To be honest, this is nothing more than a giggle.. I'm in a meeting and noticing how many people are interested in the word "dating" and who view but don't post...

come on people...

any dating advice/info?

x

i organised a singles event, i think people are breaver when behind a computer screen... i don't bite... much!

x

yeah, there's one on route de carouge. i think it's number 14 but you'd have to check that. the tram number 23 stops right outside anyway. 

I am surprised people didn't show up. Try, try again?

..or did people show up but not seem social?

lost me?

x

this is a socializing website, and dating is just some particular way of socializing, right? :-)

aw, man, i posted in the wrong thread. how embarrassing! 

anyway, yeah, it has to go for a safety inspection bi-annually. in french it's called the controle periodique but i don't know the equivalent in german. they send out a letter about two months in advance and the price is 70 chuffs. they do the usual safety things: breaks, lights, shocks, bodywork, wipers, etc. the test is quite tough compared to other countries. 

best of luck and i hope this helps! 

Do they have nice female employees?

Woman that know their way around tools, I find quite attractive.

Maybe you can invite them to the next singles meeting Lyndsey?

pffft, roflolol! 

i started replying to the other post but stopped when this landed in my inbox. women and tools is about the best name i can think of for a glocals singles event. 

date? what? jesus h christ, what's wrong with this forum today? ODED, get on it, man!

anyway. it works best under firefox, but others use IE and Opera with varying degrees of success. I use Chrome and, aside from some issues with the back button, it behaves OK. have you tried deleting the cookies and clearing the cache, that sometimes helps. otherwise contact glocals member bonkerz, he know all about this stuff. 

well i work in a bar and can offer free shots for dutch courage...

oh i see an idea forming...

seriously though, i'm not the worst catch ever.. what's with all the men with baggage?!

I see a series forming:

1. Women with tools

2. Men with baggage

men behaving badly?!

Attracting the wrong men?

all too often yes Thomas

I'm happy I don't have that problem..

you always meet the right men :P

lyndsey j, i love you. just date me.

Oh arin sweetie... best offer i have ever had...

DONE ;)

lets do drinks... this sat night, my work, im working but we can hit the town after?

xx

come on boys... whats the deal...

lots of lovely ladies out there, some even buy a drink back :P

what's holding you all back?

x

what's holding you all back?

get a trolley!

<charlie>i'm trolleyed already</charlie>

too easy.... and that's just the men on here :P

WANTED: Sweet lady to carry my baggage.

that was a joke before the ear bashings start x

Spotted this today....  Very timely information for the aspiring Glocals Lothario. 

that's just the woman on here, generalising all men...

lyndsey-

saturday, yes. PS. OPEN DATE. which means the rest of yall should come too and buy the lovely bartender a drink. trust me on this, she's lovelier (slash, sexier) in person

do u work on fridays? i want to go clubbing (as usual...)

Arin, are you *sure* lyndsey wants the date to be open? I think you have to wait until at least the third date to propose inviting other people along ;)

Well basically what is holding me back is fear of losing my valuable glocals membership, especially my "thanked 19 times" count which proves that I am a valuable member.

Now, it is true that so far I have been reported to Oded by Tuuli and Jay_T, but this is actually for *not* asking them out.

However, I can't take the risk that if I ask a woman out on here I will get further reported. I mean, I am pretty sure it's three strikes and you're out.

Sorry lyndsey, it could have been soooo amazing... ;-)

sorry was out for lunch ...what did i miss?

Ahh yes.. i get it...fuggers, tease me when Im not here huh?

rewengie shall be mine, oh yes...

Is it kind of a trap and then you will report us all after??? :)

Darn you Lindsey!

I was making an guess in the last epic thread that it would take 2 months for next dating topic! How wrong I was when it in reality took whopping 15h :)

pnaik-

reported? seriously? wow i hope you're kidding.

some people on glocals just need to take a chill pill

i wont ask why Lyndsey hasnt sent me any messages... thats just inviting more trouble, so it is, och ay the noo, up yer kilt etc

Dirrrty!

No need to make the admins extra aware of my sneaky comments, now is there?

; )

yes... see I have not yet been outsmarted :)

Well I don't see how I could have been reported for not asking them out, but you'll have to ask Tuuli and Jay_T :)

Ahahaha ! ;)

Héhé this thread is highly entertaining, just sayin'

No time for lunch here Charlie !

