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well... why not?!


ok... actually, i can think of a million reasons but don't let that put you off ;)


the positives are...


1) i guarantee to have a better movie selection than you,


2) i will definitely be super competitive and also attempt any game on the games console of your choice, the bloodier, the better.


3) I love whiskey..


4) your friends will like me.. failing that, i will happily pimp out hot female friends to bribe and buy their affection


5) i enjoy playing pool


6) i will, most likely, be ready before you on a night out


7) i will tell you as it is.. sugar coating is best kept for M & Ms


8) your mother definitely will not like me, but that's ok cause i'm not gonna blame you for this...no nagging required


9) i can get the lid off my own jam jars


10) during football games not only will i not speak, i will inflict pain on anyone who attempts to speak/play with remote or distract me from said game..


11) my comebacks are the stuff of legends...


so... the question is... where and when?!


Basically i am very intrigued by the dating scene... people want one thing, then do another... girls are told to eat BEFORE going out for food on a 1st date so as not to appear greedy and a million other BS rules which ultimately have us (and i mean both sexes) playing other people and ultimately defeating the purpose of being loved for who we are...


what are we really looking for?? the act or the reality....

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well... why not?!


ok... actually, i can think of a million reasons but don't let that put you off ;)


the positives are...


1) i guarantee to have a better movie selection than you,


2) i will definitely be super competitive and also attempt any game on the games console of your choice, the bloodier, the better.


3) I love whiskey..


4) your friends will like me.. failing that, i will happily pimp out hot female friends to bribe and buy their affection


5) i enjoy playing pool


6) i will, most likely, be ready before you on a night out


7) i will tell you as it is.. sugar coating is best kept for M & Ms


8) your mother definitely will not like me, but that's ok cause i'm not gonna blame you for this...no nagging required


9) i can get the lid off my own jam jars


10) during football games not only will i not speak, i will inflict pain on anyone who attempts to speak/play with remote or distract me from said game..


11) my comebacks are the stuff of legends...


so... the question is... where and when?!


Basically i am very intrigued by the dating scene... people want one thing, then do another... girls are told to eat BEFORE going out for food on a 1st date so as not to appear greedy and a million other BS rules which ultimately have us (and i mean both sexes) playing other people and ultimately defeating the purpose of being loved for who we are...


what are we really looking for?? the act or the reality....


lyndsey jSep 27, 2010 @ 14:18
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Lynds,


So what's the question?

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Lynds,


So what's the question?


Nir Ofek, Sep 27, 2010 @ 14:57
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the question is, i guess Nir...


what am i doing wrong?


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the question is, i guess Nir...


what am i doing wrong?


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lyndsey j, Sep 27, 2010 @ 15:02
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That's easy Lynds.


Any serious boy would look for 2 things in a girl, and both of them are not mentioned in your list: skill in the sack, and skill in the kitchen!


Seriously: who says you're doing anything wrong? I see plenty of folks here dying to take you out!


 

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That's easy Lynds.


Any serious boy would look for 2 things in a girl, and both of them are not mentioned in your list: skill in the sack, and skill in the kitchen!


Seriously: who says you're doing anything wrong? I see plenty of folks here dying to take you out!


 


Nir Ofek, Sep 27, 2010 @ 15:05
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Correction : 


6) you usually start earlier than anyone


9) not every single time ;)


 


Besides that you're doing nothing wrong.


You're just going out with the wrong guys.  


The act usually stops at the end of the theatre play and you go home disappointed but having clapped at the end of the show?!


Have a great afternoon ! 


 

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Correction : 


6) you usually start earlier than anyone


9) not every single time ;)


 


Besides that you're doing nothing wrong.


You're just going out with the wrong guys.  


The act usually stops at the end of the theatre play and you go home disappointed but having clapped at the end of the show?!


Have a great afternoon ! 


 


Ioan Caltun, Sep 27, 2010 @ 15:04
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what i lack in aesthetics, i make up for with flexibility and the best fajitas in the world (why does the word fajita sound so wrong in this context :P )


I'm not looking for a pat on the head or a confidence boost... i think i scare men.. they see the flirty barmaid, not the 3 law degrees ... i don't want to change who i am, but if i HAVE to, i will


i'm all or nothing and not sure if that's a feeling reciprocated by many folk out there.. don't get me wrong... i'm not about to put on the pot and hunt down bunnies.. but i'm beginning to believe, the harder you look, the less you find!

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what i lack in aesthetics, i make up for with flexibility and the best fajitas in the world (why does the word fajita sound so wrong in this context :P )


I'm not looking for a pat on the head or a confidence boost... i think i scare men.. they see the flirty barmaid, not the 3 law degrees ... i don't want to change who i am, but if i HAVE to, i will


i'm all or nothing and not sure if that's a feeling reciprocated by many folk out there.. don't get me wrong... i'm not about to put on the pot and hunt down bunnies.. but i'm beginning to believe, the harder you look, the less you find!


lyndsey j, Sep 27, 2010 @ 15:09
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That's easy Lynds.

Any serious boy would look for 2 things in a girl, and both of them are not mentioned in your list: skill in the sack, and skill in the kitchen!

Seriously: who says you're doing anything wrong? I see plenty of folks here dying to take you out!

 


Sep 27, 10 15:05

Sack, kitchen and non hairy legs.....  (oh and the ability not to knock out your front teeth with one punch)

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Sack, kitchen and non hairy legs.....  (oh and the ability not to knock out your front teeth with one punch)


Charlie, Sep 27, 2010 @ 15:11
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haha David... scotland's shame they may be but i'm nothing if not loyal ;)


who are you kidding... 20 years.... 30 and we would talk ;) easier to train when young :p


 


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haha David... scotland's shame they may be but i'm nothing if not loyal ;)


who are you kidding... 20 years.... 30 and we would talk ;) easier to train when young :p


 


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lyndsey j, Sep 27, 2010 @ 15:14
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Thanks David..


i can't drop the team... can i blame them fr my lack of success.. i would rather be a tartan shopping trolley pulling, scary cat lady than drop my team :p


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Thanks David..


i can't drop the team... can i blame them fr my lack of success.. i would rather be a tartan shopping trolley pulling, scary cat lady than drop my team :p


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lyndsey j, Sep 27, 2010 @ 15:18
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Sack, kitchen and non hairy legs.....  (oh and the ability not to knock out your front teeth with one punch)


Sep 27, 10 15:11

haha Charlie that was a one off, and i had to tell him twice :P

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haha Charlie that was a one off, and i had to tell him twice :P


lyndsey j, Sep 27, 2010 @ 15:20
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hey lyndsey, what's black and brown and looks good on a lawyer?


 


 


a doberman Tongue out


now that i got your attentiion..............


to be continued...............

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hey lyndsey, what's black and brown and looks good on a lawyer?


 


 


a doberman Tongue out


now that i got your attentiion..............


to be continued...............


epicure, Sep 27, 2010 @ 15:19
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hey lyndsey, what's black and brown and looks good on a lawyer?

 

 

a doberman Tongue out

now that i got your attentiion..............

to be continued...............


Sep 27, 10 15:19

if it's humping my leg, at least it's a start :P

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if it's humping my leg, at least it's a start :P


lyndsey j, Sep 27, 2010 @ 15:26
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good reply, indeed.


i'm from new york city..........you got a problem with that?


reply below:


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good reply, indeed.


i'm from new york city..........you got a problem with that?


reply below:


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epicure, Sep 27, 2010 @ 15:27
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the only problem i have is if we can't share a needle :P


sharing's caring...


however, hands off my buckfast and deep fried mars bar x

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the only problem i have is if we can't share a needle :P


sharing's caring...


however, hands off my buckfast and deep fried mars bar x


lyndsey j, Sep 27, 2010 @ 15:28
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lyndsey doesn't "work" in a pub, she "enhances" it's attractiveness.


 

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lyndsey doesn't "work" in a pub, she "enhances" it's attractiveness.


 


epicure, Sep 27, 2010 @ 15:29
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it used to be davincis, i left recently and am now pr/marketing/bar serving wench extrordinaire for a club instead x

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it used to be davincis, i left recently and am now pr/marketing/bar serving wench extrordinaire for a club instead x


lyndsey j, Sep 27, 2010 @ 15:31
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lyndsey doesn't "work" in a pub, she "enhances" it's attractiveness.

 


Sep 27, 10 15:29

haha oh yes, i like that..


brownie points being handed out at sporadic intervals


honestly though... not the case.


i'm just me... i think my attractiveness increases the more folk drink.. hence the BIG measures ;)

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haha oh yes, i like that..


brownie points being handed out at sporadic intervals


honestly though... not the case.


i'm just me... i think my attractiveness increases the more folk drink.. hence the BIG measures ;)


lyndsey j, Sep 27, 2010 @ 15:33
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i knew lawyers ( good ones) had a secret life beyond the "bar"


ooooh, that one alomost hurts. i promise to stop.

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i knew lawyers ( good ones) had a secret life beyond the "bar"


ooooh, that one alomost hurts. i promise to stop.


epicure, Sep 27, 2010 @ 15:33
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oh dear... taxi for mr NYC ;)

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oh dear... taxi for mr NYC ;)


lyndsey j, Sep 27, 2010 @ 15:37
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so... from reading this, i have to shave my legs (anyone have a flymo?!), be a monster in the bedroom and a superstar in the kitchen?!


 

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so... from reading this, i have to shave my legs (anyone have a flymo?!), be a monster in the bedroom and a superstar in the kitchen?!


 


lyndsey j, Sep 27, 2010 @ 15:40
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so... from reading this, i have to shave my legs (anyone have a flymo?!), be a monster in the bedroom and a superstar in the kitchen?!

 


Sep 27, 10 15:40

that, PLUS keep all the other things you've been doing!

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that, PLUS keep all the other things you've been doing!


Nir Ofek, Sep 27, 2010 @ 15:42
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see, i know some women will be reading this and be full of scorn and disgust ... (whilst furiously scribbling down notes) and the rest will be high 5iving me and taking any advice the lovely men have been kind enough to offer


i'm just more honest than the rest .. i want someone who will pull out all the stops..


quite simply. i'm not gonna settle anymore :)

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see, i know some women will be reading this and be full of scorn and disgust ... (whilst furiously scribbling down notes) and the rest will be high 5iving me and taking any advice the lovely men have been kind enough to offer


i'm just more honest than the rest .. i want someone who will pull out all the stops..


quite simply. i'm not gonna settle anymore :)


lyndsey j, Sep 27, 2010 @ 15:43
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Ever considered looking at it from a cultural perspective? So many nationalities, can be interesting, but I do like it when I can agree fully with someone's opinion more then occasionally for example. I think there ain't many differences between western and northern European countries, but gets bigger when entering the south of Belgium/northern France.


It think it ain't an easy market down here, and it ain't a very interesting market neither.

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Ever considered looking at it from a cultural perspective? So many nationalities, can be interesting, but I do like it when I can agree fully with someone's opinion more then occasionally for example. I think there ain't many differences between western and northern European countries, but gets bigger when entering the south of Belgium/northern France.


It think it ain't an easy market down here, and it ain't a very interesting market neither.


ThomasNL, Sep 27, 2010 @ 15:57
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And you shouldn't settle....you're FANTASTIC as you are. Just thinking there may not be a whole lot of men that "pull out all the stops" in Geneva. There are so many damn gorgeous women in this city they are out trying to impress all of them instead of one of them. No worries, I've got a few years on you and it's still a bit fun trying on the Mr. Wrongs...Mr. Right will come along eventually :)

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And you shouldn't settle....you're FANTASTIC as you are. Just thinking there may not be a whole lot of men that "pull out all the stops" in Geneva. There are so many damn gorgeous women in this city they are out trying to impress all of them instead of one of them. No worries, I've got a few years on you and it's still a bit fun trying on the Mr. Wrongs...Mr. Right will come along eventually :)


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Ever considered looking at it from a cultural perspective? So many nationalities, can be interesting, but I do like it when I can agree fully with someone's opinion more then occasionally for example. I think there ain't many differences between western and northern European countries, but gets bigger when entering the south of Belgium/northern France.

It think it ain't an easy market down here, and it ain't a very interesting market neither.


Sep 27, 10 15:57

personally i think the "cultural variety" thing as an excuse is getting rather old and tired now...


love FEELS the same in any culture.. expressing it, admittedly, takes many forms to show it on a daily basis, however, if anything, the cultural mix here should make ir more flamboyant and enviable. not flat and exhausting


 

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personally i think the "cultural variety" thing as an excuse is getting rather old and tired now...


love FEELS the same in any culture.. expressing it, admittedly, takes many forms to show it on a daily basis, however, if anything, the cultural mix here should make ir more flamboyant and enviable. not flat and exhausting


 


lyndsey j, Sep 27, 2010 @ 16:14
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And you shouldn't settle....you're FANTASTIC as you are. Just thinking there may not be a whole lot of men that "pull out all the stops" in Geneva. There are so many damn gorgeous women in this city they are out trying to impress all of them instead of one of them. No worries, I've got a few years on you and it's still a bit fun trying on the Mr. Wrongs...Mr. Right will come along eventually :)


Sep 27, 10 16:03

I love you Meghan.. thank you for that.


fantastic is a huge overstatement but i do have some ok qualities.. i think i'm gonna have to sue Disney for instilling the belief in me that everyone gets the prince charming


i dated prince charming, just turns out he was someone else's ;)

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I love you Meghan.. thank you for that.


fantastic is a huge overstatement but i do have some ok qualities.. i think i'm gonna have to sue Disney for instilling the belief in me that everyone gets the prince charming


i dated prince charming, just turns out he was someone else's ;)


lyndsey j, Sep 27, 2010 @ 16:18
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the question is, i guess Nir...

what am i doing wrong?

x


Sep 27, 10 15:02

A scottish lass who likes whiskey???   Could anybody trust a Scot who prefers Irish whiskey.  That could be your whole problem.


More seriously though, forget about making friends or being popular.  Find an activity that you like, get involved in it and, if friendship occurs as a result, that is a bonus. If not, it will come eventually, and in the meantime you will be enjoying yourself. 


Delving back into the distant past and trying to imagine myself at your age.  i was unattached and two interests in life.   A certain sport and going out for a drink.  The going out for a drink is now called binge drinking and I was among the best but my real friends today were not the ones I went out for a drink with but the ones with whom I shared the activity.


Coming to Switzerland I threw myself intop another activity, continued to binge drink and have a group of people I can count on, some of who i count as friends. 


My wife is a hitch-hiker I picked up and had nothing to do with my activities.  So my motto is:  live life and grab opportuniries as they arise but do not waste time looking for them   


    

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A scottish lass who likes whiskey???   Could anybody trust a Scot who prefers Irish whiskey.  That could be your whole problem.


More seriously though, forget about making friends or being popular.  Find an activity that you like, get involved in it and, if friendship occurs as a result, that is a bonus. If not, it will come eventually, and in the meantime you will be enjoying yourself. 


Delving back into the distant past and trying to imagine myself at your age.  i was unattached and two interests in life.   A certain sport and going out for a drink.  The going out for a drink is now called binge drinking and I was among the best but my real friends today were not the ones I went out for a drink with but the ones with whom I shared the activity.


Coming to Switzerland I threw myself intop another activity, continued to binge drink and have a group of people I can count on, some of who i count as friends. 


My wife is a hitch-hiker I picked up and had nothing to do with my activities.  So my motto is:  live life and grab opportuniries as they arise but do not waste time looking for them   


    


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personally i think the "cultural variety" thing as an excuse is getting rather old and tired now...

love FEELS the same in any culture.. expressing it, admittedly, takes many forms to show it on a daily basis, however, if anything, the cultural mix here should make ir more flamboyant and enviable. not flat and exhausting

 


Sep 27, 10 16:14

oh so true, but you have to keep an open mind and appreciate (or not) the diversity which is present and what it has to offer. all too often, today everyone wants "instant" gratification.


be it financial, emotional, sexual / physical or material......i should know, my pseudonym is epicure, after all Sealed

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oh so true, but you have to keep an open mind and appreciate (or not) the diversity which is present and what it has to offer. all too often, today everyone wants "instant" gratification.


be it financial, emotional, sexual / physical or material......i should know, my pseudonym is epicure, after all Sealed


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oh so true, but you have to keep an open mind and appreciate (or not) the diversity which is present and what it has to offer. all too often, today everyone wants "instant" gratification.

be it financial, emotional, sexual / physical or material......i should know, my pseudonym is epicure, after all Sealed


Sep 27, 10 16:18

i don't look for instant gratification


as long as i have a handsome man, wine, a lottery win and some batteries i'm hap.... oh wait.......


oops

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i don't look for instant gratification


as long as i have a handsome man, wine, a lottery win and some batteries i'm hap.... oh wait.......


oops


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A scottish lass who likes whiskey???   Could anybody trust a Scot who prefers Irish whiskey.  That could be your whole problem.

More seriously though, forget about making friends or being popular.  Find an activity that you like, get involved in it and, if friendship occurs as a result, that is a bonus. If not, it will come eventually, and in the meantime you will be enjoying yourself. 

Delving back into the distant past and trying to imagine myself at your age.  i was unattached and two interests in life.   A certain sport and going out for a drink.  The going out for a drink is now called binge drinking and I was among the best but my real friends today were not the ones I went out for a drink with but the ones with whom I shared the activity.

Coming to Switzerland I threw myself intop another activity, continued to binge drink and have a group of people I can count on, some of who i count as friends. 

My wife is a hitch-hiker I picked up and had nothing to do with my activities.  So my motto is:  live life and grab opportuniries as they arise but do not waste time looking for them   

    


Sep 27, 10 16:03

binge drinking... being british, i have been known to do this, but i don't need it..


some of the best nights i have had, i have been sober.. so i appreciate what you mean


i do need to get into more activities here though.. that's true.. although my weekend time is very limited due to very late club closing times..


i don't know what i fancy doing tbh.. maybe football for girls.. i like cooking too


as long as i'm around folk i'm happy.. i have a great friends network here.. it's something i am thankful for everyday

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binge drinking... being british, i have been known to do this, but i don't need it..


some of the best nights i have had, i have been sober.. so i appreciate what you mean


i do need to get into more activities here though.. that's true.. although my weekend time is very limited due to very late club closing times..


i don't know what i fancy doing tbh.. maybe football for girls.. i like cooking too


as long as i'm around folk i'm happy.. i have a great friends network here.. it's something i am thankful for everyday


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i think we've got a live one here. where is that courtroom composure?

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personally i think the "cultural variety" thing as an excuse is getting rather old and tired now...

love FEELS the same in any culture.. expressing it, admittedly, takes many forms to show it on a daily basis, however, if anything, the cultural mix here should make ir more flamboyant and enviable. not flat and exhausting

 


Sep 27, 10 16:14

I think it's a personal opinion which you don't have to feel the same way about.


Too big differences CAN be very exhausting especially when you love someone, cause I can imagine you would do anything to make it work but keep bumping into a barrier.


I come to this opinion out of my own personal experiences and of those close to me.


I'm not saying that it can't work, its just not one of the easiest of markets from that perspective.

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I think it's a personal opinion which you don't have to feel the same way about.


Too big differences CAN be very exhausting especially when you love someone, cause I can imagine you would do anything to make it work but keep bumping into a barrier.


I come to this opinion out of my own personal experiences and of those close to me.


I'm not saying that it can't work, its just not one of the easiest of markets from that perspective.


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Jan 1, 70 01:00

i'm not easy... i'm just not fussy, thus horizontally and vertically accessible to all ;)

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i'm not easy... i'm just not fussy, thus horizontally and vertically accessible to all ;)


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I think it's a personal opinion which you don't have to feel the same way about.

Too big differences CAN be very exhausting especially when you love someone, cause I can imagine you would do anything to make it work but keep bumping into a barrier.

I come to this opinion out of my own personal experiences and of those close to me.

I'm not saying that it can't work, its just not one of the easiest of markets from that perspective.


Sep 27, 10 16:31

sorry thomas i wasn't insinuating you were wrong.. i agree


although that said, i have had more dates here than latterly in UK.. maybe the cultural variety is more of a plus than i give it credit for x


 

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sorry thomas i wasn't insinuating you were wrong.. i agree


although that said, i have had more dates here than latterly in UK.. maybe the cultural variety is more of a plus than i give it credit for x


 


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i am the most open minded dating candidate in the world


i have no such thing as a "type" why would you eliminate people based on something as trivial as hair colour or not driving.. blah blah


the only thing i search for in a partner is someone to make me laugh.. that's not to say i would turn down a date from a model with no charisma, i am only human after all...


my "ideal man" is a jack black/will ferrell combination...

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i am the most open minded dating candidate in the world


i have no such thing as a "type" why would you eliminate people based on something as trivial as hair colour or not driving.. blah blah


the only thing i search for in a partner is someone to make me laugh.. that's not to say i would turn down a date from a model with no charisma, i am only human after all...


my "ideal man" is a jack black/will ferrell combination...


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Lyndsey - I like your attitute and good for you.


 

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Lyndsey - I like your attitute and good for you.


 


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Come for a binge in Nyon  - we are all binge drinking singletons in the group

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is it far from gva?


 

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is it far from gva?


 


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Jan 1, 70 01:00

hahahahaha


bless, too cute that you think i'm scared of that invite

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bless, too cute that you think i'm scared of that invite


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binge drinking... being british, i have been known to do this, but i don't need it..

some of the best nights i have had, i have been sober.. so i appreciate what you mean

i do need to get into more activities here though.. that's true.. although my weekend time is very limited due to very late club closing times..

i don't know what i fancy doing tbh.. maybe football for girls.. i like cooking too

as long as i'm around folk i'm happy.. i have a great friends network here.. it's something i am thankful for everyday


Sep 27, 10 16:28

Hey binge drinking is not British.  I do not like the term 'friends network'.   The problem with Geneva (I am sure that I will be corrected here) is that it is full of people who are short term and many of these people turn to glocals to find friends. 


I only got involved on glocals after moving (temporarily) to Lugano and seeing in the local paper that all the official ticino alpine groups, Club Alpino Svizzera, Societa Alpinisti Ticinese, Union Ticinses Operai Excurionisti advertise their outings or some of them in the local press and so I thought why not do the same on glocals as often people are looking to escape the claustrophobic ephemeral expat scene. 


Of course what I am offering is not really of interest to those people who are here for one or two years and looking for a good time and I am not trying to attract them.


So the interest has to be based on things you know.  Quite frankly if your ulterior nmotive is to find a guy then somehow a cookery class for me does not work and women's football???   Lake activities - a possibility. Mountain actitvities - I think not.  immersing yourself in Swiss culture (whatever that is) is a possibility but there is nothing wrong in not having a current boyfriend.  in fact some people would say it is an advantage 


    

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Hey binge drinking is not British.  I do not like the term 'friends network'.   The problem with Geneva (I am sure that I will be corrected here) is that it is full of people who are short term and many of these people turn to glocals to find friends. 


I only got involved on glocals after moving (temporarily) to Lugano and seeing in the local paper that all the official ticino alpine groups, Club Alpino Svizzera, Societa Alpinisti Ticinese, Union Ticinses Operai Excurionisti advertise their outings or some of them in the local press and so I thought why not do the same on glocals as often people are looking to escape the claustrophobic ephemeral expat scene. 


Of course what I am offering is not really of interest to those people who are here for one or two years and looking for a good time and I am not trying to attract them.


So the interest has to be based on things you know.  Quite frankly if your ulterior nmotive is to find a guy then somehow a cookery class for me does not work and women's football???   Lake activities - a possibility. Mountain actitvities - I think not.  immersing yourself in Swiss culture (whatever that is) is a possibility but there is nothing wrong in not having a current boyfriend.  in fact some people would say it is an advantage 


    


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Hey binge drinking is not British.  I do not like the term 'friends network'.   The problem with Geneva (I am sure that I will be corrected here) is that it is full of people who are short term and many of these people turn to glocals to find friends. 

I only got involved on glocals after moving (temporarily) to Lugano and seeing in the local paper that all the official ticino alpine groups, Club Alpino Svizzera, Societa Alpinisti Ticinese, Union Ticinses Operai Excurionisti advertise their outings or some of them in the local press and so I thought why not do the same on glocals as often people are looking to escape the claustrophobic ephemeral expat scene. 

Of course what I am offering is not really of interest to those people who are here for one or two years and looking for a good time and I am not trying to attract them.

So the interest has to be based on things you know.  Quite frankly if your ulterior nmotive is to find a guy then somehow a cookery class for me does not work and women's football???   Lake activities - a possibility. Mountain actitvities - I think not.  immersing yourself in Swiss culture (whatever that is) is a possibility but there is nothing wrong in not having a current boyfriend.  in fact some people would say it is an advantage 

    


Sep 27, 10 16:46

No, it was based on your recommendation of lasting friendships..


this thread is more "tongue in cheek" i am just curious, i think glocals is used by many folk as a research basis from which to glean an idea of how things progress in Switzerland from friends, to friends with benefts, to lovers.. whatever...


i absolutely had no intention of finding mr right on/through this post.. just nice to get people's opinions and experiences on certain matters


in fact, i am pretty sure my Mr right/Mr. wrong/Mr just for fun/ shouldn't be posting on this even if he has read it.. he should be blazing a trail to my door


No 1 Cynic Avenue


Dontwastemytimeville


Geneva


1234


 


 

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No, it was based on your recommendation of lasting friendships..


this thread is more "tongue in cheek" i am just curious, i think glocals is used by many folk as a research basis from which to glean an idea of how things progress in Switzerland from friends, to friends with benefts, to lovers.. whatever...


i absolutely had no intention of finding mr right on/through this post.. just nice to get people's opinions and experiences on certain matters


in fact, i am pretty sure my Mr right/Mr. wrong/Mr just for fun/ shouldn't be posting on this even if he has read it.. he should be blazing a trail to my door


No 1 Cynic Avenue


Dontwastemytimeville


Geneva


1234


 


 


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hey dave, be aware.....we risk ( the nyon group) being targeted by the genevans for attracting away their best and most interesting "glocaliannes" soon  it will be forbidden to have cross border (cantonal) flirtation and association. Innocent

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alas.. i am otherwise engaged thursday night... i heard there was an audition for "bridget jones" the reality show... wish me and my supersized pants luck ;)

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alas.. i am otherwise engaged thursday night... i heard there was an audition for "bridget jones" the reality show... wish me and my supersized pants luck ;)


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if you have to cancel plans you should do it with more notice than the exact time of the meetup.

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if you have to cancel plans you should do it with more notice than the exact time of the meetup.


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lost me Matt.....

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Lyndsey


Come on then... show me how much you can eat on a 1st date :)


Where, when?


;)

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Lyndsey


Come on then... show me how much you can eat on a 1st date :)


Where, when?


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Mmmmm....Curry Club. Come on Lynds, you can catch a ride with me :)  I can check with Dean and see if there is still some room.....if you like.

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Mmmmm....Curry Club. Come on Lynds, you can catch a ride with me :)  I can check with Dean and see if there is still some room.....if you like.


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Lyndsey

Come on then... show me how much you can eat on a 1st date :)

Where, when?

;)


Sep 27, 10 18:07

o oh, the big wolf is coming out to play!

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o oh, the big wolf is coming out to play!


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Lyndsey

Come on then... show me how much you can eat on a 1st date :)

Where, when?

;)


Sep 27, 10 18:07

you tell me


take the lead and i will follow


x

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you tell me


take the lead and i will follow


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Mmmmm....Curry Club. Come on Lynds, you can catch a ride with me :)  I can check with Dean and see if there is still some room.....if you like.


Sep 27, 10 18:12

i have plans on thursday night megster... then i think i have a dirty weekend away in glasgow commencing the morning after.. you may know my company... tall, sexy, american, glam, good jewellery, hot figure...


x

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i have plans on thursday night megster... then i think i have a dirty weekend away in glasgow commencing the morning after.. you may know my company... tall, sexy, american, glam, good jewellery, hot figure...


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Hahaha....Glasgow is going to be utter carnage! I think it may be time to give the Genevois men a break anyway...what on earth will they do without us??

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Hahaha....Glasgow is going to be utter carnage! I think it may be time to give the Genevois men a break anyway...what on earth will they do without us??


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Lyndsey, so how many messages you received from strangers today?)))) this is quite brave))))


Im in about binge drinking, btw

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Lyndsey, so how many messages you received from strangers today?)))) this is quite brave))))


Im in about binge drinking, btw


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Lyndsey, so how many messages you received from strangers today?)))) this is quite brave))))

Im in about binge drinking, btw


Sep 27, 10 18:53

Yes... I'm curious too.  What's the count, Lynds?


