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There has been a great deal of debate recently, and rightly so, with regard to some contributors to the Forum being offended by others, namely bullies, and not the least unwarrented and aggressive - even vitriolic remarks.


Having digested what has been written, my thinking is that IF members of any forum [and believe me, the "other" one has a greater number of nasty people], were made to divulge their full details, name, age, address, etc. and not hide behind pseudonyms, far fewer nasty or vitriolic remarks would be presented.


Hopefully, if this were the case, only helpful and sympathetic remarks would be made by contributors............ dream on Sheila!Innocent

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There has been a great deal of debate recently, and rightly so, with regard to some contributors to the Forum being offended by others, namely bullies, and not the least unwarrented and aggressive - even vitriolic remarks.


Having digested what has been written, my thinking is that IF members of any forum [and believe me, the "other" one has a greater number of nasty people], were made to divulge their full details, name, age, address, etc. and not hide behind pseudonyms, far fewer nasty or vitriolic remarks would be presented.


Hopefully, if this were the case, only helpful and sympathetic remarks would be made by contributors............ dream on Sheila!Innocent


sheila cSep 28, 2013 @ 13:14
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Makes sense, but then it's an open door for something a bit more dangerous than alleged bullies, like stalkers for instance...

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Makes sense, but then it's an open door for something a bit more dangerous than alleged bullies, like stalkers for instance...


Casuistik, Sep 28, 2013 @ 14:19
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There has been a great deal of debate recently, and rightly so, with regard to some contributors to the Forum being offended by others, namely bullies, and not the least unwarrented and aggressive - even vitriolic remarks.

Having digested what has been written, my thinking is that IF members of any forum [and believe me, the "other" one has a greater number of nasty people], were made to divulge their full details, name, age, address, etc. and not hide behind pseudonyms, far fewer nasty or vitriolic remarks would be presented.

Hopefully, if this were the case, only helpful and sympathetic remarks would be made by contributors............ dream on Sheila!Innocent


Sep 28, 13 13:14

On the other hand, if you ask people to provide their name, address and age there'd be no forum left.


Switzerland and Glocals both have a very diverse population with diverse views. If you get offended by other people's opinions you shouldn't be here. 


Or you can do what I do. I like Glocals because people here are helpful and friendly, and because they know things about Switzerland/Geneva that I don't. I tend to stay away from controversial threads, or at least I don't take them seriously, because I'm not here to have a debate about racism or politics. 

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On the other hand, if you ask people to provide their name, address and age there'd be no forum left.


Switzerland and Glocals both have a very diverse population with diverse views. If you get offended by other people's opinions you shouldn't be here. 


Or you can do what I do. I like Glocals because people here are helpful and friendly, and because they know things about Switzerland/Geneva that I don't. I tend to stay away from controversial threads, or at least I don't take them seriously, because I'm not here to have a debate about racism or politics. 


Edward B, Sep 28, 2013 @ 14:24
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Jan 1, 70 01:00

..and that, ladies and gentlemen.. is why using your real name on the internets is almost always a bad idea.

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..and that, ladies and gentlemen.. is why using your real name on the internets is almost always a bad idea.


FerneyL, Sep 28, 2013 @ 14:45
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It seems that, people who have a strong voice here, character and are not afraid to speak up, being treated as bullies- it's seriously ridiculous. Those who post treads about bullies and creat the image of being a victim is just pathetic.


Mona I hope you are reading this, because I'm sick and tired of reading that my different opinions make me a terrible person and you feel treat by that. You speak so loudly that you have better things to do in life, please go and do it. And this has nothing to do with you being from Turkey, trust me you could be from any country in the world and I feel your way of thinking would be the same.


"the chickens" with no picture are getting on my nerves here.

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It seems that, people who have a strong voice here, character and are not afraid to speak up, being treated as bullies- it's seriously ridiculous. Those who post treads about bullies and creat the image of being a victim is just pathetic.


Mona I hope you are reading this, because I'm sick and tired of reading that my different opinions make me a terrible person and you feel treat by that. You speak so loudly that you have better things to do in life, please go and do it. And this has nothing to do with you being from Turkey, trust me you could be from any country in the world and I feel your way of thinking would be the same.


"the chickens" with no picture are getting on my nerves here.