It was my 1st lunch appt for months Lis... now feeling sleepy....

Hayes try explaining "tools" to non-brits - good luck with that

(though I know if there's one person who can do it politely, it is you ... and if there's one person who won't worry about doing it politely, it is you :-)

tools = pricks FYI in English slang...

very rude and I obviously disapprove...

It appears your hint was not taken up but then... wait this is not a d....g site.  Can we get Joe Buck involved in this one

Yeah yeah lunches are tough, it's a hard life ;)

I thought a prick was what you got when you did not use a thimble

that depends on what you do with the thimble, i guess. 

Are you suggesting "thimbles" are good protection against being ass raped?

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=thimble

Did Charlie fall asleep after lunch or is he trying to manipulate a thimble?

Paul dude...you could have given a NSFW tag to that.... the word scrotum made me gag.

I meant Catalin...Sorry.. was too busy gipping to read properly.

In the words of the great George Carlin: "You can prick your finger, but don't finger your prick!"

@lyndsey great thread, much more entertaining and not as "heavy" as the previous dating, i mean not-dating, thread. but, did i understand you correctly, you're buying all the guys a drink? ;) Sign me up.

Yeah I'd like to join Saturday, don't remember the adress of the bar so pls post that in case it's happening ;)

Can it be hot chocolate, in relation to the thread on good swiss chocolate? I can't find the reference to buying drinks... 

I think I'll save the hot chocolate for the winter season ;)

Post ski/snowboard or post snowshoeing? 

Post skiing off piste ;)

Has this topic just made you impatient for the ski season to start then? I've only been skiing once in the last decade, switched to snowboarding for a few years. I need to get used to carving skies now. Not so easy. 

Love this thread, good fun !

yay it's a partay =)

Nah winter can wait a few more months, had some good skiing when I arrived in March, April and May and am enjoying summer at the moment!

Carving skiis should be ok to switch from snowboard, you'll be ok am sure. And the carving skiis they make now are easy to ski with.

Yay =)

HAHAHA ARIN... ELISABETH.. WHAT day are we organising this for?

im working friday night and saturday night but i am in the need for some mejor michief...

i can close my bar early-ish and we can all just have a really informal night, its needed!

anyone game?

xx

Saturday,

irish bar, 3 gorgeous ladies in attendance (the bar maid has her pre-beer goggles on and is looking in the mirror)

should i make an activity... in fact, anyone else interested can make an activity... im too tired...

da vincis irish bar

7 rue de grenus Geneva....

come on come all,

Xx

Zonker, first drink is on you ;) x

LOL! 

Friday or Sat and informal sounds good bb ;) Looking forward to catching up!

And I certainly will not mix vodka and champagne this time :P

xx

oh come on lady....

im thinking dresses and heels...

possibly.. depends how i feel after my shift :)

xx

LOL gotcha, heels it is ;)

We'll see what happens, fun just hanging out in your bar chatting too ;)

Can you gals tell this chicken to what kinda club your path might lead?

Hehe! Not sure if chickens are allowed entrance ?!? ;)

No idea, starting point would be Lyndsey's bar ?

hmm club,,, how about shakers... ah who knows...

shakers, psycho.. anyone any preferences... x

'da vincis'  Irish bar?

Only in Geneva! Must be related to Lé 'o' nard  or his distant cousin michel 'o' angel.

Ive been away too long.

Haven't been to Shakers, do prefer Java to Psycho ;)

haha Java it is.... let the mocking commence ...

i am taking no responsibility for this night, im gonna ne the tipsy blonde groping the ladies and making sarcastic comments... just a normal day in the life of a scottish girls

and YES Charlie, i did mean to say girls ;)

xx

dresses and heels. yes.

anywhere but shakers and psycho is good...haha oh and X out la sip too.

let's do friday! is it da vincis for friday nights too lyndsey?

Well who's going to take responsibility if you're not? I was counting on ya lol!

Great plan. Ok what evening? Saturday?

Same for me, Friday or Saturday...

I take full responsibility.

not that i have any idea what that entails but if it means making sure ur having a great night, i can do that ;)

fri 10pm lyndsey's bar

be there if youre cool, or if your name is Charlie.

Arin, Lis and Lyndsey,

I can't do this weekend sorry.... gotta sort some rather important stuff out first.