(Fyi, people, I'm not one of them).

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Yes... I'm curious too.  What's the count, Lynds?


(Fyi, people, I'm not one of them).


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Yes... I'm curious too.  What's the count, Lynds?

(Fyi, people, I'm not one of them).


Sep 27, 10 19:03

Well I am stranger than strange, so where does that put me - separate category I hope

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No, it was based on your recommendation of lasting friendships..

this thread is more "tongue in cheek" i am just curious, i think glocals is used by many folk as a research basis from which to glean an idea of how things progress in Switzerland from friends, to friends with benefts, to lovers.. whatever...

i absolutely had no intention of finding mr right on/through this post.. just nice to get people's opinions and experiences on certain matters

in fact, i am pretty sure my Mr right/Mr. wrong/Mr just for fun/ shouldn't be posting on this even if he has read it.. he should be blazing a trail to my door

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Sep 27, 10 17:21

Actually Lynds... I was blazing a trail lto your door but my crappy satnav didn't recognise the address. So after about an hour I asked a taxi driver and luckily he knew the place (I also aksed him if he fits in my dashboard, but that's another story). Rang your doorbell 2 times but you are not home I think........

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Actually Lynds... I was blazing a trail lto your door but my crappy satnav didn't recognise the address. So after about an hour I asked a taxi driver and luckily he knew the place (I also aksed him if he fits in my dashboard, but that's another story). Rang your doorbell 2 times but you are not home I think........


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you tell me

take the lead and i will follow

x


Sep 27, 10 18:24

As said in my previous post, I was already knocking on your door cause I'm really hungry (and you too I believe) but you weren't there.


So what about tomorrow?


;)

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As said in my previous post, I was already knocking on your door cause I'm really hungry (and you too I believe) but you weren't there.


So what about tomorrow?


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is it far from gva?

 


Sep 27, 10 17:10

17 minutes

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i have had 17 messages based on a mix of my oktoberfest pics and this post... fun for a monday x

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i have had 17 messages based on a mix of my oktoberfest pics and this post... fun for a monday x


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i'm with megan and on her account...


she has just admitted she would go gay for me.... is this the best offer i'm getting?! xx

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i'm with megan and on her account...


she has just admitted she would go gay for me.... is this the best offer i'm getting?! xx


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Oh no... She's batting for the other team...  Frown

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i'm with megan and on her account...

she has just admitted she would go gay for me.... is this the best offer i'm getting?! xx


Sep 27, 10 20:24

Well threesome could be fun but not with a chicken..

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Well threesome could be fun but not with a chicken..


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Lyn,


It must be because you're a lawyer woman.


Lawyers screw people... in the wrong meaning of the word.

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Lyn,


It must be because you're a lawyer woman.


Lawyers screw people... in the wrong meaning of the word.


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I love you Meghan.. thank you for that.

fantastic is a huge overstatement but i do have some ok qualities.. i think i'm gonna have to sue Disney for instilling the belief in me that everyone gets the prince charming

i dated prince charming, just turns out he was someone else's ;)


Sep 27, 10 16:18

Lyndsey,


No you dint date prince charming, you dated  a frog! Thank you for letting other girls out there to know that Prince Charming only exists in Hollywood Movies ( Dream Land/ Ideal world)


Thank you for pointing it out that we should manage our expectations in our Real world, as you can see its like all we men were born from the same mother! Same mold and cast but different cultures!

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Lyndsey,


No you dint date prince charming, you dated  a frog! Thank you for letting other girls out there to know that Prince Charming only exists in Hollywood Movies ( Dream Land/ Ideal world)


Thank you for pointing it out that we should manage our expectations in our Real world, as you can see its like all we men were born from the same mother! Same mold and cast but different cultures!


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wow. what a cynical note to fall asleep on


i still have the faith


and at bedime tally, i had 21 messages resulting from todays forum/ pics...


flattering really... but i'm sure the desire for a lasting relationship isn't one i bear alone.. in fact, many men have messaged me expressing the desire for something similar and thanking me for my post...


i'm going to bed encouraged and convinced that tomorrow brings me one step cloder to that which i seek


night all


 


x

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wow. what a cynical note to fall asleep on


i still have the faith


and at bedime tally, i had 21 messages resulting from todays forum/ pics...


flattering really... but i'm sure the desire for a lasting relationship isn't one i bear alone.. in fact, many men have messaged me expressing the desire for something similar and thanking me for my post...


i'm going to bed encouraged and convinced that tomorrow brings me one step cloder to that which i seek


night all


 


x


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it is not a question of Mr. Right, or Mr. Wrong.....but rather Mr. Right-Now Surprised


remember the song by CSN&Y


"if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with"


CSN&Y for those who never made it to woodstock or paleo - Crosby Stills Nash & Young. although neil young isn't part of the group any longer.


  "I'm going to bed encouraged and convinced that tomorrow brings me one step cloder to that which i seek"


remember,


"The road is long
With many a winding turn
That leads us to who knows where
Who knows when
But I'm strong..........."


i'm sure you will lyndsey, you got "moxie"


 


 

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it is not a question of Mr. Right, or Mr. Wrong.....but rather Mr. Right-Now Surprised


remember the song by CSN&Y


"if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with"


CSN&Y for those who never made it to woodstock or paleo - Crosby Stills Nash & Young. although neil young isn't part of the group any longer.


  "I'm going to bed encouraged and convinced that tomorrow brings me one step cloder to that which i seek"


remember,


"The road is long
With many a winding turn
That leads us to who knows where
Who knows when
But I'm strong..........."


i'm sure you will lyndsey, you got "moxie"


 


 


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well... why not?!

ok... actually, i can think of a million reasons but don't let that put you off ;)

the positives are...

1) i guarantee to have a better movie selection than you,

2) i will definitely be super competitive and also attempt any game on the games console of your choice, the bloodier, the better.

3) I love whiskey..

4) your friends will like me.. failing that, i will happily pimp out hot female friends to bribe and buy their affection

5) i enjoy playing pool

6) i will, most likely, be ready before you on a night out

7) i will tell you as it is.. sugar coating is best kept for M & Ms

8) your mother definitely will not like me, but that's ok cause i'm not gonna blame you for this...no nagging required

9) i can get the lid off my own jam jars

10) during football games not only will i not speak, i will inflict pain on anyone who attempts to speak/play with remote or distract me from said game..

11) my comebacks are the stuff of legends...

so... the question is... where and when?!

Basically i am very intrigued by the dating scene... people want one thing, then do another... girls are told to eat BEFORE going out for food on a 1st date so as not to appear greedy and a million other BS rules which ultimately have us (and i mean both sexes) playing other people and ultimately defeating the purpose of being loved for who we are...

what are we really looking for?? the act or the reality....


Sep 27, 10 14:18

OMG you're a guy! That explains so much :p

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OMG you're a guy! That explains so much :p


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OMG you're a guy! That explains so much :p


Sep 28, 10 06:59

explains why i can pee standing up and drink more whiskey than most men i know


thanks for this epiphany


 

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explains why i can pee standing up and drink more whiskey than most men i know


thanks for this epiphany


 


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so... with all this cultural variety in GVA, i'm intrigued as to dating protocol from around the world


in Glasgow, men woo the ladies over a post=club taxi queue, promise her the world over chips and cheese and a GLASS bottle of irn bru and then she's smitten (or pregnant) so quickly, she can't leave...


ah the romance .. :P

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so... with all this cultural variety in GVA, i'm intrigued as to dating protocol from around the world


in Glasgow, men woo the ladies over a post=club taxi queue, promise her the world over chips and cheese and a GLASS bottle of irn bru and then she's smitten (or pregnant) so quickly, she can't leave...


ah the romance .. :P


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so... with all this cultural variety in GVA, i'm intrigued as to dating protocol from around the world

in Glasgow, men woo the ladies over a post=club taxi queue, promise her the world over chips and cheese and a GLASS bottle of irn bru and then she's smitten (or pregnant) so quickly, she can't leave...

ah the romance .. :P


Sep 28, 10 09:22

thats after shes been bailed to appear before a magistrate for disorderly conduct and street brawling.....


International dating protocol.... does such a thing still exist?


In days gone by it was called "stepping out"...and perfectly normal to go for a chaperoned walk in the park... now... I think if you offer a girl a "walk in the park" as a first or second date...youre gonna get punched/or left standing by the rose bed on your own.... in any culture!


Now IMHO its all about dinner, dancing, drinking, laughing and the eternal struggle to get from "first base" to "third base" without feeling or looking like a tart (male or female).

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thats after shes been bailed to appear before a magistrate for disorderly conduct and street brawling.....


International dating protocol.... does such a thing still exist?


In days gone by it was called "stepping out"...and perfectly normal to go for a chaperoned walk in the park... now... I think if you offer a girl a "walk in the park" as a first or second date...youre gonna get punched/or left standing by the rose bed on your own.... in any culture!


Now IMHO its all about dinner, dancing, drinking, laughing and the eternal struggle to get from "first base" to "third base" without feeling or looking like a tart (male or female).


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too true Charlie...


wait... there's a third base???!!!!!

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too true Charlie...


wait... there's a third base???!!!!!


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Hey Lynds


What do you think of a chaperoned walk in the parc after our very romantic dinner?


;)

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Hey Lynds


What do you think of a chaperoned walk in the parc after our very romantic dinner?


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too true Charlie...

wait... there's a third base???!!!!!


Sep 28, 10 11:04

it's 13 point system - 2 scored for each base + a bonus point for something kinky

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it's 13 point system - 2 scored for each base + a bonus point for something kinky


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lyndsey,


baseball is a complex game. you can get to first base with a hit, a walk, a bunt. you can even steal 2nd and 3rd and sometimes even steal home. of course you can hit a home run, and clearly scrore.


of course you can strike out, get hit by a pitch, fly out, and get thrown out.


sometimes, you just have to sit on the bench and wait.


baseball is a complex game......ahh, what has this got to do with a date?


well, date is a four letter word as in " date me" Wink


 

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lyndsey,


baseball is a complex game. you can get to first base with a hit, a walk, a bunt. you can even steal 2nd and 3rd and sometimes even steal home. of course you can hit a home run, and clearly scrore.


of course you can strike out, get hit by a pitch, fly out, and get thrown out.


sometimes, you just have to sit on the bench and wait.


baseball is a complex game......ahh, what has this got to do with a date?


well, date is a four letter word as in " date me" Wink


 


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i strike out all the time...


 


boo hiss

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i strike out all the time...


 


boo hiss


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just for fun, try keeping your eye on the ball, relax, don't swing too hard, and


imagine that sound as you smack that baby out of the park

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just for fun, try keeping your eye on the ball, relax, don't swing too hard, and


imagine that sound as you smack that baby out of the park


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not my kind of game i'm afraid... 3 attempts to do something right?! ...


 

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what is the "perfect" first date?


 

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any first date with me.

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any first date with me.


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any first date with me.


Sep 28, 10 13:35

money where your mouth is?


we shall devide a point scoring system rated on manners, venue and activites undertaken on the date (more innocent than it sounds)

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money where your mouth is?


we shall devide a point scoring system rated on manners, venue and activites undertaken on the date (more innocent than it sounds)


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manners? oh you must mean MAN ners.Smile

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any first date with me.


Sep 28, 10 13:35

You didn't specify.... does this mean you also think that when men have their first date with you it's still the perfect first date?????


And following Q1 obviously Q2 arising: do you usually have the same plan of action for first dates with women and men, or are you running a complete different script?


Just curious.......


Tongue out

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You didn't specify.... does this mean you also think that when men have their first date with you it's still the perfect first date?????


And following Q1 obviously Q2 arising: do you usually have the same plan of action for first dates with women and men, or are you running a complete different script?


Just curious.......


Tongue out


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David, you know you're supposed to watch my balls and not my ass when I hit off the tee? That's etiquette man!!

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David, you know you're supposed to watch my balls and not my ass when I hit off the tee? That's etiquette man!!


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Ok. Then we'll start at my place.  And don't forget to pick up some wine on the way over.

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Ok. Then we'll start at my place.  And don't forget to pick up some wine on the way over.


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Ok. Then we'll start at my place.  And don't forget to pick up some wine on the way over.


Sep 28, 10 14:30

time and place pumpkin... playground stuff ;)

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time and place pumpkin... playground stuff ;)


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Matt's soooo gonna get eaten alive... no pun intended.


Actually Lynds, I have slowly and rather "far- fetchedly" come to the conclusion that youre rather shy and gentle...all this bravado, drinking, foul mouthedness, tonguing girls, grabbing ass and fronting up to people ...is just a front to cover up a gentle little girl who would like to dress in pink and watch romance movies have babies and cook cottage pie....


You have 3 law degrees FFS so you must be somewhat brighter than the average galswegian bimbo...(although you never mentioned the grades)


 


(im running now before the left hook starts swinging)

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Matt's soooo gonna get eaten alive... no pun intended.


Actually Lynds, I have slowly and rather "far- fetchedly" come to the conclusion that youre rather shy and gentle...all this bravado, drinking, foul mouthedness, tonguing girls, grabbing ass and fronting up to people ...is just a front to cover up a gentle little girl who would like to dress in pink and watch romance movies have babies and cook cottage pie....


You have 3 law degrees FFS so you must be somewhat brighter than the average galswegian bimbo...(although you never mentioned the grades)


 


(im running now before the left hook starts swinging)


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HAHAHAHAHAHHAHA


yes charlie, i'm busted, stepford wife in the making and shoosh it's a secret


first in LLB degree


distinction in diploma in legal practice


masters in IP law and technology entrepreneurship..


How i wish i had taken home economics and bakery classes...


i do like to wear pink fyi and i can be girly, on occasion...


you know me well though charlie, am i not worthy of a nice man ?!


 

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HAHAHAHAHAHHAHA


yes charlie, i'm busted, stepford wife in the making and shoosh it's a secret


first in LLB degree


distinction in diploma in legal practice


masters in IP law and technology entrepreneurship..


How i wish i had taken home economics and bakery classes...


i do like to wear pink fyi and i can be girly, on occasion...


you know me well though charlie, am i not worthy of a nice man ?!


 


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and fyi i'm not bi-curious, i'm bi-active...


ok, well i'm not really but im at meghans for some pre-fondue nap time and chat... first for everything methinks x

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and fyi i'm not bi-curious, i'm bi-active...


ok, well i'm not really but im at meghans for some pre-fondue nap time and chat... first for everything methinks x


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tommorrow at 9: 199 Rue D'Allemogne Apt No 23, Thoiry.  You might want to bring a change of clothes too.

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tommorrow at 9: 199 Rue D'Allemogne Apt No 23, Thoiry.  You might want to bring a change of clothes too.


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Hey everybody... all you 22500 Glocals members....


I believe we have a party tomorrow at 199 Rue D'Allemogne Apt No 23, Thoiry.


Laughing

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Hey everybody... all you 22500 Glocals members....


I believe we have a party tomorrow at 199 Rue D'Allemogne Apt No 23, Thoiry.


Laughing


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Lynds, youre worthy of whatever makes you happy... thats the key to success.


 


LOL @ Matt.... class line.

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Lynds, youre worthy of whatever makes you happy... thats the key to success.


 


LOL @ Matt.... class line.


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Hey everybody... all you 22500 Glocals members....

I believe we have a party tomorrow at 199 Rue D'Allemogne Apt No 23, Thoiry.

Laughing


Sep 28, 10 15:01

Oh by the way.. Lyndsey, if all Glocals members are going to Matt it's gonna be a bit busy at his place I think. Shall we go to some more quiet place for dinner?

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Oh by the way.. Lyndsey, if all Glocals members are going to Matt it's gonna be a bit busy at his place I think. Shall we go to some more quiet place for dinner?


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wow matt, car keys in a bowl... i dont do sloppy seconds so i better get there sharpish... will pack my dignity too ;)

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wow matt, car keys in a bowl... i dont do sloppy seconds so i better get there sharpish... will pack my dignity too ;)


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You better get there sharpish anyways, because I don't tolerate tardiness.

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You better get there sharpish anyways, because I don't tolerate tardiness.


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punish me


did an american just use the word tardiness? i may need two changes of clothes due to shock :P

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punish me


did an american just use the word tardiness? i may need two changes of clothes due to shock :P


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kinky- 13 points

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kinky- 13 points


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And why is this shocking to you?  Yes, even Americans have a 5th grade vocabulary.

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And why is this shocking to you?  Yes, even Americans have a 5th grade vocabulary.


Sep 28, 10 15:46

just very 17th century.

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just very 17th century.


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just very 17th century.


Sep 28, 10 15:54

"ahh will naat stayand fer yoor tardiness young mayan, naw good day to y'awl"


 

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"ahh will naat stayand fer yoor tardiness young mayan, naw good day to y'awl"


 


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"ahh will naat stayand fer yoor tardiness young mayan, naw good day to y'awl"

 


Sep 28, 10 16:15

17th Century or Scotch English?

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17th Century or Scotch English?


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17th Century or Scotch English?


Sep 28, 10 16:29

actually re reading it myself im unclear too....

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actually re reading it myself im unclear too....


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quite simple.   You're going for the wrong type of man.  What ever you are doing now simply does not work.  You admit it. So change it.  Date an older guy - more money. More fun.  We've seen it all before so don't have time to play silly games. 

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quite simple.   You're going for the wrong type of man.  What ever you are doing now simply does not work.  You admit it. So change it.  Date an older guy - more money. More fun.  We've seen it all before so don't have time to play silly games. 


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Jan 1, 70 01:00

Right there is the guy you want to date. Bravo!

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Right there is the guy you want to date. Bravo!


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If, that is, if Glocals were a dating website...

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If, that is, if Glocals were a dating website...


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quite simple.   You're going for the wrong type of man.  What ever you are doing now simply does not work.  You admit it. So change it.  Date an older guy - more money. More fun.  We've seen it all before so don't have time to play silly games. 


Sep 28, 10 17:54

I thought wisdom comes with age and Not money, how wrong i was! Besides She indicated clearly she doesnt need anybody who will sleep on the job!

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I thought wisdom comes with age and Not money, how wrong i was! Besides She indicated clearly she doesnt need anybody who will sleep on the job!


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quite simple.   You're going for the wrong type of man.  What ever you are doing now simply does not work.  You admit it. So change it.  Date an older guy - more money. More fun.  We've seen it all before so don't have time to play silly games. 


Sep 28, 10 17:54

so you think girls are attracted to money?

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so you think girls are attracted to money?


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see, i know some women will be reading this and be full of scorn and disgust ... (whilst furiously scribbling down notes) and the rest will be high 5iving me and taking any advice the lovely men have been kind enough to offer

i'm just more honest than the rest .. i want someone who will pull out all the stops..

quite simply. i'm not gonna settle anymore :)


Sep 27, 10 15:43

And some women reading the whole thread because they are bored and have nothing better to do

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And some women reading the whole thread because they are bored and have nothing better to do


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Lynds,


This is not directly linked to you, but just an observation about women who date in GVA (based on a small sample size, I admit).


Many of the GVA expat ladies who are in their mid 30s seem far less eager to settle down and have kids, compared to women of the same age in other countries.


It's not rare for me to meet GVA ladies in their mid 30's who say they ain't in any hurry. Par contre, when I visit Israel (where I was raised) or UK (where I got mates), my impression is that women in their mid 30s who ain't married yet are on a tight count down. 


Y'all guys out there encoutered this too?


Nir

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Lynds,


This is not directly linked to you, but just an observation about women who date in GVA (based on a small sample size, I admit).


Many of the GVA expat ladies who are in their mid 30s seem far less eager to settle down and have kids, compared to women of the same age in other countries.


It's not rare for me to meet GVA ladies in their mid 30's who say they ain't in any hurry. Par contre, when I visit Israel (where I was raised) or UK (where I got mates), my impression is that women in their mid 30s who ain't married yet are on a tight count down. 


Y'all guys out there encoutered this too?


Nir


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And some women reading the whole thread because they are bored and have nothing better to do


Sep 28, 10 22:48

Maybe girls need to take notes but not women.

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Maybe girls need to take notes but not women.


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Lynds,

This is not directly linked to you, but just an observation about women who date in GVA (based on a small sample size, I admit).

Many of the GVA expat ladies who are in their mid 30s seem far less eager to settle down and have kids, compared to women of the same age in other countries.

It's not rare for me to meet GVA ladies in their mid 30's who say they ain't in any hurry. Par contre, when I visit Israel (where I was raised) or UK (where I got mates), my impression is that women in their mid 30s who ain't married yet are on a tight count down. 

Y'all guys out there encoutered this too?

Nir


Sep 28, 10 23:03

So true!! In Cyprus where i come from, people think that if you are a woman and you are not married by 30 then there is something wrong with you


Im glad im in Geneva and under no pressure to get married. Im too young for that anw!

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So true!! In Cyprus where i come from, people think that if you are a woman and you are not married by 30 then there is something wrong with you


Im glad im in Geneva and under no pressure to get married. Im too young for that anw!


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see, i know some women will be reading this and be full of scorn and disgust ... (whilst furiously scribbling down notes) and the rest will be high 5iving me and taking any advice the lovely men have been kind enough to offer

i'm just more honest than the rest .. i want someone who will pull out all the stops..

quite simply. i'm not gonna settle anymore :)


Sep 27, 10 15:43

And a really smart man might take notice of how a "woman" denigrates other women in appealing to "the lovely men" and perhaps decide that even with all her degrees and other attributes that she is getting exactly what she deserves... 

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And a really smart man might take notice of how a "woman" denigrates other women in appealing to "the lovely men" and perhaps decide that even with all her degrees and other attributes that she is getting exactly what she deserves... 


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Maria: tell you what, if you're not married by 35, I'll marry you. And same offer applies to Lynds too! How's that for old time chivalry?

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Maria: tell you what, if you're not married by 35, I'll marry you. And same offer applies to Lynds too! How's that for old time chivalry?


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Maria: tell you what, if you're not married by 35, I'll marry you. And same offer applies to Lynds too! How's that for old time chivalry?


Sep 28, 10 23:32

Then you can have your own tele-reality series--- Nir and all his women.... I can't wait...Tongue out

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Then you can have your own tele-reality series--- Nir and all his women.... I can't wait...Tongue out


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Translator: if you don't change your tone, I won't let you join our series! (-;


Lynds: seriously, i don't know you, but from your posts you sound like a great girl to hang out with.


Nir

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Translator: if you don't change your tone, I won't let you join our series! (-;


Lynds: seriously, i don't know you, but from your posts you sound like a great girl to hang out with.


Nir


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always happy to have some folk get their claws out Nir...


clearly i'm just not woman enough for Geneva yet ;)


x

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always happy to have some folk get their claws out Nir...


clearly i'm just not woman enough for Geneva yet ;)


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And a really smart man might take notice of how a "woman" denigrates other women in appealing to "the lovely men" and perhaps decide that even with all her degrees and other attributes that she is getting exactly what she deserves... 


Sep 28, 10 23:16

oh yes, i didn't once say i deserved a man, i just said i was looking... thank you so much for your insight..


i am all too aware of my faults translator, however, even with those and my evident lack of tact, at least i got people talking


enough people like me for who i am here.. not going to lose sleep over some people taking this post the wrong way, no publicity is bad publicity... then again, i am sure you would beg to differ here...


nice to see some female solidarity on here though, even if it isn't in agreement with the general theme :)

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oh yes, i didn't once say i deserved a man, i just said i was looking... thank you so much for your insight..


i am all too aware of my faults translator, however, even with those and my evident lack of tact, at least i got people talking


enough people like me for who i am here.. not going to lose sleep over some people taking this post the wrong way, no publicity is bad publicity... then again, i am sure you would beg to differ here...


nice to see some female solidarity on here though, even if it isn't in agreement with the general theme :)


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Translator: if you don't change your tone, I won't let you join our series! (-;

Lynds: seriously, i don't know you, but from your posts you sound like a great girl to hang out with.

Nir


Sep 28, 10 23:52

Damn Nir... why didn't you tell me earlier that mariage with mulltiple women is allowed in Switzerland....I almost moved to the middle east for that


Tongue out

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Damn Nir... why didn't you tell me earlier that mariage with mulltiple women is allowed in Switzerland....I almost moved to the middle east for that


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Maria: tell you what, if you're not married by 35, I'll marry you. And same offer applies to Lynds too! How's that for old time chivalry?


Sep 28, 10 23:32

Obviously that was supposed to go with this quote.....


 


*reminder to myself: stop at half a bottle of whisky while I still can see sharp with at least 1 eye....Tongue out

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Obviously that was supposed to go with this quote.....


 


*reminder to myself: stop at half a bottle of whisky while I still can see sharp with at least 1 eye....Tongue out


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Translator: if you don't change your tone, I won't let you join our series! (-;

Lynds: seriously, i don't know you, but from your posts you sound like a great girl to hang out with.

Nir


Sep 28, 10 23:52

Well, I have one of the two skill sets you mentioned but it's not cooking...Innocent


And I wonder whether you'll be sleeping outdoors tonight after your generous offers....Yell


 

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Well, I have one of the two skill sets you mentioned but it's not cooking...Innocent


And I wonder whether you'll be sleeping outdoors tonight after your generous offers....Yell


 


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Nir,


I can completely confirm Lyndsey is a very lovely girl :)  Certainly has charisma and humour on her side....frankly, I'm amazed she hasn't been scooped up yet.  But I suppose that's because dating really isn't easy no matter where you are.

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Nir,


I can completely confirm Lyndsey is a very lovely girl :)  Certainly has charisma and humour on her side....frankly, I'm amazed she hasn't been scooped up yet.  But I suppose that's because dating really isn't easy no matter where you are.


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oh yes, i didn't once say i deserved a man, i just said i was looking... thank you so much for your insight..

i am all too aware of my faults translator, however, even with those and my evident lack of tact, at least i got people talking

enough people like me for who i am here.. not going to lose sleep over some people taking this post the wrong way, no publicity is bad publicity... then again, i am sure you would beg to differ here...

nice to see some female solidarity on here though, even if it isn't in agreement with the general theme :)


Sep 28, 10 23:57

I didn't say whether or not you did "deserve" a [good] man.  I suggested what might be concluded by your statements.


I suppose it depends what one is "publicizing." However,  I was also referring to your manner of appealing to the crowd, a technique used in argumentation.


My point  was merely that you do not have to denigrate women who disagree with you. 


 


 


 

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I didn't say whether or not you did "deserve" a [good] man.  I suggested what might be concluded by your statements.


I suppose it depends what one is "publicizing." However,  I was also referring to your manner of appealing to the crowd, a technique used in argumentation.


My point  was merely that you do not have to denigrate women who disagree with you. 


 


 


 


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cheers guys :)


maybe i should just do as suggested and get myself to a sheikh hotspot .. game for it Megs ;) x

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cheers guys :)


maybe i should just do as suggested and get myself to a sheikh hotspot .. game for it Megs ;) x


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I didn't say whether or not you did "deserve" a [good] man.  I suggested what might be concluded by your statements.

I suppose it depends what one is "publicizing." However,  I was also referring to your manner of appealing to the crowd, a technique used in argumentation.

My point  was merely that you do not have to denigrate women who disagree with you. 

 

 

 


Sep 29, 10 00:12

well i apologise for the confusion... and my point was aimed at a recent post whereby i was publicly abused by a woman who then, by private email, told me she was just doing it to cause a stir and that really she wanted to buy me a glass of wine for, if nothing else, providing some entertainment and the occaisonal insight..


with me, sadly what you see is what you get..


how long have you been in gva translator?


x

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well i apologise for the confusion... and my point was aimed at a recent post whereby i was publicly abused by a woman who then, by private email, told me she was just doing it to cause a stir and that really she wanted to buy me a glass of wine for, if nothing else, providing some entertainment and the occaisonal insight..


with me, sadly what you see is what you get..


how long have you been in gva translator?


x


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Seems like forever sometimes  ...  Us Americans heart Scots for their frankness and the brogue... I can, however, pass on the idea of  Haggis which sounds something like chitlins, a southern, soul-food delicacy I have managed to avoid while maintaining my essential urban cool...

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Seems like forever sometimes  ...  Us Americans heart Scots for their frankness and the brogue... I can, however, pass on the idea of  Haggis which sounds something like chitlins, a southern, soul-food delicacy I have managed to avoid while maintaining my essential urban cool...


