @ 19:34
@Catalin
You, with me? :D
You, with me? :D
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May 25, 2009 @ 20:01
Sorry Ando, I like girls ;)
catalin
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Sorry Ando, I like girls ;)
catalin
catalin, May 25, 2009 @ 20:01
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May 26, 2009 @ 01:21
Jay T, we didn't get that far. In fact, you didn't even answer:(
catalin
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Jay T, we didn't get that far. In fact, you didn't even answer:(
catalin
catalin, May 26, 2009 @ 01:21
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May 26, 2009 @ 02:40
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The possibilities after are endless, i mean if you get invited for dinner, would you order eggs or not incase they might be related? Continuing this relationship could be an emotional landmine field.. [/quote]
I would certainly not order in eggs for dinner if I were dating a chicken. They can be quite sensitive, and seeing a possible relative or friend on the table might be quite a traumatic experience. You could at least forget about that after-dinner invitation to the chicken farm.
The possibilities after are endless, i mean if you get invited for dinner, would you order eggs or not incase they might be related? Continuing this relationship could be an emotional landmine field.. [/quote]
I would certainly not order in eggs for dinner if I were dating a chicken. They can be quite sensitive, and seeing a possible relative or friend on the table might be quite a traumatic experience. You could at least forget about that after-dinner invitation to the chicken farm.
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The possibilities after are endless, i mean if you get invited for dinner, would you order eggs or not incase they might be related? Continuing this relationship could be an emotional landmine field.. [/quote]
I would certainly not order in eggs for dinner if I were dating a chicken. They can be quite sensitive, and seeing a possible relative or friend on the table might be quite a traumatic experience. You could at least forget about that after-dinner invitation to the chicken farm.
charlotta, May 26, 2009 @ 02:40
The possibilities after are endless, i mean if you get invited for dinner, would you order eggs or not incase they might be related? Continuing this relationship could be an emotional landmine field.. [/quote]
I would certainly not order in eggs for dinner if I were dating a chicken. They can be quite sensitive, and seeing a possible relative or friend on the table might be quite a traumatic experience. You could at least forget about that after-dinner invitation to the chicken farm.
charlotta, May 26, 2009 @ 02:40
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May 26, 2009 @ 03:37
Sometimes the 'no chat' or 'chat with friends only' feature doesn't work. i've given up on it. usually the chickens are just shy guys new to the site or lonely and just want to have a chat, although the mere fact that they want to chat with members with photo like yours will definitely attract more guys to try and chat. You can always change your photo showing less flesh :)
come to think of it... i don't feel loved anymore... i don't get chatted up as often from strangers (hmm...) maybe time to change my photo and peel off these feathers. :P
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Sometimes the 'no chat' or 'chat with friends only' feature doesn't work. i've given up on it. usually the chickens are just shy guys new to the site or lonely and just want to have a chat, although the mere fact that they want to chat with members with photo like yours will definitely attract more guys to try and chat. You can always change your photo showing less flesh :)
come to think of it... i don't feel loved anymore... i don't get chatted up as often from strangers (hmm...) maybe time to change my photo and peel off these feathers. :P
YouMeCo, May 26, 2009 @ 03:37
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May 26, 2009 @ 03:47
oh, and btw it's been mentioned before, but woman also send random chats to guys so kinda goes both ways.
you can always tell them nicely that you don't do chats but prefer meeting people in the real world. If they insist on meeting you, you can politely say that you plan to attend the xyz event so you can meet in public.
(admin, hope you're adding the 'edit' feature:crazy: )...
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oh, and btw it's been mentioned before, but woman also send random chats to guys so kinda goes both ways.
you can always tell them nicely that you don't do chats but prefer meeting people in the real world. If they insist on meeting you, you can politely say that you plan to attend the xyz event so you can meet in public.
(admin, hope you're adding the 'edit' feature:crazy: )...
YouMeCo, May 26, 2009 @ 03:47
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May 26, 2009 @ 11:43
it sounds like you've have experience in the chicken dating game Charlotta, maybe you could help Jay T with these very forward and very cocky chickens. is there a good way to distract their attention elsewhere? perhaps throwing some corn or maize on the floor might make them hungry whilst you make your getaway? but also, where do the nice, sensitive and caring chickens hang out? whats a good way to meet them? all of this i'm sure would help her out no end.
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it sounds like you've have experience in the chicken dating game Charlotta, maybe you could help Jay T with these very forward and very cocky chickens. is there a good way to distract their attention elsewhere? perhaps throwing some corn or maize on the floor might make them hungry whilst you make your getaway? but also, where do the nice, sensitive and caring chickens hang out? whats a good way to meet them? all of this i'm sure would help her out no end.
G___, May 26, 2009 @ 11:43
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May 26, 2009 @ 12:11
Thanks I'll look out for the chickens
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Thanks I'll look out for the chickens
Jay_T, May 26, 2009 @ 12:11
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