Anyway sounds like its a "girls night out"... and Ahm no gerrin inta ma kilt fer tha.

(pictures..or it didnt happen!)

ok so Friday in my bar? works for me.. im working both nights... xx

i'll be there one night or the other. or both. 

See y'all Friday then !

Good work again Lyndsey!  So it turned out to be a bar night in this thread. Now after second single event I guess you should have a nickname which refers to Cupido or so.

I might come and greet you and your bar guests if in town which isn't that certain...

@lyndsey wait, wait, wait. back up a second to your second post here.... You work in the pub (?) but you were in a meeting?

Well yeah, don't they have to discuss what the drink special is going to be each evening?

lyndsey is a baller who actually works for the UN, the bar is only her second job

i said i would take full responsibility... starting here.

http://www.glocals.com/#/things-to-do/geneva/29139.htm

use this site as you wish..... if you're looking for dating then do, if not then don't.... it's about making yourself happy!!!!

I am sort of glad I have a stable relationship with its pros and cons but at least I have someone to argue with and to talk about things with and to drive crazy, dating sucks!!!

it's so cliche...

first date: show your best face, smile and pretend you're a poised individual, rather intellectual with something of a uniqueness to you.... even if in reality you're a dirt bag more average than sand in the sea!

second date: expect sex if not then wonder why sex didnt happen and dwell on insecurities until the third date.

third date then for sure sex and of course being naked means sucking your stomach in to pretend you have a nice body.... not being on top so your cheeks wont hang etc.... and if sex still doesn't happen then you have to move on most likely heartbroken.

fourth date: wait, is there a fourth date????? most likely they dumped you or you dumped them and you're sort of depressed looking to find another date.

Andy: Multiple irons in the fire.  It removes the apprehension and fear of having these kinds of failures.

GLADRAGS, partying, no pressure, just good banter and a nice bar before we terrorise the clubs of Geneva...

who is game?

xx

On the other hand, it provides the opportunity to burn your hands many times simultaneously. Rock on, sister! 

That's quite defeatist.  With that outlook, getting your hands burned becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, no?

god, now i understand why you're so unsuccessful - chicks dig the defeatist.

1. What are you smoking?

2. Can I have some?

Must ask, since you say it out loud "multiple irons in the fire", what will you accomplish by saying so in a public forum? ;) Not the smartest move you made regarding future possible dates? Let's just hope the girl(s) you're dating are not reading your comments on this forum right? Have to say that your public advices intrigue me by their arrogance... One thing is advicing a buddy in private, another is telling the world... just sayin'

I'm there Lyndsey, will arrive before 11pm :) Can't wait to catch up!

Have a nice day!

I've no interest in finding dates here.  This isn't a dating site, remember? 

Touché ! ;)

Still, they might read this forum... but mayber they're into multitasking too, what do I know ;)

*maybe not mayber :P

OK, I should clarify the "multiple irons in the fire" a bit.

I'm not advocating cheating here.  What I'm suggesting is that for someone who is feeling defeated in the dating market, setting up one date at a time with one person at the time is not a very good strategy.  It causes them to become very outcome-dependent since each date is their "only hope," so to speak.  It's been called "one-itis" and its a disease that will hammer one's dating success.  In the case of men, women can smell this male desperation even better than they can detect a shoe store on the opposite side of the motorway at 130km/h.

The kind of guy that most women like is confident, successful, assertive, has "things going on in his life."  When a guy has good options and a positive outlook, it shines during all of his interactions, including those with women.  There is no better dating confidence booster than knowing that you have multiple fun dates with interesting people lined-up over the next 10-15 days.  If one falls flat, hey, no big deal.  There are other options.  I think this applies to women, too.

If that someone special comes along, you'll be in the correct frame of mind and have the confident, successful outlook that you'll need to build and maintain their attraction.

Make sense?

Yes makes sense if you have a lot of first dates around the same time. When the first dates become second, third, developing…and you get the picture..... then that strategy is no longer a good one in my opinion.

Question is ; at what stage in dating does it become inappropriate to multi date, FOR YOU? And this is a rhetorical question, no need to answer ;)

And next question, what other ways of gaining confidence can a guy / girl use instead of multi dating? There must be several... ?

Confidence is gained by the ability to learn from your past defeats and use that knowledge to your advantage next time round.