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Maria: tell you what, if you're not married by 35, I'll marry you. And same offer applies to Lynds too! How's that for old time chivalry?


Sep 28, 10 23:32

Nir will you marry me as well ? It is legal to have four wives in my country providing that it has been agreed with the other wives!

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Nir will you marry me as well ? It is legal to have four wives in my country providing that it has been agreed with the other wives!


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you and me both... it's ok when you KNOW what's in it... otherwise it makes me feel very faint.. :)


i love Geneva and everyday here gives me something to be grateful for.. just feels like i'm missing something... now whether that's company, church, a puppy.. i'm not so sure


and yeah, going on earlier posts (not yours translator), i can be guilty of rushing into things and feeling "left on the shelf" especially when so many people seem to be moving on.. i guess it's perhaps my upbringing that suggests that at a certain point, some things should have been achieved


in my opinion i haven't done too badly... i'm in a new place with good friends and good prospects.. i just can't help but wonder, am i missing out or not making the most of what i have..


 

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you and me both... it's ok when you KNOW what's in it... otherwise it makes me feel very faint.. :)


i love Geneva and everyday here gives me something to be grateful for.. just feels like i'm missing something... now whether that's company, church, a puppy.. i'm not so sure


and yeah, going on earlier posts (not yours translator), i can be guilty of rushing into things and feeling "left on the shelf" especially when so many people seem to be moving on.. i guess it's perhaps my upbringing that suggests that at a certain point, some things should have been achieved


in my opinion i haven't done too badly... i'm in a new place with good friends and good prospects.. i just can't help but wonder, am i missing out or not making the most of what i have..


 


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Oh Nir you smooth talking lothario


i'm finding it hard enough to get past one date and you have women throwing themselves at you?


this padawan bows at your feet ;)


 

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Oh Nir you smooth talking lothario


i'm finding it hard enough to get past one date and you have women throwing themselves at you?


this padawan bows at your feet ;)


 


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Lynds,

This is not directly linked to you, but just an observation about women who date in GVA (based on a small sample size, I admit).

Many of the GVA expat ladies who are in their mid 30s seem far less eager to settle down and have kids, compared to women of the same age in other countries.

It's not rare for me to meet GVA ladies in their mid 30's who say they ain't in any hurry. Par contre, when I visit Israel (where I was raised) or UK (where I got mates), my impression is that women in their mid 30s who ain't married yet are on a tight count down. 

Y'all guys out there encoutered this too?

Nir


Sep 28, 10 23:03

Came here when I was 25, so can't say about those in The Netherlands, but almost as soon as I landed here I did encounter some mid 30 ladies who were a bit too eager. Although I never took the time to find out what their real attentions were.

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Came here when I was 25, so can't say about those in The Netherlands, but almost as soon as I landed here I did encounter some mid 30 ladies who were a bit too eager. Although I never took the time to find out what their real attentions were.


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I think ThomasNL and others have rightly pointed out the pros and cons of the cultural diversity here.  It can be destabilizing.  I just relocated  to Carouge and I really like it a great deal.  It is amazing how different the neighborhoods/quartiers can feel here.  I lived  in the Old Town for many years and while I enjoyed it, the noise at night was just a bleeping nightmare.


The great contribution that Glocals has made, imo, is that it has helped connect many of us who felt isolated from the Swiss and other expatriates.   So whatever my  frustrations  (like with the shakeapp.com right  now), I come back to the site.  I really can't be bothered with facebook, frankly, although  I know other people swear by it...


I like a lot of the improvements, especially with the groups... Smile


 


 

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I think ThomasNL and others have rightly pointed out the pros and cons of the cultural diversity here.  It can be destabilizing.  I just relocated  to Carouge and I really like it a great deal.  It is amazing how different the neighborhoods/quartiers can feel here.  I lived  in the Old Town for many years and while I enjoyed it, the noise at night was just a bleeping nightmare.


The great contribution that Glocals has made, imo, is that it has helped connect many of us who felt isolated from the Swiss and other expatriates.   So whatever my  frustrations  (like with the shakeapp.com right  now), I come back to the site.  I really can't be bothered with facebook, frankly, although  I know other people swear by it...


I like a lot of the improvements, especially with the groups... Smile


 


 


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Came here when I was 25, so can't say about those in The Netherlands, but almost as soon as I landed here I did encounter some mid 30 ladies who were a bit too eager. Although I never took the time to find out what their real attentions were.


Sep 29, 10 00:46

I guess the cantonal authorities will soon have to cull the "cougar" population if the problem continues....Kiss

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kXI2_ZimlCk

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what dating could be like in geneva


 

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what dating could be like in geneva


 


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Farz:


I don't marry just any girl, I have strict standards (detailed in post #4 to this thread)!


Nir

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Farz:


I don't marry just any girl, I have strict standards (detailed in post #4 to this thread)!


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How easily can I convert to Islam and change my name to:


"Sheikh Charlie bin There don That Whoseupforit" ?


Then I can do the 4 or 6 wives thing, whilst living out some rather bizarre fantasies at the same time.


Applications via PM please, with picture and cup size, with a brief covering letter outlining skill sets in the two main rooms of the house... thanks.


 


(Now certainly running for the hills whilst dodging flying fryingpans)


 

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How easily can I convert to Islam and change my name to:


"Sheikh Charlie bin There don That Whoseupforit" ?


Then I can do the 4 or 6 wives thing, whilst living out some rather bizarre fantasies at the same time.


Applications via PM please, with picture and cup size, with a brief covering letter outlining skill sets in the two main rooms of the house... thanks.


 


(Now certainly running for the hills whilst dodging flying fryingpans)


 


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Skill sets in the two main rooms for ladies???


I guess you mean the kitchen and laundryroom ?


Laughing

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Skill sets in the two main rooms for ladies???


I guess you mean the kitchen and laundryroom ?


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Nir will you marry me as well ? It is legal to have four wives in my country providing that it has been agreed with the other wives!


Sep 29, 10 00:22

Why stop at 4?

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Why stop at 4?


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Maria: tell you what, if you're not married by 35, I'll marry you. And same offer applies to Lynds too! How's that for old time chivalry?


Sep 28, 10 23:32

Ok people for the next 7 years Nir is reserved (and then will be taken)


Find someone else!!

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Ok people for the next 7 years Nir is reserved (and then will be taken)


Find someone else!!


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Jan 1, 70 01:00

i'm all about half full... like it though ;)

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i have measure of true love....


it's called the IKEA test...


i defy any couple, to be able to go there, NOT get lost, NOT argue over the previously agreed upon piece of furniture (and the reason you are there); (NOT) to lose about 6 mini pencils in one's handbag; NOT  to get the brattiest child attached to the most laid back parents follow you around the shop.. then.. after awkward silence between you and said loved one, NOT to stress out when you realise that, the one highlight of this trip (the meatballs) has been ruined as they have run out/you have to wait longer than anticipated


If you make it through ALL this, then you have the horror of the MARKETPLACE... sounds fun, the reality is different... watching people go crazy over a mini cactuc and vanilla scented candles can drive anyone to distraction... let alone the mandatory look through the "damaged and discounted corner"


THEN you see the queues and the last bit of hope you had about escaping in time to have a nice ice cream and relaxing day.... DIES...


FINALLY you make it through the check out, stop for diam bars and a hot dog (just because you can) and attempt to, whilst your partner does nothing but HOLD the door open?!!... squeeze in the furniture, slam the door then drive home in an awkward silence vowing NEVER to do this again...


if, however, you have managed to avoid at least one of these traumatic events... you are MADE for each other...


if not and you are starting out on a relationship.. it's a fun place for a date!! take some chips, pull up a chair and watch people cite IKEA as a reason for divorce


FUN TIMES ;)

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i have measure of true love....


it's called the IKEA test...


i defy any couple, to be able to go there, NOT get lost, NOT argue over the previously agreed upon piece of furniture (and the reason you are there); (NOT) to lose about 6 mini pencils in one's handbag; NOT  to get the brattiest child attached to the most laid back parents follow you around the shop.. then.. after awkward silence between you and said loved one, NOT to stress out when you realise that, the one highlight of this trip (the meatballs) has been ruined as they have run out/you have to wait longer than anticipated


If you make it through ALL this, then you have the horror of the MARKETPLACE... sounds fun, the reality is different... watching people go crazy over a mini cactuc and vanilla scented candles can drive anyone to distraction... let alone the mandatory look through the "damaged and discounted corner"


THEN you see the queues and the last bit of hope you had about escaping in time to have a nice ice cream and relaxing day.... DIES...


FINALLY you make it through the check out, stop for diam bars and a hot dog (just because you can) and attempt to, whilst your partner does nothing but HOLD the door open?!!... squeeze in the furniture, slam the door then drive home in an awkward silence vowing NEVER to do this again...


if, however, you have managed to avoid at least one of these traumatic events... you are MADE for each other...


if not and you are starting out on a relationship.. it's a fun place for a date!! take some chips, pull up a chair and watch people cite IKEA as a reason for divorce


FUN TIMES ;)


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i have measure of true love....

it's called the IKEA test...

i defy any couple, to be able to go there, NOT get lost, NOT argue over the previously agreed upon piece of furniture (and the reason you are there); (NOT) to lose about 6 mini pencils in one's handbag; NOT  to get the brattiest child attached to the most laid back parents follow you around the shop.. then.. after awkward silence between you and said loved one, NOT to stress out when you realise that, the one highlight of this trip (the meatballs) has been ruined as they have run out/you have to wait longer than anticipated

If you make it through ALL this, then you have the horror of the MARKETPLACE... sounds fun, the reality is different... watching people go crazy over a mini cactuc and vanilla scented candles can drive anyone to distraction... let alone the mandatory look through the "damaged and discounted corner"

THEN you see the queues and the last bit of hope you had about escaping in time to have a nice ice cream and relaxing day.... DIES...

FINALLY you make it through the check out, stop for diam bars and a hot dog (just because you can) and attempt to, whilst your partner does nothing but HOLD the door open?!!... squeeze in the furniture, slam the door then drive home in an awkward silence vowing NEVER to do this again...

if, however, you have managed to avoid at least one of these traumatic events... you are MADE for each other...

if not and you are starting out on a relationship.. it's a fun place for a date!! take some chips, pull up a chair and watch people cite IKEA as a reason for divorce

FUN TIMES ;)


Sep 29, 10 12:56

Too true – my last relation ended after a shopping trip to Ikea.


 


 

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Too true – my last relation ended after a shopping trip to Ikea.


 


 


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Go to IKEA only on a weeknight.  So far the best relationship skill I've learned in Switzerland.

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Jan 1, 70 01:00

or may be she's planing to ditch her partner!!

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you may mock me but it's true....


i don't care how many times i swear i won't go back, i will


it's the inner sadist


i like seeing the folks in yellow shirts being traumatised when asked for directions..


it's even more fun when the ones being asked aren't staff... i may go and steal an ikea shirt and then just give people obscure directions and watch them bump into each other...


*insert evil laugh here*

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you may mock me but it's true....


i don't care how many times i swear i won't go back, i will


it's the inner sadist


i like seeing the folks in yellow shirts being traumatised when asked for directions..


it's even more fun when the ones being asked aren't staff... i may go and steal an ikea shirt and then just give people obscure directions and watch them bump into each other...


*insert evil laugh here*


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Jan 1, 70 01:00

or to take the replacement home with her

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you may mock me but it's true....

i don't care how many times i swear i won't go back, i will

it's the inner sadist

i like seeing the folks in yellow shirts being traumatised when asked for directions..

it's even more fun when the ones being asked aren't staff... i may go and steal an ikea shirt and then just give people obscure directions and watch them bump into each other...

*insert evil laugh here*


Sep 29, 10 13:36

We could make it a Glocals weekly event – every Thursday – meatballs and mayhem

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Im loving all the reading... Keeping me sooooooooooooooooooooo amuzed... And before anyone says anything I am busy but enjoy the updates...


Good on ya Lyns for starting this.  See you soon for a pint or 2...


Rxx


 


 

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Im loving all the reading... Keeping me sooooooooooooooooooooo amuzed... And before anyone says anything I am busy but enjoy the updates...


Good on ya Lyns for starting this.  See you soon for a pint or 2...


Rxx


 


 


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Im loving all the reading... Keeping me sooooooooooooooooooooo amuzed... And before anyone says anything I am busy but enjoy the updates...

Good on ya Lyns for starting this.  See you soon for a pint or 2...

Rxx

 

 


Sep 29, 10 13:45

Big compliment coming from the woman with the best banter in Geneva ;)


i'm away to bonnie scotland this weekend so enjoy the peace... will be back before you know it ;)


 


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Big compliment coming from the woman with the best banter in Geneva ;)


i'm away to bonnie scotland this weekend so enjoy the peace... will be back before you know it ;)


 


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Best time to go to Ikea.... Alone at lunchtime .......with a pre printed list of where Items are on the shelving before the check out... In and out in 45 mins... and 1k spent. Load car by ones self...cos you would have to alone anyway, as wife / girlfreind / partner/ dog look on hopelessly...time to wonder back in, for some frozen meatballs and 1kg of Daim bars, a quick double hotdog on the way out, and leisurely drive back to home for an unload, and short drive to office as if you never left... smirking all the way that you didnt end up with 200chf worth of soft furnishings, potted plants that would die anyway, and numerous other reasons...


the evening can be spent professionally putting said items together, intemingled with watching Chelsea beat Marseille,...followed by a couple of celebratory beers after both jobs well done...


Guess what I did yesterday.... he he


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Best time to go to Ikea.... Alone at lunchtime .......with a pre printed list of where Items are on the shelving before the check out... In and out in 45 mins... and 1k spent. Load car by ones self...cos you would have to alone anyway, as wife / girlfreind / partner/ dog look on hopelessly...time to wonder back in, for some frozen meatballs and 1kg of Daim bars, a quick double hotdog on the way out, and leisurely drive back to home for an unload, and short drive to office as if you never left... smirking all the way that you didnt end up with 200chf worth of soft furnishings, potted plants that would die anyway, and numerous other reasons...


the evening can be spent professionally putting said items together, intemingled with watching Chelsea beat Marseille,...followed by a couple of celebratory beers after both jobs well done...


Guess what I did yesterday.... he he


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Funny, this week I made contact with the marketing person of IKEA Geneva to see if could help them promote IKEA to glocals members, and here I see IKEA all over this thread...(-:


So I sent this thread to her, to see that glocals members love IKEA, even in the middle of hot dates...Cool 


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So I sent this thread to her, to see that glocals members love IKEA, even in the middle of hot dates...Cool 


Eva: if you're reading this, here's your chance to post a funny reply!


 


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i demand free hot dogs, diam bars and pear cider for any publicity which ensues as a result of my glocals ramblings...


typical scottish person, payment in alcohol and artery clogging goodness.. mmmmm


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Best time to go to Ikea.... Alone at lunchtime .......with a pre printed list of where Items are on the shelving before the check out... In and out in 45 mins... and 1k spent. Load car by ones self...cos you would have to alone anyway, as wife / girlfreind / partner/ dog look on hopelessly...time to wonder back in, for some frozen meatballs and 1kg of Daim bars, a quick double hotdog on the way out, and leisurely drive back to home for an unload, and short drive to office as if you never left... smirking all the way that you didnt end up with 200chf worth of soft furnishings, potted plants that would die anyway, and numerous other reasons...

the evening can be spent professionally putting said items together, intemingled with watching Chelsea beat Marseille,...followed by a couple of celebratory beers after both jobs well done...

Guess what I did yesterday.... he he

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if only couples had been made aware of the CHARLIE DIY approach to ikea... the love that could have been spared


you're my hero... time to bring out the celebtarory lederhosen?

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if only couples had been made aware of the CHARLIE DIY approach to ikea... the love that could have been spared

you're my hero... time to bring out the celebtarory lederhosen?


Sep 29, 10 14:23

Im an expert now... in both Ikea shopping and also double time assembly of Ikea flat packed furniture...


Any single ladies that need a handyman to assist in assembly please pm me, with resume, and cup size, and brief overview of skill set in the two main rooms of the house...as per Sheikh C and his dozen wives.


(running back to nuclear bunker)

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Any single ladies that need a handyman to assist in assembly please pm me, with resume, and cup size, and brief overview of skill set in the two main rooms of the house...as per Sheikh C and his dozen wives.


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Im an expert now... in both Ikea shopping and also double time assembly of Ikea flat packed furniture...

Any single ladies that need a handyman to assist in assembly please pm me, with resume, and cup size, and brief overview of skill set in the two main rooms of the house...as per Sheikh C and his dozen wives.

(running back to nuclear bunker)


Sep 29, 10 14:31

Dear Charlie,


per your invitation, i felt compelled to have to write to you


I am a 20 something wife of a 70 year old recently retired CEO and, since our recent shopping trip to IKEA, we have encountered many problems with a satisfactory erection ... of the bookcase we purchased


we have tried to sort it out and no amount of screws, or exploring the manual will help... my husband is, due to his many years, too proud to see an expert or ask for help and it is becoming a bit of a regular occurence, a flop one could say!


so, i am discretely asking you, to come over, work hard and make sure we are left with a safe, sturdily erected bookcase...


i know it's a hard ON(e) as you are in demand but i would be eternally gratefull.


bring tools!!


 


Yours sincerely MRS-Tepford wife


112 frustration avenue


FYI (( 34 DD))


 


 

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Dear Charlie,


per your invitation, i felt compelled to have to write to you


I am a 20 something wife of a 70 year old recently retired CEO and, since our recent shopping trip to IKEA, we have encountered many problems with a satisfactory erection ... of the bookcase we purchased


we have tried to sort it out and no amount of screws, or exploring the manual will help... my husband is, due to his many years, too proud to see an expert or ask for help and it is becoming a bit of a regular occurence, a flop one could say!


so, i am discretely asking you, to come over, work hard and make sure we are left with a safe, sturdily erected bookcase...


i know it's a hard ON(e) as you are in demand but i would be eternally gratefull.


bring tools!!


 


Yours sincerely MRS-Tepford wife


112 frustration avenue


FYI (( 34 DD))


 


 


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Dear Charlie,

per your invitation, i felt compelled to have to write to you

I am a 20 something wife of a 70 year old recently retired CEO and, since our recent shopping trip to IKEA, we have encountered many problems with a satisfactory erection ... of the bookcase we purchased

we have tried to sort it out and no amount of screws, or exploring the manual will help... my husband is, due to his many years, too proud to see an expert or ask for help and it is becoming a bit of a regular occurence, a flop one could say!

so, i am discretely asking you, to come over, work hard and make sure we are left with a safe, sturdily erected bookcase...

i know it's a hard ON(e) as you are in demand but i would be eternally gratefull.

bring tools!!

 

Yours sincerely MRS-Tepford wife

112 frustration avenue

FYI (( 34 DD))

 

 


Sep 29, 10 14:41

Dear Mrs Tepford


Thank you for your trust in me and for awarding the "erection" job to me.


Unfortunately, due to your husbands age, and the fact that he has presumably a tool of his own, I will have to decline, since there is a risk that he will try and use the tool I bring, (especially once he sees how it should be properly used) and I have firm rules about not getting involved with other mens tools and equally dont allow them to use my precision instrument.


Perhaps I might suggest a more "tool friendly" erector, or if not then please arrange a time when your husband is out and there is no risk of misguided tool handling.


Yours faithfully


H, Ardon


ToolsRyours Inc


Shaghard road, Switcherround, 1234


 


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Dear Mrs Tepford


Thank you for your trust in me and for awarding the "erection" job to me.


Unfortunately, due to your husbands age, and the fact that he has presumably a tool of his own, I will have to decline, since there is a risk that he will try and use the tool I bring, (especially once he sees how it should be properly used) and I have firm rules about not getting involved with other mens tools and equally dont allow them to use my precision instrument.


Perhaps I might suggest a more "tool friendly" erector, or if not then please arrange a time when your husband is out and there is no risk of misguided tool handling.


Yours faithfully


H, Ardon


ToolsRyours Inc


Shaghard road, Switcherround, 1234


 


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Dear Mrs Tepford

Thank you for your trust in me and for awarding the "erection" job to me.

Unfortunately, due to your husbands age, and the fact that he has presumably a tool of his own, I will have to decline, since there is a risk that he will try and use the tool I bring, (especially once he sees how it should be properly used) and I have firm rules about not getting involved with other mens tools and equally dont allow them to use my precision instrument.

Perhaps I might suggest a more "tool friendly" erector, or if not then please arrange a time when your husband is out and there is no risk of misguided tool handling.

Yours faithfully

H, Ardon

ToolsRyours Inc

Shaghard road, Switcherround, 1234

 

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Sep 29, 10 14:49

Mr H. Ardon...


Thank you so much for seeing it to it that i had such a swift... response.


My husband's tools are rusty and most definitely past their best, despite the handyman's best attempts to regularly service many things around the house


Per your request, i can understand the difficulty of men being possessive over tools and the likes, therefore i have booked my husband into the best swiss clini around... its called euthanasia spa... he's so excited i thought i was in danger of seeing him get out his tools, but alas, it was just a trick of the mind..


I have many friends who struggle with satisfactory services from ercetion "specialists" please send me your credentials


Regards...


Mrs S-tepford


 

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Mr H. Ardon...


Thank you so much for seeing it to it that i had such a swift... response.


My husband's tools are rusty and most definitely past their best, despite the handyman's best attempts to regularly service many things around the house


Per your request, i can understand the difficulty of men being possessive over tools and the likes, therefore i have booked my husband into the best swiss clini around... its called euthanasia spa... he's so excited i thought i was in danger of seeing him get out his tools, but alas, it was just a trick of the mind..


I have many friends who struggle with satisfactory services from ercetion "specialists" please send me your credentials


Regards...


Mrs S-tepford


 


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160 replies??  That's hilarious!  I had to have a read...!  Charlie you crack me up!  Are you still running? Lyndsey you sound like a right laugh... but I think after you've beaten me a pool, drank my whiskey and outdone me with witty comebacks... my manly ego will be deflated!  Plus football is a puffs game, so no doubt I'll be watching one of your movies in the spare room on the shit TV whilst you hog the plasma for Match of the Day!  I wouldn't see us making it past a month darling... but could I still call you when I need jam jars opening?  Come to my Curry Club one day... it use to be 70/30 women/men, but now it's nearer 50/50... the stories I could tell... and no-one thinks I see what goes on!!

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160 replies??  That's hilarious!  I had to have a read...!  Charlie you crack me up!  Are you still running? Lyndsey you sound like a right laugh... but I think after you've beaten me a pool, drank my whiskey and outdone me with witty comebacks... my manly ego will be deflated!  Plus football is a puffs game, so no doubt I'll be watching one of your movies in the spare room on the shit TV whilst you hog the plasma for Match of the Day!  I wouldn't see us making it past a month darling... but could I still call you when I need jam jars opening?  Come to my Curry Club one day... it use to be 70/30 women/men, but now it's nearer 50/50... the stories I could tell... and no-one thinks I see what goes on!!


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Dear Mrs S-Tepford


Please find a link to a firm who's contracted employees regularly use my services.


http://models.com/model_culture/50topmodels/index.cfm


Equally so If you need personal recommendations I would be pleased to put you in touch with a number of ladies in similar positions as yourself. But due to obvious confidentiality concerns I would prefer to do so on a more personal basis.


I should also mention that we are capable of multiple contracts at the same time, and often have serviced many female clients needs in a group arena, due to their desperation in getting an excellent servicing in a freindly ambience.


We at "ToolsRyours inc" are grateful for any and all personal reccomendations that our clients propose.


I remain at your service once your choice has been made.


Yours faithfully


 


H, Ardon


 


ToolsRyours Inc


 


Shaghard House, 69 Handbridge Ave, Merkin


 


 


 


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Dear Mrs S-Tepford


Please find a link to a firm who's contracted employees regularly use my services.


http://models.com/model_culture/50topmodels/index.cfm


Equally so If you need personal recommendations I would be pleased to put you in touch with a number of ladies in similar positions as yourself. But due to obvious confidentiality concerns I would prefer to do so on a more personal basis.


I should also mention that we are capable of multiple contracts at the same time, and often have serviced many female clients needs in a group arena, due to their desperation in getting an excellent servicing in a freindly ambience.


We at "ToolsRyours inc" are grateful for any and all personal reccomendations that our clients propose.


I remain at your service once your choice has been made.


Yours faithfully


 


H, Ardon


 


ToolsRyours Inc


 


Shaghard House, 69 Handbridge Ave, Merkin


 


 


 


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Dear Mrs S-Tepford

Please find a link to a firm who's contracted employees regularly use my services.

http://models.com/model_culture/50topmodels/index.cfm

Equally so If you need personal recommendations I would be pleased to put you in touch with a number of ladies in similar positions as yourself. But due to obvious confidentiality concerns I would prefer to do so on a more personal basis.

I should also mention that we are capable of multiple contracts at the same time, and often have serviced many female clients needs in a group arena, due to their desperation in getting an excellent servicing in a freindly ambience.

We at "ToolsRyours inc" are grateful for any and all personal reccomendations that our clients propose.

I remain at your service once your choice has been made.

Yours faithfully

 

H, Ardon

 

ToolsRyours Inc

 

Shaghard House, 69 Handbridge Ave, Merkin

 

 

 

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Sep 29, 10 15:05

Mr H. Ardon


My My My.


i too used to be a model... for blind monthly, nonetheless, however, i am now interested in interior decorating, hence the urgency for a handyman who could oblige in undertaking this erection timeously before i hold my open evening for my new company "swingers and sashes"


please use the entrance at the rear and leave your car keys in the bowl...


tuern left at the 2nd pole and past the heart shaped water bed.. there you will see the object i ask you to see you...


Please be discrete, if word of my new interest gets out, i fear my hsband may not understand


Yours,


Mrs S-tepford (formely Miss Primisciuous)

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Mr H. Ardon


My My My.


i too used to be a model... for blind monthly, nonetheless, however, i am now interested in interior decorating, hence the urgency for a handyman who could oblige in undertaking this erection timeously before i hold my open evening for my new company "swingers and sashes"


please use the entrance at the rear and leave your car keys in the bowl...


tuern left at the 2nd pole and past the heart shaped water bed.. there you will see the object i ask you to see you...


Please be discrete, if word of my new interest gets out, i fear my hsband may not understand


Yours,


Mrs S-tepford (formely Miss Primisciuous)


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160 replies??  That's hilarious!  I had to have a read...!  Charlie you crack me up!  Are you still running? Lyndsey you sound like a right laugh... but I think after you've beaten me a pool, drank my whiskey and outdone me with witty comebacks... my manly ego will be deflated!  Plus football is a puffs game, so no doubt I'll be watching one of your movies in the spare room on the shit TV whilst you hog the plasma for Match of the Day!  I wouldn't see us making it past a month darling... but could I still call you when I need jam jars opening?  Come to my Curry Club one day... it use to be 70/30 women/men, but now it's nearer 50/50... the stories I could tell... and no-one thinks I see what goes on!!


Sep 29, 10 14:46

i have met you before Dean... am i THAT forgettable? ok i was rather inebriated, outside pickwicks last week?

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failing that... bump him off


 

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i quite often leave the old man out

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lets change the sheets...... i mean, oops, TONE of this thread

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Jan 1, 70 01:00

you started it with your mentioning of the "dribble" word...which by the way i  totally refute.


 

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sx9K8JL_XIs

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Am just witnessing a re-play here, just like humans our Lions down in Maasai Mara know how to pick lionesses based on thier perfomance in the two departments( Did we say  two crucial rooms here?).


The lionesses never fail to impress the lion, they are good in the kitchen(Because the lionesses are the hunters any-way and bring food to the table(read to the Lion and cubs), what i do know for sure is that there is no IKEA  table there)


The other skill set of Lioness for   the other room is evident by the battalion of cubs in the African Savannah, just like our boys here the Lion is very happy to have attention of many wives and mistresses.


Remember each Lion controls its Territory( Read family) which may comprise of many cubs(kids?) and extended family. By the way the Lion get permission from the other Lionesses to take on an extra wive, since they will already be satisfied owing to the fact that before long they will be expecting more cubs.


Am seeing some boys here as the sly King of the jungle and some gals here as the intelligent lioness that knows to identify the Lion that will protect her while she goes shopping(say hunting for food) but no IKEA please!