Natalie W, Sep 28, 2013 @ 15:23
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It seems that, people who have a strong voice here, character and are not afraid to speak up, being treated as bullies- it's seriously ridiculous. Those who post treads about bullies and creat the image of being a victim is just pathetic.

Mona I hope you are reading this, because I'm sick and tired of reading that my different opinions make me a terrible person and you feel treat by that. You speak so loudly that you have better things to do in life, please go and do it. And this has nothing to do with you being from Turkey, trust me you could be from any country in the world and I feel your way of thinking would be the same.

"the chickens" with no picture are getting on my nerves here.


Sep 28, 13 15:23

Huh? Do we know each other? Who are you? And if you think "loud voice and strong character and speaking up" is a good trait then I agree and that's what I HAVE! I prefer that over making fun of others and rediculing them......I am sorry but as harsh as it may sound you don't seem to understand anything so please stop calling on me and who on earth are you to tell me what to do? 

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Huh? Do we know each other? Who are you? And if you think "loud voice and strong character and speaking up" is a good trait then I agree and that's what I HAVE! I prefer that over making fun of others and rediculing them......I am sorry but as harsh as it may sound you don't seem to understand anything so please stop calling on me and who on earth are you to tell me what to do? 


Mona Hadi, Sep 28, 2013 @ 15:46
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You are so right, calling people bullies here is so much better.Innocent

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You are so right, calling people bullies here is so much better.Innocent


Natalie W, Sep 28, 2013 @ 15:56
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Mona - Go have a cup of tea and a lie down....please

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Mona - Go have a cup of tea and a lie down....please


Jeffery S, Sep 29, 2013 @ 16:38
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@Sheila: and how exactly are Glocals' webmasters supposed to verify that the user entered his/her real name, age, address, etc?


Requiring public display of personal information on the Internet always backfires horribly.  Unless you're a Facebook user, in which case you've already sold your soul to Zuckerberg.


 


 


 

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@Sheila: and how exactly are Glocals' webmasters supposed to verify that the user entered his/her real name, age, address, etc?


Requiring public display of personal information on the Internet always backfires horribly.  Unless you're a Facebook user, in which case you've already sold your soul to Zuckerberg.


 


 


 


TheOmegaMan, Sep 29, 2013 @ 23:41
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There has been a great deal of debate recently, and rightly so, with regard to some contributors to the Forum being offended by others, namely bullies, and not the least unwarrented and aggressive - even vitriolic remarks.

Having digested what has been written, my thinking is that IF members of any forum [and believe me, the "other" one has a greater number of nasty people], were made to divulge their full details, name, age, address, etc. and not hide behind pseudonyms, far fewer nasty or vitriolic remarks would be presented.

Hopefully, if this were the case, only helpful and sympathetic remarks would be made by contributors............ dream on Sheila!Innocent


Sep 28, 13 13:14

Sheila,


I like to ask a question,because I dont know if your really serious when you say glocals should provide more verifiable information.


Your profile is since Oct, 2009, but you have no activities or events contributed, no activities attended, you work in other, no photos, & not in any groups. posted 349 times and 96thanks,1 friend.


So how can you even suggest this? please actions speak louder than words.

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Sheila,


I like to ask a question,because I dont know if your really serious when you say glocals should provide more verifiable information.


Your profile is since Oct, 2009, but you have no activities or events contributed, no activities attended, you work in other, no photos, & not in any groups. posted 349 times and 96thanks,1 friend.


So how can you even suggest this? please actions speak louder than words.


Dave G, Sep 30, 2013 @ 00:52
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I think introducing and enforcing anything close to a 'real name policy' is silly, it would kill what's already here, be a nightmare to police, drive people away etc etc .. 


However.. I do think people should be themselves, be real and write on the forum just as they would talk to people for real. On every forum there are keyboard warriors, often sad little people with nothing better to do than troll or slag people or tell people they are wrong. 


It's a small world, you may well meet the person you helped / threatened / laughed at etc etc.  

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I think introducing and enforcing anything close to a 'real name policy' is silly, it would kill what's already here, be a nightmare to police, drive people away etc etc .. 


However.. I do think people should be themselves, be real and write on the forum just as they would talk to people for real. On every forum there are keyboard warriors, often sad little people with nothing better to do than troll or slag people or tell people they are wrong. 


It's a small world, you may well meet the person you helped / threatened / laughed at etc etc.  