As success increases over time so does confidence, However... the trick is not to become over confident and to realise your limits...otherwise the next defeat is likely to be a big one.

Dating is no game... its real life, treat others how you like to be treated yourself and keep an open mind. Most of all smile, and have fun.... if it doesnt work, then you can walk away, but if it does, and it makes you smile...then...success.

Agreed

Wow.. much profoundness for a friday... the most profound thing i want to say is

are you ready?!......

"please may i have a french martini?!"

BOOM...

x

Ahahahah!

Ok point taken Lynds, let's have fun from now on then, it is Friday the 13th after all!

i know, the day we can cause mischief and blame it on the date.... my kinda night :)

im super excited.... just you and arin try not to look too beautiful, give freckley scottish girls half a chance :P x

It's going to be a fun evening, can tell!

But gorgeous, stop talking nonsense about you needed to be given a chance, not even gonna answer that one ! :)

said the gorgeous blonde :P

ah i know, im so excited.. carnage!!!

:P

My thoughts and scribblings on confidence are offered primarily in the context of dating.  I have no real wisdom on overall confidence other than the old cliché "fake it 'till you make it" which essentially states that if you carry yourself with confidence and project confidence (your external "game"), it will eventually carry over to your inner game.  I believe it to be true.  Irrational self-confidence trumps rational defeatism -- This runs contrary to our early social programming (particularly in the Anglosphere) which tells us men to be pliant, submissive, humble, and to keep our heads down. 

Over the years, I've known a number of guys who were confident and successful in all phases of life *except* in their love life.  I was a member of this group up until my mid-30's and it sucks.  I woke up one morning, took the red pill, and started seeing the Matrix.  It pains me to see other guys in that predicament.  The spiral of defeat must be broken somehow.

I'd offer my $.02 on how women from the Anglosphere could improve their game but I think I've already irritated my weekly allotment of Glocals members (defeatist!) 

Alnglosphere...

interesting,,,

please do tell...this thick skin was built for such opinions...

x

anglo even

Hi everyone!

Food for thought for my fellow sisters: as you get older and less attention form the other gender, you'll be flattered to attract a bit of interest from unknown guys, being it on a non-dating site. So girls, be courteous to guys whose b... have not yet been frozen stiff by the Swiss mentality and try not to stop all male attempts to just say you are beautiful!

This is a piece of advice from a lesser young female who has learnt with time to appreciate even as much as a simple smile :)

And hands up to the guys who are courageous enough to get up and try again yet my gender is fierce and castratingly disdainful!

why does it feel like this group is going to end up in a huge hot tub by dawn? ;)

GENIUS IDEA....

just no car keys in bowls thank you very much ;)

x

This is Switzerland.  Not even the rich folk can afford a yard big enough for a hot tub.

Yes I was talking about confidence in the dating arena, sorry for not writing that clearly. However, my opinion is that confidence in dating will come if one is feeling good in other areas of life and about one self and with experience. A date gone wrong does not mean that one's self esteem has to plummet. Surely there must be other ways of gaining confidence than constantly "multitask". Multitasking does get tiring at the end, non? ;)

I *see* what you mean though and I do fully understand your point of view. I was only intrigued by some of your statements, never irritated ("life's too short" and so on).

I am not here looking for advices but feel free to share your thoughts if you dare héhé... Since we do have some differences in opinion, I should warn you to get ready for arguments on your $ 0.2... ;)

LOL! 

Where's the hot tub?

Lynds can you fix that as well?

Ehehehe... ok maybe a pool then :P

and on that note I need to get some work done, Lynds keep me updated on the hot tub :P

Oh you got it lady

failing that, bain de paquis for an illegal swim ;)

x

Surely there must be other ways of gaining confidence than constantly "multitask". Multitasking does get tiring at the end, non? ;)

Yes it gets tiring.  You forget what your own apartment looks like after a while.

My feeling is that the best way to become confident in the company of women is to put yourself in the company of women.  It's as simple as that.

After you've sat across the table from enough of them, you begin seeing them for the person they are rather than the person you wish they were, meaning that you take them off the pedestal that so many men undeservedly place them on.  You begin relating to them in the manner that they deserve (good, bad, or indifferent based on their character and their actions) rather than assigning them an exalted status and a get-out-of-jail-free card because they are made of Sugar and Spice and Everything Nice as in the nursery rhyme (it leads to lots of male disappointment and bitterness).