At the end of the day the Lioness that knows how to please gets la.....!

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Am just witnessing a re-play here, just like humans our Lions down in Maasai Mara know how to pick lionesses based on thier perfomance in the two departments( Did we say  two crucial rooms here?).


The lionesses never fail to impress the lion, they are good in the kitchen(Because the lionesses are the hunters any-way and bring food to the table(read to the Lion and cubs), what i do know for sure is that there is no IKEA  table there)


The other skill set of Lioness for   the other room is evident by the battalion of cubs in the African Savannah, just like our boys here the Lion is very happy to have attention of many wives and mistresses.


Remember each Lion controls its Territory( Read family) which may comprise of many cubs(kids?) and extended family. By the way the Lion get permission from the other Lionesses to take on an extra wive, since they will already be satisfied owing to the fact that before long they will be expecting more cubs.


Am seeing some boys here as the sly King of the jungle and some gals here as the intelligent lioness that knows to identify the Lion that will protect her while she goes shopping(say hunting for food) but no IKEA please!


At the end of the day the Lioness that knows how to please gets la.....!


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RRRRAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRR


http://s-ak.buzzfed.com/static/imagebuzz/web03/2009/5/6/16/aggressive-lioness-4219-1241643089-8.jpg

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RRRRAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRR


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Can Maasai lionesses "Roar" with a Scottish accent? if so, Im guessing it would sound like "Rar" ....


This is a sound heard outside many a Glasgow nightspot Im thinking..approx at 2am on a Sunday morning, as the "pride" moves off in search of a kebab covered in chilli sauce.


The Glasgow lions themselves I fear are mostly desitined for this.....


 

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This is a sound heard outside many a Glasgow nightspot Im thinking..approx at 2am on a Sunday morning, as the "pride" moves off in search of a kebab covered in chilli sauce.


The Glasgow lions themselves I fear are mostly desitined for this.....


 


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Very funny thread :)


I think you've misunderstood somewhere, your positives are not positives at all (for a woman). Actually, some of them are huge turn-offs, like #2


You are going through the city with a wrong map. And you are surprised when you are not getting where you want to be.


And yes, if you want to have a real man in your life, you will definitely have to change the way you are.


It may sound cruel, but that's a tough love. I don't think one more comment like "you are hanging out with the wrong guys" will really help you.

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Very funny thread :)


I think you've misunderstood somewhere, your positives are not positives at all (for a woman). Actually, some of them are huge turn-offs, like #2


You are going through the city with a wrong map. And you are surprised when you are not getting where you want to be.


And yes, if you want to have a real man in your life, you will definitely have to change the way you are.


It may sound cruel, but that's a tough love. I don't think one more comment like "you are hanging out with the wrong guys" will really help you.


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Can Maasai lionesses "Roar" with a Scottish accent? if so, Im guessing it would sound like "Rar" ....

This is a sound heard outside many a Glasgow nightspot Im thinking..approx at 2am on a Sunday morning, as the "pride" moves off in search of a kebab covered in chilli sauce.

The Glasgow lions themselves I fear are mostly desitined for this.....

 


Sep 30, 10 08:30

charlie...............


he's perfect!!!!!!


the hunt is on


 


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he's perfect!!!!!!


the hunt is on


 


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Very funny thread :)

I think you've misunderstood somewhere, your positives are not positives at all (for a woman). Actually, some of them are huge turn-offs, like #2

You are going through the city with a wrong map. And you are surprised when you are not getting where you want to be.

And yes, if you want to have a real man in your life, you will definitely have to change the way you are.

It may sound cruel, but that's a tough love. I don't think one more comment like "you are hanging out with the wrong guys" will really help you.


Sep 30, 10 10:42

just because they arent positives to you doesn't mean they arent positives for other men.


and i have had real men in my life, shockingly even for years worth of relationships without changing who i am... it was when they started to change for the worst that i felt the need to move on


I'm not scared of change and, if that's what i need to do, then i will and can, however, i am of the opinion that people like me for who i am and right now, that's more than good enough for me


but thanks for your post and i apreciate your brutality ;)


 


 

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just because they arent positives to you doesn't mean they arent positives for other men.


and i have had real men in my life, shockingly even for years worth of relationships without changing who i am... it was when they started to change for the worst that i felt the need to move on


I'm not scared of change and, if that's what i need to do, then i will and can, however, i am of the opinion that people like me for who i am and right now, that's more than good enough for me


but thanks for your post and i apreciate your brutality ;)


 


 


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I am not unique. Men are all the same.


We generally like the same things. Honestly, it is not hard to figure them out.


I guess there are not that many men who would say: "Oh, i really prefer ugly women! I found them more exciting!"


So for me it is hard to understand how a woman with clearly masculine qualities (competitive, bragging about drinking, attempts to be perceived masculine) could be a good match for a man wtih strong masculine qualities.


We are searching something we don't have. What we already have we don't need and don't want.


Funny, your positives are clear positives for a man friend :)


Well, best of luck anyway

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I am not unique. Men are all the same.


We generally like the same things. Honestly, it is not hard to figure them out.


I guess there are not that many men who would say: "Oh, i really prefer ugly women! I found them more exciting!"


So for me it is hard to understand how a woman with clearly masculine qualities (competitive, bragging about drinking, attempts to be perceived masculine) could be a good match for a man wtih strong masculine qualities.


We are searching something we don't have. What we already have we don't need and don't want.


Funny, your positives are clear positives for a man friend :)


Well, best of luck anyway


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I am not unique. Men are all the same.

We generally like the same things. Honestly, it is not hard to figure them out.

I guess there are not that many men who would say: "Oh, i really prefer ugly women! I found them more exciting!"

So for me it is hard to understand how a woman with clearly masculine qualities (competitive, bragging about drinking, attempts to be perceived masculine) could be a good match for a man wtih strong masculine qualities.

We are searching something we don't have. What we already have we don't need and don't want.

Funny, your positives are clear positives for a man friend :)

Well, best of luck anyway


Sep 30, 10 11:24

Can't say Sergey ain't got a valid point there Lynds..

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Sergey:


I disagree bro.


You're right that almost all men (except Charlie maybe) would prefer a beautiful woman to an ugly woman, sure. But that's a bad example cos it's so obvious. 


The other example you used - a competetive woman (Lynd's point 2) is a better one cos it's far less obvious. I bet you that a ton of men out there would prefer a competetive women to one that isn't. And the same applies to most of the other stuff Lynds wrote: some men will love it, some men will hate it, some men will be neutral (except Charlie maybe).


Nir


 

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Sergey:


I disagree bro.


You're right that almost all men (except Charlie maybe) would prefer a beautiful woman to an ugly woman, sure. But that's a bad example cos it's so obvious. 


The other example you used - a competetive woman (Lynd's point 2) is a better one cos it's far less obvious. I bet you that a ton of men out there would prefer a competetive women to one that isn't. And the same applies to most of the other stuff Lynds wrote: some men will love it, some men will hate it, some men will be neutral (except Charlie maybe).


Nir


 


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I am not unique. Men are all the same.

We generally like the same things. Honestly, it is not hard to figure them out.

I guess there are not that many men who would say: "Oh, i really prefer ugly women! I found them more exciting!"

So for me it is hard to understand how a woman with clearly masculine qualities (competitive, bragging about drinking, attempts to be perceived masculine) could be a good match for a man wtih strong masculine qualities.

We are searching something we don't have. What we already have we don't need and don't want.

Funny, your positives are clear positives for a man friend :)

Well, best of luck anyway


Sep 30, 10 11:24

Agree totally but must rush.  Am in the middle of a fight with a German on the heating forum.

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Lynds:


Don't listen to them! I promise you some men will love who you are, and some men will not like who you are. 


Not that you can do anything about it tho: we are who we are...(-:


NIr


 

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Don't listen to them! I promise you some men will love who you are, and some men will not like who you are. 


Not that you can do anything about it tho: we are who we are...(-:


NIr


 


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Sergey:

I disagree bro.

You're right that almost all men (except Charlie maybe) would prefer a beautiful woman to an ugly woman, sure. But that's a bad example cos it's so obvious. 

The other example you used - a competetive woman (Lynd's point 2) is a better one cos it's far less obvious. I bet you that a ton of men out there would prefer a competetive women to one that isn't. And the same applies to most of the other stuff Lynds wrote: some men will love it, some men will hate it, some men will be neutral (except Charlie maybe).

Nir

 


Sep 30, 10 11:50

Nir ..you're so getting a beat down for that buddy...wait till Halloween.


 

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Lynds:

Don't listen to them! I promise you some men will love who you are, and some men will not like who you are. 

Not that you can do anything about it tho: we are who we are...(-:

NIr

 


Sep 30, 10 12:01

Oh no Nir, i appreciate their insights...it's the point of this thread


i think men like a challenge, that's not to say i dont love the idea of being swept off my feet or chivalry.  it simply means that i need to be comfortable with who i am before allowing someone else to be part of my life.


no point being someone's everything if you can't be your own first!


some people on here have met me in the flesh and they still think i'm a saveable case ;)  (almost)


:P x

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Oh no Nir, i appreciate their insights...it's the point of this thread


i think men like a challenge, that's not to say i dont love the idea of being swept off my feet or chivalry.  it simply means that i need to be comfortable with who i am before allowing someone else to be part of my life.


no point being someone's everything if you can't be your own first!


some people on here have met me in the flesh and they still think i'm a saveable case ;)  (almost)


:P x


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Nir ..you're so getting a beat down for that buddy...wait till Halloween.

 


Sep 30, 10 12:03

Maybe Lynds wants to join that and as Nir will be too occupied, i'll take care of the glocals pics for this "event".

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Maybe Lynds wants to join that and as Nir will be too occupied, i'll take care of the glocals pics for this "event".


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hahahah oh my


i'm definitely all over glocals halloween....


maybe some men will be able to say it to my face (behind the safety of a costume)


x

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hahahah oh my


i'm definitely all over glocals halloween....


maybe some men will be able to say it to my face (behind the safety of a costume)


x


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"some people on here have met me in the flesh and they still think i'm a saveable case ;) "


Bloody optimist messing with a little girls mind!


On a more serious note Lynds: Let's watch rugby this weekend and eat hotdogs : )


 

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"some people on here have met me in the flesh and they still think i'm a saveable case ;) "


Bloody optimist messing with a little girls mind!


On a more serious note Lynds: Let's watch rugby this weekend and eat hotdogs : )


 


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Thomas you evil man ;)


alas this weekend im heading for bonnie scotland with 7 people from my "friends network" ;) in gva


see, some folk actually think that a whiskey drinking, pool playing mentalist is fun and want to spend a whole weekend in a new country with them. although they are shocked when that description doesnt lend itself to the person in question having "meat and 2 veg" ;)


maybe i should have started this post "pink and fluffy innocent girl looking for happily ever after"  would i have gotten as many replies i wonder?!


 

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Thomas you evil man ;)


alas this weekend im heading for bonnie scotland with 7 people from my "friends network" ;) in gva


see, some folk actually think that a whiskey drinking, pool playing mentalist is fun and want to spend a whole weekend in a new country with them. although they are shocked when that description doesnt lend itself to the person in question having "meat and 2 veg" ;)


maybe i should have started this post "pink and fluffy innocent girl looking for happily ever after"  would i have gotten as many replies i wonder?!


 


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Let me offer you a recipe ))


1) find a good man who you may fall in love with


2) make sure the man of your choice also finds you attractive


3) fall in love


4) let your feelings do the rest


...honestly I didn't try this out so use it with caution ;-)

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Let me offer you a recipe ))


1) find a good man who you may fall in love with


2) make sure the man of your choice also finds you attractive


3) fall in love


4) let your feelings do the rest


...honestly I didn't try this out so use it with caution ;-)


Vitaly, Sep 30, 2010 @ 13:20
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Thomas you evil man ;)

alas this weekend im heading for bonnie scotland with 7 people from my "friends network" ;) in gva

see, some folk actually think that a whiskey drinking, pool playing mentalist is fun and want to spend a whole weekend in a new country with them. although they are shocked when that description doesnt lend itself to the person in question having "meat and 2 veg" ;)

maybe i should have started this post "pink and fluffy innocent girl looking for happily ever after"  would i have gotten as many replies i wonder?!

 


Sep 30, 10 12:23

If you were fluffy and innocent then we wouldp robably be wondering now in which guys basement you have dissapeared.

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i think i'm the one more likely to lock folk in my basement...


and on another unconnected note... do ikea do soundproofing? enough to cover manly screams for help?!


x

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i think i'm the one more likely to lock folk in my basement...


and on another unconnected note... do ikea do soundproofing? enough to cover manly screams for help?!


x


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i think i'm the one more likely to lock folk in my basement...

and on another unconnected note... do ikea do soundproofing? enough to cover manly screams for help?!

x


Sep 30, 10 14:01

You're Belgian?

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You're Belgian?


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Lyndsey Fritzl at your service... Austrian x

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Jan 1, 70 01:00

Why do you say that?

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Why do you say that?


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Why do you say that?


Sep 30, 10 14:41

Doesn't really matter; You ain't much if you ain't Dutch ; )

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Doesn't really matter; You ain't much if you ain't Dutch ; )


Sep 30, 10 15:11

well... obviously I can't disagree with this....


Laughing

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wow... so i think we can establish that the dutch were given the placebo on the modesty pill trial of europe? x

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wonder what those two crazies have been smoking :P


now... really..


enough of the stereotypes, i'm off to have my dads kilt dry cleaned and pick up a deep fried mars bar on the way mid haggis chase and after binge drinking my way through ikea...


 

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wonder what those two crazies have been smoking :P


now... really..


enough of the stereotypes, i'm off to have my dads kilt dry cleaned and pick up a deep fried mars bar on the way mid haggis chase and after binge drinking my way through ikea...


 


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here is my stereotype....



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Charlie, Sep 30, 2010 @ 15:33
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i know... its usually put in with our clothes on the annual bath but this weekend is a special occasion, he even let me use some of his beer/giro money to foot the bill


 

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i know a girl who will not date someone who is not an astrological match...


anyone else believe in this as a good technique to follow?

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i know a girl who will not date someone who is not an astrological match...


anyone else believe in this as a good technique to follow?


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star gazing...is  crap... by the time Im on my back looking up at the stars I cant fekkin focus well enough to make out what is what due to imbibing too much.


As to whether "Taurus" (me) matches anything else...who cares.. If I say I prefer VIRGO, Im a perv, If i say I like FISH, Im also a perv..If i say "fancy some you old GOAT" I get punched, If i say a BULL, then im gay... the only match is TWINS.... and the chance of that happening is slimmer than a ...err...slim thing.

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star gazing...is  crap... by the time Im on my back looking up at the stars I cant fekkin focus well enough to make out what is what due to imbibing too much.


As to whether "Taurus" (me) matches anything else...who cares.. If I say I prefer VIRGO, Im a perv, If i say I like FISH, Im also a perv..If i say "fancy some you old GOAT" I get punched, If i say a BULL, then im gay... the only match is TWINS.... and the chance of that happening is slimmer than a ...err...slim thing.


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I have been told i am a "typical sagitarius" not sure how to take that...


must google for more info me thinks..


maybe i can blame the cosmic universe for my misfortune... nah. ok, it's all down to me :P

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I have been told i am a "typical sagitarius" not sure how to take that...


must google for more info me thinks..


maybe i can blame the cosmic universe for my misfortune... nah. ok, it's all down to me :P


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Very funny thread :)

I think you've misunderstood somewhere, your positives are not positives at all (for a woman). Actually, some of them are huge turn-offs, like #2

You are going through the city with a wrong map. And you are surprised when you are not getting where you want to be.

And yes, if you want to have a real man in your life, you will definitely have to change the way you are.

It may sound cruel, but that's a tough love. I don't think one more comment like "you are hanging out with the wrong guys" will really help you.


Sep 30, 10 10:42

That made my jaw drop!


Talk about making assumptions and generalising. So any man that likes an intelligent, quick witted woman that can handle her drink and likes to have a good time is, according to Sergey, not a real man!


And also Lyndsey in order to find a 'real man' you must presumably start drinking shandy, be very feminine (whatever that may entail), and heaven forbid you might show any signs of being competitive!


I think you must be doomed then!


You don't have to change for anyone, just be yourself and the right man will come along and love you for your disgraceful masculine, competitive, heavy drinking ways!

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That made my jaw drop!


Talk about making assumptions and generalising. So any man that likes an intelligent, quick witted woman that can handle her drink and likes to have a good time is, according to Sergey, not a real man!


And also Lyndsey in order to find a 'real man' you must presumably start drinking shandy, be very feminine (whatever that may entail), and heaven forbid you might show any signs of being competitive!


I think you must be doomed then!


You don't have to change for anyone, just be yourself and the right man will come along and love you for your disgraceful masculine, competitive, heavy drinking ways!


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Noted, thanks Colette, i would type more but i'm currently looking for my 1950s copy of "how to host the perfect dinner party for your husband and his boring work colleagues" "how to entertain your fat, unambitious husband" and finally "the julie andrews aspirational bible" ... i;m sure they are somewhere under the many beer cans, empty jack bottles and law books...xx

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Noted, thanks Colette, i would type more but i'm currently looking for my 1950s copy of "how to host the perfect dinner party for your husband and his boring work colleagues" "how to entertain your fat, unambitious husband" and finally "the julie andrews aspirational bible" ... i;m sure they are somewhere under the many beer cans, empty jack bottles and law books...xx


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Lol!


Well don't forget the essential Mrs Beetons household management whilst you are looking! Bound to have some top tips in there.

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Lol!


Well don't forget the essential Mrs Beetons household management whilst you are looking! Bound to have some top tips in there.


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good job Lyndsey:))

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good job Lyndsey:))


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Can Maasai lionesses "Roar" with a Scottish accent? if so, Im guessing it would sound like "Rar" ....

This is a sound heard outside many a Glasgow nightspot Im thinking..approx at 2am on a Sunday morning, as the "pride" moves off in search of a kebab covered in chilli sauce.

The Glasgow lions themselves I fear are mostly desitined for this.....

 


Sep 30, 10 08:30

Sure the lioness Roars depending on whether it has identified a suitable Lion friend, in this case if its in the Market( call it  the African Jungle) searching, its roar is Scottish in accent, this is meant to attract attention from the already over occupied Lion. Laughing


After the Lioness get the attention and tools of trade employed well to her mutual benefit, the roar changes accent  to that of a girl in the kitchen after ensuring that she got distinction in the other room(i dont which).


Our dear pride of Lionesses dont take Scottish Whiskey though, they take a cocktail Zebra blood, mixed with the intestines of the Buffalos and downed with Maasai Rum!


The behaviour is similar thought to this clip, since all animals( humans included like attracting attention and making our intetions clear even though we use subtle ways).


The  Lion  that seems disintrested to the Lioness overtures always ends up with....,,,,,,,well the "Lions Share!"

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Sure the lioness Roars depending on whether it has identified a suitable Lion friend, in this case if its in the Market( call it  the African Jungle) searching, its roar is Scottish in accent, this is meant to attract attention from the already over occupied Lion. Laughing


After the Lioness get the attention and tools of trade employed well to her mutual benefit, the roar changes accent  to that of a girl in the kitchen after ensuring that she got distinction in the other room(i dont which).


Our dear pride of Lionesses dont take Scottish Whiskey though, they take a cocktail Zebra blood, mixed with the intestines of the Buffalos and downed with Maasai Rum!


The behaviour is similar thought to this clip, since all animals( humans included like attracting attention and making our intetions clear even though we use subtle ways).


The  Lion  that seems disintrested to the Lioness overtures always ends up with....,,,,,,,well the "Lions Share!"


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good job Lyndsey:))


Sep 30, 10 19:36

you're welcome but what for? x

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That made my jaw drop!

Talk about making assumptions and generalising. So any man that likes an intelligent, quick witted woman that can handle her drink and likes to have a good time is, according to Sergey, not a real man!

And also Lyndsey in order to find a 'real man' you must presumably start drinking shandy, be very feminine (whatever that may entail), and heaven forbid you might show any signs of being competitive!

I think you must be doomed then!

You don't have to change for anyone, just be yourself and the right man will come along and love you for your disgraceful masculine, competitive, heavy drinking ways!


Sep 30, 10 17:15

Nonono, stop here for a sec Cool


I don't remember saying "intelligent, quick witted woman that can handle her drink and likes to have a good time". I think i've said something different.


And yes, you have to be very feminine in order to attract men, is it a surprise for you?


Of course, your beliefs are your personal preference. You may think whatever you want. But remember, the objective reality is still out there.


In reality, if you are not getting what you want, then you are doing something wrong. As simple as that.


World is not a fairy tale or romantic movie, couples are not made in heaven, i am very sorry.


Of course you don't have to change for anyone. It should be your decision, to do it for yourself. To improve, to be a better character, and to be a better woman.


Honestly, i don't think you know what you are talking about. Talk to any 30+ years old woman, who is very attractive and has a lot of attention from men. I bet she will drop her jaw when she will hear what you are saying.

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Nonono, stop here for a sec Cool


I don't remember saying "intelligent, quick witted woman that can handle her drink and likes to have a good time". I think i've said something different.


And yes, you have to be very feminine in order to attract men, is it a surprise for you?


Of course, your beliefs are your personal preference. You may think whatever you want. But remember, the objective reality is still out there.


In reality, if you are not getting what you want, then you are doing something wrong. As simple as that.


World is not a fairy tale or romantic movie, couples are not made in heaven, i am very sorry.


Of course you don't have to change for anyone. It should be your decision, to do it for yourself. To improve, to be a better character, and to be a better woman.


Honestly, i don't think you know what you are talking about. Talk to any 30+ years old woman, who is very attractive and has a lot of attention from men. I bet she will drop her jaw when she will hear what you are saying.


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Not sure whom to reply to here but have just escaped from the heating thread and I only mentioned the war once, so presumably got away with it.  You are missing one point in all of Lindsey's macho presentation.  She claims to drink whiskey which no scottish lass would do.  Charlie who does drink whiskey  because he is Irish remains diplomatically silent.  


So Lindey i assume you do not drink whisky or you are not Scottish as you do not know how to spell the word (a lawyer could lose a case on this).  What else do you feel you should confess to us.?

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Not sure whom to reply to here but have just escaped from the heating thread and I only mentioned the war once, so presumably got away with it.  You are missing one point in all of Lindsey's macho presentation.  She claims to drink whiskey which no scottish lass would do.  Charlie who does drink whiskey  because he is Irish remains diplomatically silent.  


So Lindey i assume you do not drink whisky or you are not Scottish as you do not know how to spell the word (a lawyer could lose a case on this).  What else do you feel you should confess to us.?


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Not sure whom to reply to here but have just escaped from the heating thread and I only mentioned the war once, so presumably got away with it.  You are missing one point in all of Lindsey's macho presentation.  She claims to drink whiskey which no scottish lass would do.  Charlie who does drink whiskey  because he is Irish remains diplomatically silent.  

So Lindey i assume you do not drink whisky or you are not Scottish as you do not know how to spell the word (a lawyer could lose a case on this).  What else do you feel you should confess to us.?


Oct 1, 10 00:19

Paul do you regard yourself as some sort of devil's advocate? you clearly won some trivial victory in the heating thread post as you have mentioned it a fair few times


that's right, course i don't drink whiskey based on a misprint


how about when you're not too busy looking for the last word or hill walking, we have a wee dram?


if no scottish lass would claim to drink whiskey, should you inform the many females who do on a regular basis where it is produced, or should i?


I may not reply too much tomorrow as i am travelling back to Scotland.. feel free to have another few comments which i will try my hardest to refute upon my access to a computer..


i like your style Paul... with that i bid you good night x

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Paul do you regard yourself as some sort of devil's advocate? you clearly won some trivial victory in the heating thread post as you have mentioned it a fair few times


that's right, course i don't drink whiskey based on a misprint


how about when you're not too busy looking for the last word or hill walking, we have a wee dram?


if no scottish lass would claim to drink whiskey, should you inform the many females who do on a regular basis where it is produced, or should i?


I may not reply too much tomorrow as i am travelling back to Scotland.. feel free to have another few comments which i will try my hardest to refute upon my access to a computer..


i like your style Paul... with that i bid you good night x


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Paul do you regard yourself as some sort of devil's advocate? you clearly won some trivial victory in the heating thread post as you have mentioned it a fair few times

that's right, course i don't drink whiskey based on a misprint

how about when you're not too busy looking for the last word or hill walking, we have a wee dram?

if no scottish lass would claim to drink whiskey, should you inform the many females who do on a regular basis where it is produced, or should i?

I may not reply too much tomorrow as i am travelling back to Scotland.. feel free to have another few comments which i will try my hardest to refute upon my access to a computer..

i like your style Paul... with that i bid you good night x


Oct 1, 10 03:37

"should you inform the many females who do ona regular basis where it is produced"...


I'll do it for him..............for those who want to know "whiskey" is derived from the Gaelic words "uisge beatha" (pronounced  oo-is-ge bay)  and means "water of life" in Gaelic... what the Italians call "Aqua Vita" ... What the French call "eau de Vie"  and what in Latin is "Aquae Vitae"..... Of course Latin was widely used in the early hundreds, especially by monks, who travelled extensively. The Tribes all had their own versions/dialects of Gaelic, and some used latin words or converted latin words to the local Gaelic dialiect after meeting Monks. Whiskey/whisky is a deriviation of the words to include old English and Germanic useage of "water"...


The spread of Alcohol is widely attributed to the monks in the early 100's, who not only brewed, but distributed alcohol in an effort to  imbibe the possible converts.



Who invented whisky - the Scots or the Irish?????


A.� The debate between the Scots and the Irish over the whisky title goes back to the Dark Ages. The first legal distillery in the British Isles was in Northern Ireland. Bushmills, on the northern coast of Ireland, has had a license to distil since 1608, the reign of King James I of England and VI of Scotland, who also laid claim to Ireland.


The identity of the first distiller will always be unclear, but it is known that when Henry II of England paid an uninvited visit to Ireland in 1174, he recorded the use of aquae vitae. Sir Robert Savage, the lord of Bushmills, was using aquae vitae to allegedly numb the minds of his troops while they entered battle, while in The Annals of The Four Masters in 1405, Richard Magrenell, chieftain in Moyntyrolas, died of "a surfeit of aquae vitae".



Q.� Who began the first legal distillation


A. In the 19th Century, Irish whiskey had established a reputation with major distilleries such as Dublin's John Jameson and John Power forging powerful export markets. In those days, Highland malts were in short supply and were heavily peated, while the Lowland grains were virtually undrinkable. The Irish pot-still brands, made from a mix of malted and unmalted barley, held the high ground and were the world's top selling whiskey. John Jameson established his distillery in Dublin's Bow Street in 1780. A Scot by birth, he had married into the Haig family and was brother-in-law of the first distiller to install a patent still.



Q.� What did the Catholic community feel about the boom in whiskey


A.� Father Matthew founded a temperance movement and led a decade-long evangelical crusade (1838-48) against the evils of drink and he managed to not only halve the number of pubs in Ireland in seven years, but to close many distilleries as well. Then came the Great Famine of 1845-1849, and the failure of the potato crop reduced the amount of grain that was available for the distilleries. Production slumped. The falling combination and lack of raw material was a distaster for distilling. When Alfred Barnard visited Ireland in 1887 he found 28 distilleries. There had been 2,000 less than 100 years before. Today there are three: Midleton, Bushmills and Cooley.



Q.� How did whisky spread through Scotland


A.� After the dissolution of the monasteries, whisky-making became a people's art. It was practised by ex-monks who became apothecaries, barbers and surgeons. It was taken to the crofts and great houses in the Highlands. By the 16th century, triple distillation was common practice in the Western Isles, and had spread back to Ireland and also over to France. By then uisge beatha (the Gaelic translation of aquae vitae, from which whisky today is derived), was a central part of Highland life.


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"should you inform the many females who do ona regular basis where it is produced"...


I'll do it for him..............for those who want to know "whiskey" is derived from the Gaelic words "uisge beatha" (pronounced  oo-is-ge bay)  and means "water of life" in Gaelic... what the Italians call "Aqua Vita" ... What the French call "eau de Vie"  and what in Latin is "Aquae Vitae"..... Of course Latin was widely used in the early hundreds, especially by monks, who travelled extensively. The Tribes all had their own versions/dialects of Gaelic, and some used latin words or converted latin words to the local Gaelic dialiect after meeting Monks. Whiskey/whisky is a deriviation of the words to include old English and Germanic useage of "water"...