John H, Sep 30, 2013 @ 07:40
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Sheila,

I like to ask a question,because I dont know if your really serious when you say glocals should provide more verifiable information.

Your profile is since Oct, 2009, but you have no activities or events contributed, no activities attended, you work in other, no photos, & not in any groups. posted 349 times and 96thanks,1 friend.

So how can you even suggest this? please actions speak louder than words.


Sep 30, 13 00:52

Did she say "glocals should" or did she say "IF" that too with capital letters just to make sure you understand she is not "commanding" and just showing a possibility and it's positive consequences, though I agree on the negative ones listed here, I am not sure I will take her post as "SHOULD"

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Did she say "glocals should" or did she say "IF" that too with capital letters just to make sure you understand she is not "commanding" and just showing a possibility and it's positive consequences, though I agree on the negative ones listed here, I am not sure I will take her post as "SHOULD"


Mona Hadi, Sep 30, 2013 @ 08:55
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I have no problem with real names. I'm Zonker Harris, basta! ;)


By the way, *one* reason that many people have Chicken photos is because someone 2-3 years ago mentioned that there was or could be a privacy issue regarding non-friends finding your profile. I remember there was some discussion and then a spate of people who immediately changed their photos during/after that discussion.


 

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I have no problem with real names. I'm Zonker Harris, basta! ;)


By the way, *one* reason that many people have Chicken photos is because someone 2-3 years ago mentioned that there was or could be a privacy issue regarding non-friends finding your profile. I remember there was some discussion and then a spate of people who immediately changed their photos during/after that discussion.


 


Zonker, Sep 30, 2013 @ 09:17
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Interesting to know about the perceived privacy issue.  But with so many chicken photos on profiles, I wonder how many people come to Glocals by accident following a search for pictures of cocks.

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Interesting to know about the perceived privacy issue.  But with so many chicken photos on profiles, I wonder how many people come to Glocals by accident following a search for pictures of cocks.


Andy C, Sep 30, 2013 @ 12:59
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Interesting to know about the perceived privacy issue.  But with so many chicken photos on profiles, I wonder how many people come to Glocals by accident following a search for pictures of cocks.


Sep 30, 13 12:59

Nice Andy - no real answer to that I suspect !!

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Nice Andy - no real answer to that I suspect !!


Jeffery S, Sep 30, 2013 @ 13:56
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I decided to go for a chicken upgrade

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I decided to go for a chicken upgrade


Andy C, Sep 30, 2013 @ 14:51
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Andy,


A non-smoking cock Cry


So retro, no color and not recognizable, what breed are you.


Just in case your one under the bridge and trolling. heheheehe

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Andy,


A non-smoking cock Cry


So retro, no color and not recognizable, what breed are you.


Just in case your one under the bridge and trolling. heheheehe


Dave G, Sep 30, 2013 @ 15:42
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There's no way I would be willing to submit my address because I don't want people I don't know being able to find where I live.

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There's no way I would be willing to submit my address because I don't want people I don't know being able to find where I live.


Mark H, Sep 30, 2013 @ 16:09
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I don't see the point in hiding (as you can see). If I post something that offends someone it's usually either a difference of opinion that the other person cannot accept or it's because it's meant in fun but the other person doesn't see the joke. No malice is ever intended and i would never be ashamed of anything i've said. This may be different if i were hiding behind as alias.


No-one should post anything on here that they wouldn't feel comfortable saying face to face.


Now piss off the lot of you, you're really hacking me off now!!


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I don't see the point in hiding (as you can see). If I post something that offends someone it's usually either a difference of opinion that the other person cannot accept or it's because it's meant in fun but the other person doesn't see the joke. No malice is ever intended and i would never be ashamed of anything i've said. This may be different if i were hiding behind as alias.


No-one should post anything on here that they wouldn't feel comfortable saying face to face.


Now piss off the lot of you, you're really hacking me off now!!


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David Lloyd, Sep 30, 2013 @ 16:52
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Andy,

A non-smoking cock Cry

So retro, no color and not recognizable, what breed are you.

Just in case your one under the bridge and trolling. heheheehe


Sep 30, 13 15:42

I'm a Finnish Hornio

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I'm a Finnish Hornio


Andy C, Sep 30, 2013 @ 18:48
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