As you gain experience with them, you also begin to understand their complex psychology; whatever bitterness you held for the female gender melts away.  Instead of being angry with them for never making any sense, you recognize that they operate differently and you begin to understand what motivates them and why they make such seemingly poor decisions in the dating/mating market.  You also learn to weigh less heavily the things that they say ("I want a nice guy who treats me well") and more heavily the things that they do ("I can't believe I gave it up again to another bad-boy jerk whom I barely know") -- the frequest disconnect here doesn't stem from malice or dishonesty but from a lack of introspection and a poor understanding of their own hypergamous nature.  Yes, there's a lot of evolutionary psychology at work here.

...and you eventually reject the feminist maxim that gender is a social construct.  There are innate, hard-wired psychological differences between the sexes and the ugly truths contained therein are not politically correct.  The alternative is to believe the pretty lies and stay blissfully medicated with the blue pill.

So in regards to parallel dating, quantity is its own quality.

I could go on but it's time to go home now. 

So in regards to parallel dating, quantity is its own quality.

I should clarify and state the not all of this is learned through dating, but it is reinforced.

Ok have to give credit where credit is due. I think this is where I’m supposed to eat my hat (or my words; regarding difference in opinions) as I have to admit that I agree on much of what you say in this post.

My feeling is that the best way to become confident in the company of women is to put yourself in the company of women.

- Agreed. This goes for both genders.

After you've sat across the table from enough of them, you begin seeing them for the person they are rather than the person you wish they were (…) You begin relating to them in the manner that they deserve (good, bad, or indifferent based on their character and their actions) rather than assigning them an exalted status and a get-out-of-jail-free card because they are made of Sugar and Spice and Everything Nice as in the nursery rhyme (it leads to lots of male disappointment and bitterness)

- Yes knowing people and different kinds of personalities do help weeding out the non interesting ones.

Instead of being angry with them for never making any sense (..)

- This made me lol and in a good way!

to weigh less heavily the things that they say ("I want a nice guy who treats me well") and more heavily the things that they do ("I can't believe I gave it up again to another bad-boy jerk whom I barely know")

-Such a big topic to discuss and it’s been written books on it, so I’m not going to go further on it. I find the best reading material (for the girls) here to be by the guy that co wrote “Sex and the City”. It has a catching title, I’m sure a lot of girls have read it and if not, they definitely should read it, it’s entertaining and -oh so true and then maybe they wouldn't go and fall for the bad boy jerk ever again.

Conclusion from my side: you surprised me here, though some small points I still have diff of opinion.

elisabeth... SHOT party in shakers tonight, relatively cheap drink for Geneva...

i see a very big hangover tomorrow

ooh my x

Would that be the "He's just not that into you" book?

Ahahah, Lynds, you're not leading me into hangover, again!

I had a really bad one last time we were out, in fact I think I was unable to think the whole day after ;) well maybe it wasn't so much your fault as my own ;)

I'll be at your bar at 11pm and I'll join you wherever you wanna go ;)

x

haha woohoo

good times

you can be boss,, im just intrigued by cheap drinks in geneva, maybe we get a 1 franc discount making it only on average 15 francs a drink :p x

Ehehe yes..I find it to be a very good read ;)

ahah I was thinking about not drinking THAT much tonight (have work tomorrow) BUT if you want to, then we'll go there, no problem! :D

It's meant for an exclusive female audience but I'm tempted to read it just to see how well it fits into my psychosexual paradigm.

...talk about funny looks from the bookstore checkout girl. 

Interesting story about that book: The French translation sold very poorly.  Someone from an online chick magazine went to Paris to interview women to try to discover the reason why.  I'll see if I can find the link.

Yes the book is written for women but I am sure it's an entertaining read for the guys as well as it is written by a guy with a good sense of humor.

You can tell the bookstore checkout girl that you're doing some research

Hi all,

I have started a thread to bring more awareness about the flooding disaster in Pakistan and I hope I can convince you all to join the discussion on this thread. John and I made a deal to donate 1 CHF each for every post on the thread.