The spread of Alcohol is widely attributed to the monks in the early 100's, who not only brewed, but distributed alcohol in an effort to  imbibe the possible converts.



Who invented whisky - the Scots or the Irish?????


A.� The debate between the Scots and the Irish over the whisky title goes back to the Dark Ages. The first legal distillery in the British Isles was in Northern Ireland. Bushmills, on the northern coast of Ireland, has had a license to distil since 1608, the reign of King James I of England and VI of Scotland, who also laid claim to Ireland.


The identity of the first distiller will always be unclear, but it is known that when Henry II of England paid an uninvited visit to Ireland in 1174, he recorded the use of aquae vitae. Sir Robert Savage, the lord of Bushmills, was using aquae vitae to allegedly numb the minds of his troops while they entered battle, while in The Annals of The Four Masters in 1405, Richard Magrenell, chieftain in Moyntyrolas, died of "a surfeit of aquae vitae".



Q.� Who began the first legal distillation


A. In the 19th Century, Irish whiskey had established a reputation with major distilleries such as Dublin's John Jameson and John Power forging powerful export markets. In those days, Highland malts were in short supply and were heavily peated, while the Lowland grains were virtually undrinkable. The Irish pot-still brands, made from a mix of malted and unmalted barley, held the high ground and were the world's top selling whiskey. John Jameson established his distillery in Dublin's Bow Street in 1780. A Scot by birth, he had married into the Haig family and was brother-in-law of the first distiller to install a patent still.



Q.� What did the Catholic community feel about the boom in whiskey


A.� Father Matthew founded a temperance movement and led a decade-long evangelical crusade (1838-48) against the evils of drink and he managed to not only halve the number of pubs in Ireland in seven years, but to close many distilleries as well. Then came the Great Famine of 1845-1849, and the failure of the potato crop reduced the amount of grain that was available for the distilleries. Production slumped. The falling combination and lack of raw material was a distaster for distilling. When Alfred Barnard visited Ireland in 1887 he found 28 distilleries. There had been 2,000 less than 100 years before. Today there are three: Midleton, Bushmills and Cooley.



Q.� How did whisky spread through Scotland


A.� After the dissolution of the monasteries, whisky-making became a people's art. It was practised by ex-monks who became apothecaries, barbers and surgeons. It was taken to the crofts and great houses in the Highlands. By the 16th century, triple distillation was common practice in the Western Isles, and had spread back to Ireland and also over to France. By then uisge beatha (the Gaelic translation of aquae vitae, from which whisky today is derived), was a central part of Highland life.



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ps...


the difference between spellings of Whisky  for the Scots and Whiskey for the Irish is merely a differentiation attributed to the Irish who wanted to separate or distinguish the two (Scots and Irish distilling).


Its a marketing ploy at best... still used today.


If anyone wants to try a good Irish whiskey, I would reccomend Midletons .... its expensive, but very much worth it.


 

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ps...


the difference between spellings of Whisky  for the Scots and Whiskey for the Irish is merely a differentiation attributed to the Irish who wanted to separate or distinguish the two (Scots and Irish distilling).


Its a marketing ploy at best... still used today.


If anyone wants to try a good Irish whiskey, I would reccomend Midletons .... its expensive, but very much worth it.


 


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Jan 1, 70 01:00

Agree... Dew is yummy, but is a blend...where as Midletons is a single malt... just a differentiation but as before Dew is good for a everyday tipple.


 


(malt being cask...ie its not mixed with any other casks, in age or flavouor which of course a blend is... a mix that is)

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Agree... Dew is yummy, but is a blend...where as Midletons is a single malt... just a differentiation but as before Dew is good for a everyday tipple.


 


(malt being cask...ie its not mixed with any other casks, in age or flavouor which of course a blend is... a mix that is)


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... replying to a much earlier quote Lyndsey... yes I know who you are now, you're photo on here looks NOTHING like you... you look much more up for it in real life!  I was with Meg last night... and her Dad before you comment... look after her in Glasgow this weekend!  See ya soon Hen.


And Charlie... You've got a bit of time on your hands lately haven't you?  What's the Hedge Fund mandate now... one, maybe two trades a month?

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... replying to a much earlier quote Lyndsey... yes I know who you are now, you're photo on here looks NOTHING like you... you look much more up for it in real life!  I was with Meg last night... and her Dad before you comment... look after her in Glasgow this weekend!  See ya soon Hen.


And Charlie... You've got a bit of time on your hands lately haven't you?  What's the Hedge Fund mandate now... one, maybe two trades a month?


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... replying to a much earlier quote Lyndsey... yes I know who you are now, you're photo on here looks NOTHING like you... you look much more up for it in real life!  I was with Meg last night... and her Dad before you comment... look after her in Glasgow this weekend!  See ya soon Hen.

And Charlie... You've got a bit of time on your hands lately haven't you?  What's the Hedge Fund mandate now... one, maybe two trades a month?


Oct 1, 10 10:26

Matey...Time is relative.... its what you make of it...and yes HF biz is all tickety boo thanks for asking... all clients making money...

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Great news Charles Charlie Charles!  If clients are making money, then so are you.... and I think you're old enough to have your own financial adviser now, so my door is always open... and we keep the single malt hidden under the coffee machine depending on the time of day!

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Great news Charles Charlie Charles!  If clients are making money, then so are you.... and I think you're old enough to have your own financial adviser now, so my door is always open... and we keep the single malt hidden under the coffee machine depending on the time of day!


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ABS Deano.....


 


(always be selling) LOL


 

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ABS Deano.....


 


(always be selling) LOL


 


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No...ABC - Always Be Closing... here's me a few years ago when I had more hair... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y-AXTx4PcKI

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Check out this and contrast  if we are not the elephants described here.


http://yahoo.match.com/y/article.aspx?articleid=9830&TrackingID=526103&BannerID=696333

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Check out this and contrast  if we are not the elephants described here.


http://yahoo.match.com/y/article.aspx?articleid=9830&TrackingID=526103&BannerID=696333


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A very funny friend once brought me a bottle he'd brought back from an overseas trip.Surprised  We had a good laugh and a great drunk....Tongue out

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Hi Lyndsey,

I am typing this after a bottle of wine, so I'm sorry if I'm not completely intelligible. In answer to your question: "what am i doing wrong?", I think the answer is simply "not being patient enough" or "expecting too much". You have certain things to offer a potential partner... the first question is: is he interested in those qualities? If the answer is yes, the next question is, are you intrigued by what he has to offer? Even if the answer is yes to both these questions (and that is rare enough from my experience), the next hurdle is whether you are both looking for the same thing, which can often be an insurmountable one. Also, you have to keep in keep in mind that the answers to these questions evolve over time, and may often not be simple "yes" or "no" but a complex cost-benefit analysis. Moreover, considering the circumstances you meet new people (e.g. a crowded bar/ nightclub where the music is too loud to make any relevant conversation unlikely, or an appraisal of a person's romantic prospects erroneous), the chances of success are not that great. Basically, what I am saying is that life is basically a game of probability, and most often the odds don't work out... but that's OK because you just need it to work once. I'd love to end this on a funny note, but I'm fresh out of innuendo.

Avi.

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Hi Lyndsey,

I am typing this after a bottle of wine, so I'm sorry if I'm not completely intelligible. In answer to your question: "what am i doing wrong?", I think the answer is simply "not being patient enough" or "expecting too much". You have certain things to offer a potential partner... the first question is: is he interested in those qualities? If the answer is yes, the next question is, are you intrigued by what he has to offer? Even if the answer is yes to both these questions (and that is rare enough from my experience), the next hurdle is whether you are both looking for the same thing, which can often be an insurmountable one. Also, you have to keep in keep in mind that the answers to these questions evolve over time, and may often not be simple "yes" or "no" but a complex cost-benefit analysis. Moreover, considering the circumstances you meet new people (e.g. a crowded bar/ nightclub where the music is too loud to make any relevant conversation unlikely, or an appraisal of a person's romantic prospects erroneous), the chances of success are not that great. Basically, what I am saying is that life is basically a game of probability, and most often the odds don't work out... but that's OK because you just need it to work once. I'd love to end this on a funny note, but I'm fresh out of innuendo.

Avi.


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Mimi, this post underscores the culture gap between the anglosphere and the most of the rest of the world.  Lyndsey's checklist contains traits which are largely celebrated in English-speaking cultures (for better or worse - the jury is out deliberating and has been for about 40 years).


She sounds like a really fun girl. Could I date her, though?  Tough call.  I've never met her, but I do understand your point.  The differences in gender relations here vs. back home have been front-and-center on my mind since the day I cleared Swiss immigration at gva.

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Mimi, this post underscores the culture gap between the anglosphere and the most of the rest of the world.  Lyndsey's checklist contains traits which are largely celebrated in English-speaking cultures (for better or worse - the jury is out deliberating and has been for about 40 years).


She sounds like a really fun girl. Could I date her, though?  Tough call.  I've never met her, but I do understand your point.  The differences in gender relations here vs. back home have been front-and-center on my mind since the day I cleared Swiss immigration at gva.


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*in my mind.


I really wish we could edit posts.  Nir!  ahem..  Innocent

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*in my mind.


I really wish we could edit posts.  Nir!  ahem..  Innocent


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Jan 1, 70 01:00

Agreed.  I've been on a series of dates with EE women lately.  They are very high quality and they fully deserve their reputation.  A guy like me who is accustomed to dealing with modern women from the anglosphere has to adjust his approach and start using the classic dating playbook that our grandparents used 60 years ago.  It's refreshing but it's also not easy to make the transition.


Gentlemanly conduct in men along with women's ability to act feminine and to utilize their feminine wiles to attract a quality man are both highly regarded art forms most anywhere except for within English-speaking countries.


I don't know how all of this will end, but I think it won't be very pretty.  What's happening in my home country cannot continue for too much longer.  The genders are hating each other and nobody understands why.

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Agreed.  I've been on a series of dates with EE women lately.  They are very high quality and they fully deserve their reputation.  A guy like me who is accustomed to dealing with modern women from the anglosphere has to adjust his approach and start using the classic dating playbook that our grandparents used 60 years ago.  It's refreshing but it's also not easy to make the transition.


Gentlemanly conduct in men along with women's ability to act feminine and to utilize their feminine wiles to attract a quality man are both highly regarded art forms most anywhere except for within English-speaking countries.


I don't know how all of this will end, but I think it won't be very pretty.  What's happening in my home country cannot continue for too much longer.  The genders are hating each other and nobody understands why.


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"the worst solitude is be destitute of sincere friendship" Francis Bacon


We can learn alot from relationships and we should strive for that. 


You need to know what you want in a man and what you contribute to the relationship. Falsehood is clearly damaging and no matter how successful an illusion is on the first date it will lead to unhapiness.


Review right now what type of people are coming into your life and what you like and not like. Which people favour truth and exchange? who reaches out with love wanting to discuss anything just for the sake of connecting? Which ones drive to take action, know what they want and make it happen?


Now how do YOU connect and relate? truth, love or power? the one which you use the least is probably the source of many issues in your relationships and should work on rebalancing it.


About changing who you are Lyndsey! It is time you be who you really are inside. Bring down the masks and reveal your trueself for everyone to see. You are perfect and have everything in you to have abundance in all parts of your life including relationships. Know what kind of relationship you want and make a conscious decision to think, act and be like that and you will attract a beautiful match, like always. Someone tells you to act in such and such a way and does not feel right for you, then don't do it.


I want to go out for dinner with you and eat with passion all we want.


free for a date?

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We can learn alot from relationships and we should strive for that. 


You need to know what you want in a man and what you contribute to the relationship. Falsehood is clearly damaging and no matter how successful an illusion is on the first date it will lead to unhapiness.


Review right now what type of people are coming into your life and what you like and not like. Which people favour truth and exchange? who reaches out with love wanting to discuss anything just for the sake of connecting? Which ones drive to take action, know what they want and make it happen?


Now how do YOU connect and relate? truth, love or power? the one which you use the least is probably the source of many issues in your relationships and should work on rebalancing it.


About changing who you are Lyndsey! It is time you be who you really are inside. Bring down the masks and reveal your trueself for everyone to see. You are perfect and have everything in you to have abundance in all parts of your life including relationships. Know what kind of relationship you want and make a conscious decision to think, act and be like that and you will attract a beautiful match, like always. Someone tells you to act in such and such a way and does not feel right for you, then don't do it.


I want to go out for dinner with you and eat with passion all we want.


free for a date?


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David, where are you finding these EE girls?  It's definitely not the same place where I've been finding them.

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Agreed.  I've been on a series of dates with EE women lately.  They are very high quality and they fully deserve their reputation.  A guy like me who is accustomed to dealing with modern women from the anglosphere has to adjust his approach and start using the classic dating playbook that our grandparents used 60 years ago.  It's refreshing but it's also not easy to make the transition.

Gentlemanly conduct in men along with women's ability to act feminine and to utilize their feminine wiles to attract a quality man are both highly regarded art forms most anywhere except for within English-speaking countries.

I don't know how all of this will end, but I think it won't be very pretty.  What's happening in my home country cannot continue for too much longer.  The genders are hating each other and nobody understands why.


Oct 2, 10 10:29

Well, Richard, I suppose that many north American women could easily detail why we're generally fed up and some have even gone so far as to set up websites such as the one called Don't Date Him, Girl, a kind of jerk/wanker (I just love that term) registry. 


Over the years I've lived here, I've seen European women put up with outrageous behavior, everything from out-and-out sexual harassment to much lower pay for equal or superior work performance and so on.  And we are not even talking about dating yet. 


Of course, some of my Swiss men friends say they would never date/marry an American woman because  we're too much trouble. We generally don't find the whole "mistress" practice too amusing, want to know what money is being spent when and so on.


As for your take on  Eastern European women, we'll I think you are maybe just being played.  If you enjoy it, that's fine. We all like a bit of ego-stroking.


That being said, there's a lot to be said for those guys from the anglosphere (as you put it) who know how to use their tools (without being one), know their cars, and can bar-be-que.  Cool


We all have our stereotypes about opposite  gender of other cultures.  Years ago, I was sitting chatting with a couple of Dutch diplomats. Some women came in the door and the men started making the sounds of clumping, marching feet.  I looked at the guys with a raised eyebrow and one guy said, smirking, "There go the German women."  Surprised


 

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Well, Richard, I suppose that many north American women could easily detail why we're generally fed up and some have even gone so far as to set up websites such as the one called Don't Date Him, Girl, a kind of jerk/wanker (I just love that term) registry. 


Over the years I've lived here, I've seen European women put up with outrageous behavior, everything from out-and-out sexual harassment to much lower pay for equal or superior work performance and so on.  And we are not even talking about dating yet. 


Of course, some of my Swiss men friends say they would never date/marry an American woman because  we're too much trouble. We generally don't find the whole "mistress" practice too amusing, want to know what money is being spent when and so on.


As for your take on  Eastern European women, we'll I think you are maybe just being played.  If you enjoy it, that's fine. We all like a bit of ego-stroking.


That being said, there's a lot to be said for those guys from the anglosphere (as you put it) who know how to use their tools (without being one), know their cars, and can bar-be-que.  Cool


We all have our stereotypes about opposite  gender of other cultures.  Years ago, I was sitting chatting with a couple of Dutch diplomats. Some women came in the door and the men started making the sounds of clumping, marching feet.  I looked at the guys with a raised eyebrow and one guy said, smirking, "There go the German women."  Surprised


 


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Here Richard, thought this might just be of interest to you and some others on this thread:


BBC News
...2 October 2010 Last updated at 01:50 GMT

Lithuanian blonde island plan raises eyebrows
By Damien McGuinness BBC News, Riga
The girl group Olialia Babes, part of the Lithuanian blonde project The Olialia Babes girl band are part of the "blonde" project

A Lithuanian company plans to set up a holiday island in the Maldives run entirely by blondes - the latest project in a growing blonde movement in the Baltics. But how legitimate is this latest sign of Baltic blonde ambition?


What do you call a blonde who runs a business? A dab hand at marketing, if she comes from Lithuania.


Blondes in the Baltics have had enough of the jokes about being dumb. Now they want to show they are smarter than the gags make out, with a growing blonde business empire.


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Here Richard, thought this might just be of interest to you and some others on this thread:


BBC News
...2 October 2010 Last updated at 01:50 GMT

Lithuanian blonde island plan raises eyebrows
By Damien McGuinness BBC News, Riga
The girl group Olialia Babes, part of the Lithuanian blonde project The Olialia Babes girl band are part of the "blonde" project

A Lithuanian company plans to set up a holiday island in the Maldives run entirely by blondes - the latest project in a growing blonde movement in the Baltics. But how legitimate is this latest sign of Baltic blonde ambition?


What do you call a blonde who runs a business? A dab hand at marketing, if she comes from Lithuania.


Blondes in the Baltics have had enough of the jokes about being dumb. Now they want to show they are smarter than the gags make out, with a growing blonde business empire.


Continue reading the main story

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We all have our stereotypes about opposite  gender of other cultures.  Years ago, I was sitting chatting with a couple of Dutch diplomats. Some women came in the door and the men started making the sounds of clumping, marching feet.  I looked at the guys with a raised eyebrow and one guy said, smirking, "There go the German women."


The context in which this was said, was probably because some of these German women can be quite stiff and overly serious and have no room for a smile. Often this goes hand in hand with a look in their eyes, that if they would snap their fingers, they could kill you right there and then. Other reason for this behaviour could be that one of these diplomats spent a night with one of them, to find out she is quite dominant in the bedroom...


Obviously they shouldn't have done it in your presence as you don't know our culture which involves joking about Germans and Belgians(mainly). On the positive side; it also shows that we left the war far behind us and can make a joke about it.


We are actually quite font of our eastern neighbours.


 

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We all have our stereotypes about opposite  gender of other cultures.  Years ago, I was sitting chatting with a couple of Dutch diplomats. Some women came in the door and the men started making the sounds of clumping, marching feet.  I looked at the guys with a raised eyebrow and one guy said, smirking, "There go the German women."


The context in which this was said, was probably because some of these German women can be quite stiff and overly serious and have no room for a smile. Often this goes hand in hand with a look in their eyes, that if they would snap their fingers, they could kill you right there and then. Other reason for this behaviour could be that one of these diplomats spent a night with one of them, to find out she is quite dominant in the bedroom...


Obviously they shouldn't have done it in your presence as you don't know our culture which involves joking about Germans and Belgians(mainly). On the positive side; it also shows that we left the war far behind us and can make a joke about it.


We are actually quite font of our eastern neighbours.


 


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Laughing Laughing Laughing


THis is so damn funny. Every time i hear this vibe "men are the root of all bad and evil and women are all nice and sugar", it is hilarious.


You know, i recall animal kingdom. Lions.


So, the lion is laying there every day enjoying the life and himself, having the lionesses hunt for him and bring him prey, being the only man in the pride, having all the females. Life is just cool for him.


But i feel that this good man could be in danger! It could be that american women will decide it is not the right way to go Laughing Laughing Laughing


How could this be, such an injustice!? Right now, we need to step on and defend lionesses rights! And we will not ask them if they are happy or not. Of course they are not! Who want to live like that? Where is equality?



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Laughing Laughing Laughing


THis is so damn funny. Every time i hear this vibe "men are the root of all bad and evil and women are all nice and sugar", it is hilarious.


You know, i recall animal kingdom. Lions.


So, the lion is laying there every day enjoying the life and himself, having the lionesses hunt for him and bring him prey, being the only man in the pride, having all the females. Life is just cool for him.


But i feel that this good man could be in danger! It could be that american women will decide it is not the right way to go Laughing Laughing Laughing


How could this be, such an injustice!? Right now, we need to step on and defend lionesses rights! And we will not ask them if they are happy or not. Of course they are not! Who want to live like that? Where is equality?


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I think this sums it up.  I aspire to become one of these guys in my old age:


 


 

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I think this sums it up.  I aspire to become one of these guys in my old age:


 


 


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I think this sums it up.  I aspire to become one of these guys in my old age:

 

 


Oct 2, 10 21:07

I think,  Sir, you're already there, if not in age, then in temperament.

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im soooo booking my next holiday on that island....


 


hubba hubba

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im soooo booking my next holiday on that island....


 


hubba hubba


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im soooo booking my next holiday on that island....

 

hubba hubba


Oct 2, 10 22:28

Blondes... Overrated.


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Wow, I just followed up on the BBC story about this Blonde-Island, and it's true!


Charlie, wait in line bud...

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Wow, I just followed up on the BBC story about this Blonde-Island, and it's true!


Charlie, wait in line bud...


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Richard:


You might be right. I'd also get in line for vacation on an island that is ran by all brunettes...(-:


But seriously, this Blonde-Island is a marketing catch phrase. If it was Brunette-Island it would still make a buzz, but I'm sure less so. 

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Richard:


You might be right. I'd also get in line for vacation on an island that is ran by all brunettes...(-:


But seriously, this Blonde-Island is a marketing catch phrase. If it was Brunette-Island it would still make a buzz, but I'm sure less so. 


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@ ThomasNL


"Obviously they shouldn't have done it in your presence as you don't know our culture which involves joking about Germans and Belgians(mainly). On the positive side; it also shows that we left the war far behind us and can make a joke about it."


I actually thought the comment was really funny in the sense that I found my European colleagues always sniping at each other.  I found that the Dutch and Scandanavians had a really wicked sense of humor.  I once heard them complaining about their colleagues from the "Garlic" belt and "Club Med." I figured out which countries they were referring to...


@Nir, Charlie, et  al... You can't say I don't provide useful information. Laughing

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@ ThomasNL


"Obviously they shouldn't have done it in your presence as you don't know our culture which involves joking about Germans and Belgians(mainly). On the positive side; it also shows that we left the war far behind us and can make a joke about it."


I actually thought the comment was really funny in the sense that I found my European colleagues always sniping at each other.  I found that the Dutch and Scandanavians had a really wicked sense of humor.  I once heard them complaining about their colleagues from the "Garlic" belt and "Club Med." I figured out which countries they were referring to...


@Nir, Charlie, et  al... You can't say I don't provide useful information. Laughing


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Guess who is back....


Thank you to everyone who posted here.. i have had a great break away, and am ready for Geneva and all it can offer me once again...


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Guess who is back....


Thank you to everyone who posted here.. i have had a great break away, and am ready for Geneva and all it can offer me once again...


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did you get this idea on easyjet?

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You better do NOT date me ...


- if you want to watch a romantic movie. You´d better chose something from Stephen King or similar stuff,


-my dvd-collection is not that big, I borrow movies from friends


-I don´t like alcohol, so no use to make me drunk


-I don´t care if your friends like me (but I do not misbehave). If they do so, it´s fine, if not, their fault


-I leave you alone during football-games


-if you want a thin girl with blonde hair and high heels - sorry, maybe Lindsey´s turn-


-I can turn your place into complete chaos within seconds, but don´t expect from me that I clean it up


-if you want to be romantic, take me to a rock-concert (or give me the tickets if you don´t want to acompany me)


-it´s ok when you´re looking for someone to steal horses with, but I have my own, though


-never expect from me to do what others do, never worked for me


-if you take this sh*t too seriously, I´m sorry for you


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You better do NOT date me ...


- if you want to watch a romantic movie. You´d better chose something from Stephen King or similar stuff,


-my dvd-collection is not that big, I borrow movies from friends


-I don´t like alcohol, so no use to make me drunk


-I don´t care if your friends like me (but I do not misbehave). If they do so, it´s fine, if not, their fault


-I leave you alone during football-games


-if you want a thin girl with blonde hair and high heels - sorry, maybe Lindsey´s turn-


-I can turn your place into complete chaos within seconds, but don´t expect from me that I clean it up


-if you want to be romantic, take me to a rock-concert (or give me the tickets if you don´t want to acompany me)


-it´s ok when you´re looking for someone to steal horses with, but I have my own, though


-never expect from me to do what others do, never worked for me


-if you take this sh*t too seriously, I´m sorry for you


SealedTongue out


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Jan 1, 70 01:00

"hair" as in singular  Laughing

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Jan 1, 70 01:00

Maybe I do start to drink now...

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@David


Why? Does this stuff make me blind?

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Why? Does this stuff make me blind?


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Nah, I don´t need that to make me smile. But I appreciate your effort!


Smile (---> it works, it works!)

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Smile (---> it works, it works!)


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Wow, there is some CRAZY sexism going on here, from both genders! I'm lucky enough to have found someone I'm crazy about and who is crazy about me, so from personal experience, Lynds, screw what this nutty bunch of people are telling you and just be yourself - meaning dont try to make yourself masculine to seem independent, and dont try to be feminine to see weak, attractive (and christ al-mighty, 'Eastern European'!). Just be who you are, and who makes you happy!


And what the what is going on with these comments on the attractiveness of Eastern European women? Are we referring to the EE women who are being shipped in around the world for sex slavery? Or the ones who service men on 'sex tourism' trades? Either way, guys and girls, get your heads screwed on straight!


Bloody friggin oath. Maybe if less time was spent bashing the independence, intelligence, and straight up awesomeness of Lynds, we could all have the time to increase the quality of our love lives!


 

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Wow, there is some CRAZY sexism going on here, from both genders! I'm lucky enough to have found someone I'm crazy about and who is crazy about me, so from personal experience, Lynds, screw what this nutty bunch of people are telling you and just be yourself - meaning dont try to make yourself masculine to seem independent, and dont try to be feminine to see weak, attractive (and christ al-mighty, 'Eastern European'!). Just be who you are, and who makes you happy!


And what the what is going on with these comments on the attractiveness of Eastern European women? Are we referring to the EE women who are being shipped in around the world for sex slavery? Or the ones who service men on 'sex tourism' trades? Either way, guys and girls, get your heads screwed on straight!


Bloody friggin oath. Maybe if less time was spent bashing the independence, intelligence, and straight up awesomeness of Lynds, we could all have the time to increase the quality of our love lives!


 


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Aww thank you Ariel...


I have really enjoyed this post to be honest...


it's very interesting to see cultural perceptions of women, especially women willing to asnwer back ;)


but having read this, i have my answer, carry the hell on, enoy the journey and continue to surround myself with people who make me happy...


DONE!


the rest is just a bonus...


 

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Aww thank you Ariel...


I have really enjoyed this post to be honest...


it's very interesting to see cultural perceptions of women, especially women willing to asnwer back ;)


but having read this, i have my answer, carry the hell on, enoy the journey and continue to surround myself with people who make me happy...


DONE!


the rest is just a bonus...


 


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Wow, there is some CRAZY sexism going on here, from both genders! very true


 


 dont try to make yourself masculine to seem independent, and dont try to be feminine to see weak, attractive     to the point!



And what the what is going on with these comments on the attractiveness of Eastern European ... well they are attractive ,but.....


 


Enjoyed reading your comments Ariel. well done!


 

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Wow, there is some CRAZY sexism going on here, from both genders! very true


 


 dont try to make yourself masculine to seem independent, and dont try to be feminine to see weak, attractive     to the point!



And what the what is going on with these comments on the attractiveness of Eastern European ... well they are attractive ,but.....


 


Enjoyed reading your comments Ariel. well done!


 


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Ariel: And what the what is going on with these comments on the attractiveness of Eastern European women? Are we referring to the EE women who are being shipped in around the world for sex slavery? Or the ones who service men on 'sex tourism' trades?


No.  We're talking about well-educated, middle-class EE women with advanced degrees who have expatriated to Switzerland and have successful careers in various technical fields.  Any other questions?

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Ariel: And what the what is going on with these comments on the attractiveness of Eastern European women? Are we referring to the EE women who are being shipped in around the world for sex slavery? Or the ones who service men on 'sex tourism' trades?


No.  We're talking about well-educated, middle-class EE women with advanced degrees who have expatriated to Switzerland and have successful careers in various technical fields.  Any other questions?


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Indeed, Richard. I have several questions. 


Starting with this gem: 'Gentlemanly conduct in men along with women's ability to act feminine and to utilize their feminine wiles to attract a quality man are both highly regarded art forms most anywhereexcept for within English-speaking countries.'


Define 'feminine wiles', please? As well as 'art  forms', and 'a quality man' and 'almost anywhere' and 'English speaking countries'.


 


I include 'English speaking countries' because as one of the most popular languages in the world, 3/4 of the 192 UN recognized nations in the world could be so considered, and one probably spoken of by these EE women you so glowingly refer to, I would be interested to know what your criteria is for an 'English speaking country' to be so labeled. Otherwise, your comment reads as such : 'Feminine wiles to catch a man of sexist, old world 'quality' is useful in only 1/4 of the world'.


And a 1/4 that probably doesn't have access to the internet by which to read your piercing insights into relationships.


As with the rest of your post, the rest of the glaring generalities do not allow much room for quality to shine through. 


 


Which, given your (supposed) arguments, is rather ironic. 


 


 


 

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Indeed, Richard. I have several questions. 


Starting with this gem: 'Gentlemanly conduct in men along with women's ability to act feminine and to utilize their feminine wiles to attract a quality man are both highly regarded art forms most anywhereexcept for within English-speaking countries.'


Define 'feminine wiles', please? As well as 'art  forms', and 'a quality man' and 'almost anywhere' and 'English speaking countries'.


 


I include 'English speaking countries' because as one of the most popular languages in the world, 3/4 of the 192 UN recognized nations in the world could be so considered, and one probably spoken of by these EE women you so glowingly refer to, I would be interested to know what your criteria is for an 'English speaking country' to be so labeled. Otherwise, your comment reads as such : 'Feminine wiles to catch a man of sexist, old world 'quality' is useful in only 1/4 of the world'.


And a 1/4 that probably doesn't have access to the internet by which to read your piercing insights into relationships.


As with the rest of your post, the rest of the glaring generalities do not allow much room for quality to shine through. 


 


Which, given your (supposed) arguments, is rather ironic. 


 


 


 


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My inclination to debate this is approximately zero.  Let's agree that I'm a sexist pig who generalizes and womanizes far too much and that I have half-assed theories which I share far too often. 


"Anglosphere" refers to native English countries, BTW.  US, UK, Can, Aus, NZ, and so forth.  English capability does not confer anglosphere social programming (thankfully).

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My inclination to debate this is approximately zero.  Let's agree that I'm a sexist pig who generalizes and womanizes far too much and that I have half-assed theories which I share far too often. 


"Anglosphere" refers to native English countries, BTW.  US, UK, Can, Aus, NZ, and so forth.  English capability does not confer anglosphere social programming (thankfully).


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To all,


Lets not turn this humorous thread into a politically correct social stereotype bashing one....


As for me......I dont care about a womans origin, so long as she has well shaped breasts and a pretty smile, can talk without squeeking, walks well in heels, and can suck a golfball though a hose....


 


Hows that for sexism? ANY QUESTIONS?


 

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Lets not turn this humorous thread into a politically correct social stereotype bashing one....


As for me......I dont care about a womans origin, so long as she has well shaped breasts and a pretty smile, can talk without squeeking, walks well in heels, and can suck a golfball though a hose....


 


Hows that for sexism? ANY QUESTIONS?


 


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And what the what is going on with these comments on the attractiveness of Eastern European women? Are we referring to the EE women who are being shipped in around the world for sex slavery? Or the ones who service men on 'sex tourism' trades? Either way, guys and girls, get your heads screwed on straight!


Is partially so, but you can't generalise a whole region like that. Richard does state correctly that there are a lot of highly educated EE women around here, whom will not be very appreciative of your insights on the subject. Besides, this is a problem in all parts of the world where they are less fortunate(a tactic of survival that works for some of them - Ghana - Thailand etc.). Even within the US there are enough women only marrying a guy because of his bankaccount, only those are harder to recognize.


 


 


 

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And what the what is going on with these comments on the attractiveness of Eastern European women? Are we referring to the EE women who are being shipped in around the world for sex slavery? Or the ones who service men on 'sex tourism' trades? Either way, guys and girls, get your heads screwed on straight!


Is partially so, but you can't generalise a whole region like that. Richard does state correctly that there are a lot of highly educated EE women around here, whom will not be very appreciative of your insights on the subject. Besides, this is a problem in all parts of the world where they are less fortunate(a tactic of survival that works for some of them - Ghana - Thailand etc.). Even within the US there are enough women only marrying a guy because of his bankaccount, only those are harder to recognize.


 


 


 


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Jan 1, 70 01:00

It seems so, they get drunk in the pub and while doing so the Dutch men pleasure their wives.


Never wondered why they always sleep with a smile, while you come home drunk after yet another night on the town with the boys?


; )

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It seems so, they get drunk in the pub and while doing so the Dutch men pleasure their wives.


Never wondered why they always sleep with a smile, while you come home drunk after yet another night on the town with the boys?


; )


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and again the dutch and their infamous modesty...


wonder if they take blue pills along with the afore mentioned placebo...


if you are dutch you aint got much ;)


care to prove a girl wrong ;)

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and again the dutch and their infamous modesty...


wonder if they take blue pills along with the afore mentioned placebo...


if you are dutch you aint got much ;)


care to prove a girl wrong ;)


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It seems so, they get drunk in the pub and while doing so the Dutch men pleasure their wives.

Never wondered why they always sleep with a smile, while you come home drunk after yet another night on the town with the boys?

; )


Oct 6, 10 17:10

Although I agree on pretty much my fellow Dutch man says...... I really like to distant myself from this...... lol


@Thomas.... any age limit for all those maried wifes????


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Although I agree on pretty much my fellow Dutch man says...... I really like to distant myself from this...... lol


@Thomas.... any age limit for all those maried wifes????


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We have three Dutchmen at work who have the cockiest and most self-assured swagger I've witnessed anywhere in Europe.  They have awesome shoes, too.


The good part is that they're also really nice guys.

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We have three Dutchmen at work who have the cockiest and most self-assured swagger I've witnessed anywhere in Europe.  They have awesome shoes, too.


The good part is that they're also really nice guys.


richardm, Oct 6, 2010 @ 17:33
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is is just me or does anyone else have a desire for some mid week drinking?


 

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is is just me or does anyone else have a desire for some mid week drinking?


 


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Isn't mid week for a glass of wine, the couch and dvd's..........?


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Isn't mid week for a glass of wine, the couch and dvd's..........?


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is is just me or does anyone else have a desire for some mid week drinking?

 


Oct 6, 10 17:36

Actually yes, but got some organising to do for some Dutch friends, mainly women (ofcourse), who stay over till sunday. I really could do with some beer..

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Actually yes, but got some organising to do for some Dutch friends, mainly women (ofcourse), who stay over till sunday. I really could do with some beer..


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i think it's most likely spring brothers after my work meeting with my favourite american friend, then some carnage at shakers


 


oh yes, i see some mischief happening

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i think it's most likely spring brothers after my work meeting with my favourite american friend, then some carnage at shakers


 


oh yes, i see some mischief happening


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Jan 1, 70 01:00

Not all...


 


But im fighting hard for the cause,and doin me best so I am.


Bejesus Its tiresome though...

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Not all...


 


But im fighting hard for the cause,and doin me best so I am.


Bejesus Its tiresome though...


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Although I agree on pretty much my fellow Dutch man says...... I really like to distant myself from this...... lol

@Thomas.... any age limit for all those maried wifes????

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Oct 6, 10 17:26

After 35 I charge progressively by age.


The rich Irish guys with a good looking wife from the EE region I do for free. Would feel strange knowing that the guy is paying me to sleep with his wife without knowing it.


Yes, I have a heart too ; )

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After 35 I charge progressively by age.


The rich Irish guys with a good looking wife from the EE region I do for free. Would feel strange knowing that the guy is paying me to sleep with his wife without knowing it.


Yes, I have a heart too ; )


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Dating in switzerland is a nightmare, so it dating in the netherlands, Italy, France, the U.S. and any other place where you have to deal with the opposite sex.. I am now advertising myself only as "Unemployed - Semi retired grad student - Decent arm candy - Cant pay her own way - Drinks too much"  Maybe this will work? Trying to advertise positive qualities didn't get me far.  The best way to deal with it I have found.. have as much fun as possible, and find a young cute boy to keep you company in the meantime .  And in two weeks time when my ass gets back to Geneva from the Netherlands.. You can come out and party with me and my loud friends ;)

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Dating in switzerland is a nightmare, so it dating in the netherlands, Italy, France, the U.S. and any other place where you have to deal with the opposite sex.. I am now advertising myself only as "Unemployed - Semi retired grad student - Decent arm candy - Cant pay her own way - Drinks too much"  Maybe this will work? Trying to advertise positive qualities didn't get me far.  The best way to deal with it I have found.. have as much fun as possible, and find a young cute boy to keep you company in the meantime .  And in two weeks time when my ass gets back to Geneva from the Netherlands.. You can come out and party with me and my loud friends ;)


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Dating in switzerland is a nightmare, so it dating in the netherlands, Italy, France, the U.S. and any other place where you have to deal with the opposite sex.. I am now advertising myself only as "Unemployed - Semi retired grad student - Decent arm candy - Cant pay her own way - Drinks too much"  Maybe this will work? Trying to advertise positive qualities didn't get me far.  The best way to deal with it I have found.. have as much fun as possible, and find a young cute boy to keep you company in the meantime .  And in two weeks time when my ass gets back to Geneva from the Netherlands.. You can come out and party with me and my loud friends ;)


Oct 6, 10 19:11

"cute young boy" - What age does this concern 16? Or are you a lot older then you seem on your picture?

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"cute young boy" - What age does this concern 16? Or are you a lot older then you seem on your picture?


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haha, I am 28.. but for all of my life like most women I have dated men older than I am.  Recently I started going the other direction and it seems to be alot more fun

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haha, I am 28.. but for all of my life like most women I have dated men older than I am.  Recently I started going the other direction and it seems to be alot more fun


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Jan 1, 70 01:00

Yeah, I was later dragged out by the two Irish women to find out they ain't married... You can understand I was quite dissapointed by the lack of challenge.

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Yeah, I was later dragged out by the two Irish women to find out they ain't married... You can understand I was quite dissapointed by the lack of challenge.


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Yeah, I was later dragged out by the two Irish women to find out they ain't married... You can understand I was quite dissapointed by the lack of challenge.


Oct 6, 10 19:29

They're supposed to be challenging?  Surprised

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They're supposed to be challenging?  Surprised


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And why is it more fun? They seem more innocent?

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Not innocent..


just -  less damaged...


more -  eager to please... 


That whole I hope they serve beer in hell, douche bag, womanizing, women must think im awesome personality hasn't had time to fully develop before 25.  They might actually still be nice at this point.

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Not innocent..


just -  less damaged...


more -  eager to please... 


That whole I hope they serve beer in hell, douche bag, womanizing, women must think im awesome personality hasn't had time to fully develop before 25.  They might actually still be nice at this point.


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Not innocent..

just -  less damaged...

more -  eager to please... 

That whole I hope they serve beer in hell, douche bag, womanizing, women must think im awesome personality hasn't had time to fully develop before 25.  They might actually still be nice at this point.


Oct 6, 10 19:42

I posit that the over-25 Tucker Max wannabes are adapting to the dating environment at hand.  They've watched women pat nice boys on the head then take the bad boys home enough times that they engaged in a little introspection and realized that something wasn't adding up.


Ooops, another half-assed theory again...  Embarassed

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I posit that the over-25 Tucker Max wannabes are adapting to the dating environment at hand.  They've watched women pat nice boys on the head then take the bad boys home enough times that they engaged in a little introspection and realized that something wasn't adding up.


Ooops, another half-assed theory again...  Embarassed


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"They might actually still be nice and a bit naive at this point." - ?


So you had the older guy with baggage and now trying the younger one who lacks the experience. Did it cross your mind that you picked the wrong men and the choice for the young boys is also not gonna work? But I guess it doesn't matter at the stage you're now at right?

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"They might actually still be nice and a bit naive at this point." - ?


So you had the older guy with baggage and now trying the younger one who lacks the experience. Did it cross your mind that you picked the wrong men and the choice for the young boys is also not gonna work? But I guess it doesn't matter at the stage you're now at right?


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Perhaps.. I think karma may be serving me a dish of what I gave out from 16-24.  I got nicer as I got older.  I think for men it goes opposite.

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Perhaps.. I think karma may be serving me a dish of what I gave out from 16-24.  I got nicer as I got older.  I think for men it goes opposite.


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Oh it is quite clear, I have bad taste.  This I don't dispute.. but its partially on those who engage with me.  I am extremely loud, extroverted (bartender), and opinionated.. I think I scare the shit out of most nice guys.  I never said young had lasting potential.. just that it was fun... and it is. trust me.

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Oh it is quite clear, I have bad taste.  This I don't dispute.. but its partially on those who engage with me.  I am extremely loud, extroverted (bartender), and opinionated.. I think I scare the shit out of most nice guys.  I never said young had lasting potential.. just that it was fun... and it is. trust me.


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What women want is simple. A nice guy who respects them, treats them right and makes them feel safe

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What women want is simple. A nice guy who respects them, treats them right and makes them feel safe


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Perhaps.. I think karma may be serving me a dish of what I gave out from 16-24.  I got nicer as I got older.  I think for men it goes opposite.


Oct 6, 10 19:56

Lexi, you warm my heart (a little).  Most women I meet are never this self-aware.

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Lexi, you warm my heart (a little).  Most women I meet are never this self-aware.


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What men want is simple. A cute girl wo can cook, always wants sex and loves to clean


 


If it only was that simple I would have been married, have 4 kids and a dog.

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What men want is simple. A cute girl wo can cook, always wants sex and loves to clean


 


If it only was that simple I would have been married, have 4 kids and a dog.


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haha in my younger days, I was a devil.. im a little older and more settled now ;)

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haha in my younger days, I was a devil.. im a little older and more settled now ;)


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What men want is simple. A cute girl wo can cook, always wants sex and loves to clean

 

If it only was that simple I would have been married, have 4 kids and a dog.


Oct 6, 10 20:03

I guess thats why im not married yet :P

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What women want is simple. A nice guy who respects them, treats them right and makes them feel safe


Oct 6, 10 20:01

Hmm... and here I am, but I don't see a line outside my door. 

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Hmm... and here I am, but I don't see a line outside my door. 


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What women want is simple. A nice guy who respects them, treats them right and makes them feel safe


Oct 6, 10 20:01

Well said Maria, what i dont understand is " makes them feel safe". What safety are you looking for? May be your answer may help the boys unravel the ever Mythical question "What do ladies really want!"


Perhaps whoever said that trying to understand what a lady wants is like trying to count the Stars in the Galaxy was very right!


Am waiting..........

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Well said Maria, what i dont understand is " makes them feel safe". What safety are you looking for? May be your answer may help the boys unravel the ever Mythical question "What do ladies really want!"


Perhaps whoever said that trying to understand what a lady wants is like trying to count the Stars in the Galaxy was very right!


Am waiting..........


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Here is what women want.. Nice, not a pushover.   Attentive, not plastic wrap


Affectionate without being needy, Expressive without being whiney.. and last but not good in the sheets


And if you can party with our friends without being made fun of.. always a plus

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Here is what women want.. Nice, not a pushover.   Attentive, not plastic wrap


Affectionate without being needy, Expressive without being whiney.. and last but not good in the sheets


And if you can party with our friends without being made fun of.. always a plus


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Hmm... and here I am, but I don't see a line outside my door. 


Oct 6, 10 20:11

Maybe you need to do your karaoke act  Wink

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Hmm... and here I am, but I don't see a line outside my door. 


Oct 6, 10 20:11

I had to move to a mountain village as I couldnt leave my house anymore. It's clear that I won't say which village and I assume the women that do know won't say or they will have to find someone else to please their needs..

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I had to move to a mountain village as I couldnt leave my house anymore. It's clear that I won't say which village and I assume the women that do know won't say or they will have to find someone else to please their needs..


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Maybe you need to do your karaoke act  Wink


Oct 6, 10 20:14

Lexillent thinks that I have to be able to party with a girl's friends without being made fun of.


Unfortunately for me, when I do karaoke I don't care what anybody thinks. :-)

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Lexillent thinks that I have to be able to party with a girl's friends without being made fun of.


Unfortunately for me, when I do karaoke I don't care what anybody thinks. :-)


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How timely..  This just popped up on my facebook wall.


 

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How timely..  This just popped up on my facebook wall.


 


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I had to move to a mountain village as I couldnt leave my house anymore. It's clear that I won't say which village and I assume the women that do know won't say or they will have to find someone else to please their needs..


Oct 6, 10 20:21

Sounds like a Dutchman is almost too much a man...Laughing

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Lexillent thinks that I have to be able to party with a girl's friends without being made fun of.

Unfortunately for me, when I do karaoke I don't care what anybody thinks. :-)


Oct 6, 10 20:20

good for you!  Wink

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Sounds like a Dutchman is almost too much a man...Laughing


Oct 6, 10 20:35

I wouldn't dare to say that about myself, that just be arrogant ; )

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Julia: It's hard to comment without speaking in generalities, and everyone seems to hate them around here.  I'm sorry in advance.


Wait, no I'm not sorry at all.


If I had to condense anglosphere male dating behavior (from my point of view) into a quick paragraph, I'd say that there's an increasingly wide division of two different groups of men.  The largest and first group are the new-age sensitive men who pedestalize and idealize women (the nice guys) and often don't get very far.  Gen-Y is yielding a bumper crop of these types.  The second smaller group brings some bad-boy "game" to the table (sometimes natural and sometimes learned) and is experiencing more success than ever before, thanks to the growth of the first group which exposes the latter to less competition.  The extreme version of the second group are Lexi's Tucker Max types.  Throw female hypergamy into the mix and bake at 190C for two hours.  Let stand for 10 minutes then serve.  Voila: Trainwreck pie!


When you involve a traditional (EE or possibly Asian) dating culture, everything runs off the rails because neither of these groups of men have a clear picture on how courtship works within these cultures (I think it's largely similar to how it worked in the time of our grandparents - I can hear Ariel boiling with rage from here).  The first group will never "make a move" or try to escalate their interactions during a date.  The second group will often send the girls running for the hills with their crudeness and their douchebaggery.


I said before that the adjustment is not easy.  Western men have been dealing with a group of western women (I'm generalizing again) who will dig in their claws and eviscerate the soft underbelly of any hapless, sensitive male who dares venture near.  Letting our guard down and exposing ourselves yet continuing to exert the masculine psychosocial dominance that's expected from us is akin to walking a tightrope; it's only easy for someone who has done it a thousand times before.  Most of us have no clue.


Julia, I'm not sure if that helps you.  It sounds like you were dating a member of the first group.  An alternative explanation is that he was "just not that into you."  The rules of engagement in the west have been rewritten since the birth of feminism and both genders are still trying to make sense of it all and figure out exactly what they should be doing.


As for older men, unlearning 20 years of behavioral patterns takes an eternity, and I'll probably be on my deathbed trying to figure out how to properly game the nurse.  The old me would've never even tried.  My grandfather, when he was my age, could've made her swoon without even trying.

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Julia: It's hard to comment without speaking in generalities, and everyone seems to hate them around here.  I'm sorry in advance.


Wait, no I'm not sorry at all.


If I had to condense anglosphere male dating behavior (from my point of view) into a quick paragraph, I'd say that there's an increasingly wide division of two different groups of men.  The largest and first group are the new-age sensitive men who pedestalize and idealize women (the nice guys) and often don't get very far.  Gen-Y is yielding a bumper crop of these types.  The second smaller group brings some bad-boy "game" to the table (sometimes natural and sometimes learned) and is experiencing more success than ever before, thanks to the growth of the first group which exposes the latter to less competition.  The extreme version of the second group are Lexi's Tucker Max types.  Throw female hypergamy into the mix and bake at 190C for two hours.  Let stand for 10 minutes then serve.  Voila: Trainwreck pie!


When you involve a traditional (EE or possibly Asian) dating culture, everything runs off the rails because neither of these groups of men have a clear picture on how courtship works within these cultures (I think it's largely similar to how it worked in the time of our grandparents - I can hear Ariel boiling with rage from here).  The first group will never "make a move" or try to escalate their interactions during a date.  The second group will often send the girls running for the hills with their crudeness and their douchebaggery.


I said before that the adjustment is not easy.  Western men have been dealing with a group of western women (I'm generalizing again) who will dig in their claws and eviscerate the soft underbelly of any hapless, sensitive male who dares venture near.  Letting our guard down and exposing ourselves yet continuing to exert the masculine psychosocial dominance that's expected from us is akin to walking a tightrope; it's only easy for someone who has done it a thousand times before.  Most of us have no clue.


Julia, I'm not sure if that helps you.  It sounds like you were dating a member of the first group.  An alternative explanation is that he was "just not that into you."  The rules of engagement in the west have been rewritten since the birth of feminism and both genders are still trying to make sense of it all and figure out exactly what they should be doing.


As for older men, unlearning 20 years of behavioral patterns takes an eternity, and I'll probably be on my deathbed trying to figure out how to properly game the nurse.  The old me would've never even tried.  My grandfather, when he was my age, could've made her swoon without even trying.


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Lexi: And if you can party with our friends without being made fun of.. always a plus


The better question is if you can go to a party as the date for a smart, successful, and highly desireable man and he won't be made fun of for bringing you along.


Not being malicious here... It's an honest question. 

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Lexi: And if you can party with our friends without being made fun of.. always a plus


The better question is if you can go to a party as the date for a smart, successful, and highly desireable man and he won't be made fun of for bringing you along.


Not being malicious here... It's an honest question. 


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Here is what women want.. Nice, not a pushover.   Attentive, not plastic wrap

Affectionate without being needy, Expressive without being whiney.. and last but not good in the sheets

And if you can party with our friends without being made fun of.. always a plus


Oct 6, 10 20:12

no shining armour or white horse??? sh.. that was a waste of money then...

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no shining armour or white horse??? sh.. that was a waste of money then...


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I can play the game when it's necessary

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I can play the game when it's necessary


Oct 6, 10 22:59

So let me ask this question: Are you ready to land a great man or are you content to keep playing for a while longer?

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I'll settle then its right, not because I am of the age where I should. If that answers that question. So until the right one comes along, I see nothing wrong to continue playing.  It appears after a certain age a woman is just expected to marry the first person who asks.. I dont agree with this, I hope to marry the third person who asks.  I've said yes once, and no once.. and here I am.

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I'll settle then its right, not because I am of the age where I should. If that answers that question. So until the right one comes along, I see nothing wrong to continue playing.  It appears after a certain age a woman is just expected to marry the first person who asks.. I dont agree with this, I hope to marry the third person who asks.  I've said yes once, and no once.. and here I am.


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Does this kind of quotations make  sense anymore?


"Love comes to those who wait for it, trust it and don't question it when it does finally come."


"I thought I loved him, but he had to break my heart for me to know what true love really is."
Anonymous


"The best thing about loving and being hurt is that you get to know what true love really is. For as gold is tested in fire, and so will love be perfected in pain."
Marvin Jay M. Torres


"Love and electricity are one in the same, my dear. If you do not feel the jolt in your soul every time a kiss is shared, a whisper is spoken, a touch is felt, then your not really in love at all."
C. J. Franks


and Finally:


"Forever is not a word...rather a place where two lovers go when true love takes them there."

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Does this kind of quotations make  sense anymore?


"Love comes to those who wait for it, trust it and don't question it when it does finally come."


"I thought I loved him, but he had to break my heart for me to know what true love really is."
Anonymous


"The best thing about loving and being hurt is that you get to know what true love really is. For as gold is tested in fire, and so will love be perfected in pain."
Marvin Jay M. Torres


"Love and electricity are one in the same, my dear. If you do not feel the jolt in your soul every time a kiss is shared, a whisper is spoken, a touch is felt, then your not really in love at all."
C. J. Franks


and Finally:


"Forever is not a word...rather a place where two lovers go when true love takes them there."


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Lexi: And if you can party with our friends without being made fun of.. always a plus

The better question is if you can go to a party as the date for a smart, successful, and highly desireable man and he won't be made fun of for bringing you along.

Not being malicious here... It's an honest question. 


Oct 6, 10 21:55

No, the best question is whether you can go by yourself to an event and have the confidence to know that you are smart, successful and highly desirable and not worry what some asshole thinks. 


Do you need a trophy? Are your friends and colleagues that shallow?Surprised

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No, the best question is whether you can go by yourself to an event and have the confidence to know that you are smart, successful and highly desirable and not worry what some asshole thinks. 


Do you need a trophy? Are your friends and colleagues that shallow?Surprised


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Can some people please go for a good shag this weekend?


I sense some frustration here on this thread


Tongue out

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I sense some frustration here on this thread


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Lexi: So until the right one comes along, I see nothing wrong to continue playing.


My only advice is to make sure that you can actually be the kind of girl that a high-quality man would seek.  Will he overlook this player history?  I don't know.


Not just play the game when needed (your words) but live the game.  Solid dating advice is rarely gender neutral, but one part which definitely applies to everyone is this: If you are only attracting the dogs, check to make sure that what you're serving is superior to Purina chow.

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Lexi: So until the right one comes along, I see nothing wrong to continue playing.


My only advice is to make sure that you can actually be the kind of girl that a high-quality man would seek.  Will he overlook this player history?  I don't know.


Not just play the game when needed (your words) but live the game.  Solid dating advice is rarely gender neutral, but one part which definitely applies to everyone is this: If you are only attracting the dogs, check to make sure that what you're serving is superior to Purina chow.


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No, the best question is whether you can go by yourself to an event and have the confidence to know that you are smart, successful and highly desirable and not worry what some asshole thinks. 

Do you need a trophy? Are your friends and colleagues that shallow?Surprised


Oct 6, 10 23:10

Good point.  ...but take that sentiment too far and showing up to these events by yourself will be by circumstance and not by choice.

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Good point.  ...but take that sentiment too far and showing up to these events by yourself will be by circumstance and not by choice.


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Good point.  ...but take that sentiment too far and showing up to these events by yourself will be by circumstance and not by choice.


Oct 6, 10 23:26

Maybe so... but then again, I'm not looking to associate myself with someone who has "special dna."   Gaaak!


 

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Maybe so... but then again, I'm not looking to associate myself with someone who has "special dna."   Gaaak!


 


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Good point.  ...but take that sentiment too far and showing up to these events by yourself will be by circumstance and not by choice.


Oct 6, 10 23:26

And then again, I said, "show up," not necessarily leave alone Kiss

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And then again, I said, "show up," not necessarily leave alone Kiss


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Maybe so... but then again, I'm not looking to associate myself with someone who has "special dna."   Gaaak!

 


Oct 6, 10 23:36

You have special DNA for two ; )

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Maybe so... but then again, I'm not looking to associate myself with someone who has "special dna."   Gaaak!

 


Oct 6, 10 23:36

Anyway we are not looking at special DNA here nor eyecandy to show up with to work related events.


More down the lines of being ready for what you actually wish, right..?

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Anyway we are not looking at special DNA here nor eyecandy to show up with to work related events.


More down the lines of being ready for what you actually wish, right..?


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Leave it to the Dutch to tell us some of us need both a sense of humor as well as a good shag... Now, it's off to Amsterdam for me! Great spas, great museums and great...er... entertainment...Tongue out

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Leave it to the Dutch to tell us some of us need both a sense of humor as well as a good shag... Now, it's off to Amsterdam for me! Great spas, great museums and great...er... entertainment...Tongue out


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I will be in Amsterdam on saturday night, I can meet you there =)

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I will be in Amsterdam on saturday night, I can meet you there =)


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And  what you can actually live with... sometimes the two don't end up being the same... You do have to be careful what you wish for...Yell

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lexi.. you're my kind of girl (no lesbian comments please boys, too obvious!)


this post is not designed to answer the debate about why so many awesome women in geneva are single... it was, and is, tongue in cheek but i love the vibe here...


gneveva is a tough place to be noticed and to be original but it seems the few folk willing to go out there and grab life by the balls have commented about how much fun it is doing just that and i'm glad...


i hope the young boys are enjoying your interest Lexi... you're quite the catch x

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lexi.. you're my kind of girl (no lesbian comments please boys, too obvious!)


this post is not designed to answer the debate about why so many awesome women in geneva are single... it was, and is, tongue in cheek but i love the vibe here...


gneveva is a tough place to be noticed and to be original but it seems the few folk willing to go out there and grab life by the balls have commented about how much fun it is doing just that and i'm glad...


i hope the young boys are enjoying your interest Lexi... you're quite the catch x


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haha, we are having fun.. but Im coming back to Geneva.. so bring on the good times in GVA in 2 weeks!