So, please please please join the thread and post messages at:

http://www.glocals.com/forums/general/A-picture-is-worth-a-thousand-words-96822.htm

Thank you in advance,

Maher

Hey guys and gals,

thanks to everyone who came last night...

i apologise for being a tipsy mentalist but come on, we all have to let out hair down at some point...

xx

@lindsey apology not accepted because, apology not needed. Thanks so much for opening your ....... bar to all of us. It's nice to know it's there and I think you're doing a great job promoting.

Where did you end up going after the initial party?

P. S. I happen to like your freckles. 

aww thank you :)

we went to Java, then shakers, then 7 arts, i got in at 6.50

and im working today but thankfully MUCH later on

what about you?

x

...кто о чём, а вшивый о бане...

yeah, not sure what happened to the hot tub proposition.....

I rephrase : " у кого чего болит, тот о том и говорит...."

Damn... I missed another dating-with-the-freckles-girl-like event again... I suck!

shame on you :P

Indeed... I'm crossing my fingers for another opportunity though!

Often popular with many Glocals members, we are organising another Charity Speed Dating night... if you want to com send me a message!

http://www.glocals.com/#/things-to-do/geneva/29171.htm

Hi! when is that going to be? Cheers, Daniele

The next one is Thursday September 2nd... I posted the link to the event above :-)

I will be in US till Saturday afternoon

I think, I saw it on fb :)

speed dating - you have 5 mins and tellmefastaboutyourself? 0;-)

Od course not. Don't worry

Next time!! go here to see the dates of the next ones... www.genevachildreninneed.info

Yes... but we just give 3 minutes!!

Right! to have a successful (or un) speed dating u will need the following:

For the ladies its simple: U just sit back and relax

for the gents u need:

1) gladiator outfit (greek or roman will do) dont kid yourself ,it is a battle field out there..with.the fiercest warriors being the american women with their firm handshakes and their subtle& breath takin line openers... 

2)gladiator sandals...and for god's sakes make sure your toe nail is nice and shiny! a pedicure before the speed dating isnt a bad idea....

3) a fine super mojito ...make sure u befriend the barman...dont kiss ass, just be polite...

4) a few one liners...cant give u examples here...this is a family site so lets keep it that way...

5) a good eye for the WC (bladder and age dont go hand in hand sometimes)

6) a good friend or contact workin at one of geneva's looking newspapers for placing an add...(when u get the phone numbers thats when u realise the shit has hit the fan and u need to hire a local secretary to manage your appointments with the speed dating victims...

happy speeddating!

Glocals not having a premium dating section is a missed business opportunity.

TonyMontana, you seem to be professional in speeddating ;)))

RichardM, forbidden fruit is more tasty! :D

forbidden fruit..

one of your 5 a day ;)

Oh! oh! Oooooh!!

Carefull girls!!

TonyMontana is the guardian of GLOCALS-NO-Dating Website!!!

hmm..

as creator of this post, i feel that any mischief here is to be encouraged..

x

For a female height 175 cms the daily protien intake requirement is 29.7 to 52.7 grams, if youre working on endurance training then increase it.

That's 198 doses if my Googles are correct.

LOL! Indeed ;)

Ahahahah boys.... And that would be 198 doses of....? :P

i know elisabeth, im in the dark too xx

protien supplement of course Lis... tut.

Charlie was just thinking about your health ladies.

Indeed we are.  The concept would be more marketable (er, palatable) if it were given a mysterious and foreign name.  Perhaps a word from an Asian language.

LOL forever.... of course you were only concerned about our health, coz it could not be any other reason right???

Lyndsey I see we need to go do some schooling on this :P xx

Why an Asian word?

lol

Aside from idiotic jokes and real concern for e-perving, e-sleeze, e-whatever.............for all the SINGLE people who are reading this post - A CLUB NIGHT WILL SOON BE ORGANISED JUST FOR YOU! - not speed dating, not networking, but dancing and drunken fun with an inclination towards mischievious midnight behaviour - EITHER add me as a friend for a direct invite, OR keep an eye on glocals 'commercial activites' things to do section. ENJOY

Oops...  Maybe I should rethink that strategy...

Bwahaha! Yes maybe that would be wise....

This is more interesting a read than the last topic, here is my one cent.

“Dating should be less about matching outward circumstances than meeting your inner necessity.”

& to the men remember

“It is the woman who chooses the man who will choose her.”

I think I´m out of this, I don´t even know most of these words