Where do you work at? I will bring in my rowdy group and make it that much louder.  My volume alone is pretty out of control.. I am loud by American standards

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haha, we are having fun.. but Im coming back to Geneva.. so bring on the good times in GVA in 2 weeks!


Where do you work at? I will bring in my rowdy group and make it that much louder.  My volume alone is pretty out of control.. I am loud by American standards


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Thanks for letting us know Lexi


*buying ear protection on the world wide web*

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*buying ear protection on the world wide web*


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I am pretty ridiculous, but at least I admit it

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gotta love the carnage...


i'm pretty loud by international standards


it's fun :)

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gotta love the carnage...


i'm pretty loud by international standards


it's fun :)


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Jan 1, 70 01:00

1.6 cents?


I knew the Swiss were cheap, but not this cheap.


 

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1.6 cents?


I knew the Swiss were cheap, but not this cheap.


 


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1.6 cents?

I knew the Swiss were cheap, but not this cheap.

 


Oct 8, 10 17:28

The .6 is the  gov't  tax...Tongue out

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The .6 is the  gov't  tax...Tongue out


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Hardest part about dating in geneva is the cultural aspect.. I get so confused.. Does he pay, does he pay always, does he open the door, do i call, do i not call..  I know how to date American men and what to expect from them, and how to read their behavior.. when you bring 150+ nationalities into the mix, things get confusing!

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Hardest part about dating in geneva is the cultural aspect.. I get so confused.. Does he pay, does he pay always, does he open the door, do i call, do i not call..  I know how to date American men and what to expect from them, and how to read their behavior.. when you bring 150+ nationalities into the mix, things get confusing!


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Lexy,

Let me give you a few rules-of-thumb, which might help:

1. The girl always pays

2. The girl always holds the door for the guy

3. The girl always goes to bed with the guy on the 1st date.

If you follow those rules, I guarantee you that you'll be OK with men of all nationalities.

I wonder why more girls don't follow my rules - it would make life so nice!

Nir
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Lexy,

Let me give you a few rules-of-thumb, which might help:

1. The girl always pays

2. The girl always holds the door for the guy

3. The girl always goes to bed with the guy on the 1st date.

If you follow those rules, I guarantee you that you'll be OK with men of all nationalities.

I wonder why more girls don't follow my rules - it would make life so nice!

Nir
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Oh baby.  Can I cook all his meals and clean all his clothes while I am at it? This would make for a wonderful evening for me.. an evening of "service"

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Oh baby.  Can I cook all his meals and clean all his clothes while I am at it? This would make for a wonderful evening for me.. an evening of "service"


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Lexi:

You can, but as long as you don't make too much noise while doing it, so the man won't be interupted while watching the football.

Nir
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You can, but as long as you don't make too much noise while doing it, so the man won't be interupted while watching the football.

Nir
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Oh baby.  Can I cook all his meals and clean all his clothes while I am at it? This would make for a wonderful evening for me.. an evening of "service"


Oct 8, 10 19:51

Exactly...and there's the punchline that  goes "standing up or lying down, woman has to work,"  Yell

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Exactly...and there's the punchline that  goes "standing up or lying down, woman has to work,"  Yell


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Lexy, Let me give you a few rules-of-thumb, which might help: 1. The girl always pays 2. The girl always holds the door for the guy 3. The girl always goes to bed with the guy on the 1st date. If you follow those rules, I guarantee you that you'll be OK with men of all nationalities. I wonder why more girls don't follow my rules - it would make life so nice! Nir
Oct 8, 10 19:38

nice maybe but certainly easier (for both parties?)

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nice maybe but certainly easier (for both parties?)


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and if you can fit in time for an ego massage on your way back from the fridge where the beers are cooling, that would be just fantastic ;)


 

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and if you can fit in time for an ego massage on your way back from the fridge where the beers are cooling, that would be just fantastic ;)


 


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what is the point ?
it is too much to read to follow all the discussion.
could someone  brief the last 349 posts XD ? 

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what is the point ?
it is too much to read to follow all the discussion.
could someone  brief the last 349 posts XD ? 


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now what is all this about???

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now what is all this about???


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what's confusing you?


initially the point was, speaking on behalf of many of my female friends... there are some amazingly attractive, confident, intelligent women out there who have been used and abused by the Geneva dating scene


now it's a free for all so post away...

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what's confusing you?


initially the point was, speaking on behalf of many of my female friends... there are some amazingly attractive, confident, intelligent women out there who have been used and abused by the Geneva dating scene


now it's a free for all so post away...


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are you also speaking on behalf of yourself lyndsey?


maybe the question to ask (yourself) is "why ? "


 

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are you also speaking on behalf of yourself lyndsey?


maybe the question to ask (yourself) is "why ? "


 


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epicure... maybe this post is so long you have forgotten that i actually have and have taken many of the points here on board.. that said, i am very happy with the results this post has yielded...;)


i have had many instances of people i don't know referring to me as the "glocals date girl" even in my club when they are half-cut they recognise me.


I WENT TO A DINNER LAST NIGHT WITH 30 PEOPLE FROM GLOCALS AND I AM FLATTERED AT THE COMMENTS ON THIS SUBJECT.. IT'S NOT AN UNUSUAL POST, IF ANYTHING, DATING IN GENEVA HAS BEEN OVER SUBSCRIBED ON HERE... BUT I AM CURIOUS AS TO WHY SINGLE WOMEN WITH SO MUCH GOING FOR THEM, FIND IT SO HARD TO FIND SOMEONE TO COMPLEMENT THEM HERE.. IS IT BECAUSE gENEVA IS SO SMALL/ IS IT BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE HER ON SHORT CONTRACTS...

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epicure... maybe this post is so long you have forgotten that i actually have and have taken many of the points here on board.. that said, i am very happy with the results this post has yielded...;)


i have had many instances of people i don't know referring to me as the "glocals date girl" even in my club when they are half-cut they recognise me.


I WENT TO A DINNER LAST NIGHT WITH 30 PEOPLE FROM GLOCALS AND I AM FLATTERED AT THE COMMENTS ON THIS SUBJECT.. IT'S NOT AN UNUSUAL POST, IF ANYTHING, DATING IN GENEVA HAS BEEN OVER SUBSCRIBED ON HERE... BUT I AM CURIOUS AS TO WHY SINGLE WOMEN WITH SO MUCH GOING FOR THEM, FIND IT SO HARD TO FIND SOMEONE TO COMPLEMENT THEM HERE.. IS IT BECAUSE gENEVA IS SO SMALL/ IS IT BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE HER ON SHORT CONTRACTS...


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oops ignore the caps, computer playing up and slow connection and that posted before i could amend anything :(


.. here on short contracts.. what makes it such a dating minefield here?


i have been vocal on this subject because it frustrates me to see people get excited about prospective relationships then something happens, someone leaves, people pretend to be something they are not... i appreciate this is not specific to Geneva but for some reason it appears much more frequent here..


even if i am completely off mark, I like that when people meet me they always have something to say on this post... if only one person is helped/guided then it's been worth it

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oops ignore the caps, computer playing up and slow connection and that posted before i could amend anything :(


.. here on short contracts.. what makes it such a dating minefield here?


i have been vocal on this subject because it frustrates me to see people get excited about prospective relationships then something happens, someone leaves, people pretend to be something they are not... i appreciate this is not specific to Geneva but for some reason it appears much more frequent here..


even if i am completely off mark, I like that when people meet me they always have something to say on this post... if only one person is helped/guided then it's been worth it


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Out of interest, is it beyond the usual dating scene/male problems?  Ie, is Geneva worse then NY, London, Paris, East Podunk?


I would think that everywhere you have flakey people who are more then willing to dump someone and move on to the next flashy person.


Or is Geneva worse?


 

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Out of interest, is it beyond the usual dating scene/male problems?  Ie, is Geneva worse then NY, London, Paris, East Podunk?


I would think that everywhere you have flakey people who are more then willing to dump someone and move on to the next flashy person.


Or is Geneva worse?


 


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Someone leaves -- that is somewhat Geneva specific.  People are always leaving.  OTOH, people are always coming to Geneva as well.


People pretend that they are something they are not?  Isn't that describing a lot of dating scenes all over?  Well, that and the whole cosmetic/fasion/etc industry :-)


I don't think you're so far off the mark, but, I don't think it's so gender specific.   But, just shrugging and saying, "gave it my best shot, it didn't work, let's move on" and going out and meeting the one of the other 1000s of interesting women in Geneva works for me.  There have been a lot of women where I thought it was a good match, and, she disagreed.  It takes two....

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Someone leaves -- that is somewhat Geneva specific.  People are always leaving.  OTOH, people are always coming to Geneva as well.


People pretend that they are something they are not?  Isn't that describing a lot of dating scenes all over?  Well, that and the whole cosmetic/fasion/etc industry :-)


I don't think you're so far off the mark, but, I don't think it's so gender specific.   But, just shrugging and saying, "gave it my best shot, it didn't work, let's move on" and going out and meeting the one of the other 1000s of interesting women in Geneva works for me.  There have been a lot of women where I thought it was a good match, and, she disagreed.  It takes two....


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Someone leaves -- that is somewhat Geneva specific.  People are always leaving.  OTOH, people are always coming to Geneva as well.


People pretend that they are something they are not?  Isn't that describing a lot of dating scenes all over?  Well, that and the whole cosmetic/fasion/etc industry :-)


I don't think you're so far off the mark, but, I don't think it's so gender specific.   But, just shrugging and saying, "gave it my best shot, it didn't work, let's move on" and going out and meeting the one of the other 1000s of interesting women in Geneva works for me.  There have been a lot of women where I thought it was a good match, and, she disagreed.  It takes two....

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Someone leaves -- that is somewhat Geneva specific.  People are always leaving.  OTOH, people are always coming to Geneva as well.


People pretend that they are something they are not?  Isn't that describing a lot of dating scenes all over?  Well, that and the whole cosmetic/fasion/etc industry :-)


I don't think you're so far off the mark, but, I don't think it's so gender specific.   But, just shrugging and saying, "gave it my best shot, it didn't work, let's move on" and going out and meeting the one of the other 1000s of interesting women in Geneva works for me.  There have been a lot of women where I thought it was a good match, and, she disagreed.  It takes two....


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Social ettiquette is a thing of the past sadly...now a days everyones chasing the "happy ending" in "quicktime"....


Now if everyone slow down a little, stop rubbing aladins (or Nirs')  "lamp" quite so hard and fast wishing for the giant genies immediate present... and let the suprise come to you, you'll find that its works a lots smoother.


(yes that post has an innuendo in it...or two)

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Social ettiquette is a thing of the past sadly...now a days everyones chasing the "happy ending" in "quicktime"....


Now if everyone slow down a little, stop rubbing aladins (or Nirs')  "lamp" quite so hard and fast wishing for the giant genies immediate present... and let the suprise come to you, you'll find that its works a lots smoother.


(yes that post has an innuendo in it...or two)


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Hey Hey Hey,

To avoid any confusion following Charlie's latest post: I don't want anyone (except Charlie) to stop rubbing my aladin's lamp!

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Hey Hey Hey,

To avoid any confusion following Charlie's latest post: I don't want anyone (except Charlie) to stop rubbing my aladin's lamp!

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Nir Ofek, Oct 11, 2010 @ 09:44
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But why all this questions ? the flirt that comes with the start of the relationship, or with the first date, i think is the best thing ever.

U cannot drop down a paper with written rules or who will do what.
Is impossible.   

do not try to change it, but change it. I mean, do not try to change the way person act, but change the person. i think is the only way if u really do not like someone behavior in a first date.  hope i was clear 

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But why all this questions ? the flirt that comes with the start of the relationship, or with the first date, i think is the best thing ever.

U cannot drop down a paper with written rules or who will do what.
Is impossible.   

do not try to change it, but change it. I mean, do not try to change the way person act, but change the person. i think is the only way if u really do not like someone behavior in a first date.  hope i was clear 


Roberto D, Oct 11, 2010 @ 11:01
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Jan 1, 70 01:00

^^ see ? now u can start a new u day with a question less ... enjoy it ! U.U

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^^ see ? now u can start a new u day with a question less ... enjoy it ! U.U


Roberto D, Oct 11, 2010 @ 11:20
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Hey Hey Hey, To avoid any confusion following Charlie's latest post: I don't want anyone (except Charlie) to stop rubbing my aladin's lamp! Nir
Oct 11, 10 09:44

I think that should include a slighty wider group than just Charlie.. I'm sure it's a very nice lamp but not sure I'd want to shine it .

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I think that should include a slighty wider group than just Charlie.. I'm sure it's a very nice lamp but not sure I'd want to shine it .


britabroad, Oct 11, 2010 @ 11:25
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anyone know where I can get a halloween costume of a Genie with a cod piece in the shape of a lamp that needs rubbing?


Thanks for tips and hints...

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anyone know where I can get a halloween costume of a Genie with a cod piece in the shape of a lamp that needs rubbing?


Thanks for tips and hints...


Charlie, Oct 11, 2010 @ 11:54
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hi charlie,


i have heard you can get it in the jaffar gift shop, 2 ali baba lane.. Geneva..


now should you manage to obtain this sought after treasure i have 3 wishes... can i use them now? ... Grow, grow, grow.... ;)


Happy hunting ;) x

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hi charlie,


i have heard you can get it in the jaffar gift shop, 2 ali baba lane.. Geneva..


now should you manage to obtain this sought after treasure i have 3 wishes... can i use them now? ... Grow, grow, grow.... ;)


Happy hunting ;) x


lyndsey j, Oct 11, 2010 @ 13:34
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Well i never ate before going out for dinner and I never gave a damn to what my date would think, should he see me eat too much. i don't know you but you seem to have plenty of qualities. But it s not because you have plenty of qualities that you should not be single (look at all the boring persons that are in couple.. well ok, some of them (like me :-)) are both in couple and very nice..). This is very common to say this, but it's so true : the more you are yourself with your qualities and weaknesses, the bigger are your chances to find the person that will fit you. Some people you would have loved to be with at first sight may go away because of this, but that's for the best because you would have wasted your time. 


So well, i would say people are looking for the act when they think short term, and reality when they think middle and long term..

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Well i never ate before going out for dinner and I never gave a damn to what my date would think, should he see me eat too much. i don't know you but you seem to have plenty of qualities. But it s not because you have plenty of qualities that you should not be single (look at all the boring persons that are in couple.. well ok, some of them (like me :-)) are both in couple and very nice..). This is very common to say this, but it's so true : the more you are yourself with your qualities and weaknesses, the bigger are your chances to find the person that will fit you. Some people you would have loved to be with at first sight may go away because of this, but that's for the best because you would have wasted your time. 


So well, i would say people are looking for the act when they think short term, and reality when they think middle and long term..


Myriam B, Oct 11, 2010 @ 16:56
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the question is, i guess Nir...

what am i doing wrong?

x


Sep 27, 10 15:02

you're not doing anything wrong


 


if you cant find a date is because people in europe (I dont want to generalize) are TOO STUCK UP!! I recently came from the USA I was there for a month, and as soon as u land on the airport in paris and geneva the first thing u notice is how serious, cold, indifferent everybdy looks.... when my sister came here the first time she told everybody looks like they're eating lemon!!! it's probably easier to get money outta people than to get a smile outta them!!


 


bleeeh

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you're not doing anything wrong


 


if you cant find a date is because people in europe (I dont want to generalize) are TOO STUCK UP!! I recently came from the USA I was there for a month, and as soon as u land on the airport in paris and geneva the first thing u notice is how serious, cold, indifferent everybdy looks.... when my sister came here the first time she told everybody looks like they're eating lemon!!! it's probably easier to get money outta people than to get a smile outta them!!


 


bleeeh


andy o, Oct 11, 2010 @ 19:13
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you're not doing anything wrong

 

if you cant find a date is because people in europe (I dont want to generalize) are TOO STUCK UP!! I recently came from the USA I was there for a month, and as soon as u land on the airport in paris and geneva the first thing u notice is how serious, cold, indifferent everybdy looks.... when my sister came here the first time she told everybody looks like they're eating lemon!!! it's probably easier to get money outta people than to get a smile outta them!!

 

bleeeh


Oct 11, 10 19:13

When I came to the US I found the politeness and smiles a bit too much and not to be taken serious. It's actually hard to find out there if someone really likes you or if it's just the standard (expected) attitude.


I do agree people could smile a bit more here and be less cold. There is a limit to both.

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When I came to the US I found the politeness and smiles a bit too much and not to be taken serious. It's actually hard to find out there if someone really likes you or if it's just the standard (expected) attitude.


I do agree people could smile a bit more here and be less cold. There is a limit to both.


ThomasNL, Oct 11, 2010 @ 19:37
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It would appear that the main problem (and this has already been touched on) is that a date here is a little bit like a holiday fling.  Neither party knows if the other one is going to leave Geneva or be made to leave (work commitments) and so there lacks a solid base for a real relationship to develop. 


Even though one person might feel committed, the other might not.  Unlike a relationship at home, the chances are that in two years time one of the parties has moved on (to another destination) anyway - so why take a relationship seriously?


Add to this the problem that if you go out with somebody of a different nationality, it is very difficult to be as close culturally as you would be with the somebody from your own country.  Speaking each other's language helps but it does not really bridge the differences.


When you speak to someone from your own country, you can usually place them very quickly and decide whether to pursue.  With people from other nationalities, it is interesting, mysterious....but all guesswork.


I do not think Geneva is different from anywhere else and the best thing is to enjoy the life Geneva offers and maybe you meet up with some like-minded soul.  If not, then you continue to enjoy the life you are leading.


Sorry to sound depressing but it is possible to have a full life in Geneva.      

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It would appear that the main problem (and this has already been touched on) is that a date here is a little bit like a holiday fling.  Neither party knows if the other one is going to leave Geneva or be made to leave (work commitments) and so there lacks a solid base for a real relationship to develop. 


Even though one person might feel committed, the other might not.  Unlike a relationship at home, the chances are that in two years time one of the parties has moved on (to another destination) anyway - so why take a relationship seriously?


Add to this the problem that if you go out with somebody of a different nationality, it is very difficult to be as close culturally as you would be with the somebody from your own country.  Speaking each other's language helps but it does not really bridge the differences.


When you speak to someone from your own country, you can usually place them very quickly and decide whether to pursue.  With people from other nationalities, it is interesting, mysterious....but all guesswork.


I do not think Geneva is different from anywhere else and the best thing is to enjoy the life Geneva offers and maybe you meet up with some like-minded soul.  If not, then you continue to enjoy the life you are leading.


Sorry to sound depressing but it is possible to have a full life in Geneva.      


Paul E, Oct 11, 2010 @ 22:30
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You hit the nail on the head Paul.

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ThomasNL, Oct 11, 2010 @ 23:04
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Jan 1, 70 01:00

Agnieszka.  To try and soften what I said - I am an exception to the rule I outlined above and you alos know that a relationship with a 'foreigner' is both rewarding and bloody difficult.  Like walking a tightrope - great if you do not fall off or the rope does not break 

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Agnieszka.  To try and soften what I said - I am an exception to the rule I outlined above and you alos know that a relationship with a 'foreigner' is both rewarding and bloody difficult.  Like walking a tightrope - great if you do not fall off or the rope does not break 


Paul E, Oct 11, 2010 @ 23:22
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Jan 1, 70 01:00

Yep,  and sometimes that light that never goes out is the headlight of the oncoming train of reality of cross-cultural relationships...


 

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Yep,  and sometimes that light that never goes out is the headlight of the oncoming train of reality of cross-cultural relationships...


 


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Seems nothing is easy ..

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britabroad, Oct 12, 2010 @ 00:57
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i never had problems with cross cultural relationships... I think the average person working in geneva is cosmopolitan enough to be able to overcome certain cultural differences.


the problem is the surrealistic expectations a lot of people have when it comes to finding potential partners


there are tons of women out there taking advise from sex and the city when it comes to searching for a potencial partner..... oh I saw sex in the city and sarah jessica parker in this situation would have blah blah blah (who cares?)


and of course, many men don't know how to communicate and come across as desperate or tacky


however it seems women are the ones with the most romanticized notion of a potential partner!!!


some of them have this disney world happily ever after image of what relationships are supposed to be like.


people forget that they need to be realistic, out going and takes risks when it comes to dating!!! 


 

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i never had problems with cross cultural relationships... I think the average person working in geneva is cosmopolitan enough to be able to overcome certain cultural differences.


the problem is the surrealistic expectations a lot of people have when it comes to finding potential partners


there are tons of women out there taking advise from sex and the city when it comes to searching for a potencial partner..... oh I saw sex in the city and sarah jessica parker in this situation would have blah blah blah (who cares?)


and of course, many men don't know how to communicate and come across as desperate or tacky


however it seems women are the ones with the most romanticized notion of a potential partner!!!


some of them have this disney world happily ever after image of what relationships are supposed to be like.


people forget that they need to be realistic, out going and takes risks when it comes to dating!!! 


 


andy o, Oct 12, 2010 @ 01:16
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I forgot to add, that the lack of realistic expectations (everyone is out to find mr.perfect or miss universe) added to the cultural closed, cold distant attitude of europeans, make it very hard for people to interact and fall in love in Europe!

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I forgot to add, that the lack of realistic expectations (everyone is out to find mr.perfect or miss universe) added to the cultural closed, cold distant attitude of europeans, make it very hard for people to interact and fall in love in Europe!


andy o, Oct 12, 2010 @ 01:22
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Morrissey = the worlds most depressed man!


Cross cultural / border relationships are both exciting and enlightening. Why stick to your own when the ocean offers up so many fish?


Most of my friends have a spouse/ or gf from a different background, or region, or country, and many of those with kids have children that speak 3 languages at least.


Supper time can be a bit firey...esp with the "latin country intermixes" but there is passion and culture from both countries on display.


Geneva offers us all an opportunity to get to know the world in our own tiny oyster shell...... take the opportunity....


(its like those who go on holiday and refuse to try the local food sticking to what they know.... ok you avoid a possible case of the shits...but wheres the excitement?)


ps To clarify Im Not comparing all relationships to a possible case of the shits....but Ive had my fair share to be honest... 

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Morrissey = the worlds most depressed man!


Cross cultural / border relationships are both exciting and enlightening. Why stick to your own when the ocean offers up so many fish?


Most of my friends have a spouse/ or gf from a different background, or region, or country, and many of those with kids have children that speak 3 languages at least.


Supper time can be a bit firey...esp with the "latin country intermixes" but there is passion and culture from both countries on display.


Geneva offers us all an opportunity to get to know the world in our own tiny oyster shell...... take the opportunity....


(its like those who go on holiday and refuse to try the local food sticking to what they know.... ok you avoid a possible case of the shits...but wheres the excitement?)


ps To clarify Im Not comparing all relationships to a possible case of the shits....but Ive had my fair share to be honest... 


Charlie, Oct 12, 2010 @ 08:19
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Dating in Geneva is fun!  But 14 years of American dating rules die hard

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Lexillent, Oct 12, 2010 @ 09:27
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Morrissey = the worlds most depressed man!

Cross cultural / border relationships are both exciting and enlightening. Why stick to your own when the ocean offers up so many fish?

Most of my friends have a spouse/ or gf from a different background, or region, or country, and many of those with kids have children that speak 3 languages at least.

Supper time can be a bit firey...esp with the "latin country intermixes" but there is passion and culture from both countries on display.

Geneva offers us all an opportunity to get to know the world in our own tiny oyster shell...... take the opportunity....

(its like those who go on holiday and refuse to try the local food sticking to what they know.... ok you avoid a possible case of the shits...but wheres the excitement?)

ps To clarify Im Not comparing all relationships to a possible case of the shits....but Ive had my fair share to be honest... 


Oct 12, 10 08:19

Charlie, you are turning me  into an  optimist... Kiss


Ok,  I'll admit that I was being entirely too cynical for all the reasons you mention.  Probably the Morrissey..


One factor people often forget is that Geneva is  a relatively small international city compared to many others, hence a somewhat smaller dating  pool.


Years ago I  was relocating to  Washington, D.C. and people said, no, don't there aren't enough men there... Undecided 


Dating  in Geneva can be fun, just keep your sense  of humor...Tongue out

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Charlie, you are turning me  into an  optimist... Kiss


Ok,  I'll admit that I was being entirely too cynical for all the reasons you mention.  Probably the Morrissey..


One factor people often forget is that Geneva is  a relatively small international city compared to many others, hence a somewhat smaller dating  pool.


Years ago I  was relocating to  Washington, D.C. and people said, no, don't there aren't enough men there... Undecided 


Dating  in Geneva can be fun, just keep your sense  of humor...Tongue out


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Dating in Geneva is fun!  But 14 years of American dating rules die hard


Oct 12, 10 09:27

You scaring them away, Lexi?  Tongue out

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haha, YES! thats exactly my intention..Keeps life easier!  You are american you know the rules ;)


ie.. You call me on friday night 8 pm.. lets go out? "No, im sorry.. I have plans"  then i sit and watch tv all night ;)

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haha, YES! thats exactly my intention..Keeps life easier!  You are american you know the rules ;)


ie.. You call me on friday night 8 pm.. lets go out? "No, im sorry.. I have plans"  then i sit and watch tv all night ;)


Lexillent, Oct 12, 2010 @ 10:40
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I believe the world's shortest fairy tale goes something like this.  The handsome prince asked the beautiful princess to marry him.  She replied 'no' and they both lived happily ever after. 

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I believe the world's shortest fairy tale goes something like this.  The handsome prince asked the beautiful princess to marry him.  She replied 'no' and they both lived happily ever after. 


Paul E, Oct 12, 2010 @ 11:55
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I believe the world's shortest fairy tale goes something like this.  The handsome prince asked the beautiful princess to marry him.  She replied 'no' and they both lived happily ever after. 


Oct 12, 10 11:55

Good to know the answer already, as I had other plans anyway.

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Good to know the answer already, as I had other plans anyway.


ThomasNL, Oct 12, 2010 @ 13:10
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Maybe the beautiful princess asked the handsome prince to marry her. !:)


 

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Maybe the beautiful princess asked the handsome prince to marry her. !:)


 


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haha, YES! thats exactly my intention..Keeps life easier!  You are american you know the rules ;)

ie.. You call me on friday night 8 pm.. lets go out? "No, im sorry.. I have plans"  then i sit and watch tv all night ;)


Oct 12, 10 10:40

Is that an American rule of dating? Bizarre..and quite sad


...but probably explains alot....


 


 


 

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Is that an American rule of dating? Bizarre..and quite sad


...but probably explains alot....


 


 


 


Charlie, Oct 12, 2010 @ 13:46
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Just don't wait too long ladies or you might end up like this:



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Just don't wait too long ladies or you might end up like this:


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Maybe the beautiful princess asked the handsome prince to marry her. !:)

 


Oct 12, 10 13:40

Good idea but it would no t work.  As his brain would be probably be situated between hi slegs and she was beautiful, he would of course said yes and it would nmo longer be a fairy tale as the ending would not be happy

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Good idea but it would no t work.  As his brain would be probably be situated between hi slegs and she was beautiful, he would of course said yes and it would nmo longer be a fairy tale as the ending would not be happy


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Good idea but it would no t work.  As his brain would be probably be situated between hi slegs and she was beautiful, he would of course said yes and it would nmo longer be a fairy tale as the ending would not be happy


Oct 12, 10 13:58

In the settlement, she'd get his castle, a nice slice of his 401(k), and 30% of his pre-tax income for the next 18 years.  She'd get to live in said castle along with her new boyfriend.  It'd be a perfectly happy ending.  For her.

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In the settlement, she'd get his castle, a nice slice of his 401(k), and 30% of his pre-tax income for the next 18 years.  She'd get to live in said castle along with her new boyfriend.  It'd be a perfectly happy ending.  For her.


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In the settlement, she'd get his castle, a nice slice of his 401(k), and 30% of his pre-tax income for the next 18 years.  She'd get to live in said castle along with her new boyfriend.  It'd be a perfectly happy ending.  For her.


Oct 12, 10 14:07

Im a "buyer" at 30%...who was his lawyer...I want him...

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In the settlement, she'd get his castle, a nice slice of his 401(k), and 30% of his pre-tax income for the next 18 years.  She'd get to live in said castle along with her new boyfriend.  It'd be a perfectly happy ending.  For her.


Oct 12, 10 14:07

So I change rewrite the fairy tale and make it a feminist one.  'The beautiful princess asked the prince to marry him.  His brain said yes and she lived happily everafter'.  It is two words less than the original version.  Hope nobody jumps on the f... word 

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So I change rewrite the fairy tale and make it a feminist one.  'The beautiful princess asked the prince to marry him.  His brain said yes and she lived happily everafter'.  It is two words less than the original version.  Hope nobody jumps on the f... word 


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In the settlement, she'd get his castle, a nice slice of his 401(k), and 30% of his pre-tax income for the next 18 years.  She'd get to live in said castle along with her new boyfriend.  It'd be a perfectly happy ending.  For her.


Oct 12, 10 14:07

Yes, for her, as she would have earned every single penny for having lived with him....Wink

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Yes, for her, as she would have earned every single penny for having lived with him....Wink


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Charlie: I buy at 35%!


 

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yawn ! Nir , dont forget your vows!


And Date scene ! hmm to be honest I prefer to go to a bar and see 20 men and get one for the night rather than wear my make up and my dress and be this and that and date a guy for three days and then he goes away or I get bored or we may get married and have kids and then I get bored and then bored and bored and bored and bored! God I am bored even now !


And I dont know what a date is . What do you call a date ? Coffee , tea  kiss, messaging , realtionship   ?


party dance alcohol vomit wild sex ?

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yawn ! Nir , dont forget your vows!


And Date scene ! hmm to be honest I prefer to go to a bar and see 20 men and get one for the night rather than wear my make up and my dress and be this and that and date a guy for three days and then he goes away or I get bored or we may get married and have kids and then I get bored and then bored and bored and bored and bored! God I am bored even now !


And I dont know what a date is . What do you call a date ? Coffee , tea  kiss, messaging , realtionship   ?


party dance alcohol vomit wild sex ?


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Hmm Farz... Let's see what options we have. You already said party, dance alcohol, vomit, wild sex. I hope you can keep that in the right order or else things might turnout rather nasty.


Like: party, dance, alcohol, wild vomit sex


No thanks......


Tongue out

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Hmm Farz... Let's see what options we have. You already said party, dance alcohol, vomit, wild sex. I hope you can keep that in the right order or else things might turnout rather nasty.


Like: party, dance, alcohol, wild vomit sex


No thanks......


Tongue out


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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3O2W18RE6nI

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lyndsey j, Oct 12, 2010 @ 15:27
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Coffee , tea  kiss, messaging , realtionship   ?  party dance alcohol vomit wild sex ?


Is this a menu?  I'll take the sampler platter, hold the coffee.

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Coffee , tea  kiss, messaging , realtionship   ?  party dance alcohol vomit wild sex ?


Is this a menu?  I'll take the sampler platter, hold the coffee.


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yawn ! Nir , dont forget your vows!

And Date scene ! hmm to be honest I prefer to go to a bar and see 20 men and get one for the night rather than wear my make up and my dress and be this and that and date a guy for three days and then he goes away or I get bored or we may get married and have kids and then I get bored and then bored and bored and bored and bored! God I am bored even now !

And I dont know what a date is . What do you call a date ? Coffee , tea  kiss, messaging , realtionship   ?

party dance alcohol vomit wild sex ?


Oct 12, 10 14:54

crikey Tongue out

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Charlie, Oct 12, 2010 @ 16:07
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wow... meaty... no pun intended...


i have had dates that lasted 20 mins,no shows, then dates that lasted... well, a bit longer..


to me a date is a drink/dinner... not cinema... that's lame, why sit in a dark room for 2 and a bit hours, if you want that date a photographer...


 

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wow... meaty... no pun intended...


i have had dates that lasted 20 mins,no shows, then dates that lasted... well, a bit longer..


to me a date is a drink/dinner... not cinema... that's lame, why sit in a dark room for 2 and a bit hours, if you want that date a photographer...


 


lyndsey j, Oct 12, 2010 @ 16:12
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Sit in a dark room and watch a movie????


I know lots of other things you can do in a darkroom Laughing

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Sit in a dark room and watch a movie????


I know lots of other things you can do in a darkroom Laughing


Arnovd, Oct 12, 2010 @ 16:18
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wow... meaty... no pun intended...

i have had dates that lasted 20 mins,no shows, then dates that lasted... well, a bit longer..

to me a date is a drink/dinner... not cinema... that's lame, why sit in a dark room for 2 and a bit hours, if you want that date a photographer...

 


Oct 12, 10 16:12

If only you knew just what goes on in that dark room, Lynds...  Cool

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If only you knew just what goes on in that dark room, Lynds...  Cool


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lights on...lights off....


Depends really ... prefer the "lights on" types...although the "lights off" types tend to be more grateful...

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lights on...lights off....


Depends really ... prefer the "lights on" types...although the "lights off" types tend to be more grateful...


Charlie, Oct 12, 2010 @ 16:26
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lights on...lights off....

Depends really ... prefer the "lights on" types...although the "lights off" types tend to be more grateful...


Oct 12, 10 16:26

That literally made me spit out my wine when I laughed.. and yes i know its 4 in the afternoon.. dont judge

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That literally made me spit out my wine when I laughed.. and yes i know its 4 in the afternoon.. dont judge


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I would just say, turn off your mind, follow your feelings, it's not gonna be a war, though today people is so egocentryc that always are scared of the pain. Life is life, no need for too many startegies.......

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I would just say, turn off your mind, follow your feelings, it's not gonna be a war, though today people is so egocentryc that always are scared of the pain. Life is life, no need for too many startegies.......


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oh my...


i'm quite sure i don't know what you mean...


can someone draw me a diaphragm....


i mean.. diagram!

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oh my...


i'm quite sure i don't know what you mean...


can someone draw me a diaphragm....


i mean.. diagram!


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lights on...lights off....

Depends really ... prefer the "lights on" types...although the "lights off" types tend to be more grateful...


Oct 12, 10 16:26

Grateful because they don't have to look at you during the act?Wink

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Grateful because they don't have to look at you during the act?Wink


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Grateful because they don't have to look at you during the act?Wink


Oct 12, 10 16:52

probably...

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probably...


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Jan 1, 70 01:00

Of course its a rule.. I was taught a man will treat you as bad as you allow him.. so if you say no when he calls last minute.. perhaps he will plan a little better and not think you are some pathetic girl sitting at home waiting for a friday night invite.  Who knows though? I am just saying these are the things young girls are taught =)

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Of course its a rule.. I was taught a man will treat you as bad as you allow him.. so if you say no when he calls last minute.. perhaps he will plan a little better and not think you are some pathetic girl sitting at home waiting for a friday night invite.  Who knows though? I am just saying these are the things young girls are taught =)


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The idea that a woman would eat before she went out to dinner just to not be hungry is just a shade bizzare.


Nothing wrong with liking to eat.  Now, dropping your face down into your plate and wolfing the food down might be a bit over the top, but that's not gender specific.

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The idea that a woman would eat before she went out to dinner just to not be hungry is just a shade bizzare.


Nothing wrong with liking to eat.  Now, dropping your face down into your plate and wolfing the food down might be a bit over the top, but that's not gender specific.


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In the settlement, she'd get his castle, a nice slice of his 401(k), and 30% of his pre-tax income for the next 18 years.  She'd get to live in said castle along with her new boyfriend.  It'd be a perfectly happy ending.  For her.


Oct 12, 10 14:07

Two words: Life insurance. Accumulated capital unaffected* by said event ;)


 


*says the pros. I'm not such a pro. This isn't legal advice, nor the US :)

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Two words: Life insurance. Accumulated capital unaffected* by said event ;)


 


*says the pros. I'm not such a pro. This isn't legal advice, nor the US :)


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Exactly nothing makes me feel special more than being second choice or last moment.. YES! i cant wait to go out with you.. 

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Exactly nothing makes me feel special more than being second choice or last moment.. YES! i cant wait to go out with you.. 


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Of course its a rule.. I was taught a man will treat you as bad as you allow him.. so if you say no when he calls last minute.. perhaps he will plan a little better and not think you are some pathetic girl sitting at home waiting for a friday night invite.  Who knows though? I am just saying these are the things young girls are taught =)


Oct 12, 10 17:27

so the "treat em mean keep em keen" bit doesnt work?


aww crap.


 


Although I would try and honestly plan a tad further ahead than 30 mins before....


(otherwise there's a risk of getting into the "lights off" realms of the little black telephone book.)

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so the "treat em mean keep em keen" bit doesnt work?


aww crap.


 


Although I would try and honestly plan a tad further ahead than 30 mins before....


(otherwise there's a risk of getting into the "lights off" realms of the little black telephone book.)


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Hmmmm... interesting discussion you've got going on here.


"Last minute" doesn't necessarily mean second choice. It could just be nerves on the guy's part, working up the courage to ask you out... or it could be something else, work, prior commitments, etc.


Besides, I think it only "hurts" being second choice if you're into the guy. Otherwise, it shouldn't really matter, should it? I mean, you hang with friends just because... it could be planned a week ahead or last minute "Hey, wanna hang out tonight?" without any real strings attached.

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Hmmmm... interesting discussion you've got going on here.


"Last minute" doesn't necessarily mean second choice. It could just be nerves on the guy's part, working up the courage to ask you out... or it could be something else, work, prior commitments, etc.


Besides, I think it only "hurts" being second choice if you're into the guy. Otherwise, it shouldn't really matter, should it? I mean, you hang with friends just because... it could be planned a week ahead or last minute "Hey, wanna hang out tonight?" without any real strings attached.


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well i dont think it makes a difference to be the last or the second choice , I think we should do whatever we want to do  without following the rules! yeah not crossing the red lights though cause that may harm you and people around you !


and a dark room is a brilliant idea for people in Geneva, they wont remember each other the day after ! hooooray !

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well i dont think it makes a difference to be the last or the second choice , I think we should do whatever we want to do  without following the rules! yeah not crossing the red lights though cause that may harm you and people around you !


and a dark room is a brilliant idea for people in Geneva, they wont remember each other the day after ! hooooray !


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oh my...

i'm quite sure i don't know what you mean...

can someone draw me a diaphragm....

i mean.. diagram!


Oct 12, 10 16:35

FerneyL draws a circle.

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FerneyL draws a circle.


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Of course its a rule.. I was taught a man will treat you as bad as you allow him.. so if you say no when he calls last minute.. perhaps he will plan a little better and not think you are some pathetic girl sitting at home waiting for a friday night invite.  Who knows though? I am just saying these are the things young girls are taught =)


Oct 12, 10 17:27

There's perfect world and then there's reality.  In reality, circumstances beyond his control might have made him unexpectedly free on that particular evening.  Be thankful that he called you and not someone else.  In the age of e-mail, texting, and facebook, we have a lot of options.

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There's perfect world and then there's reality.  In reality, circumstances beyond his control might have made him unexpectedly free on that particular evening.  Be thankful that he called you and not someone else.  In the age of e-mail, texting, and facebook, we have a lot of options.


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There's perfect world and then there's reality.  In reality, circumstances beyond his control might have made him unexpectedly free on that particular evening.  Be thankful that he called you and not someone else.  In the age of e-mail, texting, and facebook, we have a lot of options.


Oct 12, 10 18:49

"Be thankful....we have a lot of options."  Boy, that's the sound of one hand clapping.... Wink

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"Be thankful....we have a lot of options."  Boy, that's the sound of one hand clapping.... Wink


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"Be thankful....we have a lot of options."  Boy, that's the sound of one hand clapping.... Wink


Oct 12, 10 20:35

HHHHHHHHHAHAH

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HHHHHHHHHAHAH


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Dammnit safari, igot cut off.. If you boys think you have a lot of options what do you think that means for us? I'm willing to bet a girls options are two to one over a mans

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Dammnit safari, igot cut off.. If you boys think you have a lot of options what do you think that means for us? I'm willing to bet a girls options are two to one over a mans


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Dammnit safari, igot cut off.. If you boys think you have a lot of options what do you think that means for us? I'm willing to bet a girls options are two to one over a mans


Oct 12, 10 21:00

Baby, you got that right!  And we're talking quality as well as quanitity...Tongue out

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Baby, you got that right!  And we're talking quality as well as quanitity...Tongue out


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Dammnit safari, igot cut off.. If you boys think you have a lot of options what do you think that means for us? I'm willing to bet a girls options are two to one over a mans


Oct 12, 10 21:00

Depends on the age.  There are enough men my age who are coupled with women your age (and younger) that it unbalances the dating market.  It creates an oversupply of 30's women, an undersupply of 20's women, an oversupply of 20's men, and an undersupply of 30's men.


Read this.  I'm willing to date women in my peer group and I can promise you that I'm not lacking in choice.

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Depends on the age.  There are enough men my age who are coupled with women your age (and younger) that it unbalances the dating market.  It creates an oversupply of 30's women, an undersupply of 20's women, an oversupply of 20's men, and an undersupply of 30's men.


Read this.  I'm willing to date women in my peer group and I can promise you that I'm not lacking in choice.


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Depends on the age.  There are enough men my age who are coupled with women your age (and younger) that it unbalances the dating market.  It creates an oversupply of 30's women, an undersupply of 20's women, an oversupply of 20's men, and an undersupply of 30's men.

Read this.  I'm willing to date women in my peer group and I can promise you that I'm not lacking in choice.


Oct 12, 10 22:04

Your "calculation" is based upon faulty premises.... Lexi and others in her peer group  can choose from men in both those groups as well as those gentlemen in their 40s, 50s, and even 60s....  Cool   


 


 

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Your "calculation" is based upon faulty premises.... Lexi and others in her peer group  can choose from men in both those groups as well as those gentlemen in their 40s, 50s, and even 60s....  Cool   


 


 


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Your "calculation" is based upon faulty premises.... Lexi and others in her peer group  can choose from men in both those groups as well as those gentlemen in their 40s, 50s, and even 60s....  Cool   

 

 


Oct 12, 10 22:28

Yes, and so can I.  What's your point?

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Yes, and so can I.  What's your point?


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"Redefine what a woman truly is and retrain men to appreciate it. You can’t have it both ways."


We truly appreciate the men who can think for themselves and who don't need  to be retrained.  Just as you appreciate women who don't date you for the size of your.....wallet or your six-pack.Smile


 

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"Redefine what a woman truly is and retrain men to appreciate it. You can’t have it both ways."


We truly appreciate the men who can think for themselves and who don't need  to be retrained.  Just as you appreciate women who don't date you for the size of your.....wallet or your six-pack.Smile


 


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yawn ! Nir , dont forget your vows!

And Date scene ! hmm to be honest I prefer to go to a bar and see 20 men and get one for the night rather than wear my make up and my dress and be this and that and date a guy for three days and then he goes away or I get bored or we may get married and have kids and then I get bored and then bored and bored and bored and bored! God I am bored even now !

And I dont know what a date is . What do you call a date ? Coffee , tea  kiss, messaging , realtionship   ?

party dance alcohol vomit wild sex ?


Oct 12, 10 14:54

Hi farz,


in KIRIBATI we have the perfect definition of dating.

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Hi farz,


in KIRIBATI we have the perfect definition of dating.


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Infographic from www.theonion.com


October 6, 2010



Fewer Young Americans Marrying

According to the Population Reference Bureau, the proportion of Americans age 25 to 34 who have never been married went up from 35 percent to 46 percent between 2000 and 2009. Here are some of the reasons young people are no longer marrying:



Perfect church to get married in completely booked up until 2018;
Roommates not cool with adding wife to the mix;
All the good ideas for wedding-based viral videos have been taken;
Every single remaining young person unattractive;
Can still f--k, cook meals, and watch movies together without a piece of paper;
Fear of spending, on average, $19,581 on something that has a 52 percent chance of failure;
Jeremy:
Only videographer in town also ex-girlfriend:
More fun to wait until 35 or older, when procreating becomes a thrilling gamble;




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Infographic from www.theonion.com


October 6, 2010



Fewer Young Americans Marrying

According to the Population Reference Bureau, the proportion of Americans age 25 to 34 who have never been married went up from 35 percent to 46 percent between 2000 and 2009. Here are some of the reasons young people are no longer marrying:



Perfect church to get married in completely booked up until 2018;
Roommates not cool with adding wife to the mix;
All the good ideas for wedding-based viral videos have been taken;
Every single remaining young person unattractive;
Can still f--k, cook meals, and watch movies together without a piece of paper;
Fear of spending, on average, $19,581 on something that has a 52 percent chance of failure;
Jeremy:
Only videographer in town also ex-girlfriend:
More fun to wait until 35 or older, when procreating becomes a thrilling gamble;





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translator: the fifth constitution is shocking but awfuly true

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translator: the fifth constitution is shocking but awfuly true


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There's perfect world and then there's reality.  In reality, circumstances beyond his control might have made him unexpectedly free on that particular evening.  Be thankful that he called you and not someone else.  In the age of e-mail, texting, and facebook, we have a lot of options.


Oct 12, 10 18:49

Excuse me? ;) "Be thankful that he called you" ?!? BWAHAHAHAHA!!! Thanks for making me have a good laugh ;) 


ohkay.....


Girls have MUCH better things to do than sitting around waiting and being thankful, thats a waste of our precious time. Its actually possible to get asked out on hot dates with great guys even when filling gas on your car these days ;)

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Excuse me? ;) "Be thankful that he called you" ?!? BWAHAHAHAHA!!! Thanks for making me have a good laugh ;) 


ohkay.....


Girls have MUCH better things to do than sitting around waiting and being thankful, thats a waste of our precious time. Its actually possible to get asked out on hot dates with great guys even when filling gas on your car these days ;)


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Infographic from www.theonion.com

October 6, 2010

Fewer Young Americans Marrying

According to the Population Reference Bureau, the proportion of Americans age 25 to 34 who have never been married went up from 35 percent to 46 percent between 2000 and 2009. Here are some of the reasons young people are no longer marrying:

Perfect church to get married in completely booked up until 2018; Roommates not cool with adding wife to the mix; All the good ideas for wedding-based viral videos have been taken; Every single remaining young person unattractive; Can still f--k, cook meals, and watch movies together without a piece of paper; Fear of spending, on average, $19,581 on something that has a 52 percent chance of failure; Jeremy: Only videographer in town also ex-girlfriend: More fun to wait until 35 or older, when procreating becomes a thrilling gamble;


Oct 13, 10 01:48

This was a good read, thanks for sharing :)

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This was a good read, thanks for sharing :)


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well... why not?!

ok... actually, i can think of a million reasons but don't let that put you off ;)

the positives are...

1) i guarantee to have a better movie selection than you,

2) i will definitely be super competitive and also attempt any game on the games console of your choice, the bloodier, the better.

3) I love whiskey..

4) your friends will like me.. failing that, i will happily pimp out hot female friends to bribe and buy their affection

5) i enjoy playing pool

6) i will, most likely, be ready before you on a night out

7) i will tell you as it is.. sugar coating is best kept for M & Ms

8) your mother definitely will not like me, but that's ok cause i'm not gonna blame you for this...no nagging required

9) i can get the lid off my own jam jars

10) during football games not only will i not speak, i will inflict pain on anyone who attempts to speak/play with remote or distract me from said game..

11) my comebacks are the stuff of legends...

so... the question is... where and when?!

Basically i am very intrigued by the dating scene... people want one thing, then do another... girls are told to eat BEFORE going out for food on a 1st date so as not to appear greedy and a million other BS rules which ultimately have us (and i mean both sexes) playing other people and ultimately defeating the purpose of being loved for who we are...

what are we really looking for?? the act or the reality....


Sep 27, 10 14:18

Congrats Lynds on another successful post and also love your list, soooo - want to go on a date? ;) xoxo

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Congrats Lynds on another successful post and also love your list, soooo - want to go on a date? ;) xoxo


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Jan 1, 70 01:00

Just know that when you plan ahead trying to make out the logistics for multiple dates, so does the girl.....

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Just know that when you plan ahead trying to make out the logistics for multiple dates, so does the girl.....


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Jan 1, 70 01:00

"*For real" what Mr.? Please feel free to elaborate ;)

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"*For real" what Mr.? Please feel free to elaborate ;)


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Just know that when you plan ahead trying to make out the logistics for multiple dates, so does the girl.....


Oct 13, 10 07:34

why, the sneaky conivving double standarded cheating backstabbing two faced ....etc etc.... women. I had no idea... dammit.


Never trust 'em as far as you can throw them...... and unless youre into dating dwarves, its pretty hard to throw a woman any distance...trust me.


Im off to rethink my trust levels...


 


"mutter mutter mumble mumble"...(scratching head)...


 


 

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why, the sneaky conivving double standarded cheating backstabbing two faced ....etc etc.... women. I had no idea... dammit.


Never trust 'em as far as you can throw them...... and unless youre into dating dwarves, its pretty hard to throw a woman any distance...trust me.


Im off to rethink my trust levels...


 


"mutter mutter mumble mumble"...(scratching head)...


 


 


Charlie, Oct 13, 2010 @ 10:21
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Ahahahahaha :) yeah....Sorry to burst your bubble Charlie ;)


And try not to throw anyone today, ok?

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Ahahahahaha :) yeah....Sorry to burst your bubble Charlie ;)


And try not to throw anyone today, ok?


Elisabeth Aaroe, Oct 13, 2010 @ 10:35
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my bubble is well and truely burst... sob sob...


 


Now off to go sling some random female dwarves into hedges......

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my bubble is well and truely burst... sob sob...


 


Now off to go sling some random female dwarves into hedges......


Charlie, Oct 13, 2010 @ 11:23
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Héhé...Priceless.... :)


"Now off to go sling some random female dwarves into hedges....."

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Héhé...Priceless.... :)


"Now off to go sling some random female dwarves into hedges....."


Elisabeth Aaroe, Oct 13, 2010 @ 11:45
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my bubble is well and truely burst... sob sob...

 

Now off to go sling some random female dwarves into hedges......


Oct 13, 10 11:23

if you can't sling them off, try being a bit more cunning with the sling...


 




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if you can't sling them off, try being a bit more cunning with the sling...


 





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ouch ....that did not look pleasant :)

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ouch ....that did not look pleasant :)


Elisabeth Aaroe, Oct 13, 2010 @ 13:45
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AT LAST Elisabeth...


someone i may consider dating... we have already had drinks and dinner... several times.. your place or mine ;)


 


xx

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AT LAST Elisabeth...


someone i may consider dating... we have already had drinks and dinner... several times.. your place or mine ;)


 


xx


lyndsey j, Oct 13, 2010 @ 16:22
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Excuse me? ;) "Be thankful that he called you" ?!? BWAHAHAHAHA!!! Thanks for making me have a good laugh ;) 

ohkay.....

Girls have MUCH better things to do than sitting around waiting and being thankful, thats a waste of our precious time. Its actually possible to get asked out on hot dates with great guys even when filling gas on your car these days ;)


Oct 13, 10 07:03

Be thankful that you possess this capability.  When the hot guy at the gas station recognizes the entitlement complex and the lack of humility and acts accordingly, you'll find yourself needing to leverage this talent over and over again.

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Be thankful that you possess this capability.  When the hot guy at the gas station recognizes the entitlement complex and the lack of humility and acts accordingly, you'll find yourself needing to leverage this talent over and over again.


richardm, Oct 13, 2010 @ 16:52
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Ehehehehe! Yay, it’s a date Lyndsey ! :)

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Elisabeth Aaroe, Oct 13, 2010 @ 17:01
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Be thankful that you possess this capability.  When the hot guy at the gas station recognizes the entitlement complex and the lack of humility and acts accordingly, you'll find yourself needing to leverage this talent over and over again.


Oct 13, 10 16:52

Ouch ;) eheheh! Oh really and what do you really know about that except some random critical lines on what I consider to be bad statements on public forums ? Well I'll just start hanging around the gas stations then... since you obviously know everything about me and my life ;)

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Ouch ;) eheheh! Oh really and what do you really know about that except some random critical lines on what I consider to be bad statements on public forums ? Well I'll just start hanging around the gas stations then... since you obviously know everything about me and my life ;)


Elisabeth Aaroe, Oct 13, 2010 @ 17:18
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Can i come too Elisabeth?


i need a good fuel injection ;)

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Can i come too Elisabeth?


i need a good fuel injection ;)


lyndsey j, Oct 17, 2010 @ 14:08
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Can i come too Elisabeth?

i need a good fuel injection ;)


Oct 17, 10 14:08

Is that a euphamism?  ;D

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Is that a euphamism?  ;D


Deanna H, Oct 17, 2010 @ 14:15
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very much so

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very much so


lyndsey j, Oct 17, 2010 @ 18:19
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almost a year on and still nothing has changed.. except some heartache and some lessons learned


damn it... maybe i should have taken some of the advice herein :p


 

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almost a year on and still nothing has changed.. except some heartache and some lessons learned


damn it... maybe i should have taken some of the advice herein :p


 


lyndsey j, Aug 25, 2011 @ 11:39
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This thread is kinda entertaining Cool

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This thread is kinda entertaining Cool


Demetrio V, Aug 25, 2011 @ 14:12
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I would not think you are doing anything wrong :) Like the wrong guy I was going out told me " You are great girl but you have been going out with wrong guys" Guess what, I left him at the same night and I stoped looking and then I Found my ideal man (been friends for 6 years) front of my house and realised thats HIM the one I always weel good with ! So stop looking guys and stop looking for mistakes in you goz you are perfect just guys on your road are perfect for some other women then you ;)

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I would not think you are doing anything wrong :) Like the wrong guy I was going out told me " You are great girl but you have been going out with wrong guys" Guess what, I left him at the same night and I stoped looking and then I Found my ideal man (been friends for 6 years) front of my house and realised thats HIM the one I always weel good with ! So stop looking guys and stop looking for mistakes in you goz you are perfect just guys on your road are perfect for some other women then you ;)


Merike, Aug 25, 2011 @ 14:32
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how did this thread rare its ugly head again...Lynds... I thought you were Mrs Blissful... how things change

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how did this thread rare its ugly head again...Lynds... I thought you were Mrs Blissful... how things change


Charlie, Aug 25, 2011 @ 15:10
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I think this turned out to be one of the funniest (and enlightening) posts I've seen on glocals...

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I think this turned out to be one of the funniest (and enlightening) posts I've seen on glocals...


Yaron Ofek, Aug 25, 2011 @ 15:21
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thank you Yaron, that was the inention


a little bit tongue in cheek but some valid and interesting contributions too


i think i should start a dating site by doing exactly the opposite to what i do in relationships


its clearly the key to success


 

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thank you Yaron, that was the inention


a little bit tongue in cheek but some valid and interesting contributions too


i think i should start a dating site by doing exactly the opposite to what i do in relationships


its clearly the key to success


 


lyndsey j, Aug 25, 2011 @ 15:33
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i was Charlie, then i wasn't


 


c'est la vie...


 

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i was Charlie, then i wasn't


 


c'est la vie...


 


lyndsey j, Aug 25, 2011 @ 15:34
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Yaron:


It is not polite to laugh at those who are un-fortunante. Show some compassion man!


Lyndz:


You know I jest matey. My date stories would make yours look like a dream honeymoon.


Nir


 

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Yaron:


It is not polite to laugh at those who are un-fortunante. Show some compassion man!


Lyndz:


You know I jest matey. My date stories would make yours look like a dream honeymoon.


Nir


 


Nir Ofek, Aug 25, 2011 @ 15:30
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I know Nir.. don't worry :)


 


i have learned some very important and tough lessons through my last relationship eneding VERY recently and i know now what needs fixing,


 


its just tough when you go from thinking you have it all to wanting to run away


 

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I know Nir.. don't worry :)


 


i have learned some very important and tough lessons through my last relationship eneding VERY recently and i know now what needs fixing,


 


its just tough when you go from thinking you have it all to wanting to run away


 


lyndsey j, Aug 25, 2011 @ 15:39
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or, wanting to run away, and then thinking you have it all Tongue out


to paraphrase your compatriot robbie burns,


"there is no greater gift he gee us, then to see ourselves as others see us"

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or, wanting to run away, and then thinking you have it all Tongue out


to paraphrase your compatriot robbie burns,


"there is no greater gift he gee us, then to see ourselves as others see us"


epicure, Aug 25, 2011 @ 16:44
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thanks for that roger


im a bit homesick today :)

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thanks for that roger


im a bit homesick today :)


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almost a year on and still nothing has changed.. except some heartache and some lessons learned

damn it... maybe i should have taken some of the advice herein :p

 


Aug 25, 11 11:39

Always learn from your mistakes, so you can enjoy making new ones.


*Hug*

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Always learn from your mistakes, so you can enjoy making new ones.


*Hug*


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